{"id":2144,"date":"2014-08-07T19:08:21","date_gmt":"2014-08-07T19:08:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=2144"},"modified":"2014-08-07T19:08:21","modified_gmt":"2014-08-07T19:08:21","slug":"sa-e-pjekur-eshte-lidhja-juaj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/08\/sa-e-pjekur-eshte-lidhja-juaj\/","title":{"rendered":"Sa e pjekur \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhja juaj?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sa serioze \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhja juaj? Deri tani ju dini vet\u00ebm sa koh\u00eb keni s\u00eb bashku, por nuk e dini se edhe nj\u00eb lidhje ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr pjekurin\u00eb e saj. B\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb test s\u00eb bashku dhe m\u00eb pas, p\u00ebrdorini p\u00ebrgjigjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxitur akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb dashurin\u00eb mes jush…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendja e lidhjes suaj?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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    1. Bashk\u00ebjetojm\u00eb.<\/li>\n
    2. Jemi t\u00eb fejuar ose t\u00eb martuar.<\/li>\n
    3. T\u00eb lidhur, por jetojm\u00eb ve\u00e7.<\/li>\n
    4. Jetojm\u00eb ve\u00e7, por flem\u00eb bashk\u00eb thuajse \u00e7do nat\u00eb<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      1. Sa lidhje q\u00eb kan\u00eb zgjatur mbi 18 muaj ke pasur para k\u00ebsaj?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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        1. M\u00eb shum\u00eb se 6<\/li>\n
        2. 3-5<\/li>\n
        3. 1-2<\/li>\n
        4. 0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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          1. Si e kaloni zakonisht nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje s\u00eb bashku?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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            1. B\u00ebjm\u00eb muhabet<\/li>\n
            2. Shohim televizor<\/li>\n
            3. B\u00ebjm\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb ndryshme, por n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin vend<\/li>\n
            4. Gatuajm\u00eb ose b\u00ebjm\u00eb di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr s\u00eb bashku<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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              1. Si i zgjidhni z\u00ebnkat q\u00eb keni?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                1. T\u00ebrhiqemi dhe presim t\u00eb zgjidhet vet\u00eb<\/li>\n
                2. Ia shprehim nj\u00ebri-tjetrit t\u00eb gjitha \u00e7\u2019kemi nj\u00ebher\u00ebsh.<\/li>\n
                3. L\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb ftohen gjakrat dhe diskutojm\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb, kur t\u00eb dy jemi m\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb.<\/li>\n
                4. Flasim me qet\u00ebsi e arsye dhe mundohemi t\u00eb arrijm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                  1. Ia nd\u00ebrpret fjal\u00ebn partnerit kur mundohet t\u00eb flas\u00eb:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                    1. Rrall\u00eb<\/li>\n
                    2. Kurr\u00eb<\/li>\n
                    3. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb<\/li>\n
                    4. Shpesh<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                      1. Jeni takuar me prind\u00ebrit dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e partnerit tuaj?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                        1. Jo<\/li>\n
                        2. Po, takohem me ta disa her\u00eb n\u00eb muaj<\/li>\n
                        3. Po, takohem me ta disa her\u00eb n\u00eb vit<\/li>\n
                        4. Po, i takoj nj\u00eb ose dy her\u00eb n\u00eb vit<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                          1. Sa mbr\u00ebmje n\u00eb jav\u00eb kaloni s\u00eb bashku?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
                              \n
                            1. 2-3<\/li>\n
                            2. 4-5<\/li>\n
                            3. 6-7<\/li>\n
                            4. 0-1<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                              1. A ju duket lidhja juaj aq romantike sa d\u00ebshironi?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
                                  \n
                                1. Jo<\/li>\n
                                2. Do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb tep\u00ebr<\/li>\n
                                3. Po<\/li>\n
                                4. Nuk e kisha menduar m\u00eb par\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                  1. Keni pasione q\u00eb i ndani bashk\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                    1. Po, nj\u00eb<\/li>\n
                                    2. Jo<\/li>\n
                                    3. Kemi dy<\/li>\n
                                    4. Po, b\u00ebjm\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra s\u00eb bashku<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                      1. Sa t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs ju duket partneri juaj sot, krahasuar me periudh\u00ebn kur sapo u takuat?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                        1. M\u00eb pak. \u00cbsht\u00eb e natyrshme n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje<\/li>\n
                                        2. Po aq t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs sa gjithmon\u00eb<\/li>\n
                                        3. Disi m\u00eb pak, por mendoj se edhe un\u00eb k\u00ebshtu i dukem atij<\/li>\n
                                        4. M\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                          1. A b\u00ebhesh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb xheloze?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                            1. Po dhe kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7mend fare<\/li>\n
                                            2. Aspak<\/li>\n
                                            3. Shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb<\/li>\n
                                            4. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, nuk mund ta shmang<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                              1. Je e sigurt\u00eb se vitin e ardhsh\u00ebm do t\u00eb jesh p\u00ebrs\u00ebri p\u00ebrkrah tij?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                1. Shpresoj, po nuk i dihet<\/li>\n
                                                2. Besoj, por n\u00eb kufijt\u00eb e arsyes<\/li>\n
                                                3. Po, sigurisht<\/li>\n
                                                4. Nuk e di<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                  Rezultatet<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

                                                  11-20 pik\u00eb: Lidhja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb pelena<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                  Lidhja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e saj, kur pasioni \u00ebsht\u00eb i fort\u00eb dhe jeta duket roz\u00eb. Ju vet\u00ebm po zbaviteni dhe nuk i keni hasur ende v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt e ndjeni vet\u00ebm kaq moskok\u00eb\u00e7ar\u00ebs, sa mund t\u00eb shokoheni dhe l\u00ebndoheni n\u00ebse p\u00ebrballeni me ndonj\u00eb problem ose grindeni me partnerin.<\/p>\n

                                                  Mundohuni t\u00eb rrisni mosh\u00ebn e lidhjes suaj, punoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr forcimin e lidhjes n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Kontrolloni p\u00ebrgjigjet q\u00eb u keni dh\u00ebn\u00eb pyetjeve 6, 7 dhe 9. Keni marr\u00eb pik\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebta n\u00eb to? Pyetja 6 i p\u00ebrkiste njohjes s\u00eb familjes s\u00eb partnerit tuaj, thelb\u00ebsore kjo p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar q\u00ebndrimin q\u00eb mban ai n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje. Pyetja 7 i p\u00ebrkiste koh\u00ebs q\u00eb kaloni s\u00eb bashku: Kushtojini m\u00eb tep\u00ebr koh\u00eb faktit q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr tjetrin. Nd\u00ebrkaq, n\u00eb pyetjen 9 u vihet theksi aktiviteteve q\u00eb b\u00ebni s\u00eb bashku, t\u00eb cilat do t\u00eb zhvillojn\u00eb akoma m\u00eb tep\u00ebr aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja t\u00eb pun\u00ebs si nj\u00eb skuad\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

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                                                  21-29 pik\u00eb: Lidhja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb 6 muajsh\u20131 vje\u00e7ar<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                  N\u00eb teori, nevojiten vite p\u00ebr t\u00eb zot\u00ebruar mir\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e komunikimit me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ju e kuptoni se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb. P\u00ebr fat, sa her\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin ju arrini t\u2019i zgjidhni problemet me an\u00eb t\u00eb diskutimeve. \u00cbsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e sh\u00ebndetshme q\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift t\u2019i diskutoni dhe t\u2019i zgjidhni problemet n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019i fshihni ato. Kini parasysh: Ju mund t\u00eb dilni nga k\u00ebto situata edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb bashkuar se m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                                                  P\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur mosh\u00ebn e lidhjes suaj shikoni p\u00ebrgjigjet q\u00eb u keni dh\u00ebn\u00eb pyetjeve 3, 4 dhe 5. Si mund t\u00eb arrini maksimumin e pik\u00ebve ne to? A komunikoni mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin? N\u00ebse jo, kushtojini m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi k\u00ebtij fakti. Pyetja 4 \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr konfliktet: \u00c7iftet duhet t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje. Mundohuni t\u00eb arsyetoni me gjakftoht\u00ebsi, q\u00eb partneri ta kuptoj\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb nxeheni dhe ta akuzoni at\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrprerja e fjal\u00ebs s\u00eb tjetrit \u00ebsht\u00eb instiktive, por tregoni respekt p\u00ebr t\u00eb duke e l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb mendimin e tij. At\u00ebher\u00eb, edhe ai do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb me ju.<\/p>\n

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                                                  30-38 pik\u00eb: Lidhja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb 2-5 vje\u00e7ar<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                  Besimi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb te tjetri rritet gradualisht. N\u00eb fillim ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i pak\u00ebt dhe pastaj b\u00ebhet m\u00eb i fort\u00eb. Ju jeni duke nd\u00ebrtuar themelet e mar\u00ebdh\u00ebnies suaj dhe instikti juaj p\u00ebr t\u2019u lidhur seriozisht me partnerin forcohet nga dita n\u00eb dit\u00eb. Ju e ndjeni se partneri juaj do t\u2019ju mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                                                  Rrisni mosh\u00ebn e lidhjes suaj duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb detyrim m\u00eb konkret. Si\u00e7 e tregon pyetja 1, mosha e lidhjes suaj shtohet n\u00ebse e b\u00ebni publike at\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                                                  Ju nuk mund ta ndryshoni p\u00ebrgjigjen e pyetjes 2 tani, por numri i lidhjeve serioze q\u00eb keni patur n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn tregon se ju parap\u00eblqeni t\u00eb lidheni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mn\u00ebyr\u00eb. Tani mendoni se pse kjo lidhje \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshe nga t\u00eb tjerat, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb shtoni pik\u00ebt n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjen e pyetjes 12.<\/p>\n

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                                                  39-48 pik\u00eb. Lidhja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb 5 vje\u00e7 apo m\u00eb shum\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                  Jeni lidhur seriozisht. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e fort\u00eb si shk\u00ebmbi dhe mund t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb \u00e7do situat\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, ekziston nj\u00eb rrezik: Vet\u00ebk\u00ebnaqja. Meq\u00eb ju e merrni si t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb lidhjen tuaj, intimiteti mes jush mund t\u00eb pak\u00ebsohet dhe mund t\u00eb kaloni n\u00eb nj\u00eb sjellje shkat\u00ebrrimtare.<\/p>\n

                                                  Rrisni mosh\u00ebn e lidhjes suaj. Rishikoni p\u00ebrgjigjet e pyetjeve 8, 10 dhe 11, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura me pasionin dhe seksin. Romanticiteti \u00ebsht\u00eb karburanti i makin\u00ebs suaj t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, ndaj p\u00ebrdoreni sa m\u00eb shpesh. Por kujdes: Ana e errr\u00ebt e pasionit \u00ebsht\u00eb xhelozia. \u00cbsht\u00eb normale ta ndjeni at\u00eb, por kujtohuni her\u00eb pas here se ju nuk e jeni pronare e partnerit tuaj.<\/p>\n

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                                                  N\u00ebse mosha e lidhjes suaj \u00ebsht\u00eb:<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                  M\u00eb e madhe sesa koha q\u00eb keni kaluar s\u00eb bashku<\/strong>, ju keni nj\u00eb lidhje serioze n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn pasioni dhe intimiteti jan\u00eb maturuar, duke iu shtuar atyre edhe bashk\u00ebpunimi. Kjo provon predispozicionin tuaj p\u00ebr krijimin e nj\u00eb lidhjeje serioze.<\/p>\n

                                                  M\u00eb e vog\u00ebl sesa koha q\u00eb keni s\u00eb bashku<\/strong>. Lidhja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj, por jo domosdoshm\u00ebrisht e para. Me nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme ju mund t\u00eb ndryshoni prioritetet tuaja dhe t\u00eb kaloni n\u00eb nj\u00eb faz\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb pjekur t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj.<\/p>\n

                                                  E nj\u00ebjt\u00eb me koh\u00ebn q\u00eb keni bashk\u00eb<\/strong>: Ju keni nj\u00eb balancim t\u00eb p\u00ebrkryer! Nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se i jeni futur nj\u00eb lidhjeje serioze, por t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni se si t\u00eb maturoni lidhjen tuaj.<\/p>\n

                                                  N\u00ebse mendimet tuaja (mes dy partner\u00ebve) nuk p\u00ebrputhen.<\/strong> N\u00ebse u jeni p\u00ebrgjigjur ndryshe 5 pyetjeve ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb, kjo tregon se ju dhe partneri juaj nuk e shihni lidhjen me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin sy. Diskutoni se ku doni t\u00eb dilni q\u00eb ta forconi m\u00eb tep\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                                                  Sa serioze \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhja juaj? Deri tani ju dini vet\u00ebm sa koh\u00eb keni s\u00eb bashku, por nuk e dini se edhe nj\u00eb lidhje ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr pjekurin\u00eb e saj. B\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb test s\u00eb bashku dhe m\u00eb pas, p\u00ebrdorini p\u00ebrgjigjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxitur akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb dashurin\u00eb mes jush…   Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendja e lidhjes suaj? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[306,303,305,304],"class_list":["post-2144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test","tag-intimitet","tag-lidhja","tag-mosha","tag-test-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2144","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2144"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2144\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}