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Thon\u00eb q\u00eb pasioni e ka nj\u00eb fund, megjithat\u00eb, ne mb\u00ebshtesim nj\u00eb teori tjet\u00ebr:\nDashuria, ashtu si energjia nuk vdes, vet\u00ebm transformohet. Dashuria nuk vdes, vet\u00ebm\nfshihet pas rutin\u00ebs. M\u00eb posht\u00eb po t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb disa shenja q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se lidhja\njuaj vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb intensive, pasionante dhe e plot\u00eb si n\u00eb fillim, megjith\u00ebse\nn\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb nuk duket k\u00ebshtu…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. Ai t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihesh e\naft\u00eb p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur je me t\u00eb dashurin t\u00ebnd, ai t\u00eb shton besimin n\u00eb vetvete dhe ti ndihesh e\nzonja p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. Kjo ndodh sepse \u00e7iftet q\u00eb duhen, stimulojn\u00eb cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e mira\nreciproke: Ndihen m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur, t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe inteligjent\u00eb n\u00ebse e din\u00eb se\npartneri i mb\u00ebshtet. Ka nj\u00eb arsye fiziologjike q\u00eb e shpjegon k\u00ebt\u00eb: Kur dy\npersona jan\u00eb t\u00eb dashuruar, af\u00ebrsia fizike rrit prodhimin e adrenalin\u00ebs. M\u00eb pak\nfjal\u00eb, kur jeni af\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj sikur je duke marr\u00eb nj\u00eb stimulues\nt\u00eb trurit q\u00eb fuqizon cil\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja m\u00eb t\u00eb mira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2. Nxeheni me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pasioni shprehet n\u00eb forma t\u00eb ndryshme: Q\u00eb nga seksi pa tabu, deri te nevoja\np\u00ebr t\u2019u kujdesur p\u00ebr tjetrin, por edhe duke diskutuar me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. Kur i\ndashuri yt dhe ti kapeni p\u00ebr flok\u00ebsh (n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb figurative, sigurisht), nuk do\nt\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb lidhja juaj po shkon drejt fundit. \u00cbsht\u00eb krejt e kund\u00ebrta. Ndjen\nndonj\u00ebhet\u00eb nj\u00eb zem\u00ebrim t\u00eb fort\u00eb? Edhe ai ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me pasionin. \u00cbsht\u00eb ana e \u00e7mendur\ne emocionit q\u00eb lind me dashurin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. T\u00eb rrahurat e zemr\u00ebs p\u00ebrshpejtohen\nkur sheh numrin e tij n\u00eb ekranin e celularit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cbsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb emocionet q\u00eb ndjen kur e takon partnerin t\u00ebnd t\u00eb pak\u00ebsohen\nme kalimin e koh\u00ebs, por n\u00ebse lidhja juaj vazhdon t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb, ky emocion nuk zhduket\nkrejt\u00ebsisht, por nxjerr krye pik\u00ebrisht at\u00ebher\u00eb kur nuk e pret. P\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb\nmbasdite do jesh shum\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqur kur t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh tingullin e \u00e7el\u00ebsave t\u00eb tij n\u00eb brav\u00ebn\ne der\u00ebs. Zemra jote do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb rrah\u00eb fort n\u00eb momentin kur ai t\u00eb shtr\u00ebngon\nn\u00eb krah\u00ebt e tij, nd\u00ebrsa ti mendoje se po flinte. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn trupi\nyt t\u00eb tregon se lidhja juaj vazhdon t\u00eb g\u00ebzoj\u00eb sh\u00ebndet t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. Ti zbulon se t\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb\nshum\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb s\u2019i duroje dot<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7do t\u00eb diel ulesh para televizionit dhe shikon me t\u00eb nj\u00eb program televiziv\nq\u00eb atij i p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb. Edhe pse nuk ke shkuar kurr\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb stadium ku luhet\nfutboll, ndihesh keq kur humb skuadra e tij e zemr\u00ebs, vet\u00ebm sepse ndihet keq ai.\nMos u tremb. Nuk po kthehesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj roboti sht\u00ebpiak. Thjesht, ke filluar t\u00eb\njesh n\u00eb sintoni me gjendjen e tij shpirt\u00ebrore. Pa e v\u00ebn\u00eb re, ke filluar t\u00eb z\u00ebsh\nkoh\u00ebn t\u00ebnde t\u00eb lir\u00eb me aktivitete q\u00eb, po t\u00eb mos ishte p\u00ebr t\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb ta t\u00ebrhiqnin\nabsolutisht v\u00ebmendjen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5. Instiktivisht, i heq nga\nfytyra disa fije floku <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur lidhja e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti \u00ebsht\u00eb e fort\u00eb, ata e p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb\nspontane, si n\u00eb rastin kur, pa e v\u00ebn\u00eb re, i heq balluket nga syt\u00eb ose ai t\u00eb\nshtr\u00ebngon leht\u00ebsisht gjurin, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb jeni ulur n\u00eb poltronin e kinemas\u00eb. K\u00ebto\ngjeste, n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme (kur nj\u00eb person hyn n\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn\nindividuale t\u00eb dikujt tjet\u00ebr), tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb besim t\u00eb madh t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb. D\u00ebshira\np\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb kontakt t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb aq e fort\u00eb sa, nuk mund t\u2019i hiqni\nduart nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri. K\u00ebto af\u00ebrsi ndihmojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur gjall\u00eb shk\u00ebndij\u00ebn\nmes jush. Nj\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje nga ana e t\u00eb dashurit t\u00ebnd mund t\u00eb stimuloj\u00eb edhe d\u00ebshir\u00ebn\nt\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 6. N\u00ebse ke nj\u00eb problem, k\u00ebrkon gjithmon\u00eb ndihm\u00ebn e tij<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cN\u00ebse kam ndonj\u00eb problem, gjithmon\u00eb kam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr opinionin e t\u00eb dashurit tim, thot\u00eb nj\u00eb 29 vje\u00e7are. Jo\ngjithmon\u00eb m\u00eb jep nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebzgjidhje, por e di q\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebgjon me v\u00ebmendje\u201d. N\u00ebse p\u00ebr\nty, n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme ndihma e partnerit t\u00ebnd\nsesa ajo e miqve dhe familjes t\u00ebnde, tregon q\u00eb ju jeni n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn val\u00eb. N\u00ebse\nti shkon t\u2019i k\u00ebrkosh mb\u00ebshtetje, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se meriton besimin absolut dhe nj\u00eb\nrespekt t\u00eb madh, dy nga faktor\u00ebt thelb\u00ebsor\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur gjall\u00eb dashurin\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 7. Kalon para tij me veshjet e tua m\u00eb seksi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00eb gjith\u00ebve na p\u00eblqen t\u00eb rrim\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me veshje t\u00eb rehatshme, por n\u00ebse\npartneri t\u00eb intereson v\u00ebrtet, ti e mban veten edhe kur je n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe vishesh\nme veshje seksi ose p\u00ebrdor ndonj\u00eb parfum special p\u00ebr t\u2019i kujtuar sa t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse\nje. N\u00ebse i ia arrin ta p\u00ebrqendrosh v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00eb dashurit t\u00ebnd te ti, dashuris\u00eb\nsuaj i mbetet akoma shum\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00ebse asnj\u00ebri nga t\u00eb dy nuk do ta\neksperimentonte k\u00ebt\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i p\u00eblqyer tjetrin, lidhja juaj mund t\u00eb ishte\najo e dy koleg\u00ebve m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por niveli i pasionit do t\u00eb prekte minimumin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 8. Mendon t\u00eb dashurin t\u00ebnd\nkur punon, kur del p\u00ebr pazar me shoqet…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Po shtyn karroc\u00ebn t\u00ebnde n\u00eb korridoret e supermarketit dhe vjen n\u00eb vendin ku\nshiten ato patatinat q\u00eb atij i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb aq shum\u00eb. Pa e menduar gjat\u00eb, merr disa\np\u00ebr t\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb po d\u00ebgjon muzik\u00eb n\u00eb internet, ndeshesh me disa nga k\u00ebng\u00ebt e\ntij t\u00eb preferuara dhe menj\u00ebher\u00eb i regjistron n\u00eb nj\u00eb disk sepse ti e di q\u00eb atij\ndo t\u2019i p\u00eblqente shum\u00eb t\u2019i d\u00ebgjonte. \u00c7iftet, lidhja e t\u00eb cilave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e fort\u00eb,\nnuk sillen k\u00ebshtu. N\u00ebse ti dhe i dashuri yt mendoni p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin kur nuk\njeni bashk\u00eb, konsiderojeni k\u00ebt\u00eb si nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb q\u00eb pasioni juaj do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb\nmbetet i paprekur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A ka filluar t\u00eb zbehet dashuria\njuaj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Lexo m\u00eb posht\u00eb dhe v\u00ebrteto n\u00ebse\ngj\u00ebrat mes jush shkojn\u00eb mir\u00eb ose keq<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Situata<\/strong>: Nuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb miqt\u00eb e partnerit t\u00ebnd, ndaj\nnuk e shoq\u00ebron kurr\u00eb kur ai del me ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Shkoni mir\u00eb n\u00ebse:<\/strong> B\u00ebni nj\u00eb pakt: Nj\u00eb nat\u00eb dilni me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb\ne tij dhe nj\u00eb nat\u00eb me t\u00ebnden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Shkoni keq n\u00ebse:<\/strong> Pranoni q\u00eb nuk i duroni shok\u00ebt e tjetrit\ndhe i kritikoni n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e partnerit. Tregon se jeni t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin\ndhe k\u00ebt\u00eb armiq\u00ebsi e keni gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta fshehur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Situata<\/strong>: Nuk i thua gj\u00eb kur t\u00eb bezdis di\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Shkoni mir\u00eb n\u00ebse:<\/strong> Ia thua hapur at\u00eb q\u00eb mendon. K\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb\nrivendosni paqen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Shkoni keq n\u00ebse:<\/strong> Humbisni respektin dhe b\u00ebni q\u00ebllimisht komente\nt\u00eb hidhura dhe l\u00ebnduese. N\u00ebse nuk mund ta evitoni k\u00ebt\u00eb sjellje, p\u00ebr ju nuk kan\u00eb\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsi pasojat q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb fjal\u00ebt tuaja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Situata:<\/strong> E bezdisni nj\u00ebri\u2013tjetrin me probleme pa r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi\nq\u00eb dalin n\u00eb lidhje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Shkoni mir\u00eb n\u00ebse<\/strong>: E pranoni se t\u00eb dy jeni fajtor\u00eb dhe e k\u00ebrkoni\nzgjidhjen s\u00eb bashku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Shkoni keq n\u00ebse<\/strong>: Ua kritikon gjithnj\u00eb shoqeve t\u00eb tua. N\u00ebse\nimazhi q\u00eb ato kan\u00eb p\u00ebr partnerin tuaj \u00ebsht\u00eb larg nga ai i princit t\u00eb kalt\u00ebr,\ndashuria jote nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ka qen\u00eb dhe ka ardhur momenti p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nndryshuar…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Blerta <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Thon\u00eb q\u00eb pasioni e ka nj\u00eb fund, megjithat\u00eb, ne mb\u00ebshtesim nj\u00eb teori tjet\u00ebr: Dashuria, ashtu si energjia nuk vdes, vet\u00ebm transformohet. Dashuria nuk vdes, vet\u00ebm fshihet pas rutin\u00ebs. M\u00eb posht\u00eb po t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb disa shenja q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se lidhja juaj vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb intensive, pasionante dhe e plot\u00eb si n\u00eb fillim, megjith\u00ebse n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":16403,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[306],"class_list":["post-21330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21330","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21330"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21330\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16403"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}