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– I\ndrejtohem redaksis\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb… Jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i madh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\nshum\u00eb njerka ime. N\u00ebna ime e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ka vdekur kur un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb i vog\u00ebl fare. Kam\ndy v\u00ebllez\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nga ana e babait q\u00eb i ka njerka, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndjej t\u00ebrheqje\nfizike. S\u2019kemi shum\u00eb diferenc\u00eb moshe, plus q\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e mbajtur. Kam\nvite q\u00eb e vuaj k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe ia them vetes q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e gabuar kjo ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb\nushqej p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Mundohem ta fsheh, por kam frik\u00eb se kam r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sy sepse shpreh\nshenja xhelozie ndaj saj, edhe pse ajo nuk i di ndjenjat e mia. Kam pasur lidhje\nt\u00eb tjera dhe kam edhe tani, por asnj\u00ebra nuk ka arritur t\u00eb ma heq\u00eb dot fiksimin\nq\u00eb kam p\u00ebr njerk\u00ebn. Jam b\u00ebr\u00eb i paduruesh\u00ebm edhe n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni,\nsi t\u00eb veproj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Redaksia<\/em><\/strong>: – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje i\nnderuar lexues! Kjo \u201ct\u00ebrheqje\u201d q\u00eb keni ju ndaj njerkes mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e\nrrezikshme p\u00ebr familjen tuaj dhe sidomos, ndaj babait. E kuptoj q\u00eb juve po ju b\u00ebhet\nfiksim gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb sepse duket nga ato q\u00eb keni shkruar, por a e keni\nmenduar se \u00e7far\u00eb pasojash mund t\u00eb sillte kjo gj\u00eb, qoft\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebm duke i\nshprehur asaj ndjenjat tuaja t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta? Pastaj, ne kuptojm\u00eb q\u00eb ju ndoshta keni\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00ebrheqje fizike sesa dashuri t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – Fiksimi \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt ndryshe nga dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.\nDuhet t\u2019ia ushqeni vetes her\u00eb pas here si\u00e7 edhe jeni shprehur, se kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\ne gabuar dhe aspak e pranueshme. Sikur edhe vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb hap t\u00eb b\u00ebni ndaj saj, do\nt\u00eb shkat\u00ebrronit ekuilibrin familjar, do t\u00eb l\u00ebndonit babain dhe dy v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit tuaj.\nDhe, p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb? P\u00ebr nj\u00eb fiksim q\u00eb fare mir\u00eb mund ta shmangni duke p\u00ebrjetuar\nlidhjen q\u00eb keni aktualisht. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00ebse juve ju duket e pamundur kjo q\u00eb po ju them, ju\nsugjeroj t\u00eb largoheni nga sht\u00ebpia p\u00ebr disa koh\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jetoni vet\u00ebm ose t\u00eb ikni\njasht\u00eb. Larg\u00ebsia do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm dhe do t\u00eb reflektoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb.\nJemi t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb do ta hiqni k\u00ebt\u00eb fiksim dhe m\u00eb von\u00eb mund t\u00eb qeshni me k\u00ebt\u00eb\nfiksim qesharak dhe aspak me vend n\u00eb kushtet tuaja. Edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb po e p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisim,\nkini kujdes mos shkat\u00ebrroni nj\u00eb familje! Mjafton t\u00eb kujtoni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse v\u00ebrtet\ne konsideroni t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme familjen, do ta hiqni k\u00ebt\u00eb fiksim. Mendoni sikur t\u00eb\nishit ju n\u00eb vend t\u00eb babait; si do t\u00eb ndiheshit n\u00ebse do t\u00eb merrnit vesh q\u00eb djali\njuaj ushqen t\u00ebrheqje fizike ndaj gruas tuaj?! \u00cbsht\u00eb absurde, apo jo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u00ebshtu pra, punoni pak me veten dhe harrojeni k\u00ebt\u00eb fiksim.\nShikojeni njerk\u00ebn me syrin e mamas\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve tuaj. Mos shkat\u00ebrroni\nekuilibrin e familjes dhe tuajin nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u201cfiksim\u201d qesharak. Gjith\u00eb\nt\u00eb mirat! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – I drejtohem redaksis\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb… Jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i madh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq shum\u00eb njerka ime. N\u00ebna ime e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ka vdekur kur un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb i vog\u00ebl fare. Kam dy v\u00ebllez\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nga ana e babait q\u00eb i ka njerka, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndjej t\u00ebrheqje fizike. S\u2019kemi shum\u00eb diferenc\u00eb moshe, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21443,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-21442","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21442","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21442"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21442\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21443"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21442"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21442"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21442"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}