{"id":21397,"date":"2019-03-08T20:00:53","date_gmt":"2019-03-08T19:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21397"},"modified":"2019-03-08T18:15:57","modified_gmt":"2019-03-08T17:15:57","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-57","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/astrologia-shpjegon-57\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon…!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Stuhi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Isha n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, m\u00eb telefonoi i dashuri dhe m\u00eb tha:\n\u201cHajde se po t\u00eb pres tek i nj\u00ebjti vend\u201d. Dola jasht\u00eb dhe pash\u00eb q\u00eb po b\u00ebnte\nstuhi e madhe. Binte shum\u00eb shi dhe frynte aq er\u00eb sa edhe pem\u00ebt po l\u00ebviznin. U\nvura n\u00eb siklet dhe nuk dija si t\u00eb shkoja tek i dashuri. E mora n\u00eb telefon dhe i\nthash\u00eb: \u201cPo b\u00ebhet nami jasht\u00eb! Nuk di si t\u00eb vij…\u201d. Ai m\u00eb tha: \u201cPo un\u00eb po t\u00eb\npres, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb hajde!\u201d. U m\u00ebrzita me t\u00eb, por u nisa drejt tij dhe mezi ecja\nrrug\u00ebs, nga shiu i rr\u00ebmbyesh\u00ebm dhe i madh. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb po arrija te vendi,\npash\u00eb q\u00eb kishte pushuar stuhia. A mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?\nAdela.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Adela, \u00ebndrra tregon\nq\u00eb keni pasur debate jo dhe aq t\u00eb mira me t\u00eb dashurin; po vuani pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr\nk\u00ebto q\u00eb keni diskutuar dhe gjendja juaj n\u00eb \u00e7ift duket pak e tensionuar, por mos\nu m\u00ebrzisni; n\u00eb dit\u00ebt n\u00eb vazhdim, gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb zgjidhet, ashtu si\u00e7 e keni par\u00eb\nn\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. \u00c7do gj\u00eb do t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohet, ju do t\u00eb sqaroheni dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj do\nt\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb harmoni dhe e bukur, si\u00e7 ka qen\u00eb. Stuhia q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon z\u00ebnkat q\u00eb keni pasur koh\u00ebt e fundit, por \u00e7do gj\u00eb do t\u00eb\nkthjellohet mes jush.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbmb\u00eblsir\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr fare. Po mendoja t\u00eb blija nj\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00eblsir\u00eb,\nshkova te pasti\u00e7eria p\u00ebrball\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe e bleva. I haja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe e\nndjeja shijen e tyre t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl edhe n\u00eb gjum\u00eb. M\u00eb kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb ngr\u00ebnia e\n\u00ebmb\u00eblsirave n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ndjell keq. A \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb? Merita.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E nderuar Merita, mos u shqet\u00ebsoni. \u00cbndrra juaj\nnuk ka lidhje me ndonj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi. Ajo \u00e7far\u00eb keni par\u00eb tregon d\u00ebshir\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr\npak \u00ebmb\u00eblsi n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj sepse ndiheni e vetmuar dhe keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr\nngroht\u00ebsi. Duke qen\u00eb se ju keni par\u00eb q\u00eb po hanit \u00ebmb\u00eblsira, \u00ebndrra tregon q\u00eb\nnj\u00eb supriz\u00eb e bukur ka marr\u00eb rrugen dhe shum\u00eb shpejt, do t\u2019ju trokas\u00eb te porta.\nDo t\u00eb g\u00ebzoheni nga t\u00eb rejat q\u00eb do t\u2019ju vijn\u00eb papritur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb s\u00ebmuret mami<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Ju lutem, brenda mund\u00ebsive m\u00eb ktheni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje se po\n\u00e7mendem. K\u00ebto 2-3 jav\u00eb shikoj shpesh t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn \u00ebnd\u00ebrr; sikur m\u00eb s\u00ebmuret mami r\u00ebnd\u00eb\ndhe sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb grad\u00eb t\u00eb fundit. Edhe sot kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur e d\u00ebgjova\nrast\u00ebsisht t\u00eb thoshte: \u201cJam duke vdekur\u201d dhe un\u00eb sikur e \u00e7ova p\u00ebr vizit\u00eb te nj\u00eb\nmiku im. Ai na rekomandoi t\u00eb shkonim te nj\u00eb mjek tjet\u00ebr. Si p\u00ebrfundim, un\u00eb do t\u00eb\nnisesha p\u00ebr jasht\u00eb shtetit dhe i dhash\u00eb mamit ca lek\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb kthehesha un\u00eb.\nJu lutem, m\u00eb ktheni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Me respekt, Ina. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Ina, zakonisht, n\u00ebna n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shpreh\nnj\u00eb lloj pasigurie q\u00eb keni ju n\u00eb vetvete dhe tregon nevoj\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjeshme\np\u00ebr mbrojtje. Ajo \u00e7far\u00eb keni par\u00eb ka lidhje pik\u00ebrisht me ju dhe jo me mamin\ntuaj, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mos u shqet\u00ebsoni. Jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb pak delikate, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn\nju nevojiten k\u00ebshillat e nj\u00eb personi m\u00eb t\u00eb pjekur sesa ju. Duke qen\u00eb se keni\npar\u00eb mamin n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, do t\u00eb ishte mir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e hapur me t\u00eb. Duke folur\nm\u00eb qart\u00eb me mamin tuaj ose dhe me ndonj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb familjes, do t\u00eb\nndiheni m\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb dhe e m\u00eb qet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen tuaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk gjeja \u00e7el\u00ebsin e port\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha shkuar n\u00eb dyqanin e lagjes e veshur me\nfustan ngjyr\u00eb kafe me bezh\u00eb, me lule t\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebta. Pasi ika nga dyqani dhe po\nkthehesha p\u00ebr n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, rrug\u00ebs vura re q\u00eb fustanin e kisha veshur mbrapsht. E\nturp\u00ebruar ika me shpejt\u00ebsi q\u00eb ta vishja nga ana e mbar\u00eb. Kur shkova te porta e\nsht\u00ebpis\u00eb, k\u00ebrkoja \u00e7el\u00ebsin q\u00eb ta hapja, por s\u2019po e gjeja dot e mendova se m\u00eb\nkishte humbur. Porta ishte e lidhur me zinxhir ngjyr\u00eb argjendi q\u00eb shk\u00eblqente. E\nshtyva port\u00ebn dhe u hap p\u00ebrgjys\u00ebm sepse nuk e lejonin zinxhir\u00ebt q\u00eb t\u00eb hapej. E\ntrembur, thash\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb kan\u00eb hyr\u00eb dhe m\u00eb kan\u00eb vjedhur\u201d. Mbas k\u00ebsaj tronditjeje, u\nzgjova. Me respekt, Af\u00ebrdita, Gjirokast\u00ebr. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E nderuar Af\u00ebrdita, \u00ebndrra tregon nj\u00eb lloj rr\u00ebmuje\nn\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj sentimentale ose familjare. Ka ndodhur di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilen ndiheni\ne l\u00ebnduar dhe e v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb siklet. Jeni munduar ta rregulloni, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk\nndiheni mir\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb e tregon edhe fakti q\u00eb keni par\u00eb nj\u00eb port\u00eb me zinxhir dhe\n\u00e7el\u00ebsin e humbur. T\u00eb dyja k\u00ebto tregojn\u00eb q\u00eb keni ca probleme t\u00eb vogla, p\u00ebr zgjidhjen\ne t\u00eb cilave keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00ebn e dikujt, por p\u00ebr arsye karakteri\ndhe krenarie, e keni pak t\u00eb pamundur t\u00eb flisni apo edhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00eb. Keni\nfrik\u00eb nga gjith\u00e7ka dhe s\u2019keni shum\u00eb besim. Ndoshta \u00ebndrra ju fton, duke ju k\u00ebshilluar\nsigurisht, q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni mb\u00ebshtetjen e nj\u00eb njeriu t\u00eb besuar sepse tani p\u00ebr tani,\ne vetme, duket q\u00eb e keni t\u00eb pamundur t\u2019ia dilni mban\u00eb gjith\u00e7kaje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri me kush\u00ebrir\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka \u00ebndrra ime? Shoh shpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nsikur b\u00ebj dashuri me kush\u00ebrir\u00ebn. Ka raste q\u00eb shoh edhe seks. Ajo rri n\u00eb Itali\nme burrin. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ktheni p\u00ebrgjigje k\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb se po \u00e7mendem. Maksi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I nderuar Maksi, nuk keni pse t\u00eb \u00e7mendeni dhe as\nt\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb reale, por thjesht nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. E kuptoj\nq\u00eb m\u00ebrziteni sepse shikoni nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me kush\u00ebrir\u00ebn, pra, nj\u00eb\nin\u00e7est, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i lejuesh\u00ebm. Pik\u00ebrisht te fjala \u201ce palejueshme\u201d p\u00ebrqendrohet\nedhe kuptimi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs tuaj. Shpesh, in\u00e7estet tregojn\u00eb p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk mund ta\nb\u00ebni n\u00eb jet\u00eb, kur e kuptoni edhe vet\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb arrihet. K\u00ebtu nuk\nb\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale, aq m\u00eb pak me kush\u00ebrir\u00ebn tuaj. B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb\np\u00ebr gj\u00ebra krejt t\u00eb ndryshme nga ato \u00e7far\u00eb keni par\u00eb. Mendoni \u00e7far\u00eb keni dashur\nt\u00eb b\u00ebni dhe s\u2019e keni b\u00ebr\u00eb dot ose shikoni p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ju kan\u00eb penguar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e\np\u00ebrditshme, gj\u00eb q\u00eb kishit d\u00ebshir\u00eb q\u00eb ta realizonit. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb planin\nprofesional, personal, shoq\u00ebror, n\u00eb familje etj. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Stuhi – Isha n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, m\u00eb telefonoi i dashuri dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cHajde se po t\u00eb pres tek i nj\u00ebjti vend\u201d. Dola jasht\u00eb dhe pash\u00eb q\u00eb po b\u00ebnte stuhi e madhe. Binte shum\u00eb shi dhe frynte aq er\u00eb sa edhe pem\u00ebt po l\u00ebviznin. U vura n\u00eb siklet dhe nuk dija si t\u00eb shkoja tek i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-21397","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21397"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21397\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}