{"id":21335,"date":"2019-03-04T20:00:21","date_gmt":"2019-03-04T19:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21335"},"modified":"2019-03-04T17:27:31","modified_gmt":"2019-03-04T16:27:31","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-54","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/astrologia-shpjegon-54\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon..!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Bombola e gazit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time po p\u00eblciste bombola e gazit dhe\nnga frika, po organizonim m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si t\u00eb iknim. Un\u00eb, bashk\u00eb me motrat e mia, po\np\u00ebrgatisnim valixhet me rrobat tona m\u00eb t\u00eb mira, nd\u00ebrsa babai kishte ndezur\nmakin\u00ebn dhe po na priste bashk\u00eb me mamin. Kur po hipnim n\u00eb makin\u00eb, d\u00ebgjova\nmamin q\u00eb po thoshte: \u201cShp\u00ebrthimi i bombol\u00ebs do t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrroj\u00eb gjith\u00eb pallatin\u201d\ndhe po mendoja pastaj p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb q\u00eb ishin brenda e s\u2019po iknin, si\npuna jon\u00eb. Ashtu, e trishtuar p\u00ebr ata, u zgjova nga gjumi. A mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni\nju lutem \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Anisa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>E dashur Anisa, \u00ebndrra\nka lidhje me familjen tuaj dhe tregon p\u00ebr nj\u00eb situat\u00eb jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju\nkrijohet. N\u00eb sht\u00ebpi do t\u2019ju dal\u00eb nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb do t\u00eb diskutohet shum\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr\nmomentin do t\u00eb tmerroheni nga lajmi q\u00eb do t\u00eb merrni. Kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebhet\nfjal\u00eb p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb vdekje, hiqeni nga mendja. B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb muhabet\nfamiljar q\u00eb do t\u00eb bjer\u00eb si bomb\u00eb, por sipas asaj q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, ju do ta kaloni k\u00ebt\u00eb\ngjendje shum\u00eb leht\u00eb dhe pa panik. Nuk do t\u2019i largoheni problemit, por do ta\nzgjidhni pa e b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb madh dhe do t\u00eb rigjeni ekuilibrin familjar q\u00eb e\nmendonit t\u00eb humbur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kantier pune<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Un\u00eb isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb kantier pune q\u00eb ishte n\u00ebn tok\u00eb dhe\nshefi m\u00eb kishte l\u00ebn\u00eb mua si kontrollues t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. Shikoja pun\u00ebtor\u00eb me shumic\u00eb, por\ns\u2019e kuptoja natyr\u00ebn e pun\u00ebs. Ata b\u00ebrtisnin me t\u00eb madhe dhe ishin t\u00eb nxir\u00eb. Un\u00eb\nmundohesha t\u2019i kontrolloja, por nuk ia arrija dot. E pash\u00eb q\u00eb nuk po b\u00ebja dot\ngj\u00eb dhe i thash\u00eb drejtorit se nuk ia dilja dot. Ai m\u00eb mori p\u00ebr krahu, m\u00eb vuri\nsip\u00ebr nj\u00eb piedestali dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cVet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu mund t\u2019i kontrollosh\u201d. Ashtu,\nduke i v\u00ebshtruar nga lart, m\u00eb doli gjumi. Artani.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>I nderuar Artan, n\u00eb\nfush\u00ebn e pun\u00ebs do t\u00eb keni disa diskutime t\u00eb cilat p\u00ebr momentin mund t\u2019ju v\u00ebn\u00eb\nme shpatulla pas murit. Do t\u2019ju jepet mund\u00ebsia t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb pozicion t\u00eb mir\u00eb\npune, por p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb konfliktit q\u00eb do t\u00eb keni q\u00eb n\u00eb hapin e par\u00eb, do t\u00eb\ntrembeni dhe do t\u00eb distancoheni. Ju mendoni shum\u00eb, por asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk i vini n\u00eb\njet\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja. Q\u00ebndroni m\u00eb shum\u00eb i m\u00ebnjanuar dhe i t\u00ebrhequr edhe at\u00ebhere\nkur e dini se \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb veproni k\u00ebshtu. Prandaj edhe \u00ebndrra ju fton me k\u00ebshill\u00ebn\ne saj se duhet t\u00eb nxirrni n\u00eb pah pozicionin tuaj. Vet\u00ebm duke ruajtur qet\u00ebsin\u00eb\ndhe duke vepruar n\u00eb praktik\u00eb, do t\u00eb merrni at\u00eb pozicion q\u00eb e kishit \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar\nprej koh\u00ebsh. Dhe p\u00ebrfundimi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs tregon nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme pozitive me t\u00eb\nardhura t\u00eb mira. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dy gra q\u00eb ziheshin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra q\u00eb kam par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet e \u00e7uditshme. Isha n\u00eb\noborrin e pallatit dhe pash\u00eb dy gra q\u00eb po ziheshin. Nj\u00ebra ishte e bardh\u00eb dhe\ntjetra jevg\u00eb. Jevga po i thoshte: \u201cJeni rac\u00eb e keqe, p\u00ebrfitoni nga shtresat e\nvarf\u00ebra\u201d dhe shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera negative q\u00eb i shprehte me agresivitet, nd\u00ebrsa\ne bardha po i thoshte: \u201cJu jeni rac\u00eb e pis\u00ebt, hajdut\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb zhurmsh\u00ebm\u201d.\nAq shum\u00eb po ziheshin sa desh filluan t\u00eb rriheshin, por u hyra un\u00eb n\u00eb mes dhe u\nndan\u00eb. Nuk mbaj mend m\u00eb asgj\u00eb. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb? Ermira.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Ermira, t\u00eb dyja k\u00ebto\ngra p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb an\u00ebt tuaja t\u00eb brendshme q\u00eb shpesh nuk e dini q\u00eb i keni brenda\nvetes. Gruaja e bardh\u00eb tregon nd\u00ebrgjegjen e past\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb q\u00eb i\nthot\u00eb gj\u00ebrat ashtu si\u00e7 i shikon, nd\u00ebrsa gruaja jevg\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson at\u00eb lloj\nkarakteri q\u00eb shpreh ashp\u00ebrsi dhe vulgaritet n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. K\u00ebto dy lloj\nkarakteresh ngren\u00eb krye sipas situatave t\u00eb ndryshme brenda jush dhe ju mundoheni\nt\u2019i sheshoni me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb nxirrni m\u00eb t\u00eb mirat e mundshme prej vetes.\nPra, \u00ebndrra ka lidhje m\u00eb shum\u00eb me psikologjin\u00eb dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e drejtoni ju\nveten. Mendoj se jeni person shum\u00eb i thell\u00eb n\u00eb mendime dhe gjith\u00e7ka e analizoni\nn\u00eb jet\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prifti dhe rr\u00ebfimi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ishim n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb dhe ishte krijuar nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb shum\u00eb\ne trishtuar. Mami im ishte me nj\u00eb prift dhe po rr\u00ebfehej. Prifti donte q\u00eb ne t\u00eb\nrr\u00ebfeheshim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. E mbylli dritaren kur filloi t\u00eb rr\u00ebfehej mami dhe ai po\nsillej shum\u00eb ashp\u00ebr me t\u00eb. Pastaj filloi me motr\u00ebn time dhe sillej n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn\nm\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Un\u00eb s\u2019doja t\u00eb rr\u00ebfehesha, sepse m\u00eb dukej shum\u00eb antipatik ky prifti.\nMami im ishte komplet e zverdhur dhe dukej shum\u00eb keq. M\u00eb tha motra: \u201cDuhet t\u00eb\nrr\u00ebfehesh dhe ti\u201d. I them: \u201cUn\u00eb s\u2019kam b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebkate q\u00eb t\u00eb rr\u00ebfehem te ky prift\nkoti\u201d dhe ika me vrap, kur shoh q\u00eb mbrapa meje po vraponte prifti q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb\nkapte. Her\u00eb pas here e ndjeja q\u00eb m\u00eb kapte bluz\u00ebn dhe i b\u00ebrtisja q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb l\u00ebshonte.\nAshtu, e frik\u00ebsuar, u zgjova nga gjumi. Pres nj\u00eb parashikim se kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb.\nEni.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Eni, prifti p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson\nat\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ju keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb frik\u00eb. Keni frik\u00eb nga di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju mbase e keni b\u00ebr\u00eb\ndhe mendoni se do t\u00eb kuptohet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Mendoni se keni b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebkat dhe do t\u00eb ishte\nmir\u00eb ta mbani p\u00ebr vete e t\u00eb mos e m\u00ebsoj\u00eb familja. M\u00eb shum\u00eb se ndaj askujt, ju\nndiheni fajtore ndaj mamit. Keni frik\u00eb p\u00ebr mamin se mos s\u00ebmuret m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00ebse\nmerr vesh at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ju e quani t\u00eb ndaluar. Gjithashtu, \u00ebndrra tregon nj\u00eb siklet\nsh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor q\u00eb ka mamaja juaj dhe t\u00eb dyja k\u00ebto lloj gjendjesh t\u00eb krijuara n\u00eb\nfamilje, kan\u00eb ndikuar shum\u00eb n\u00eb gjendjen tuaj psikologjike dhe shpirt\u00ebrore. D\u00ebshironi\nta ndihmoni mamin tuaj q\u00eb ta kaloj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb siklet, por ndiheni e pafuqishme dhe\njo personi i duhur. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja t\u00eb ndiheni fajtore p\u00ebr t\u00eb ashtuquajturat\n\u201cm\u00ebkate\u201d njer\u00ebzore, por mundohuni t\u2019i q\u00ebndroni pran\u00eb, duke i ofruar dashurin\u00eb\ntuaj. Ajo, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb, ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Mos u ndjeni fajtore p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb\nn\u00eb lidhje me jet\u00ebn tuaj private sepse s\u2019ka lidhje. Mos kini frik\u00eb se mund t\u00eb\ngjykoheni nga familja. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bombola e gazit – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time po p\u00eblciste bombola e gazit dhe nga frika, po organizonim m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si t\u00eb iknim. Un\u00eb, bashk\u00eb me motrat e mia, po p\u00ebrgatisnim valixhet me rrobat tona m\u00eb t\u00eb mira, nd\u00ebrsa babai kishte ndezur makin\u00ebn dhe po na priste bashk\u00eb me mamin. Kur po […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21160,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-21335","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21335","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21335"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21335\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21335"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21335"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21335"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}