{"id":21345,"date":"2019-03-05T20:00:05","date_gmt":"2019-03-05T19:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21345"},"modified":"2019-03-05T18:53:46","modified_gmt":"2019-03-05T17:53:46","slug":"atrologia-shpjegon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/atrologia-shpjegon\/","title":{"rendered":"Atrologia shpjegon..!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Njeri i pis\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk e mbaj mend shum\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn n\u00eb veprime, vet\u00ebm kujtoj q\u00eb\nishte dikush q\u00eb dukej m\u00eb i pis\u00ebti (n\u00eb kuptimin moral), por m\u00eb von\u00eb kuptova q\u00eb\nishte m\u00eb i miri ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, jo ai i tmerrshmi q\u00eb supozohej t\u00eb ishte. Pres p\u00ebrgjigje,\nsepse m\u2019u duk shum\u00eb interesante; m\u00eb dukej sikur po e p\u00ebrjetoja realisht ndjesin\u00eb\np\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb person. Mira.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Mira, \u00ebndrra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb\nm\u00eb se e qart\u00eb. Ju do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni realisht me nj\u00eb zbulim t\u00eb till\u00eb. Dikush q\u00eb\nderi dje ju \u00ebsht\u00eb dukur m\u00eb i keqi, ashtu si\u00e7 e keni par\u00eb edhe n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, do t\u00eb\nzbuloni se n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu. Por, p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\nkonkluzion, \u00ebndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u2019i jepni nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ta njihni v\u00ebrtet dhe t\u00eb\nv\u00ebrtetoni t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn e asaj \u00e7far\u00eb keni menduar deri tani. N\u00ebse nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb\nnj\u00eb rrug\u00eb komunikimi, nuk do ta merrni vesh asnj\u00ebher\u00eb si q\u00ebndron e v\u00ebrteta.\nGjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke folur p\u00ebr kal\u00ebrimin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr para dy net\u00ebsh sikur isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb\nt\u00eb madhe ku kishte kuaj dhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb i kal\u00ebronin. Nj\u00eb grua m\u2019u afrua dhe m\u00eb pyeti\na kisha rifilluar t\u00eb ecja me kal\u00eb. Un\u00eb iu p\u00ebrgjigjia se jo, por q\u00eb do t\u00eb filloja\np\u00ebrs\u00ebri, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb isha i nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm se nuk kisha biseduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb\ngrua dhe s\u2019mbaja mend n\u00ebse kisha kal\u00ebruar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Pastaj iu drejtova vetes,\nsikur po shikohesha n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb: \u201cPse t\u00eb mos kal\u00ebroj v\u00ebrtet?\u201d. Duke u nisur p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb kal\u00eb, u zgjova nga gjumi. Niku.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I nderuar Niku, kali, si\u00e7 dhe e\nkemi th\u00ebn\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson energjin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs, emocioneve, lirin\u00eb dhe\npasionin p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar \u00e7do moment t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Ju e ndjeni q\u00eb ka ardhur koha t\u00eb\nndryshoni di\u00e7ka n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj, por s\u2019keni guxim, edhe pse jeni plot energji n\u00eb\nvetvete. Gruaja q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson nd\u00ebrgjegjen tuaj t\u00eb fshehur brenda\nvetes, q\u00eb ju fton t\u00eb nxirrni n\u00eb jet\u00eb energjit\u00eb tuaja pozitive dhe t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorni\np\u00ebr t\u00eb rind\u00ebrtuar jet\u00ebn tuaj pozitivisht, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb\nnes\u00ebrme m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb prisni? Jepini vetes vet\u00ebm pak kurajo dhe gjith\u00e7ka\ndo t\u00eb ec\u00eb vet\u00eb pastaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me pushk\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E pash\u00eb veten sikur po q\u00eblloja me pushk\u00eb automatike dhe\nsikur isha p\u00ebr gjueti me miqt\u00eb e mi. M\u00eb vinte keq q\u00eb po i vrisja ata zogj dhe\npo mendoja se nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnim ndryshe, ne prandaj kishim shkuar p\u00ebr gjueti.\nPastaj, kjo ishte e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ne t\u2019i arrinim ata zogj. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim\nkjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? J.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I\/e nderuar J. \u00cbndrra juaj\ntregon q\u00eb jeni bindur realisht me veten se e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur shum\u00eb\ngj\u00ebra n\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni agresivitetin. Kjo gj\u00eb nuk ju p\u00eblqen, por jeni\ni vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb realitet q\u00eb nuk njeh rrug\u00ebzgjidhje tjet\u00ebr, t\u00eb\npakt\u00ebn p\u00ebr momentin. E megjithat\u00eb, ndoshta po ta vrisni trurin m\u00eb shum\u00eb, ka\nshum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb tjet\u00ebr akoma m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019ka lidhje fare\nme agresivitetin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shkall\u00eb e pambaruar<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nshndritshme dhe isha n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e tanishme. Nga kati i sip\u00ebrm i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb mund ta\nshikoja gruan time n\u00eb katin e par\u00eb. Midis dy kateve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb q\u00eb po e\nnd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb bashkuar dy katet, por q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pap\u00ebrfunduar dhe un\u00eb po\nmendoja: \u201cSa koh\u00eb kemi q\u00eb e kemi nisur k\u00ebt\u00eb shkall\u00eb dhe s\u2019e p\u00ebrfunduam dot!\u201d.\nEdhe sikur t\u00eb doja ta p\u00ebrfundoja, dukej q\u00eb di\u00e7ka nuk shkonte te kjo shkall\u00eb q\u00eb\nka ngelur e p\u00ebrgjysmuar. Ashtu, duke medituar dhe duke shikuar time shoqe n\u00eb\nkatin e par\u00eb, u zgjova nga gjumi. Pres parashikimin tuaj. Fatmiri.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>I nderuar Fatmir, e gjith\u00eb \u00ebndrra tregon qart\u00eb q\u00eb ju keni\nprobleme n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Ju ndodheni n\u00eb katin e sip\u00ebrm t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe e shikoni gruan\ntuaj, por nuk komunikoni me t\u00eb. Mes jush \u00ebsht\u00eb shkalla q\u00eb u nis p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrfunduar,\npor q\u00eb nuk mbaroi kurr\u00eb. Shkalla p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson tentativat q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb ju p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nrregulluar problemet q\u00eb keni me gruan, por deri tani, asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhur\nmes jush. Tani mendoni t\u00eb dor\u00ebzoheni sepse e shikoni se ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkon\nmes jush dhe kjo nuk do t\u00eb rregullohet kurr\u00eb. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb mendimet tuaja q\u00eb duken\nshum\u00eb qart\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet \u00ebndrr\u00ebs q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa gruaja juaj, nga ana e saj,\nq\u00ebndron krejt indiferente n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e saj dhe ju k\u00ebt\u00eb e keni kuptuar tashm\u00eb prej\nkoh\u00ebsh. Jeni lodhur nga kjo lloj gjendjeje q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar mes jush dhe\nndiheni i pafuqish\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta rregulluar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, \u00ebndrra\ntregon gjendjen tuaj aktuale dhe nuk p\u00ebrshkruan se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb m\u00eb tej, por\nun\u00eb uroj q\u00eb problemet tuaja t\u00eb zgjidhen dhe ta shp\u00ebtoni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj n\u00eb\n\u00e7ift. Ndoshta po t\u00eb b\u00ebni dhe nj\u00eb tentativ\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb\npengon komunikimin tuaj, do t\u00eb merrni vendimin e duhur q\u00eb t\u00eb mos pendoheni kurr\u00eb\nm\u00eb sepse duket q\u00eb jeni si n\u00eb aj\u00ebr dhe nuk e dini si t\u00eb veproni. Uroj t\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb\ne mira mes jush! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Njeri i pis\u00ebt – Nuk e mbaj mend shum\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn n\u00eb veprime, vet\u00ebm kujtoj q\u00eb ishte dikush q\u00eb dukej m\u00eb i pis\u00ebti (n\u00eb kuptimin moral), por m\u00eb von\u00eb kuptova q\u00eb ishte m\u00eb i miri ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, jo ai i tmerrshmi q\u00eb supozohej t\u00eb ishte. Pres p\u00ebrgjigje, sepse m\u2019u duk shum\u00eb interesante; m\u00eb dukej sikur […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20058,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-21345","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21345","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21345"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21345\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20058"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21345"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21345"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21345"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}