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Shumica e burrave kan\u00eb\nshqet\u00ebsime t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit, megjith\u00ebse mund t\u00eb mos flasin p\u00ebr\nto. S\u00eb pari, ideja e p\u00ebrhapur se ata nuk kan\u00eb ankthe t\u00eb tilla, sepse thjesht\nndjekin \u201cinstiktin e tyre kafsh\u00ebror\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb e pabaz\u00eb. Ata jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb\ntregohen autokritik\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohen po aq sa edhe grat\u00eb, por fakt \u00ebsht\u00eb se\nata nuk para shprehen p\u00ebr emocionet q\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr p\u00ebr ato q\u00eb provojn\u00eb\nn\u00eb shtrat. Megjithat\u00eb ne kemi marr\u00eb mendimin e ekspert\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar disa\nnga shqet\u00ebsimet m\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruar nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb si t\u2019ia b\u00ebsh n\u00eb\nraste t\u00eb tilla…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. <\/em>\u201cSi t\u2019ia them se kjo q\u00eb b\u00ebn n\u00eb shtrat nuk m\u00eb eksiton fare?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Asnj\u00eb burr\u00eb nuk do q\u00eb\nt\u00eb fitoj\u00eb antipatin\u00eb e partneres s\u00eb vet n\u00eb shtrat, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, n\u00ebse nj\u00ebra nga\ntaktikat e tua p\u00ebr ta eksituar nuk funksionon, me siguri, ai nuk do t\u00eb guxoj\u00eb\nta thot\u00eb, por thjesht, do t\u00eb hesht\u00eb. Edhe sikur ta pyes\u00ebsh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb,\nka pak gjasa t\u00eb ta tregoj\u00eb. Arsyeja? Shum\u00eb burra u thon\u00eb grave at\u00eb q\u00eb ato duan\nt\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, ti\nmund t\u2019ia hap\u00ebsh rrug\u00ebn duke e kthyer \u00e7\u00ebshtjen n\u00eb loj\u00eb. Ai q\u00eb e fiton loj\u00ebn, do\nt\u2019i jap\u00eb udh\u00ebzime tjetrit n\u00eb shtrat. Mund t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb loj\u00eb, ku ti t\u00eb jesh\ne sigurt\u00eb se do t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh (edhe thjesht at\u00eb t\u00eb krahut m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb) dhe m\u00eb\npas, kur ai t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb, t\u2019i thuash me shaka se je n\u00eb dispozicionin e tij gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb\nnat\u00ebs. N\u00ebse ia thua n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ai nuk do ta ket\u00eb problem t\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00eb udh\u00ebzime\nse \u00e7far\u00eb i p\u00eblqen. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb rr\u00ebfej\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb i p\u00eblqen\nrealisht, pa u ndjer\u00eb n\u00ebn presion. Gjat\u00eb seksit, kujtohu her\u00eb pas here q\u00eb ai duhet\nt\u00eb udh\u00ebheq\u00eb secil\u00ebn nga l\u00ebvizjet e tua, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ndjehet i lir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nt\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb informacionin e duhur. N\u00ebse ai p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk flet, kujtohu se gjuha e\ntrupit flet shum\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, prandaj, v\u00ebrja veshin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2. <\/em>\u201cMbase nuk i p\u00eblqen teknika ime n\u00eb seksin oral\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n E beson apo jo,\nshumic\u00ebs s\u00eb burrave u p\u00eblqen t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb kunilingus, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri shqet\u00ebsohen n\u00ebse\njan\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 duhet, apo jo. Meq\u00eb ata nuk kan\u00eb nj\u00eb shqis\u00eb t\u00eb\ngjasht\u00eb, por kan\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb ndjeshm\u00ebrie, sapo i p\u00ebrgjigjesh pozitivisht di\u00e7kaje q\u00eb\npo e b\u00ebjn\u00eb mir\u00eb, ata vazhdojn\u00eb ta praktikojn\u00eb. Kur ai t\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur,\ntregoji se i je mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse, duke ia shp\u00ebrblyer n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Me siguri,\nai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i gatsh\u00ebm ta p\u00ebrs\u00ebris\u00eb eksperienc\u00ebn n\u00ebse e di q\u00eb ti je e gatshme\nt\u2019ia kthesh ashtu si\u00e7 e meriton.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. <\/em>\u201cM\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb them fjal\u00eb t\u00eb ndyra gjat\u00eb seksit, por nuk dua ta tremb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb\np\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb partnerit t\u00ebnd se t\u00eb p\u00eblqen q\u00eb ai t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebshp\u00ebris\u00eb n\u00eb\nvesh fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tilla, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb fillosh vet\u00eb e para. Megjithat\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nnevojshem t\u00eb b\u00ebsh kolon\u00ebn zanore t\u00eb nj\u00eb filmi porno… Thjesht, thuaji q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen\najo q\u00eb po t\u00eb b\u00ebn ose thuaji n\u00eb vesh \u00e7far\u00eb do q\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebsh (me nj\u00eb ton z\u00ebri\nseksi, sigurisht). Kjo do t\u00eb mjaftoj\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u2019u jap\u00eb fund dyshimeve t\u00eb tij\ndhe… ta \u00e7mend\u00eb nga eksitimi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb\ndiskrete, p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb deri ku je e gatshme t\u00eb arrish, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i\npropozosh nj\u00eb diskutim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl mbi seksin. Mund ta b\u00ebsh gjat\u00eb loj\u00ebrave\nparaprake ose edhe para se t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb shtrat. K\u00ebrkoji t\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb nj\u00eb\nfantazi seksuale ose t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruaj\u00eb nj\u00eb sken\u00eb t\u00eb preferuar nga nj\u00eb film (\u00ebsht\u00eb\ne sigurt\u00eb se ka nj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb) e m\u00eb pas thuaji t\u00ebnden. M\u00eb pas, shpjegoji pse t\u00eb\neksiton kaq shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\ndhe shpjegimet q\u00eb i jep mbi at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb eksiton v\u00ebrtet, do t\u2019i sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb si guid\u00eb\np\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen dhe \u00e7far\u00eb jo. Mbase biseda mund t\u2019ju frym\u00ebzoj\u00eb\nn\u00eb momentin q\u00eb do t\u00eb filloni praktik\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. <\/em>\u201cNuk dua q\u00eb t\u00eb shtiret, si\u00e7 po b\u00ebn tani\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Krenaria q\u00eb ndjen\npartneri yt p\u00ebr makin\u00ebn e re t\u00eb sapobler\u00eb,\nnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asgj\u00eb n\u00eb krahasim me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb ai u jep aft\u00ebsive t\u00eb tij n\u00eb shtrat.\nTani e kupton sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb kur arrin t\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00eb\n(n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet r\u00ebnkimeve ose t\u2019i thuash sa t\u00eb p\u00eblqeu kjo), por n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb\nsi e lavd\u00ebron. Nuk duhet t\u00eb rrish pa ia th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe kur nuk t\u00eb ka k\u00ebnaqur. \u00c7far\u00ebdo\nq\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, mos u shtir sepse, n\u00ebse ajo q\u00eb po provon nuk funksionon, ai duhet\nta dij\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb provoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Ndihmoje duke e v\u00ebn\u00eb dor\u00ebn t\u00ebnde\nsip\u00ebr s\u00eb tij\u00ebs dhe duke i treguar se si do t\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb t\u00eb prekte. N\u00ebse\ntregohesh e drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb dhe ia thua kur ai nuk arrin t\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00eb, ai do t\u00eb\nt\u00eb besoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb nuk po shtiresh kur i betohesh se je k\u00ebnaqur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Megjithat\u00eb do t\u00eb\nekzistojn\u00eb edhe momentet n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat sado t\u00eb mundoheni nuk do t\u00eb arrish orgazm\u00ebn.\nN\u00eb k\u00ebto raste merre ti n\u00eb dor\u00eb kontrollon e situat\u00ebs q\u00eb partneri yt t\u00eb mos ju\nlodh\u00eb t\u00eb dyve duke u munduar t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb arrish orgazm\u00ebn. P\u00ebrdor truket e tua\nq\u00eb t\u00eb zhvendoset qendra e v\u00ebmendjes tek ai. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ai nuk do t\u00eb ndjehet\nm\u00eb n\u00eb ankth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5. <\/em>\u201cAjo do q\u00eb ta p\u00ebrqafoj pas seksit, por mua m\u00eb vjen gjum\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Gjat\u00eb orgazm\u00ebs,\ntruri \u00e7liron hormone q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lind\u00eb d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjatur kontaktin intim\nsi te burrat, ashtu edhe te grat\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, djemt\u00eb ejakulojn\u00eb dhe kjo u\nsjell gjum\u00eb. Ejakulimi b\u00ebn q\u00eb gjaku t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb zon\u00ebn gjenitale dhe m\u00eb pas t\u00eb\nzhvendoset n\u00eb drejtim tjet\u00ebr. \u00cbsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht ky gjak q\u00eb largohet, shkaku se\npse burrat ndihen shum\u00eb t\u00eb lodhur pasi b\u00ebjn\u00eb dashuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, pas\nseksit, ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb partneri yt t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb i aft\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb muhabet ose t\u00eb\nprovoj\u00eb nj\u00eb raund t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, edhe k\u00ebshtu mund t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqni nevojat\ntuaja reciproke. Megjith\u00ebse ai ndjehet i p\u00ebrgjumur, do q\u00eb ti t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqesh dhe d\u00ebshira\njote p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar pran\u00eb tij mund t\u00eb zgjidhet leht\u00ebsisht. P\u00ebrqafoje dhe\nrelaksohuni, sepse p\u00ebrqafimi nga krah\u00ebt e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit pas seksit u p\u00eblqen si\nburrave, ashtu edhe grave. Bised\u00ebn mund ta shtyni edhe p\u00ebr m\u00eb von\u00eb…<\/p>\n\n\n\n 6. <\/em>\u201cKam frik\u00eb mos ngelet shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sado q\u00eb burrave u p\u00eblqen\nseksi, ai q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb b\u00ebhet baba n\u00eb at\u00eb moment, nuk mund t\u00eb rrij\u00eb pa u\nshqet\u00ebsuar se mos e l\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb partneren e vet. Eliminoje k\u00ebt\u00eb frik\u00eb, duke i\ntreguar se ke marr\u00eb masat e duhura. N\u00ebse merr pilul\u00ebn, sigurohu q\u00eb ai ta dij\u00eb.\nN\u00ebse keni zgjedhur prezervativ\u00ebt, mundohu q\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorni gjithmon\u00eb, sa her\u00eb b\u00ebni\ndashuri. Mund t\u2019i tregosh bindjen t\u00ebnde duke ia v\u00ebn\u00eb ti prezervativin. Sipas t\u00eb\ndh\u00ebnave, burrave u duket ky gjest shum\u00eb seksi. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb kjo k\u00ebrkon\npak praktik\u00eb, por p\u00ebr rezultatin final ia vlen barra qeran\u00eb. Burrave u p\u00eblqen q\u00eb\nprezervativin ta v\u00ebn\u00eb grat\u00eb, sepse po ta vinin ata, do t\u2019u dukej si nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrprerje\ne seksit. N\u00ebse e v\u00eb ti prezervativin, vazhdoni t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb mbrojtur, por pa ulur\nintensitetin e ndjesive. Pastaj mendoje: \u201cCilit djal\u00eb nuk do t\u2019i p\u00eblqente ky\ngjest i yti?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n 7. <\/em>\u201cDuhet t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqem para se t\u00eb ejakuloj, kur ajo b\u00ebn seks oral?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mbase ky shqet\u00ebsim\nnuk ia ka prishur k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb asnj\u00eb mashkulli, por mund t\u2019i ket\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebmendjen.\nBurrat duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb sjellsh\u00ebm. N\u00ebse ti i jep t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se kur duhet t\u00eb\nmbaroj\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb do ta ndihmosh t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb i relaksuar dhe i p\u00ebrqendruar n\u00eb at\u00eb\nq\u00eb po p\u00ebrjeton. N\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ejakuloj\u00eb gjat\u00eb felacionit, thuaja. N\u00ebse jo,\nvazhdo me duar dhe drejtoje organin e tij atje ku d\u00ebshiron ti t\u00eb ejakuloj\u00eb (n\u00eb\ntrup apo shtrat).<\/p>\n\n\n\n 8. <\/em>\u201cN\u00ebse do t\u00eb vonohem shum\u00eb, asaj do t\u2019i ik\u00eb d\u00ebshira\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Shumica e grave\nnisin ta humbasin lubrifikimin gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb seance t\u00eb gjat\u00eb seksi, pavar\u00ebsisht sepse\nvazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb eksituara, sidomos kur \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe prezervativi. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb\narsye \u00ebsht\u00eb shpikur lubrifikanti me baz\u00eb uji. N\u00ebse p\u00ebrdoret ai, jo vet\u00ebm\nevitohet that\u00ebsia, por shtohen edhe ndjesit\u00eb. N\u00ebse prezervativi vonon\nejakulimin e partnerit t\u00ebnd, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni lubrifikantin dhe t\u00eb masazhoni me\nduar zonat intime t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Ti duhet t\u2019i kushtosh v\u00ebmendje jo vet\u00ebm\npenisit, por edhe testikujve dhe perineut, zona q\u00eb ndan k\u00ebto t\u00eb fundit nga\npenisi. Ose mund t\u00eb veprosh k\u00ebshtu: T\u2019i v\u00ebsh nj\u00eb prezervativ me reliev (me vija\netj.) mbrapsht dhe t\u2019i b\u00ebsh masazh. \u00cbsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka eksituese, e re dhe krijon shum\u00eb\nf\u00ebrkim. Kur t\u00eb jesh shum\u00eb e eksituar, p\u00ebrdorni nj\u00eb prezervativ t\u00eb ri dhe shtoni\ndisa pika lubrifikant q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb ruash lag\u00ebshtin\u00eb e duhur. N\u00ebse ndjen\nthat\u00ebsi gjat\u00eb seksit, mund t\u00eb \u00e7lodheni dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri lubrifikant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Shqet\u00ebsimi m\u00eb i\nmadh<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Vet\u00ebm 55% e burrave\njan\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me madh\u00ebsin\u00eb e penisit t\u00eb tyre, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb 84% e grave jan\u00eb t\u00eb\nk\u00ebnaqura me madh\u00ebsin\u00eb e penisit t\u00eb partner\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Shumica e burrave kan\u00eb shqet\u00ebsime t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit, megjith\u00ebse mund t\u00eb mos flasin p\u00ebr to. S\u00eb pari, ideja e p\u00ebrhapur se ata nuk kan\u00eb ankthe t\u00eb tilla, sepse thjesht ndjekin \u201cinstiktin e tyre kafsh\u00ebror\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb e pabaz\u00eb. Ata jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb tregohen autokritik\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohen po aq sa edhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21313,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[2207],"class_list":["post-21400","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-burrat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21400","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21400"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21400\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21313"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21400"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21400"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21400"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}