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– I\nnderuar seksolog! Ju fal\u00ebnderoj p\u00ebr sqarimet aq t\u00eb vlefshme q\u00eb jepni me an\u00eb t\u00eb\ngazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d. Ju b\u00ebni nj\u00eb pun\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb nderuar humanitare duke u\nardhur n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb njer\u00ebzve n\u00eb zgjidhjen e halleve e problemeve t\u00eb tyre shqet\u00ebsuese\np\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. Un\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb nga Skrapari, lexuese e rregullt e \u201cIntervist\u00ebs\u201d.\nProblemi q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson dhe dua t\u00eb m\u00eb sqaroni, q\u00ebndron si m\u00eb posht\u00eb: Ka nj\u00eb\nvit q\u00eb djali im \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb po nga nj\u00eb fshat i Skraparit. Djali\nme vajz\u00ebn duhen shum\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, edhe pse fejes\u00ebn e b\u00ebm\u00eb me nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsi.\nEdhe ne si krushq shkojm\u00eb mjaft mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, por problemi q\u00eb na shqet\u00ebson\n\u00ebsht\u00eb se djali nuk kryen dot marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me nusen. Djali punon n\u00eb\nGreqi dhe, pasi ndenji disa koh\u00eb i fejuar me vajz\u00ebn, e mori n\u00eb Greqi, por as\nkur ishte k\u00ebtu n\u00eb Skrapar, as n\u00eb Greqi, nuk kryen dot marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. Ai thot\u00eb se me ndonj\u00eb\nvajz\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ka kryer marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, kurse me nusen e tij, jo. Prandaj e nis\u00ebm\nedhe nusen n\u00eb Greqi te djali q\u00eb t\u00eb ishin bashk\u00eb, por si\u00e7 m\u00eb thon\u00eb, as atje nuk\nkryejn\u00eb dot marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. \u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta, ne mendonim se mos i ka lidhur\nnjeri apo mos u kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb magji dhe kemi shkuar edhe n\u00eb disa vende ku mendonim\nse mund t\u00eb zgjidhnim ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb, por e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se jemi munduar kot dhe\nnuk kemi arritur asnj\u00eb rezultat. K\u00ebrkojm\u00eb nga ju, i nderuar seksolog, t\u00eb na\nsqaroni drejt n\u00ebse ka ndonj\u00eb rrug\u00ebzgjidhje ky problem se na \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb hall i\nmadh. Edhe ne, por sidomos djali, po e vuan shum\u00eb. A mund t\u00eb na jepni nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb\nose zgjidhje se si mund t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb ne dhe \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur\nhallin q\u00eb kemi? A mos \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi pa rrug\u00ebzgjidhje dhe duhet t\u00eb ndahet djali\nme vajz\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb krejt t\u00eb pavullnetshme se ata duhen shum\u00eb si \u00e7ift? Si na\nthoni ju, \u00ebsht\u00eb faji i vet\u00eb djalit apo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe faji i vajz\u00ebs? A mund\nt\u00eb jet\u00eb impotent djali apo b\u00ebn vaki t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe vajza impotente? Presim nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje\nme an\u00eb t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs. Me respekt, zonja nga Skrapari M.R. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog, Poliklinika Qendrore, 0682213329:– <\/em><\/strong>Nga shum\u00eb letra q\u00eb m\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb adres\u00ebn time dhe q\u00eb, sigurisht, nuk mund t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjemi t\u00eb gjithave p\u00ebr arsye teknike, m\u00eb b\u00ebri p\u00ebrshtypje letra juaj dhe d\u00ebshiroj t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjem sa m\u00eb par\u00eb, p\u00ebr vet\u00eb problematiken q\u00eb ajo paraqet. Gjat\u00eb pun\u00ebs time prej 30 vjet\u00ebsh, konstatoj her\u00eb pas here raste si problemi i djalit dhe nuses tuaj; kur nj\u00eb \u00e7ift jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb dashuruar me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, por n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie midis tyre ka dal\u00eb nj\u00eb problem, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pamund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer aktin seksual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sigurisht, kjo\n\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje q\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht krijon nj\u00eb traum\u00eb te \u00e7ifti apo te njer\u00ebzit\nrreth tyre. Un\u00eb, shpeshher\u00eb, deziluzionohem kur marr vesh q\u00eb \u00e7ifte t\u00eb tilla\nmund t\u00eb ken\u00eb arritur deri n\u00eb divorc p\u00ebr nj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb vetme q\u00eb ne tashm\u00eb e\nkonsiderojm\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb zgjidhshme. Eksperienca ime disavje\u00e7are n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\nprofesion m\u00eb ka treguar se ka plot \u00e7ifte tregon t\u00eb cil\u00ebt q\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e para t\u00eb\nmartes\u00ebs nuk e kan\u00eb kryer dot aktin seksual, duke shkuar deri tre, gjasht\u00eb, nj\u00eb\nvit, 6 vjet deri edhe n\u00eb 12-15 vjet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo gj\u00eb ka\nndodhur vet\u00ebm sepse \u00e7ifti e ka par\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb hapet p\u00ebr problemin e tij\napo t\u2019i drejtohet mjekut q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb duket absurde, sepse\nnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb turp t\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin t\u00ebnd, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr p\u00ebr at\u00eb seksual, i\ncili ka nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. Impotenca seksuale, n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb shkakut, \u00ebsht\u00eb\ntashm\u00eb pothuajse 100 % e sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb sh\u00ebrohet. Do t\u2019ju kisha th\u00ebn\u00eb juve, si nj\u00eb\nn\u00ebn\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e \u00e7iftit, t\u00eb kontaktoni sa m\u00eb shpejt t\u00eb jet\u00eb\ne mundur me mua dhe un\u00eb ju siguroj q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment se djali juaj do ta kaloj\u00eb\nme sukses k\u00ebt\u00eb problem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – I nderuar seksolog! Ju fal\u00ebnderoj p\u00ebr sqarimet aq t\u00eb vlefshme q\u00eb jepni me an\u00eb t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d. Ju b\u00ebni nj\u00eb pun\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb nderuar humanitare duke u ardhur n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb njer\u00ebzve n\u00eb zgjidhjen e halleve e problemeve t\u00eb tyre shqet\u00ebsuese p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. Un\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb nga Skrapari, lexuese e rregullt […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21275,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[346,1058],"class_list":["post-21274","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-evi-dani","tag-mjeku"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21274","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21274"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21274\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21274"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21274"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21274"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}