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– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje\nredaksia. Un\u00eb jam Anxhela, 20 vje\u00e7e, nga Tirana. I vler\u00ebsoj shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet\ntuaja dhe do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb m\u00eb jepnit mendimin tuaj p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb po ndodh n\u00eb jet\u00ebn\ntime. Kam 2 vjet e lidhur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 5 vjet m\u00eb t\u00eb madh se un\u00eb. Gjith\u00e7ka\nshkonte shum\u00eb mir\u00eb deri para nj\u00eb muaji kur pat\u00ebm nj\u00eb z\u00ebnk\u00eb jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb\ntelefon dhe ajo telefonat\u00eb u mbyll me fjalin\u00eb: \u201cDo flasim\u201d. Q\u00eb para 4 jav\u00ebsh e\nderi tani, i dashuri im nuk m\u00eb ka marr\u00eb n\u00eb telefon. Kur i bie telefonit t\u00eb tij,\nma mbyll dhe nuk u \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur mesazheve t\u00eb mia. Ajo q\u00eb dua t\u00eb kuptoj un\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb:\n\u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb sjellje? A mund t\u00eb mbaroj\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje 2 vje\u00e7are pa dh\u00ebn\u00eb\nasnj\u00eb shpjegim? A duhet t\u00eb insistoj m\u00eb un\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb shpjegim? Si duhet\nt\u00eb sillem se s\u2019po e duroj dot m\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb? Pres me padurim p\u00ebrgjigjen tuaj\nsa m\u00eb shpejt. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Redaksia:<\/em><\/strong> – <\/strong>E dashur Anxhela, e kuptoj shqet\u00ebsimin tuaj dhe egoizmin e\ntepruar t\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit tuaj. Ndoshta mund t\u2019ju dukem e ashp\u00ebr n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje,\npor po e marr \u201clejen\u201d ta b\u00ebj, p\u00ebrderisa na k\u00ebrkoni nj\u00eb mendim. E ashp\u00ebr, jo p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb t\u00eb gjykuar, sepse te ju nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar, por n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb t\u00eb\ndashurit tuaj. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak korrekte dhe shenj\u00eb dashurie sjellja e t\u00eb\ndashurit tuaj ndaj jush. I dashuri juaj, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb atyre 2 vjet\u00ebve q\u00eb\nkeni kaluar bashk\u00eb, ju detyrohej t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb shpjegim. Duke e l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb,\npavar\u00ebsisht r\u00ebnd\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb madhe q\u00eb ka, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn duhet t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjet n\u00eb\ntelefon ose, minimalisht, t\u2019ju shkruaj\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh, por as k\u00ebt\u00eb s\u2019e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb. Kjo\ntregon se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri pa karakter dhe nuk po tregohet burr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballet\nme ju e t\u2019jua thot\u00eb hapur problemin q\u00eb ka. Sjelljen e tij ne e kuptojm\u00eb si d\u00ebshir\u00eb\np\u00ebr t\u2019u ndar\u00eb nga ju. E di q\u00eb mund t\u00eb m\u00ebrziteni nga kjo, por indiferenca e tij\ntregon ftoht\u00ebsi dhe d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndar\u00eb. Dhe, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet k\u00ebshtu, nga k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimi\njon\u00eb, me beso, ju ka b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb nder q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar. \u00c7\u2019mund t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb nga nj\u00eb person q\u00eb nuk di t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjet n\u00eb telefon, q\u00eb nuk tregon pak\nrespekt p\u00ebr t\u2019ju sqaruar? Jan\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebto \u201cvog\u00eblsira\u201d n\u00ebse mund t\u00eb quhen k\u00ebshtu,\nq\u00eb tregojn\u00eb karakterin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb personi. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ai ka nj\u00eb\nkarakter shum\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt dhe aspak t\u00eb denj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00ebse sot, p\u00ebr vog\u00eblsira, sillet k\u00ebshtu dhe ju braktis,\npo nes\u00ebr pasnes\u00ebr po t\u00eb martoheni bashk\u00eb dhe t\u00eb keni f\u00ebmij\u00eb? N\u00eb problemin e par\u00eb\nq\u00eb mund t\u00eb hasni, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i aft\u00eb t\u2019ju l\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb mes t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs. \u00c7do \u00e7ift ka\nproblemet e tij gjat\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs dhe ata q\u00eb duhen v\u00ebrtet, din\u00eb si t\u2019i kap\u00ebrcejn\u00eb\ndhe t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb harmoni me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Shpeshher\u00eb femrat i\nneglizhojn\u00eb k\u00ebto vog\u00eblsira, si mosp\u00ebrgjigjja n\u00eb telefon, mosp\u00ebrballja e tij dhe\ne justifikojn\u00eb t\u00eb dashurin vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e humbasin. T\u00eb jeni e bindur\nse po veproni gabim! Mos toleroni as gabimin m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj\nnatyre, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb sjell\u00eb ai me ju. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – Un\u00eb ju k\u00ebshilloj t\u00eb mos insistoni m\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje. Mos\ni telefononi dhe mos tentoni t\u00eb kontaktoni m\u00eb me t\u00eb n\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Dhe, n\u00ebse\nndodh q\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb ai te ju, pavar\u00ebsisht justifikimeve q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju jap\u00eb, mendoj\nse nuk duhet t\u00eb bashkoheni me t\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn tuaj. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se ai\nheshti p\u00ebr pun\u00eb 2-3 dit\u00ebsh q\u00eb dhe mund t\u2019ia fal\u00ebsh. 4 jav\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb se t\u00eb\nmjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u2019u bindur q\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person egoist e pa karakter dhe q\u00eb n\u00eb\nthelb, nuk ju do v\u00ebrtet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – E dashur Anxhela, mos u stresoni p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk ka\nvler\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr faktin q\u00eb ai ju braktisi n\u00eb problemin m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl q\u00eb pat\u00ebt. P\u00ebrkundrazi,\nduhet t\u00eb g\u00ebzoheni q\u00eb e kuptuat se kush ishte n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se e\ntoleroni at\u00eb person, ai do t\u00eb sillet akoma m\u00eb keq me ju. Jeni e re dhe keni\ngjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn p\u00ebrpara p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur nj\u00eb person q\u00eb ju vler\u00ebson dhe q\u00eb ju do me t\u00eb\nv\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Duajeni dhe respektojeni veten n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ju\nduan edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. \u00c7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ndodh, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb arsye apo nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, m\u00eb beso,\nsjell nj\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb me vete. Ju uroj fat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje redaksia. Un\u00eb jam Anxhela, 20 vje\u00e7e, nga Tirana. I vler\u00ebsoj shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet tuaja dhe do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb m\u00eb jepnit mendimin tuaj p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb po ndodh n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time. Kam 2 vjet e lidhur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 5 vjet m\u00eb t\u00eb madh se un\u00eb. Gjith\u00e7ka shkonte shum\u00eb mir\u00eb deri para nj\u00eb muaji […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19938,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-21336","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21336","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21336"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21336\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21336"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21336"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21336"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}