Un\u0451 q\u0451 po ju shkruaj jam nj\u0451 vajz\u0451 q\u0451 s\u0451 shpejti do t\u0451 mbush tridhjet\u0451 vje\u00e7e. Jeta ime \u0451sht\u0451 si nj\u0451 lib\u0451r q\u0451 mund ta lexosh e mezi e beson, por n\u0451 t\u0451 v\u0451rtet\u0451, \u0451sht\u0451 nj\u0451 jet\u0451 dhe ajo \u0451sht\u0451 e imja. U rrita n\u0451 jetimore sepse prind\u0451rit e mi ishin aksidentuar me makin\u0451. T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn un\u00eb, k\u00ebt\u00eb variant di. N\u0451 jetimore ishin edhe dy motrat e mia, t\u0451 cilat nuk ndenj\u0451n shum\u0451 sepse i adoptuan. N\u0451 jetimore, jeta ishte shum\u0451 e v\u0451shtir\u0451. Pavar\u0451sisht kujdesit t\u0451 kujdestareve tona, m\u0451 mungonin shum\u0451 prind\u0451rit dhe motrat. Kur mbusha 18 vje\u00e7e dhe mbarova shkoll\u0451n e mesme, shkova n\u0451 universitet dhe rrjedhimisht, n\u0451 konvikt. Konvikti jo se ishte m\u0451 ndryshe se jetimorja, por isha e lir\u0451. Dilja me shoqet dhe jetoja pa kujdestar\u0451t te koka, mir\u0451po gjithsesi nuk ishte nj\u0451 jet\u0451 shum\u0451 e leht\u0451. Pavar\u0451sisht se merrja burs\u0451 nga shkolla, m\u0451 duhej t\u0451 gjeja nj\u0451 pun\u0451 p\u0451r nevojat e mia si nj\u0451 vajz\u0451 e re e n\u0451 universitet. Nj\u0451 shoqe m\u0451 rregulloi pun\u0451 n\u0451 nj\u0451 kompani, si sekretare. Paradite ndiqja studimet n\u0451 universitet dhe pasdite, punoja. Ishte e lodhshme, por merrja rrog\u0451n dhe e harroja lodhjen. Pas 4 vjet\u00ebsh universitet, mora diplom\u0451n dhe nga sekretare, zura nj\u0451 post t\u0451 mir\u0451 n\u0451 kompanin\u0451 ku punoja. Rroga m\u2019u shtua, k\u0451shtu q\u0451 fillova t\u0451 ngjisja shkall\u0451t e karrier\u0451s. Kisha studiuar dhe punuar shum\u0451, prandaj tani besoj se i meritoja k\u0451to t\u0451 mira, mir\u0451po nj\u0451 boshll\u0451k akoma nuk ishte mbushur n\u0451 zemr\u0451n time. Ku vall\u0451 ishin motrat e mia? N\u0451 konvikt, asnj\u0451 nuk fliste p\u0451r to. Ato ishin shum\u0451 m\u0451 t\u0451 vogla se un\u0451 kur u adoptuan, prandaj nuk e besoj se m\u0451 mbanin mend. Isha munduar t\u0451 lidhesha me to me aq sa \u201czbulova\u201d te jetimorja, por dukej sikur ato t\u0451 dyja ishin zhdukur. Megjithat\u0451, jeta ime kishte marr\u0451 nj\u0451 rrjedh\u0451 tjet\u0451r. Tashm\u0451, isha e zonja e vetes. Kisha rrog\u0451n dhe jetoja me qira, por jeta e v\u0451shtir\u0451 m\u0451 kishte dh\u0451n\u0451 shum\u0451 ambicie p\u0451r t\u0451 ecuar p\u0451rpara. Gjeta edhe nj\u0451 pun\u0451 tjet\u0451r dhe k\u0451shtu, gjendja ime financiare ishte n\u0451 rregull, mir\u0451po gjith\u0451 kjo pun\u0451 m\u0451 kishte privuar nga gj\u0451ra t\u0451 tjera, si shoq\u0451ria dhe dashuria. N\u0451 universitet u njoha me nj\u0451 djal\u0451. Ai ishte dy vjet para meje dhe ishte mjaft i mir\u0451, por kur fillova pun\u0451n, ai m\u0451rzitej shum\u0451 sepse nuk kisha koh\u0451 t\u0451 rrija me t\u0451, k\u0451shtu q\u0451 lidhjes son\u0451 i erdhi fundi, ndon\u0451se shpejt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
U lidha me nj\u0451 djal\u0451 tjet\u0451r,\npor q\u0451 t\u0451 mund t\u0451 shp\u0451toja nga qiraja dhe t\u0451 kisha nj\u0451 sht\u0451pi timen, si\u00e7 ju\nthash\u0451 m\u0451 lart, fillova pun\u0451n e dyt\u0451. E kush do t\u0451 priste sa t\u0451 isha e lir\u0451 un\u0451\nnj\u0451 t\u0451 diel\u00eb n\u0451 dy jav\u0451? Asnj\u0451. K\u0451shtu, mbeta p\u0451rs\u0451ri me macen time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mir\u0451po ana ekonomike mbushte vendet bosh n\u0451 jet\u0451n\ntime. Kisha pik\u0451synim t\u0451 blija nj\u0451 sht\u0451pi t\u0451 vog\u0451l dhe k\u0451t\u0451 do t\u0451 mund ta\narrija vet\u0451m me pun\u0451. Dhe, ia arrita! Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb bleva sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time. Tashm\u0451, nuk\nm\u0451 duhej t\u0451 punoja edhe aq shum\u0451 dhe isha ende e re p\u0451r t\u2019u lidhur me dik\u00eb. Kisha\nnj\u0451 shok n\u0451 pun\u0451 dhe k\u0451shtu, nisi edhe lidhja ime e tret\u0451. Ai ishte nj\u0451 djal\u0451 i\nmbar\u0451 dhe gjithmon\u0451 p\u0451rkujdesej p\u0451r mua. Kishim karaktere t\u0451 p\u0451rbashk\u0451ta dhe k\u0451shtu,\nlidhja filloi t\u0451 forcohej. Erdhi koha kur kjo lidhje duhet t\u00eb zyrtarizohej. Un\u0451\nnuk kisha prind\u0451r, por prind\u0451rit e tij m\u0451 donin shum\u0451 dhe plot\u0451sonin nj\u0451 vend t\u00eb\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u0451 boshll\u0451kun tim. Isha e lumtur dhe asgj\u0451 nuk do ta zbehte k\u0451t\u0451\nlumturi. Vet\u0451m mendoja se si dit\u0451n e dasm\u0451s nuk do t\u0451 kisha asnj\u0451 njeri t\u00eb gjakut\ntim q\u0451 t\u0451 m\u0451 ndihmonte t\u0451 kaloja emocionet. K\u0451t\u0451, ia thash\u0451 t\u0451 dashurit tim. Ai\nm\u0451 shtyu t\u0451 shkoja n\u0451 nj\u0451 emision televiziv i cili merrej me k\u0451rkimin e njer\u0451zve\nt\u0451 humbur. Megjith\u0451se motrat e mia nuk ishin t\u0451 humbura, p\u0451r mua, ashtu ishin,\np\u0451rderisa kishim humbur kontaktet q\u0451kur ishim mjaft t\u0451 vogla. N\u0451 fillim i thash\u0451\nburrit tim se nuk do t\u0451 shkoja. Nuk e dija si do ta prisnin ato k\u0451t\u0451. Ndoshta\nato nuk m\u0451 mbanin mend dhe un\u0451 harxhoja koh\u0451 kot. Ato ishin shum\u0451 t\u0451 vogla kur\ni mor\u0451n nga jetimorja dhe nuk mbanin mend se kush kishin qen\u0451 prind\u0451rit e tyre.\nPrind\u0451rit q\u0451 i kishin bir\u0451suar ndoshta nuk donin q\u0451 ato t\u0451 dinin asgj\u0451 p\u0451r\nprejardhjen e tyre. \u00cbsht\u0451 shum\u0451 e r\u0451nd\u0451 t\u0451 rris\u0451sh nj\u0451 f\u0451mij\u0451 si f\u0451mij\u0451n t\u0451nd\ndhe m\u0451 pas ai sapo t\u0451 marr\u0451 vesh se nuk \u0451sht\u0451 gjaku yt, t\u0451 ndahet nga ti. Un\u00eb mendoja\nedhe k\u0451t\u0451 gj\u0451, por burri im k\u0451mb\u0451nguli shum\u0451 dhe un\u0451 u nisa p\u0451r tek emisioni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ishte pak e v\u0451shtir\u0451 sepse ato mund t\u0451 ishin\nmartuar dhe t\u0451 kishin nd\u0451rruar mbiem\u0451r, k\u0451shtu q\u0451 me an\u0451 t\u0451 emrit, nuk mund t`i\ngjeje, por si\u00e7 i thon\u0451 asaj fjal\u0451s: \u201cT\u0451 th\u0451rret gjaku\u201d… Q\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb q\u00eb\ndol\u00ebn n\u00eb emision emrat tan\u00eb dhe historia jon\u0451, un\u0451 u takova me motrat. N\u0451\nemision, ne fol\u0451m n\u0451 telefon. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u0451ra jetonte n\u0451 nj\u0451 qytet malor dhe ishte e\nmartuar e me f\u0451mij\u0451 (ajo q\u0451 ishte e dyta, pas meje), nd\u0451rsa e vogla ndiqte\nstudimet n\u0451 Itali, ku jetonte me familjen q\u0451 e kishte adoptuar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Takimi im me motr\u0451n q\u00eb jetonte n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri u b\u0451\npas dy dit\u0451sh. Ishte nj\u0451 takim shum\u0451 emocionues dhe mua, q\u0451 shquhesha n\u00eb shoq\u0451ri\nse nuk m\u0451 dilnin kurr\u00eb lot\u0451t, nuk m\u2019u than\u0451 syt\u0451 p\u0451r asnj\u0451 moment. Ishte d\u0451shira\nime t\u0451 takoja motrat e mia dhe t\u0451 ribashkoja familjen. Meqen\u0451se isha e madhja, m\u0451\nduhej t\u0451 sillesha si e till\u0451. I treguam nj\u0451ra-tjetr\u0451s p\u0451r jet\u0451n ton\u0451 dhe p\u0451r t\u0451\ngjitha ato q\u0451 na kishin ndodhur. Ajo kishte patur nj\u0451 jet\u0451 normale dhe jo si e\nimja q\u0451 m\u0451 duhej t\u0451 rraskapitesha n\u0451 pun\u0451 p\u0451r t\u0451 nxjerr\u0451 buk\u0451n e goj\u0451s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Kam vuajtur shum\u0451 – i thash\u0451. – Kam filluar\npun\u0451n q\u0451 pas shkoll\u0451s s\u0451 mesme dhe tani kam sht\u0451pin\u0451 time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
– M\u0451 vjen keq – thoshte ajo teksa d\u0451gjonte\nhistorin\u0451 time. – por nuk duhet t\u0451 m\u0451rzitesh. Tani mbaroi \u00e7do gj\u0451, do t\u0451\nmartohesh dhe do t\u0451 kesh f\u0451mij\u0451t e tu. Ata do t\u0451 ta mbushin zemr\u0451n plot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Zemra ime \u0451sht\u0451 e mbushur tani q\u0451 ju gjeta juve.\nGjithmon\u0451 kujtoja \u00e7astin kur u ndam\u0451 n\u0451 jetimore. Ai \u00e7ast m\u0451 shoq\u0451ronte n\u00eb \u00e7do\nminut\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Motra kishte nj\u0451 vajz\u0451 t\u0451 vog\u0451l t\u0451 mrekullueshme. Duke\ne krahasuar me foton e mamit, ato ishin shum\u0451 t\u0451 ngjashme, ose na dukej neve\nashtu, nga malli dhe nga d\u0451shira e madhe q\u0451 mami t\u0451 ishte me ne at\u0451 dit\u0451 e\np\u0451rdit\u0451 n\u0451 jet\u0451n ton\u0451. Mungesa e prind\u0451rve \u0451sht\u0451 e paz\u0451ved\u0451sueshme. Asnj\u0451 dhe\nasgj\u0451 nuk i z\u0451vend\u0451son prind\u0451rit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb g\u00ebzoja p\u00ebr gjetjen e t\u00eb af\u00ebrmve t\u00eb\nmi, im shoq vazhdonte m\u0451 tej \u201cplanin\u201d. Ai m\u0451 b\u0451ri surpriz\u0451 bilet\u0451n p\u0451r n\u0451 Itali\nq\u0451 t\u0451 takoja motr\u0451n e vog\u0451l. Ja pra, sa i mir\u0451 ishte! Ia vlente q\u0451 kisha pritur\naq shum\u0451 p\u0451r t\u0451. Shkuam s\u0451 bashku n\u0451 Itali. Motra studionte p\u00ebr Juridik. Familja\ne saj ishte shum\u0451 e mir\u0451. Prind\u0451rit adoptues ishin njer\u0451z t\u0451 mrekulluesh\u0451m. Vet\u0451\nmotra, ishte si nj\u0451 engj\u0451ll. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ashtu si me motr\u0451n tjet\u0451r, edhe me t\u0451 biseduam e\ntreguam rrjedh\u0451n e jet\u0451s son\u0451 t\u0451 ndara nga nj\u0451ra-tjetra. Edhe ajo, ashtu si\nmotra tjet\u0451r, kishte patur nj\u0451 jet\u0451 t\u0451 lumtur dhe t\u0451 qet\u0451. Kjo gj\u0451 m\u0451 g\u0451zoi pa\nmas\u0451. Un\u0451 n\u0451 mendjen time nuk isha asnj\u0451her\u0451 e qet\u0451, sepse mendoja se n\u0451\n\u00e7`familje do t\u0451 kishin r\u0451n\u0451. I ftuam familjarisht n\u0451 das\u0451m dhe u kthyem n\u0451\nShqip\u0451ri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Erdhi dita e dasm\u0451s. Un\u0451 isha e emocionuar dhe\nshum\u0451 e lumtur. M\u0451 n\u0451 fund, pas kaq vitesh, familja ime ishte e bashkuar. Un\u0451\ndhe motrat e mia ishim s\u0451 bashku dhe kjo ishte nj\u0451 \u0451nd\u0451rr q\u0451 e shihja t\u0451 b\u0451hej realitet\npas shum\u0451 vitesh. \u00c7do gj\u0451 shkoi p\u0451r mrekulli. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tani ne i kemi ruajtur lidhjet e do t`i ruajm\u0451\ngjithmon\u0451 dhe f\u0451mij\u0451t tan\u0451 do t\u0451 lidhen me nj\u0451ri-tjetrin e k\u0451shtu me radh\u0451\nsepse gjaku do gjakun e tij. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Un\u0451 q\u0451 po ju shkruaj jam nj\u0451 vajz\u0451 q\u0451 s\u0451 shpejti do t\u0451 mbush tridhjet\u0451 vje\u00e7e. Jeta ime \u0451sht\u0451 si nj\u0451 lib\u0451r q\u0451 mund ta lexosh e mezi e beson, por n\u0451 t\u0451 v\u0451rtet\u0451, \u0451sht\u0451 nj\u0451 jet\u0451 dhe ajo \u0451sht\u0451 e imja. U rrita n\u0451 jetimore sepse prind\u0451rit e mi ishin aksidentuar me makin\u0451. T\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20576,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21302","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21302","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21302"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21302\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20576"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21302"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21302"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21302"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}