{"id":21327,"date":"2019-03-02T22:00:11","date_gmt":"2019-03-02T21:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21327"},"modified":"2019-03-02T19:15:34","modified_gmt":"2019-03-02T18:15:34","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-seksologut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/pyetje-pergjigje-seksologut\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje seksologut..!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; Kam\nshum\u00eb ankth kur b\u00ebj seks me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn dhe e ndjej q\u00eb edhe ajo ashtu ndihet. A\n\u00ebsht\u00eb normale kjo gj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; S\u2019e kuptoj plot\u00ebsisht natyr\u00ebn e ankthit te ju,\nmegjithat\u00eb ndodh shpesh q\u00eb seksi, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb, shoq\u00ebrohet edhe me ankth q\u00eb\nka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me frik\u00ebn, p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme. Meshkujt mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb ankth q\u00eb t\u00eb\nduken sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb sy t\u00eb partneres, p\u00ebr madh\u00ebsin\u00eb e organit t\u00eb tyre seksual, p\u00ebr\nmbajtjen e ereksionit sa m\u00eb gjat\u00eb, por dhe frik\u00ebsohen p\u00ebr ejakulim t\u00eb parakohsh\u00ebm.\nNd\u00ebrsa, frika te femrat ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me arsye t\u00eb tjera, duke filluar nga frika e\nshtatzanis\u00eb, e k\u00ebnaqin ose jo partnerin, a jan\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse etj. Duhet t\u2019i\nlargoni k\u00ebto ankthe sepse vet\u00ebm sa e largojn\u00eb dhe e zbehin k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb sjell\nmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; Jam nj\u00eb\ngrua lehon\u00eb, s\u2019ka shum\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb kam lindur (2 jav\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb e sakt\u00eb). Im\nshoq m\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb kryejm\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale, por un\u00eb kam frik\u00eb, plus q\u00eb kam\nsekrecione. A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale t\u00eb b\u00ebsh seks n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Problemin p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin na flisni, nuk e keni vet\u00ebm\nju. Shum\u00eb meshkuj s\u2019duan t\u2019ia din\u00eb p\u00ebr dhimbjet, gjendjen ose sekrecionet q\u00eb ka\nnj\u00eb fem\u00ebr pas lindjes dhe k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb kryejn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me t\u00eb. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet\nseksuale n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb lehonia, duhen kryer duke respektuar nj\u00ebri-tjetrin\ndhe nuk duhen imponuar, edhe pse femra si natyr\u00eb, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, nuk ia prish\nmashkullit, pavar\u00ebsisht frik\u00ebs q\u00eb ka. N\u00eb fakt, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gabim sepse n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\nfaz\u00eb, femra nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ende e p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr t\u00eb rinisur jet\u00ebn seksuale. Si\nrregull, si nga ana mjek\u00ebsore, ashtu edhe nga ajo psikologjike, koha e lehonis\u00eb\nzgjat 5 jav\u00eb. Femra n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e brisht\u00eb. Ndoshta nuk ka\ndhimbje, ama ka shum\u00eb sekrecione, \u00ebsht\u00eb e lodhur psikologjikisht, \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nemocionuar p\u00ebr lindjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, pra, \u00e7do veprim i marr\u00eb me imponim, mund ta l\u00ebndoj\u00eb\ndhe d\u00ebmtoj\u00eb shum\u00eb leht\u00eb at\u00eb, jo vet\u00ebm nga ana sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, por edhe\npsikologjike. Kur meshkujt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb lodhur apo t\u00eb stresuar, kur s\u2019kan\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb\nt\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb seks, femrat nuk ua imponojn\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, p\u00ebrkundrazi, u q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb\naf\u00ebr dhe i respektojn\u00eb. N\u00ebna lehon\u00eb ka sekrecione t\u00eb vazhdueshme, t\u00eb cilat\nreduktohen me kalimin e jav\u00ebve dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb jan\u00eb\nm\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme, edhe p\u00ebr faktin se trupi i femr\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i predispozuar\nndaj s\u00ebmundjeve seksualisht t\u00eb transmetueshme. Un\u00eb do t\u2019ju thoja q\u00eb edhe n\u00ebse\nfemra ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr seks n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb dhe pranon pa problem, t\u00eb mos e\nkryeni k\u00ebt\u00eb veprim. Jini t\u00eb duruar n\u00ebse nuk doni q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebmtohet partnerja juaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; Duke\nluajtur top dy dit\u00eb p\u00ebrpara, nj\u00eb nga lojtar\u00ebt m\u00eb goditi me top padashje tek\norganet gjenitale dhe ndjeva pak dhimbje. Duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohem?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211;\n<\/strong>Testi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb figur\u00eb gjeometrike n\u00eb\nform\u00ebn e vez\u00ebs. Zakonisht, i k\u00ebshillojm\u00eb meshkujt t\u2019i shohin her\u00eb pas here me\nv\u00ebmendje testet e tyre, duke i prekur nga jasht\u00eb. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb hasin di\u00e7ka t\u00eb\npazakonshme, si p\u00ebr shembull ndonj\u00eb kok\u00ebrr, enjtje, apo shohin t\u00eb nxira, ata\nduhet t\u00eb paraqiten menj\u00ebher\u00eb te mjeku androlog, pasi kjo mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shkak\np\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb patologji t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u kuruar n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen. N\u00eb rastin tuaj konkret,\nkeni arsye p\u00ebrse t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni, madje un\u00eb ju them se duhet t\u00eb ishit vizituar\nmenj\u00ebher\u00eb. Ju keni dhimbje dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk keni marr\u00eb nj\u00eb hap drejt andrologut?\nVizita \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme; mos e lini pas dore. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb zon\u00eb shum\u00eb\ndelikate dhe duhet kontrolluar her\u00eb pas here edhe n\u00eb rastet kur s\u2019keni t\u00eb b\u00ebni\nme incidite t\u00eb tilla kur vizita tek mjeku androlog \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Kam shum\u00eb ankth kur b\u00ebj seks me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn dhe e ndjej q\u00eb edhe ajo ashtu ndihet. A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale kjo gj\u00eb? &#8211; S\u2019e kuptoj plot\u00ebsisht natyr\u00ebn e ankthit te ju, megjithat\u00eb ndodh shpesh q\u00eb seksi, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb, shoq\u00ebrohet edhe me ankth q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me frik\u00ebn, p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme. 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