{"id":21317,"date":"2019-03-02T15:00:26","date_gmt":"2019-03-02T14:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21317"},"modified":"2019-03-02T14:40:26","modified_gmt":"2019-03-02T13:40:26","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-53","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/astrologia-shpjegon-53\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon..!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Po\nb\u00ebnin dashuri<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nKam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shoqja ime e ngusht\u00eb po b\u00ebnte dashuri me kush\u00ebririn\ntim, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time. Dhoma ku ata ndodheshin ishte shum\u00eb romantike dhe jasht\u00eb\nbinte shi, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb i shikoja nga nj\u00eb vrim\u00eb. Ju lutem, a mund t\u00eb ma shpjegoni\nk\u00ebt\u00eb  \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?  Arta Tiran\u00eb.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Arta, \u00ebndrra ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb\ndrejtp\u00ebrs\u00ebdrejti me ju. N\u00ebse nuk keni nj\u00eb lidhje dashurie, s\u00eb shpejti do t\u00eb\nkeni nj\u00eb propozim t\u00eb till\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet disa t\u00eb njohurve tuaj. \u00cbnd\u00ebrroni nj\u00eb\nlidhje romantike dhe q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e marr\u00eb vesh askush. D\u00ebshironi q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim\ngjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb jet\u00eb e juaja e m\u00eb pas t\u2019ua tregoni njer\u00ebzve tuaj m\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb, mes\nt\u00eb cil\u00ebve mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe shoqja juaj. Vet\u00ebm se, kini kujdes, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb\nfantazit\u00eb e shumta ju shk\u00ebpusin nga realiteti dhe n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me\nk\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fundit, ndiheni e zhg\u00ebnjyer. Prandaj, jini m\u00eb praktike. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb\nmirat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Er\u00eb\ne fort\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nP\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po frynte er\u00eb e fort\u00eb dhe pash\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb\npallat me tulla t\u00eb kuqe, u ngrit e ra posht\u00eb. Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e tullave u hoq\u00ebn dhe u\nduk skela me shufra hekuri. K\u00ebt\u00eb sken\u00eb ua tregova edhe disa grave t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs\ntime. Qaja e lutesha: \u201cZot, t\u00eb lutem, ma mbaj dor\u00ebn\u201d. M\u00eb pas, u largova e po\nngjitesha n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb tat\u00ebpjet\u00eb me balt\u00eb. N\u00eb krahun e djatht\u00eb ishin disa shkurre\nku mbahesha, kurse n\u00eb t\u00eb majt\u00eb ishte vajza ime q\u00eb m\u00eb zgjati dor\u00ebn. Un\u00eb u\nngjita, edhe pse kishte shum\u00eb balt\u00eb. Keti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E nderuar Keti, \u00ebndrra tregon se keni\nshqet\u00ebsime me sh\u00ebndetin dhe duhet t\u00eb keni shum\u00eb kujdes. Kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb\nfrik\u00ebsoheni. Thjesht, tregon q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00ebrziteni nga ana psikologjike, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do\nt\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb edhe n\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin tuaj, por \u00e7do gj\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb kalimtare. Do t\u00eb jet\u00eb\npik\u00ebrisht vajza juaj ajo q\u00eb do t\u2019ju jap\u00eb nj\u00eb kurajo dhe nj\u00eb forc\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nmadhe, duke ju ndihmuar t\u00eb ringriheni. Ju uroj sh\u00ebndet!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mur n\u00eb det<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po ecja p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb nj\u00eb bregu dhe\najo q\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7udiste ishte se buz\u00eb detit ishte ngritur nj\u00eb mur shum\u00eb i lart\u00eb. Doja\nt\u00eb shkoja drejt detit, por nuk m\u00eb linte muri; m\u00eb dukej shum\u00eb i lart\u00eb dhe i\npaarritsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta kaluar. Ashtu, duke u munduar t\u00eb ngjitesha te muri, u zgjova\nnga gjumi. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra tregon q\u00eb ju i keni v\u00ebn\u00eb\nnj\u00eb mur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies tuaj, edhe pse d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb hidheni mes emocioneve q\u00eb ju\nofron kjo lloj ndjenje q\u00eb ju ka lindur koh\u00ebt e fundit. Dhe, sado t\u00eb mundoheni,\npo nuk hoq\u00ebt ato \u00e7far\u00eb ju keni nd\u00ebrtuar n\u00eb mendjen tuaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e veshtir\u00eb\nta p\u00ebrjetoni lidhjen lirsh\u00ebm. Mos i sforconi gj\u00ebrat, l\u00ebrini t\u00eb vijn\u00eb vet\u00eb,\nsepse \u00e7do gj\u00eb ka koh\u00ebn e vet. Ju uroj fat! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00ebmij\u00eb cigan<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb cigan i b\u00ebr\u00eb komplet pis\nme jasht\u00ebqitje. Ai kishte nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb ta pastronin, por un\u00eb s\u2019e b\u00ebja dot se m\u00eb\nvinte p\u00ebr t\u00eb vjell\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, i dhash\u00eb kurajo vetes dhe fillova ta pastroja.\nAi u b\u00eb shum\u00eb i bukur dhe un\u00eb fillova ta doja at\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Shpesh, cigan\u00ebt n\u00eb \u00ebndrra p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb\nat\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb gjithsecilit prej nesh q\u00eb nuk respekton rregullat n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, pra,\nan\u00ebn e err\u00ebt q\u00eb ekziston te \u00e7dokush, q\u00eb jo gjithmon\u00eb shfaqet hapurazi, por vet\u00ebm\nn\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme. N\u00eb rastin tuaj, tregon p\u00ebr karakterin tuaj dhe nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi\nq\u00eb e keni kaluar, por q\u00eb ju ka l\u00ebn\u00eb shije t\u00eb keqe. Mendoni se nuk jeni edhe aq\ne mir\u00eb sa mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe ndiheni keq me veten. Nuk keni pse ta gjykoni\nkaq ashp\u00ebr veten. \u00cbndrra, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, tregon q\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nshpejt\u00eb ju do t\u00eb ndiheni shum\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb filloni ta doni veten akoma m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb. Mos lejoni q\u00eb historit\u00eb personale t\u2019jua transformojn\u00eb karakterin tuaj sa\nt\u00eb bukur, aq edhe t\u00eb brisht\u00eb, nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Miq t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb ndodh shpesh t\u00eb shoh \u00ebndrra me situata t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb\nk\u00ebt\u00eb vend ku jetoj. Shoh miq t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb e t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt\nnuk i shoh prej vitesh dhe s\u2019kam asnj\u00eb lloj kontakti me ta. Nuk e shoh kurr\u00eb\nshoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e tanishme n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, por vet\u00ebm ata q\u00eb kam vite q\u00eb nuk i shikoj. Kjo,\njo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb, por gjithmon\u00eb, n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme. Si e shpjegoni ju k\u00ebt\u00eb?\nFaleminderit. Antoni.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I nderuar Anton, \u00ebndrra ka\nlidhje me an\u00ebn tuaj psikologjike dhe t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn. Duket q\u00eb di\u00e7ka ju ka ngelur\npeng nga e kaluara e ju t\u00ebrheq aq shum\u00eb sa ju shfaqet shpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Ndodh\nshpesh nj\u00eb fenomen i till\u00eb, te shum\u00eb persona. Ndoshta ju nuk e mendoni k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb\npo ju shkruaj un\u00eb, por a e keni pyetur veten se \u00e7far\u00eb ju mungon nga e kaluara ose\n\u00e7far\u00eb ka qen\u00eb ajo gj\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nis\u00ebt ta b\u00ebnit n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe nuk e arrit\u00ebt\ndot? Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja q\u00eb ju keni ngelur akoma n\u00eb kontakt me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, qoft\u00eb\nkjo dhe n\u00eb \u00ebndrra por q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pasoj\u00eb e mendimeve tuaja t\u00eb fshehura n\u00eb n\u00ebnd\u00ebrgjegje.\nN\u00ebse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asgj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto q\u00eb p\u00ebrmenda m\u00eb sip\u00ebr, at\u00ebhere \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht\nnostalgji p\u00ebr at\u00eb periudh\u00eb, asgj\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Mendoj se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast duhet t\u00eb\naktivizoheni m\u00eb shum\u00eb me t\u00eb tashmen q\u00eb t\u00eb mos shikoni m\u00eb \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla, n\u00ebse\nju b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni keq. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke u krehur<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam Tevi. Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po krihesha e n\u00eb\ndor\u00eb m\u00eb ngel\u00ebn shum\u00eb qime. U trondita aq shum\u00eb sa nuk arrija ta besoja. Isha\nshum\u00eb e trishtuar dhe shikoja her\u00eb pas here nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb, por q\u00eb\nnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb burri im.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra\ntregon q\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn koh\u00ebt e fundit, e b\u00ebn me shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi dhe\nstresohesh shum\u00eb. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb duket sikur i ke zgjidhur t\u00eb gjitha, t\u00eb dalin\nprobleme t\u00eb tjera dhe ngelesh e shokuar. Gjithsesi, kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebshtu\ndo t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb. Djali q\u00eb e sheh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ti mendon si mund t\u00eb t\u00eb\nndihmoj\u00eb, por ne nuk t\u00eb k\u00ebshillojm\u00eb t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh ndihm\u00eb prej tij. M\u00eb mir\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte\nt\u2019i k\u00ebrkoje mb\u00ebshtetje personit q\u00eb ke n\u00eb krah. Vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu do t\u2019i kalosh m\u00eb\nleht\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb ndihesh vet\u00ebm. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat Tevi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb bank\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Para dy net\u00ebsh kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po shkoja n\u00eb bank\u00eb\np\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr disa lek\u00eb. Me mendje q\u00ebndrova dy or\u00eb n\u00eb bank\u00eb dhe ata akoma s\u2019m\u2019i\nkishin dh\u00ebn\u00eb lek\u00ebt e mia. Un\u00eb fillova t\u00eb protestoja para drejtorit t\u00eb bank\u00ebs\nduke i th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb ato lek\u00eb ishin t\u00eb miat. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka\nkjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Rudi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E nderuar Rudi, kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb\nkeni par\u00eb tregon q\u00eb jeni shum\u00eb impulsiv dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, m\u00eb k\u00ebrkues se \u00e7\u2019duhet.\nMendoni se duhet ta fitoni \u00e7do gj\u00eb pa u munduar shum\u00eb, pa u lodhur, pa\nsakrifikuar. E gjitha kjo ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me an\u00ebn tuaj profesionale. Do t\u00eb keni pak\nkonflikte si me veten, ashtu edhe me personat q\u00eb jan\u00eb mbi ju. Duke u nisur nga\nprofesioni juaj, mendoni se \u00e7do gj\u00eb do ta fitoni me leht\u00ebsi, pa u impenjuar\naspak, por e keni gabim dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb do ta kuptoni edhe n\u00eb dit\u00ebt n\u00eb vazhdim. N\u00ebse\nnuk punoni dhe nuk tregoni thjesht\u00ebsi n\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebni, do t\u00eb humbisni shum\u00eb,\nprandaj punoni ashtu si\u00e7 duhet, n\u00ebse d\u00ebshironi v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb fitoni at\u00eb q\u00eb ju\ntakon. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Buburrec <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Isha n\u00eb banj\u00eb dhe po laja fytyr\u00ebn, kur d\u00ebgjova nj\u00eb\nzhurm\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb vinte nga lavamani. Pash\u00eb nga vrima e tij nj\u00eb buburrec\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb madh q\u00eb po dilte e m\u00eb futi frik\u00ebn. E mora me nj\u00eb let\u00ebr dhe e nxora\njasht\u00eb. M\u00eb pas, m\u00eb erdhi motra te dera dhe m\u00eb tha t\u2019ia hapja, por un\u00eb i thash\u00eb:\n\u201cJo, dua t\u00eb rri vet\u00ebm\u201d. Mbaj mend q\u00eb isha shum\u00eb e d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar dhe sikur po qaja.\nEni.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E nderuar Eni, \u00ebndrra ka\nlidhje me jet\u00ebn tuaj personale dhe familjare. Ndiheni e braktisur dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb\nnj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, sikur ju mungon intimiteti me veten tuaj. Keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb\nt\u2019ju kuptoj\u00eb dhe t\u2019ju ngush\u00eblloj\u00eb, por s\u2019e gjeni dot. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, nga ana tjet\u00ebr,\nkeni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr hap\u00ebsirat tuaja q\u00eb familja t\u00eb mos ju ngacmoj\u00eb. Do t\u00eb keni pak\ndebate me pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes tuaj pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb po ju ndodh koh\u00ebt e\nfundit, por ju do t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni e mbyllur me vetveten dhe nuk do t\u00eb shpreheni. N\u00eb\nfakt, b\u00ebni gabim. Ka ardhur momenti q\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn me nj\u00eb nga pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebt e\nfamiljes tuaj t\u00eb flisni dhe t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00eb qoft\u00eb dhe thjesht p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nbiseduar e p\u00ebr t\u2019u k\u00ebshilluar. Jo gjithmon\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb mund t\u00eb kalohen vet\u00ebm.\nGjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Po b\u00ebnin dashuri – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shoqja ime e ngusht\u00eb po b\u00ebnte dashuri me kush\u00ebririn tim, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time. Dhoma ku ata ndodheshin ishte shum\u00eb romantike dhe jasht\u00eb binte shi, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb i shikoja nga nj\u00eb vrim\u00eb. Ju lutem, a mund t\u00eb ma shpjegoni k\u00ebt\u00eb  \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?  Arta Tiran\u00eb. – E dashur Arta, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21317","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21317","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21317"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21317\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}