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– E dashur redaksi, jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e dashuruar me shokun\ntim t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. Ai nuk m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb asgj\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me ndjenjat, por un\u00eb pak nga\npak kam filluar t\u00eb ndjej p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe nuk kam guximin q\u00eb t\u2019ia them, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr\nq\u00eb atij i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe m\u00eb flet vazhdimisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj?\nTa ndihmoj p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar at\u00eb vajz\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr apo t\u2019ia b\u00ebj t\u00eb ditur se e dashuroj\nvet\u00eb? Theksoj se ai m\u00eb respekton shum\u00eb, por un\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj m\u00eb shum\u00eb prej tij?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Redaksia: – <\/strong>E dashur\nvajz\u00eb, n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, faleminderit q\u00eb na e beson neve rr\u00ebfimin t\u00ebnd. E\nkuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimin q\u00eb ke dhe t\u00eb besoj q\u00eb mendon se nuk ke zgjidhje.\nNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak e leht\u00eb t\u2019i gjesh zgjidhjen nj\u00eb situate t\u00eb till\u00eb, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr\nkur ajo ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb ti e dashuron dhe nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, ai ka nj\u00eb\npesh\u00eb t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. N\u00eb raste si ky yti, kur bie n\u00eb dashuri me shokun\ne ngusht\u00eb, gjendja \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb thik\u00eb me dy presa, pasi ti mund ta shnd\u00ebrrosh\nmiq\u00ebsin\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri, por mund t\u00eb prish\u00ebsh nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsi q\u00eb ka qen\u00eb shum\u00eb e\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe t\u00eb humb\u00ebsh nj\u00eb shok t\u00eb mir\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa nga ana tjet\u00ebr, n\u00ebse nuk e\nb\u00ebn, mund t\u00eb mos e kuptosh kurr\u00eb n\u00ebse kjo lidhje do t\u00eb kishte funksionuar, q\u00eb\ndo t\u00eb thot\u00eb se do t\u00eb mbaje gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn nj\u00eb peng n\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegje, pa folur pastaj\np\u00ebr faktin q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh pran\u00eb nj\u00eb njeriu q\u00eb e\ndashuron, pa ia th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. Vuajtja, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, do t\u00eb qe e shum\u00ebfisht\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nisur nga t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto q\u00eb t\u00eb rendita m\u00eb lart, k\u00ebshilla ime konkrete do t\u00eb\nishte: Tregoji shokut t\u00ebnd se sa i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsissh\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb ai p\u00ebr ty. Ulu n\u00eb nj\u00eb\ntavolin\u00eb dhe nise bised\u00ebn si nj\u00eb shaka, pasi k\u00ebshtu do ta kesh m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb ta\nkap\u00ebrcesh momentin e r\u00ebnd\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb krijohet mes jush n\u00eb rastin e nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfimi\nt\u00eb till\u00eb. Tregoji se ti e vler\u00ebson shum\u00eb, por \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, ndjen di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb\nse kaq… jam e bindur se ai do t\u00eb ket\u00eb kuptuar di\u00e7ka nga ndjenjat e tua, sepse\nsado t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb jemi p\u00ebr t\u2019i fshehur, ne nuk mund t\u2019i fshehim ato plot\u00ebsisht,\nk\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mos mendo se ajo q\u00eb do t\u2019i thuash \u201cdo t\u2019i bjer\u00eb si bomb\u00eb\u201d. Ne, n\u00eb\nmendjen ton\u00eb, i katastrofizojm\u00eb mendimet dhe situatat, edhe kur n\u00eb realitet ato\njan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sa i p\u00ebrket \u201cvajz\u00ebs q\u00eb atij i p\u00eblqen\u201d, ky mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb truk nga\nana e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb shtyr\u00eb t\u2019i hap\u00ebsh zemr\u00ebn, por edhe n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb\natij i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, ti, q\u00eb je shoqja e tij e ngusht\u00eb, ke m\u00eb shum\u00eb pesh\u00eb\ntek ai sesa nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb e t\u00ebrheq nga pamja e jashtme dhe, nga larg… Pastaj,\nmos harro nj\u00eb shprehje t\u00eb urt\u00eb q\u00eb thote: \u201cN\u00ebse do t\u00eb gjesh nj\u00eb partner t\u00eb mir\u00eb,\nzgjidhe at\u00eb nga shok\u00ebt e tu\u201d. Mendo k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe… hidhu n\u00eb sulm! Me siguri, n\u00eb\nan\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, do t\u00eb gjesh, n\u00eb mos dashuri (q\u00eb un\u00eb mnedoj se ka shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb\njet\u00eb k\u00ebshtu), s\u00eb paku, mir\u00ebkuptim. T\u00eb uroj fat, jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb dashuri. Mikja\njote, nga redaksia.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – E dashur redaksi, jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e dashuruar me shokun tim t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. Ai nuk m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb asgj\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me ndjenjat, por un\u00eb pak nga pak kam filluar t\u00eb ndjej p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe nuk kam guximin q\u00eb t\u2019ia them, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb atij i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe m\u00eb flet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19938,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21437"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21437\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}