{"id":21350,"date":"2019-03-05T21:30:29","date_gmt":"2019-03-05T20:30:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21350"},"modified":"2019-03-05T19:00:52","modified_gmt":"2019-03-05T18:00:52","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpse-i-sheh-te-tjeret-gruaja-ime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfpse-i-sheh-te-tjeret-gruaja-ime\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPse i sheh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt gruaja ime?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje redaksis\u00eb! Jam Erjoni, i martuar, me dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Po filloj pa e zgjatur me shqet\u00ebsimin tim p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin k\u00ebrkoj nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb nga ju. U martova me mbles\u00ebri me nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb ma ka b\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. T\u00eb dy dol\u00ebm nga sht\u00ebpia dhe gruaja po v\u00ebshtronte nj\u00eb person q\u00eb po afrohej, v\u00ebshtrim i cili t\u00eb linte t\u00eb kuptoje sikur priste di\u00e7ka prej tij. E pyeta n\u00ebse e njihte k\u00ebt\u00eb person dhe m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj q\u00eb jo. U m\u00ebrzita dhe i b\u00ebrtita se kjo q\u00eb b\u00ebri nuk ishte gj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Ajo filloi t\u00eb qante dhe m\u00eb tha \u201cm\u00eb fal\u201d. Pas tre dit\u00ebsh shkuam te xhaxhai i gruas p\u00ebr vizit\u00eb dhe atje takuam komshiun e tyre q\u00eb e kishte k\u00ebrkuar p\u00ebr nuse dikur nusen time dhe s\u2019ia kishin dh\u00ebn\u00eb. Gruaja u b\u00eb kurioze duke e v\u00ebshtruar, por nuk i dhash\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Mbas disa dit\u00ebsh shkuam p\u00ebrs\u00ebri te xhaxhai dhe e takuam prap\u00eb. Punonte duke e ndihmuar dhe filluan t\u00eb v\u00ebshtronin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Kur shkuam n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, e pyeta se pse e v\u00ebshtronte aq shum\u00eb komshiun. Ajo m\u00eb tha se ai donte ta merrte p\u00ebr nuse&#8230; \u201cPo ti pse e v\u00ebshtron aq shum\u00eb?\u201d, e pyeta. \u201cKot!\u201d, m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se k\u00ebto v\u00ebshtrime t\u00eb tilla vazhdon t\u2019ua hedh\u00eb edhe personave t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe fshehurazi meje, duke m\u2019u shmangur. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ktheni p\u00ebrgjigje k\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Redaksia<\/em><\/strong><strong>: <\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; I nderuar Erjon, e\nkuptojm\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb gjendjen tuaj shpirt\u00ebrore dhe psikologjike, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb\nduket se keni natyr\u00eb pak xheloze. Megjithat\u00eb, duke u bazuar tek ato \u00e7far\u00eb na\nshkruani dhe shpjegoni, nuk shohim ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb ta mendojm\u00eb serioze dhe\nkritike p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj n\u00eb \u00e7ift. E themi k\u00ebt\u00eb sepse shum\u00eb persona veprojn\u00eb\nose shikojn\u00eb thjesht p\u00ebr inerci ose kuriozitet, por kjo nuk ka lidhje fare\nndjenjat dhe nuk tregon t\u00ebrheqje ndaj personit tjet\u00ebr. Nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb\nedhe gruaja juaj. Nuk mendoj se ajo ka q\u00ebllime t\u00eb k\u00ebqia ose e b\u00ebn sepse d\u00ebshiron\nt\u00eb ket\u00eb ndonj\u00eb flirt me personin tjet\u00ebr. Ju tashm\u00eb jeni b\u00ebr\u00eb pak edhe me\n\u201cfiksime\u201d ndaj k\u00ebsaj gj\u00ebje dhe mendoni menj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr keq, edhe pas gjestit m\u00eb t\u00eb\nvog\u00ebl nga ana e saj. Gruaja juaj duket natyr\u00eb shum\u00eb e sinqert\u00eb, duke qen\u00eb se ju\nka treguar p\u00ebr komshiun dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehur lirsh\u00ebm. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb fiksimet b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb\nt\u00eb mendosh gjithnj\u00eb negativisht dhe t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesh p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra pa r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb\nn\u00eb krahun tuaj. Besoj se edhe e ka shprehur q\u00eb ju do. At\u00ebhere, s\u2019keni arsye pse\nt\u00eb trembeni apo t\u00eb dyshoni q\u00eb ajo flirton me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Nj\u00eb person q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb\nflirtoj\u00eb me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb i interesuar t\u00eb njoh\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ju siguroj q\u00eb\nnuk e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb sy t\u00eb partnerit, por gjen m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb fshehta dhe t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb flirtuar, jo k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruani ju n\u00eb let\u00ebr. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe thjesht\nv\u00ebshtrimi i nj\u00eb t\u00eb panjohuri t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq v\u00ebm\u00ebndjen p\u00ebr t\u00eb kthyer syt\u00eb nga vjen ai\nv\u00ebshtrim, por kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mes ka patjet\u00ebr flirt apo d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr\nnjohje. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, ne ju k\u00ebshillojm\u00eb t\u00eb flisni me qet\u00ebsin\u00eb me t\u00eb madhe me\ngruan, duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb ndiheni v\u00ebrtet keq kur ajo b\u00ebn k\u00ebto gjeste, megjith\u00ebse\nsi\u00e7 e tham\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr, jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr at\u00eb. Pyeteni hapur n\u00ebse\ndo t\u2019i p\u00eblqente asaj q\u00eb ju t\u00eb shikonit nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb jeni bashk\u00eb&#8230;\nMund t\u2019i thoni q\u00eb nuk dyshoni tek ajo absolutisht, por thjesht nuk ju p\u00eblqejn\u00eb\nsi gjeste dhe t\u00eb mundohet t\u2019i evitoj\u00eb. Ndryshe, do t\u2019ju sugjeroja t\u00eb mos u\njepni shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi k\u00ebtyre shikimeve, sepse kam p\u00ebrshtypjen se jan\u00eb krejt t\u00eb\npar\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr at\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shum\u00eb persona e kan\u00eb zakon t\u2019i shikojn\u00eb gjat\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt\napo t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj kurioziteti me v\u00ebshtrimin e tyre, por n\u00eb thelb nuk ka\nasnj\u00eb lloj r\u00ebnd\u00ebsie brenda k\u00ebtij shk\u00ebmbimi v\u00ebshtrimesh rast\u00ebsore apo kurioze. Qet\u00ebsojeni\nveten duke mos u dh\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi k\u00ebtyre detajeve. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb i jepni r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi,\nqoft\u00eb dhe gjesti m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl nga ana e saj, do t\u2019ju duket si flirt apo tradhti,\nnd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb realisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb. Jini realist dhe mos b\u00ebni parashikime q\u00eb s\u2019kan\u00eb\nbaza t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosha. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje redaksis\u00eb! Jam Erjoni, i martuar, me dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Po filloj pa e zgjatur me shqet\u00ebsimin tim p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin k\u00ebrkoj nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb nga ju. U martova me mbles\u00ebri me nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb ma ka b\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. T\u00eb dy dol\u00ebm nga sht\u00ebpia dhe gruaja po v\u00ebshtronte nj\u00eb person q\u00eb po afrohej, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20625,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-21350","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21350","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21350"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21350\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20625"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21350"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21350"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21350"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}