Un\u0451 q\u0451 po ju shkruaj jam nj\u0451 grua q\u00eb i kam kaluar t\u0451 40-at dhe jam n\u0451na e\ndy f\u0451mij\u0451ve; nj\u0451 vajz\u0451 dhe nj\u0451 djal\u0451. T\u0451 dy jetojn\u0451 jasht\u0451 vendit dhe vazhdojn\u0451\nstudimet atje. Burri ka nj\u0451zet vjet q\u0451 m\u0451 ka vdekur. Me njer\u0451zit e burrit, nuk\nb\u0451hem gati fare. Meqen\u0451se isha vet\u0451m, f\u0451mij\u0451t m\u2019u lut\u0451n t\u0451 shkoja tek ata; edhe\nn\u0451se nuk do t\u0451 rrija p\u0451rgjithmon\u0451, t\u0451 pakt\u0451n t\u0451 kaloja ca koh\u0451 atje. Pranova dhe\nb\u0451ra mir\u0451 q\u0451 pranova sepse atje ishte nj\u0451 mrekulli. Edhe f\u0451mij\u0451t u k\u0451naq\u0451n shum\u0451\nsepse i kishte marr\u0451 malli. Tek un\u0451 ata shihnin n\u0451n\u0451n dhe babain, pra, isha me\nfat se merrja p\u0451rqafimet dhe dashurin\u0451 dyfishe. Dit\u0451t e para, t\u0451 them t\u0451 drejt\u0451n,\nu m\u0451rzita pak sepse se si m\u0451 dukej t\u0451 rrija larg Shqip\u0451ris\u0451. F\u0451mij\u0451t e kuptuan\nk\u0451t\u0451 dhe menduan se ishte mir\u0451 q\u0451 t\u0451 m\u0451 njihnin me njer\u0451z q\u0451 t\u0451 mos ndjehesha\nkeq. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vajza ishte e lidhur me nj\u0451 djal\u0451 amerikan dhe ftoi familjen e tij q\u0451 edhe\nun\u0451 t\u0451 b\u00ebja pak shoq\u0451ri. Fati im i mir\u0451 \u00ebsht\u00eb se kam qen\u0451 m\u0451suese anglishteje\ndhe di ta flas shum\u0451 mir\u0451 k\u00ebt\u00eb gjuh\u00eb. S\u0451 bashku me vajz\u0451n, p\u00ebrgatit\u0451m nj\u0451 dark\u0451\nt\u0451 k\u0451ndshme me kuzhin\u0451n tradicionale shqiptare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u0451 ftuarit erdh\u0451n. N\u0451 fakt, kishte ardhur djali, s\u0451 bashku me prind\u0451rit e\ntij dhe kishin marr\u0451 me vete edhe nj\u0451 kush\u0451ririn e tyre, nj\u0451 burr\u0451 rreth t\u0451 50-ave.\nIa kaluam shum\u0451 mir\u0451 dhe ata i p\u0451lqyen gatimet tona. Ishin njer\u0451z shum\u0451 t\u0451\nedukuar. Pas dark\u0451s q\u0451 shtruam ne, ata na ftuan nj\u0451 nat\u0451 n\u0451 sht\u0451pin\u0451 e tyre.\nIshte nj\u0451 sht\u0451pi e madhe dhe shum\u0451 e bukur. Ishin nj\u0451 familje aristokrate e\npasur q\u00eb jetonin n\u0451 nj\u0451 vil\u0451 t\u0451 madhe me sh\u0451rbyes. N\u0451 fakt, m\u0451 k\u0451naqi gjith\u0451\nkjo sepse n\u0451na do m\u0451 t\u0451 mir\u0451n p\u0451r f\u0451mij\u0451t e saj. Ata nuk kishin vendosur akoma\nasgj\u0451 p\u0451r martes\u0451n, por sikur t\u0451 b\u0451hej, do t\u0451 isha e k\u0451naqur nga fati i vajz\u0451s\nsime. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ky ishte djal\u0451 i vet\u0451m, por n\u0451 at\u0451 sht\u0451pi t\u0451 madhe jetonte dhe kush\u0451riri q\u0451\nishte p\u0451r dark\u0451 te ne dhe nuk mungoi as at\u0451 nat\u0451 n\u0451 tavolin\u0451. Gjat\u0451 dark\u0451s ai ishte\nulur pran\u0451 meje dhe shpeshher\u0451, shikimet tona takoheshin e un\u0451 ndjeja se isha\nskuqur. Asnj\u0451her\u0451 nuk kisha patur t\u0451 dashur, edhe pse kisha patur mjaft k\u0451rkesa.\nIu kushtova f\u0451mij\u0451ve t\u0451 mi dhe ata ma shp\u0451rblyen duke u b\u0451r\u0451 njer\u0451z t\u0451 mir\u0451 e t\u0451\nedukuar e duke m\u00eb respektuar shum\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nejse. Historia ime lidhet m\u0451 kush\u0451ririn e \u201cdh\u0451ndrrit\u201d. Ai quhej Xhejms\ndhe, si\u00e7 ju thash\u0451, ishte rreth t\u0451 50-ave. Pas dark\u0451s n\u0451 sht\u0451pin\u0451 e miqve, ndjeva\nse di\u00e7ka lindi mes ne t\u0451 dyve. Nga ana ime jo ndonj\u0451 gj\u0451 kushedi e madhe, por\nai nuk e p\u0451rmbajti veten fare, madje aq shum\u0451 ra n\u0451 sy sa kur u larguam, vajza\nm\u0451 p\u0451shp\u0451riti n\u0451 vesh: \u201cMami, je shum\u0451 t\u0451rheq\u0451se!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Pse ma thua k\u0451t\u0451? – i thash\u0451 dhe ndjeva se m\u2019u skuq\u0451n edhe vesh\u0451t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Po t\u0451 them se dukesh shum\u0451 e bukur sonte dhe un\u00eb jam krenare q\u0451 kam nj\u0451\nmama kaq me klas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u0451 fakt, ajo donte t\u0451 thoshte tjet\u0451r gj\u0451 dhe un\u0451 e kuptova k\u0451t\u0451, por kjo\nishte edukata e saj. Ajo matej gjithmon\u0451 kur fliste. Dit\u0451t kaluan dhe papritur,\nnj\u0451 dit\u0451 n\u0451 der\u0451 u shfaq Xhejmsi. Shtanga kur e pash\u0451 te dera. Ai e kuptoi k\u0451t\u0451\ndhe m\u0451 tha:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– M\u0451 mori Era n\u0451 telefon dhe m\u0451 tha se donte t\u0451 m\u0451 takonte se ashtu kishte\nnj\u0451 pun\u0451. Meqen\u0451se nuk ma thoshte dot n\u0451 telefon, m\u0451 la takim k\u0451tu n\u0451 sht\u0451pi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Ejani! – e ftova brenda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kush thot\u0451 se dashuria \u0451sht\u0451 vet\u0451m p\u0451r t\u0451 rinjt\u0451, e ka gabim. Un\u0451 e kam\ndashur shum\u0451 burrin tim n\u0451 rini dhe tani po m\u0451 ndodhte e nj\u0451jta gj\u0451 edhe n\u0451\nmosh\u0451 t\u0451 mesme. Kur e pash\u0451 Xhejmsin te dera, m\u2019u drodh\u0451n k\u0451mb\u0451t dhe provova\nnj\u0451 ndjenj\u0451 t\u0451 \u00e7uditshme, t\u0451 ngjashme me dashurin\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ai u ul n\u0451 divan. E pyeta a donte t\u0451 pinte nj\u0451 \u00e7aj dhe ai pohoi menj\u0451her\u0451.\nB\u0451ra dy dhe u ula p\u0451rball\u0451 tij. Biseduam gjat\u0451. Vajza erdhi dhe, pak a shum\u0451,\nkuptova se ajo nuk kishte patur asgj\u0451 t\u0451 r\u0451nd\u0451sishme p\u00ebr t\u0451 biseduar me t\u0451, por\ne kishte ftuar q\u0451 t\u0451 na afronte. D\u0451shira e saj, pak nga pak, filloi t\u0451 b\u0451het\nrealitet. Ne u afruam shum\u0451 me Xhejmsin. Ai ishte i divorcuar dhe kishte nj\u0451\nf\u0451mij\u0451 i cili jetonte me gruan e tij. Ishte nj\u0451 burr\u0451 fisnik dhe mjaft i\nzgjuar. Un\u0451 ndjehesha shum\u0451 mir\u0451 me t\u0451. Nuk e ndjeja m\u0451 mallin e Shqip\u0451ris\u0451 aq\nshum\u0451 sa n\u0451 fillim. Filluam t\u0451 dilnim bashk\u0451 dhe kjo solli nj\u0451 afrimitet t\u0451\nmadh midis nesh. P\u0451r \u00e7udi, edhe f\u0451mij\u0451t ishin dakord me k\u0451t\u0451 lidhje, madje ata sikur\ndonin t\u0451 m\u0451 lidhnin medoemos me Xhejmsin. Ky ishte nj\u0451 fat i madh p\u0451r mua. Pak\nf\u0451mij\u0451 mund ta b\u0451jn\u0451 k\u0451t\u0451, por kjo ishte nj\u0451 nd\u0451r dhuratat q\u0451 m\u0451 kishte b\u0451r\u0451\nZoti; f\u0451mij\u0451t e mbar\u0451!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Koha kaloi dhe un\u0451 e Xhejmsi arrit\u0451m n\u0451 pik\u0451n ku ai m\u0451 k\u0451rkoi t\u0451 jetonte me\nmua, por pa u martuar sepse kishte frik\u0451 nga martesa e divorci. F\u0451mij\u0451t ishin\ndakord dhe un\u0451 gjithashtu, por duhej t\u0451 pyesnim dhe njer\u0451zit n\u0451 Shqip\u0451ri.\nK\u0451shtu, f\u0451mij\u0451t dhe un\u0451 menduam se ishte mir\u0451 t\u00eb vinim n\u0451 Shqip\u0451ri e ta\nprezantonim Xhejmsin me njer\u0451zit tan\u0451. Ishim\nt\u0451 sigurt\u00eb q\u0451 kur t\u0451 njiheshin me Xhejmsin, ata do t\u0451 ishin dakord. N\u0451 fakt, n\u0451\nbot\u0451 nuk ekzistojn\u0451 k\u0451to gj\u0451ra. N\u0451se dy vet\u00eb duhen, s`kan\u0451 nevoj\u0451 p\u0451r mendimin\ne njer\u0451zve t\u0451 tjer\u0451, por ne jemi shqpitar\u0451 e kudo ku ndodhemi, jetojm\u0451 si t\u0451\ntill\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Erdh\u00ebm n\u0451 Shqip\u0451ri. Reagimi i par\u0451 i njer\u0451zve ishte i \u00e7uditsh\u0451m. Ata nuk e\nimagjinonin se si nj\u0451 grua n\u0451 mosh\u0451n time e kishte mendjen p\u0451r dashuri, por un\u0451\nq\u0451 e provova, them se n\u0451 k\u0451t\u0451 mosh\u0451 njeriu ka nevoj\u0451 dyfish p\u0451r dashuri. E para\nse dashuria s`njeh mosh\u0451 dhe e dyta sepse njeriu n\u0451 k\u0451t\u0451 mosh\u0451 ka nevoj\u0451 p\u0451r\nnj\u0451 shok q\u0451 t\u0451 kaloj\u0451 vitet e pleq\u0451ris\u0451. N\u0451 rini e jeton jet\u0451n si t\u0451 vij\u0451, nd\u0451rsa\npleq\u0451ria e vetmuar \u0451sht\u0451 nj\u0451 mallkim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Q\u0451 jav\u0451n e par\u0451, njer\u0451zit u dashuruan pas Xhejmsit. Ai i afronte njer\u0451zit, mundohej\nt\u0451 m\u0451sonte fjal\u0451 shqip dhe ishte shum\u0451 i dashur e i qeshur. T\u0451 gjith\u0451 m\u0451 uruan\ndhe u bind\u0451n q\u0451 kisha b\u0451r\u0451 gj\u0451n\u0451 e duhur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pra, \u00e7do gj\u0451 ishte n\u0451 rregull. Tashm\u0451, t\u0451 gjith\u0451 ishin n\u00eb dijeni dhe dakord.\nEdhe ne t\u0451 dy k\u0451t\u0451 donim. U shp\u0451rngula n\u0451 Amerik\u0451 dhe mor\u0451m nj\u0451 apartament s\u0451\nbashku me Xhejmsin. Pas pak koh\u0451sh, gjeta nj\u0451 pun\u0451: U jap m\u0451sim f\u0451mij\u0451ve\nshqiptar\u0451 t\u0451 cil\u0451t nuk din\u0451 fare shqip sepse prind\u0451rit e tyre nuk kan\u0451 patur\nkoh\u0451 t\u0451 merren me ta. Jeta me Xhejmsin \u0451sht\u0451 shum\u0451 e bukur. Kur isha n\u0451 Shqip\u0451ri\ne mbushur me halle, mendoja se isha e pafat, por jo; kam gabuar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur jemi n\u0451 hall, duhet t\u0451 mendojm\u0451 se Zoti ka gjithmon\u0451 nj\u0451 surpriz\u0451 p\u0451r\nne, vet\u0451m se nganj\u0451her\u0451 do t\u0451 na kalis\u0451 durimin, nj\u0451 cil\u0451si kjo q\u0451 duhet ta ket\u0451\n\u00e7do njeri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tani, vajza \u0451sht\u0451 martuar me djalin q\u0451 donte dhe kan\u0451 dy f\u0451mij\u0451. Edhe djali\nim mbaroi studimet dhe bashk\u0451jeton me nj\u0451 vajz\u0451 shqiptare e ndoshta s\u0451 shpejti\ndo t\u00eb m\u0451 g\u0451zojn\u0451 me ndonj\u0451 nip apo mbes\u0451. Jeta na rezervon gj\u0451ra t\u0451 mira e t\u0451\nk\u0451qija. Ato t\u0451 k\u0451qiat jan\u0451 t\u0451 tmerrshme e kur ke f\u0451mij\u0451, t\u0451 duken m\u0451 t\u0451\nv\u0451shtira, por e mira e tyre \u0451sht\u0451 se i harron sapo t\u0451 na ndodh\u0451 ndonj\u0451 e mir\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Besoj se duke lexuar historin\u0451 time, do t\u0451 mund t\u0451 ngjallja sadopak\noptimiz\u0451m n\u0451 mendjen e shum\u0451 e shum\u0451 grave q\u0451 po heqin apo kan\u0451 hequr ato q\u0451\nhoqa un\u0451 n\u0451 jet\u0451 para se t\u0451 njihja Xhejmsin. Jetoni \u00e7do moment. Edhe trishtimi\nka r\u0451nd\u0451si, sepse t\u0451 p\u00ebrgatit q\u0451 ta shijosh sa m\u0451 shum\u0451 g\u0451zimin q\u0451 vjen pas\ntij.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Un\u0451 q\u0451 po ju shkruaj jam nj\u0451 grua q\u00eb i kam kaluar t\u0451 40-at dhe jam n\u0451na e dy f\u0451mij\u0451ve; nj\u0451 vajz\u0451 dhe nj\u0451 djal\u0451. T\u0451 dy jetojn\u0451 jasht\u0451 vendit dhe vazhdojn\u0451 studimet atje. Burri ka nj\u0451zet vjet q\u0451 m\u0451 ka vdekur. Me njer\u0451zit e burrit, nuk b\u0451hem gati fare. Meqen\u0451se isha vet\u0451m, f\u0451mij\u0451t m\u2019u […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21166,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[249],"class_list":["post-21431","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21431","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21431"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21431\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21431"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21431"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21431"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}