{"id":21398,"date":"2019-03-08T22:00:14","date_gmt":"2019-03-08T21:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21398"},"modified":"2019-03-08T18:18:00","modified_gmt":"2019-03-08T17:18:00","slug":"%ef%bb%bf7-hapa-drejt-femijes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bf7-hapa-drejt-femijes\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeff7 hapa drejt f\u00ebmij\u00ebs\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur nga puna q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre\nn\u00eb rolin e edukatorit. V\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb hasin ata n\u00eb raportet me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre,\ni detyrojn\u00eb t\u00eb alarmohen dhe t\u00eb dyshojn\u00eb edhe n\u00eb vet\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebr ta kryer\nsa m\u00eb mir\u00eb rolin e prindit. P\u00ebr t&#8217;u ardhur n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb k\u00ebtyre prind\u00ebrve, ne\nvendos\u00ebm t&#8217;u tregojm\u00eb atyre 7 hapat q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe p\u00ebr ta ndjer\u00eb veten m\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb dhe m\u00eb kompetent\u00eb si prind\u00ebr. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. Forconi ndjenj\u00ebn e respektit\nt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj p\u00ebr veten<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmija fillon t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb raporte t\u00eb caktuara me vetveten q\u00eb n\u00eb vitet e para\nt\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Dhe ja se si: Ai b\u00ebn, p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb di\u00e7ka, por pa sukses. P\u00ebrpiqet\nt\u00eb hap\u00eb kapakun e nj\u00eb kutie, ta z\u00ebm\u00eb. Provon edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk\narrin dot. Provon p\u00ebr t\u00eb tret\u00ebn her\u00eb dhe ia arrin. Si shp\u00ebrblim p\u00ebr\nk\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljen dhe p\u00ebrpjekjet e tij e pushton nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e thell\u00eb g\u00ebzimi dhe\nk\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie. K\u00ebshtu fillon t\u00eb hedh\u00eb rr\u00ebnj\u00eb ndjenja e besimit t\u00eb tij n\u00eb vetvete: \u201cUn\u00eb\njam i zoti, un\u00eb hap kapakun e kutis\u00eb!\u201d. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb guri i par\u00eb n\u00eb themelin e\nbesimit t\u00eb tij n\u00eb forcat e veta. O prind\u00ebr t\u00eb dashur! Ndiqeni veprimtarin\u00eb e\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj dhe jepini atij mund\u00ebsi ta ndjej\u00eb sa m\u00eb shpesh gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs k\u00ebt\u00eb\nndjenj\u00eb g\u00ebzimi, si ajo q\u00eb provoi kur hapi kapakun e kutis\u00eb. Besimi i sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb\nn\u00eb vetvete \u00ebsht\u00eb baza e ekuilibrit shpirt\u00ebror, e harmonis\u00eb fillestare me\nvetveten sepse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhur me di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, me besimin:\n&#8220;Mua m\u00eb duan njer\u00ebzit e mi m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt\u201d. Ndiqeni veprimtarin\u00eb e pjell\u00ebs\nsuaj dhe n\u00eb rast se ju duket di\u00e7ka e kot\u00eb, mos ia shprehni k\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs me\nshprehjet e zakonshme: &#8220;Uf, \u00e7\u2019budallall\u00ebqe!&#8221;, por n\u00ebnvizoni r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb\ne p\u00ebrpjekjeve t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur q\u00ebllimin e tij. Edhe n\u00eb rastet kur nuk\nia arrin q\u00ebllimit, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t&#8217;i thoni: \u201cE shikon? T\u00eb thash\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019e hap dot!&#8221;,&nbsp; madje edhe t\u00eb shprehjes: &#8220;H\u00eb, s&#8217;ka gj\u00eb,\npastaj ke p\u00ebr ta hapur\u201d, thuajini: \u201cMegjith\u00ebse ti nuk e hape dot sot, un\u00eb\nkrenohem me p\u00ebrpjekjet dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljen t\u00ebnde dhe jam e bindur se po ta provosh\nedhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb, do ta hap\u00ebsh&#8221;. K\u00ebsisoj, te f\u00ebmija zhvillohen nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht\ndy veti t\u00eb domosdoshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs: &#8220;Un\u00eb jam i zoti t\u00eb zgjidh \u00e7do\nproblem q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb dal\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb&#8221; dhe &#8220;ndjenja e respektit p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb\ne inkurajon&#8221;, por kryesorja, tek ai rritet respekti p\u00ebr veten e tij.\nF\u00ebmij\u00ebt me ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb zhvilluar autorespekti jan\u00eb t\u00eb disponuar p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebpunim,\njan\u00eb m\u00eb miq\u00ebsor\u00eb dhe optimist\u00eb. Ata i kap\u00ebrcejn\u00eb m\u00eb leht\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsite e jet\u00ebs.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. P\u00ebrcaktoni n\u00eb pun\u00ebn tuaj\nprioritet\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jepuni prioritet dy vetive baz\u00eb: guximit dhe altruizmit (aft\u00ebsis\u00eb ndjesore,\npasuris\u00eb s\u00eb bot\u00ebs s\u00eb ndjenjave, merakut dhe shqet\u00ebsimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt), pasi\nk\u00ebto dy veti nuk pajtohen dot kurr\u00eb me &#8220;devijimet&#8221; n\u00eb karakterin e\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebs, si, bie fjala, egoizmi, kopracia, hipokrizia, frika, etj. dhe jan\u00eb, si\nt\u00eb thuash, profilaksia m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar nga k\u00ebto s\u00ebmundje. P\u00ebrve\u00e7\npasurimit cil\u00ebsor t\u00eb karakterit, ndihmojeni f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb b\u00ebhet i\nshoq\u00ebruesh\u00ebm; kjo do ta ndihmoj\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Jepini prioritet pun\u00ebs suaj p\u00ebr\nta m\u00ebsuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn se si t\u00eb njihet, b\u00ebni lojna t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebllim me\nkukulla ose inskenime t\u00eb vogla. Ve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, n\u00eb list\u00ebn e prioriteteve sh\u00ebnoni\naft\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb f\u00ebmija q\u00eb n\u00eb muajt e par\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nd\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt me v\u00ebmendje dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbajtur ndjenj\u00ebn e zem\u00ebrimit, inatin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. Jepni shembullin tuaj dhe\nlavd\u00ebrojeni \u201cpapritmas\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb rrini me or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra dhe t&#8217;i shpjegoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj se si\nduhet t\u00eb sillet ose t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb, sidomos duke e kritikuar ose e ofenduar\nat\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebqind her\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t&#8217;i tregoni me shembullin tuaj personal\nveprimet konkrete dhe t\u00eb mjaftoheni vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje q\u00eb mund t\u00eb d\u00ebshifrohet:\n&#8220;Ja, shiko, k\u00ebshtu b\u00ebhet!&#8221;. F\u00ebmija, n\u00eb mos q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ast, pak\u00ebz m\u00eb\nvon\u00eb do t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb shembullin tuaj dhe po k\u00ebshtu, me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje, do t\u00eb\nthot\u00eb: Ja, e shikon, jam edhe un\u00eb mjesht\u00ebr si ti, apo jo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sepse po t\u00eb doni, bie fjala, t&#8217;i futni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr librin dhe\nvet\u00eb do t\u00eb rrini p\u00ebr or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra para ekranit t\u00eb televizorit, \u00ebsht\u00eb e kot\u00eb t\u00eb mbani\nshpresa se do t\u00eb keni sukses. Lexojini atij gjera interesante para gjumit,\nlexoni edhe p\u00ebr veten tuaj ne pranin\u00eb e tij, tregojini me fakte se sa i\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju leximi dhe do t\u00eb shikoni se si do t\u00eb ndikoni tek ai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Efekt t\u00eb madh kan\u00eb te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt edhe lavd\u00ebrimet e prind\u00ebrve, sidomos, kur ato\njan\u00eb &#8220;t\u00eb papritura&#8221; dhe spontane. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. Jepini f\u00ebmij\u00ebs liri dhe\nmund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t&#8217;u d\u00ebfryer<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebs i duhet patjet\u00ebr liria p\u00ebr zhvillimin e tij harmonik. Ai duhet t\u00eb\nket\u00eb liri p\u00ebr t\u00eb eksperimentuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb t\u00eb re, p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb\ngabime dhe p\u00ebr t&#8217;i korrigjuar ato. E si do ta kuptoj\u00eb f\u00ebmija, ta z\u00ebm\u00eb se\n\u00e7&#8217;\u00ebsht\u00eb nxeht\u00ebsia, pa e provuar vet\u00eb? Mos vall\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t&#8217;i b\u00ebrtas\u00ebsh\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebs kur djeg dor\u00ebn mbi \u00e7ajnikun e nxeht\u00eb sesa ta lejosh ose m\u00eb mir\u00eb ta\nnxit\u00ebsh q\u00eb ta provoj\u00eb vet\u00eb me majat e gishtrinjve? Jepini mund\u00ebsi f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00eb\nprovoj\u00eb vet\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur, natyrisht, duke e ndjekur me kujdes\nveprimin e tij. P\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar notin, thot\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb e urt\u00eb popullore, duhet t\u00eb\nfutesh n\u00eb uj\u00eb. Ve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, q\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, f\u00ebmija ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr\np\u00ebrshtypje t\u00eb reja. K\u00ebrkimet shkencore kan\u00eb treguar se n\u00eb trurin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb\nvegj\u00ebl, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb ushqyer vazhdimisht me p\u00ebrshtypje t\u00eb reja, kan\u00eb par\u00eb\nshum\u00eb lodra dhe tablo me ngjyra, krijohen shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr lidhje neuronike dhe\nneuronet jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb &#8220;pjekura&#8221; sesa tek ata q\u00eb shumic\u00ebn d\u00ebrrmuese t\u00eb\nkoh\u00ebs e kalojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm duke par\u00eb tavanin e dhom\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre t\u00eb gjumit. Po k\u00ebshtu\nndodh edhe me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e moshave t\u00eb rritura. P\u00ebrshtypjet dhe eksperiencat e\nndryshme (librat, vizitat n\u00eb muzeume, udh\u00ebtimet, muzika, sporti, vizatimet, etj.)\nngren\u00eb shum\u00eb lart nivelin intelektual t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe zhvillojn\u00eb veprimtarin\u00eb e\ntyre krijuese. \u00c7\u00ebshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos u imponojm\u00eb atyre asgj\u00eb. Propozojini\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebs variante t\u00eb ndryshme dhe ata le t\u00eb zgjedhin vet\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb.\nVet\u00eb zgjedhja do t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr prindin nj\u00eb testim p\u00ebr prirjet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb vet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. P\u00ebrcaktoni mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta\nkufijt\u00eb midis t\u00eb mir\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb keqes<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kufizimet, natyrisht, jan\u00eb t\u00eb kusht\u00ebzuara nga mosha dhe p\u00ebrgatitja e\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebs, \u00e7\u00ebshtja n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mes \u00ebsht\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb do t&#8217;i ndalojm\u00eb dhe si do t\u2019ia\nndalojm\u00eb\u2026 S\u00eb pari, duhet t\u00eb kemi parasysh qe kufizimet t\u00eb mos b\u00ebhen penges\u00eb p\u00ebr\neksperimentet dhe t\u00eb mos i privojn\u00eb ata nga gabimet e mundshme\u2026 Natyrisht, n\u00eb\nradh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb atyre do t\u2019u ndalohet \u00e7do veprimtari q\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon shendetin dhe\njet\u00ebn e tyre. S\u00eb dyti, do t\u2019u ndalohet p\u00ebrdorimi i mjeteve q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ushqejn\u00eb\ntek ata agresivitetin\u2026 S&#8217;ka prind q\u00eb ta inkurajoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb v\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb\ngoj\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb i bie n\u00eb dor\u00eb, lodrat, lapsat, monedhat metalike, etj. Po\nk\u00ebshtu, s&#8217;ka prind q\u00eb t\u00eb mos v\u00ebr\u00eb kufizime kur \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr lodra q\u00eb e\nshmangin nga detyrat shkollore. Nuk duhet t\u00eb v\u00ebm\u00eb kurr\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e lodrave\nmbi m\u00ebsimet dhe detyrat e shkoll\u00ebs. Motoja e \u00e7do f\u00ebmije duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb: N\u00eb\nfillim m\u00ebsimet, pastaj lodrat dhe d\u00ebfrimet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka q\u00eb ndalimet dhe kufizimet t\u00eb argumentohen mir\u00eb nga prind\u00ebrit,\nduke marr\u00eb p\u00eblqimin e tij. Sidoqoft\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb regjim\nditor t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar, me t\u00eb cilin t\u00eb jet\u00eb dakord edhe vet\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, bie fjala,\nf\u00ebmija duhet t\u00eb plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb or\u00ebt e gjumit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb britmave, privojeni\nnga ndonj\u00eb privilegj<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00eb rast se f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb q\u00eb kupton, mbi tre vje\u00e7, at\u00ebhere mund t\u00eb\naplikohet kund\u00ebr tij edhe ndonj\u00eb d\u00ebnim. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00eb rast se q\u00ebllon, ta\nzem\u00eb v\u00ebllai i madh motr\u00ebn e vog\u00ebl me grusht, medoemos duhet ta d\u00ebnojm\u00eb me\nizolim t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohsem n\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb. Po t\u00eb mos q\u00ebndroj\u00eb, mund t&#8217;i ky\u00e7im edhe der\u00ebn\n(der\u00ebn, por jo drit\u00ebn). Vendimin ton\u00eb e zbatojm\u00eb qet\u00eb, t\u00eb vendosur, por pa\nbritma dhe m\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nga shumica e specialist\u00ebve pranohet d\u00ebnimi me heqjen e privilegjeve edhe\np\u00ebr mosha m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. K\u00ebshtu, nj\u00eb 10-12-vje\u00e7ari mund t&#8217;i ndalohen sh\u00ebtitjet me\nbi\u00e7iklet\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar. P\u00ebrjashtohet si mjet d\u00ebnimi dhuna fizike.\nKjo sepse, n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, nga ky lloj d\u00ebnimi f\u00ebmija fillon t\u00eb ket\u00eb frik\u00eb nga\nprindi i vet, humbet besimin tek ai, pengohet komunikimi. S\u00eb dyti, n\u00eb inat e\nsip\u00ebr, prindi mund t\u00eb humbas\u00eb kontrollin dhe t&#8217;i shkaktoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\ntrauma t\u00eb ndryshme. Njihen raste kur n\u00eb inat e sip\u00ebr, prind\u00ebrit i kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre invalid\u00eb p\u00ebrjet\u00eb. S\u00eb treti, me k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e m\u00ebsojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t&#8217;i\nzgjidh\u00eb konfliktet me forc\u00eb dhe jo me dialog e marr\u00ebveshje. Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebto\narsye kryesore (po edhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjera), prind\u00ebrit k\u00ebshillohen t\u00eb ruajn\u00eb\ngjakftoht\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe q\u00ebndrimin dashamir\u00ebs me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, edhe n\u00eb rastet kur\nata gabojn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. Gjeni patjet\u00ebr koh\u00ebn p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb d\u00ebfryer vazhdimisht me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dihet se \u00e7astet m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtura t\u00eb dit\u00ebs p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb jan\u00eb ato kur ai luan\ndhe d\u00ebfrehet me prind\u00ebrit e vet. Ne prind\u00ebrit mund t\u2019ua shtojm\u00eb dhe zgjatim\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb k\u00ebto \u00e7aste. Sado i z\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb prind, do ta gjej\u00eb patjet\u00ebr\nnj\u00eb or\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebfryer s\u00eb bashku me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e vet. Duke d\u00ebfryer\ndhe luajtur me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj, ata do t\u00eb lidhen m\u00eb ngusht\u00eb me ju, ndikimi juaj\ntek ata do t\u00eb rritet shum\u00eb dhe, pas af\u00ebrsis\u00eb n\u00eb lojna e d\u00ebfrime, me nj\u00eb\nv\u00ebshtrim t\u00eb qet\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb luajtje t\u00eb kok\u00ebs, sigurisht, paksa qortuese, ju mund\nt\u00eb zgjidhni n\u00eb raportet tuaja me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt probleme q\u00eb nuk keni mundur t&#8217;i\nzgjidhni as me qortime, as me d\u00ebnime. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur nga puna q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre n\u00eb rolin e edukatorit. V\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb hasin ata n\u00eb raportet me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, i detyrojn\u00eb t\u00eb alarmohen dhe t\u00eb dyshojn\u00eb edhe n\u00eb vet\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebr ta kryer sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb rolin e prindit. P\u00ebr t&#8217;u ardhur n\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21399,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,49],"tags":[2320,319],"class_list":["post-21398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","category-shendet","tag-femija","tag-psikologji"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21398"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21398\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21399"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}