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Ndihesh e pasigurt\u00eb dhe e\nndrojtur kur t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb zhvishesh? Mbase fiziku yt t\u00eb shkakton ndonj\u00eb\nkompleks, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb normave t\u00eb moralit apo sepse ndjehesh e pasigurt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb?\nP\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar n\u00ebse e ke problem t\u00eb zhvishesh para t\u00eb dashurit, kemi p\u00ebrgatitur\n4 miniteste. N\u00ebse i p\u00ebrgjigjesh pozitivisht nj\u00ebrit ose disave prej tyre, ke\nnevoj\u00eb t\u00eb lexosh k\u00ebshillat tona p\u00ebr t\u00eb kap\u00ebrcyer ndrojtjen dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb shijuar n\u00eb\nmaksimum jet\u00ebn e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj, pa qen\u00eb nevoja t\u00eb fsheh\u00ebsh asgj\u00eb.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. Nuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqen trupi yt?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n a. Kur je n\u00eb shtrat me t\u00eb\ndashurin v\u00eb \u00e7ar\u00e7af\u00ebt dhe jorgan\u00ebt n\u00eb mes, q\u00eb ai t\u00eb mos e shoh\u00eb mir\u00eb trupin t\u00ebnd?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n b. N\u00eb palest\u00ebr hyn e veshur n\u00eb\ndush dhe zhvishesh vet\u00ebm kur je futur brenda?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n c. Kur provon nj\u00eb veshje n\u00eb\ndyqan, asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk del t\u00eb shihesh n\u00eb pasqyr\u00ebn q\u00eb ndodhet jasht\u00eb, q\u00eb mos t\u00eb t\u00eb\nshohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00ebse i je p\u00ebrgjigjur pozitivisht\nndonj\u00ebr\u00ebs prej k\u00ebtyre pyetjeve, duhet t\u00eb dish q\u00eb, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb shijosh k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb\ne vogla t\u00eb jet\u00ebs (si p\u00ebr shembull t\u00eb flesh n\u00eb shtrat lakuriq e p\u00ebrqafuar me partnerin\nt\u00ebnd) po humb koh\u00eb duke u fiksuar pas ides\u00eb q\u00eb trupi yt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrkyer dhe\np\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, askush nuk duhet ta shoh\u00eb. Kujdes, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rreth\nvicioz: Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb fshihesh nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb rritet ndjesia se ke\ndi\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb fshehur. E dim\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7lirohesh nga kjo pasiguri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak\ngj\u00eb e leht\u00eb, por ia vlen t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh. Her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, kur t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb shtrat me t\u00eb\ndashurin, zhvishu lakuriq dhe shtrihu p\u00ebrmbys q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh m\u00eb mir\u00eb. Pastaj k\u00ebrkoji\natij t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb masazh t\u00eb leht\u00eb n\u00eb kurriz dhe k\u00ebmb\u00eb. Truku q\u00ebndron k\u00ebtu: N\u00ebse\np\u00ebrqendrohesh te prekja e t\u00eb dashurit t\u00ebnd, do t\u00eb harrosh frik\u00ebn dhe pasigurin\u00eb\nq\u00eb ndjen p\u00ebr trupin t\u00ebnd. N\u00ebse t\u00eb vjen trup t\u00eb zhvishesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb palest\u00ebr ose\ndhom\u00eb prove, ki parasysh se rrotull teje ke gra dhe ti nuk ke asgj\u00eb m\u00eb pak ose\nm\u00eb tep\u00ebr se ato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2. I ndrydh ndjesit\u00eb e tua?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n a. Gjat\u00eb seksit shqet\u00ebsohesh p\u00ebr\nat\u00eb q\u00eb ndjen partneri dhe jo ti?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n b. Kurr\u00eb nuk ke b\u00ebr\u00eb banjo\ndielli toples, edhe kur ke qen\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb izoluar ku s\u2019t\u00eb shihte njeri\n(bile s\u2019t\u00eb p\u00eblqen fare si ide)?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n c. T\u00eb flesh lakuriq? Jo, nuk\nje \u00e7mendur akoma!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00ebse kur je n\u00eb shtrat me\npartnerin nuk je e aft\u00eb t\u00eb shijosh p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet e tij, sepse ke frik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i\np\u00eblqen trupi yt, na vjen keq ta themi, por jeta jote seksuale kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb\njet\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqshme. K\u00ebshtu, relaksohu dhe mos mendo p\u00ebr difektet e trupit t\u00ebnd. T\u00eb\nsigurojm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb kan\u00eb difektet te tyre (bile edhe aktoret e kinemas\u00eb),\nashtu si edhe partneri yt. Gjithashtu, her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, kur ke mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb b\u00ebsh\ndashuri toples (atje ku nuk t\u00eb sheh asnjeri, p\u00ebr shembull mbi nj\u00eb bark\u00eb n\u00eb mes\nt\u00eb detit) eksperimento ndjesin\u00eb e mrekullueshme t\u00eb rrezeve t\u00eb diellit mbi\ntrupin t\u00ebnd. Ah, k\u00ebt\u00eb ver\u00eb provo\nt\u00eb flesh lakuriq me nj\u00eb pal\u00eb \u00e7ar\u00e7af\u00eb mendafshi. Prekja e but\u00eb dhe e leht\u00eb e trupit t\u00ebnd me to do t\u00eb\njet\u00eb kaq eksituese sa nuk do t\u00eb vesh\u00ebsh m\u00eb pizhama!<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. Je e shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr\nkrahasimet?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n a. Preferon t\u00eb b\u00ebsh dashuri me\ndrit\u00ebn mbyllur, q\u00eb partneri yt t\u00eb mos b\u00ebj\u00eb krahasime me trupin e ish-t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n b. N\u00eb ver\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb lidh nj\u00eb\nbluz\u00eb n\u00eb bel, (edhe kur b\u00ebn vap\u00eb) q\u00eb t\u00eb\ntjer\u00ebt t\u00eb mos thon\u00eb se prapanicat e tua jan\u00eb si valixhe?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n c. Do t\u00eb b\u00ebje banjo dielli\ntoples po t\u00eb mos kishe frik\u00eb se t\u00eb gjitha shikimet do t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheshin n\u00eb\nmadh\u00ebsin\u00eb e gjoksit t\u00ebnd?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ti mund t\u00eb zhvishesh para\npartnerit, por gjithmon\u00eb kur drita \u00ebsht\u00eb e fikur. E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb ndodh edhe me\nveshjet: Nuk e ke problem t\u00eb vesh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb minifund ose nj\u00eb bluz\u00eb me dekolte, por\nkur je e sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb ke fshehur pjes\u00ebt e trupit q\u00eb t\u00eb duken t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuara ose t\u00eb\ntregojn\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb. Dihet q\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb kan\u00eb disa pjes\u00eb t\u00eb trupit p\u00ebr t\u00eb\ncilat jan\u00eb m\u00eb krenare se p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjerat, por gjithashtu \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se ato q\u00eb\nti i konsideron si \u201ct\u00eb tmerrshme\u201d nuk meritojn\u00eb t\u00eb fshihen. S\u00eb pari, sepse ajo\nq\u00eb ti mendon se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i t\u00ebrheq m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb\ntjer\u00ebt, sidomos burrat. Mbaj mend se burrat stimulohen nga pamja, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, n\u00ebse\nnuk b\u00ebn dashuri me drit\u00ebn ndezur, po e privon partnerin t\u00ebnd nga nj\u00eb prej gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb\ne eksitojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb. P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket frik\u00ebs se t\u00eb krahason me ish-t\u00eb dashurat, mos\nharro se n\u00ebse rri me ty, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se t\u00eb preferon ty dhe jo ato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb dyt\u00eb, kur vesh rroba\nq\u00eb t\u00eb fshehin difektet fizike, si p\u00ebr shembull t\u00eb prapme t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, e vetmja q\u00eb\narrin t\u00eb b\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebsh m\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen drejt k\u00ebsaj pjese t\u00eb\ntrupit. P\u00ebrfundimisht, do t\u00eb t\u00eb shohin m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb doje t\u00eb\nevitoje, apo jo? Duhet ta pranosh trupin t\u00ebnd ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe mbaj mend: S\u2019kan\u00eb\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsi rrobat q\u00eb vesh. Q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb duket e bukur, ajo duhet t\u00eb ndihet mir\u00eb\nme veten dhe t\u00eb sillet me natyrshm\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. Je shum\u00eb e ndrojtur?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n a. Ndrojtja jote t\u00eb pengon t\u2019ia\nmarr\u00ebsh dor\u00ebn partnerit dhe ta udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsh n\u00eb pikat ky\u00e7e t\u00eb trupit t\u00ebnd?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n b. T\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb veshjet e lehta\ndhe dekoltet\u00eb e ver\u00ebs, por nuk guxon t\u2019i vesh\u00ebsh?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n c. N\u00eb plazh rrobat e tua t\u00eb\nbanj\u00ebs jan\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, sepse nuk guxon t\u00eb vesh\u00ebsh bikini t\u00eb vogla?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Duhet t\u00eb \u00e7lirohesh nga k\u00ebto\npasiguri, n\u00ebse nuk do t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh si t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb para syve mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb dhurojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebnqaq\u00ebsi n\u00eb\njet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, pa mundur t\u2019i shijosh. Teknika m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019ia dal\u00eb mban\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\nt\u00eb m\u00ebsohesh t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh lakuriq trupin t\u00ebnd, ta v\u00ebshtrosh at\u00eb dhe ndjesit\u00eb q\u00eb ke\nkur p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel veten. Vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse pranon lakuriq\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00ebnde dhe zbulon at\u00eb q\u00eb\nndjen, mund t\u00eb ndjehesh rehat kur ke p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel.\nMbi t\u00eb gjitha, b\u00ebj nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb anatomin\u00eb njer\u00ebzore si di\u00e7ka\nnatyrale e t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe, megjith\u00ebse nuk e beson, di\u00e7ka q\u00eb jo gjithmon\u00eb\nngjall d\u00ebshir\u00ebn tek seksi i kund\u00ebrt. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb masazhist t\u00eb\nb\u00ebn nj\u00eb masazh n\u00eb nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb specializuar, ai as q\u00eb e \u00e7on n\u00ebp\u00ebr mendje se\nmund t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb me ty. Pse ti mendon se, kur zhvishesh para nj\u00eb mjeku, ai nuk mendon\ngj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7se t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb dashuri me ty? Sigurisht, p\u00ebrgjigjja \u00ebsht\u00eb jo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ndihesh e pasigurt\u00eb dhe e ndrojtur kur t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb zhvishesh? Mbase fiziku yt t\u00eb shkakton ndonj\u00eb kompleks, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb normave t\u00eb moralit apo sepse ndjehesh e pasigurt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb? P\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar n\u00ebse e ke problem t\u00eb zhvishesh para t\u00eb dashurit, kemi p\u00ebrgatitur 4 miniteste. N\u00ebse i p\u00ebrgjigjesh pozitivisht nj\u00ebrit ose disave prej […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21355,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21354","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21354","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21354"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21354\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}