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– Jam M.\nnga Tirana. Kam mbi 8 vjet me nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb. Ka ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb\ntelefonin e saj gjej sms q\u00eb ia \u00e7on nj\u00ebri dhe ajo flet me t\u00eb n\u00eb telefon, por i\nfshin thirrjet, duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019ka folur. Si t\u00eb b\u00ebj un\u00eb pasi e dua shum\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa\nnj\u00eb dit\u00eb ajo m\u00eb shkroi: \u201ct\u00eb urrej\u201d? Si t\u00eb veproj, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Redaksia:<\/em><\/strong> – <\/strong>Nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb moshe keni, por duke u nisur nga ajo pak q\u00eb\nkeni shkruar, mendoj se marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e l\u00ebkundur, pavar\u00ebsisht se\nju shpreheni se e doni k\u00ebt\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Ne ju sugjerojm\u00eb t\u00eb siguroheni mir\u00eb n\u00ebse ajo\n\u00e7far\u00eb dyshoni \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. N\u00eb rast se \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, merreni me qet\u00ebsin\u00eb\nm\u00eb t\u00eb madhe dhe bisedoni me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn tuaj, pa qen\u00eb nevoja t\u00eb irritoheni apo\nt\u00eb ziheni. I thoni se sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo p\u00ebr ju, por se, n\u00ebse ajo ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb\nt\u00eb shk\u00ebputet prej jush, do ta lini t\u00eb lir\u00eb. Mendoj se pas k\u00ebsaj bisede q\u00eb do t\u00eb\nb\u00ebni, ju do t\u00eb merrni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje nga e dashura juaj, qoft\u00eb ajo negative ose\npozitive. N\u00ebse ajo vazhdon ta mohoj\u00eb se flet me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, edhe pse ju v\u00ebrtetoni\nse \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, do t\u2019ju sugjeroja t\u00eb shk\u00ebputeni p\u00ebr ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoni m\u00eb\nmir\u00eb ndjenjat e saj dhe tuajat. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, edhe ajo do t\u00eb reflektoj\u00eb mbi\nlidhjen me ju dhe n\u00ebse v\u00ebrtet ju dashuron, do t\u00eb kthehet me ju. N\u00ebse nuk ju\nndjen ashtu si\u00e7 duhet, do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn e saj pa ju. Ju k\u00ebshilloj t\u00eb mos\nkrijoni kaq shum\u00eb var\u00ebsi ndaj saj. \u00cbsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb disa momente t\u00eb b\u00ebheni\negoist, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb pretendoni nga ajo dashuri t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, si\u00e7 e keni edhe\nju p\u00ebr t\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk ka ndjenja reciproke dhe respekt n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj t\u00eb\ndashuris\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ndaheni. \u00c7donj\u00ebri prej nesh meriton dashuri dhe\nrespekt reciprok. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – Jam M. nga Tirana. Kam mbi 8 vjet me nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb. Ka ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb telefonin e saj gjej sms q\u00eb ia \u00e7on nj\u00ebri dhe ajo flet me t\u00eb n\u00eb telefon, por i fshin thirrjet, duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019ka folur. Si t\u00eb b\u00ebj un\u00eb pasi e dua shum\u00eb, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20643,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-21284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21284","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21284"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21284\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}