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\u00cbsht\u00eb e domosdoshme t\u00eb jesh supermen n\u00eb seks, q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u2019i p\u00eblqesh\npartneres t\u00ebnde? D\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb sa m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb krevat a nuk e ka zbehur\npak intimitetin ton\u00eb? Shum\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb tilla mund t\u00eb ngrihen mbi seksualitetin\ndhe mbi jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb dashurore. Femrat e sotme, gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb tep\u00ebr jan\u00eb\nk\u00ebrkuese n\u00eb shtrat: Ato duan raporte m\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshta seksuale, m\u00eb t\u00eb gjata, m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb… Tashm\u00eb, aft\u00ebsia seksuale ka nisur t\u2019i ngjaj\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u201cprofesioni\u201d\nq\u00eb dikush di ta b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb e dikush jo, por a \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb me\nngulm nj\u00eb \u201cprofesionist\u201d t\u00eb mir\u00eb?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00eb kushtet e sotme…\nperformanca sa m\u00eb e mir\u00eb seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebllim apo iluzion? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Burrat duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb fush\u00ebn seksuale, por kjo\nshpesh \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb nga \u00e7\u2019duket. Dhe, \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e keqja, n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste,\nintimiteti i \u00e7ifteve \u201crr\u00ebnohet\u201d nga ky mosshp\u00ebrthim. P\u00ebr disa, problemet\nseksuale p\u00ebrmblidhen n\u00eb frekuenc\u00ebn e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve, p\u00ebr disa n\u00eb koh\u00ebzgjatjen e\ntyre, nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00eb akoma, n\u00eb aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr patur nj\u00eb ereksion sa m\u00eb t\u00eb\nshpejt\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn gjithkush mendon se ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb\nd\u00ebfrehet, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb performanca seksuale t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohet n\u00eb\nq\u00ebllim n\u00eb vetvete. Burri, n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj performance, shnd\u00ebrrohet n\u00eb\nspektator i vetvetes, duke u marr\u00eb vet\u00ebm me kontrollimin e ndjesive t\u00eb tij, n\u00eb\nvend q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lirsh\u00ebm e spontan n\u00eb takimin me partneren.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – Sepse ai ka frik\u00eb se do t\u00eb\nb\u00ebj\u00eb figur\u00eb t\u00eb keqe para saj, apo jo?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Meqen\u00ebse n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb zakon t\u00eb flitet hapur me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt\np\u00ebr shp\u00ebrthimet seksuale, gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre bisedave, shpesh t\u00eb dashuruarit mendojn\u00eb\nse \u201cnuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb lart\u00ebsin\u00eb e duhur\u201d. N\u00ebse burri ejakulon shum\u00eb shpejt, partnerja\ne tij rrezikon t\u00eb mbetet e pak\u00ebnaqur, ndaj meqen\u00ebse k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia shfaqet m\u00eb von\u00eb\nte femrat sesa te burrat, partneri duhet ta \u201czbus\u00eb\u201d ritmin e d\u00ebshirave e\nndjesive t\u00eb tij dhe nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, madje, duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb edhe t\u00eb mos kaloj\u00eb n\u00eb\norgaz\u00ebm. Vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu, ai do t\u00eb mund t\u2019i tregoj\u00eb praktikisht t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs s\u00eb tij\nse v\u00ebrtet ndjen shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, por di edhe ta respektoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – A ekziston ndonj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb\np\u00ebr ta ndihmuar mashkullin t\u2019ia arrij\u00eb k\u00ebsaj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Koh\u00ebt e fundit, \u00ebsht\u00eb folur shum\u00eb p\u00ebr prezervativ\u00ebt \u201ckoh\u00ebzgjat\u00ebs\u201d, q\u00eb\njan\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj alternative n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb t\u00eb meshkujve. Zgjatja e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs dhe e\nraportit seksual \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb propozojn\u00eb dy fabrikuesit m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj t\u00eb\nprezervativ\u00ebve, Durex e Manix, me dy modelet e tyre t\u00eb prezervaviv\u00ebve. I pari\np\u00ebrmban n\u00eb \u201crezervuarin\u201d e tij pak benzokain\u00eb (anestezik lokal, q\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret\nzakonisht n\u00eb mjek\u00ebsin\u00eb dentare), e cila, duke e lubrifikuar gland\u00ebn e penisit,\ne desensibilizon leht\u00ebsisht at\u00eb. Duke pak\u00ebsuar k\u00ebshtu intensitetin e ndjesive,\nai vonon edhe rezultatin e raportit seksual. I dyti, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb form\u00ebs s\u00eb tij\nspecifike, ushtron presion n\u00eb nervin erektil, duke bllokuar nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb\ninformacioneve q\u00eb transmetohen n\u00eb tru. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, ejakulacioni do t\u00eb vij\u00eb\nm\u00eb me vones\u00eb se zakonisht. K\u00ebto produkte t\u00eb reja u japin mund\u00ebsi konsumator\u00ebve\nt\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohen n\u00eb \u201chamshor\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u201d, ashtu si aktor\u00ebt, q\u00eb shpesh i shohim e\ni admirojm\u00eb n\u00eb kinema. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – Deri tani na fol\u00ebt vet\u00ebm\np\u00ebr burrat… Po femrat, nuk kan\u00eb asnj\u00eb lloj p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mes?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Eh, tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb e mod\u00ebs q\u00eb femrat t\u00eb njohin seksualisht m\u00eb shum\u00eb se\nnj\u00eb burr\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre, ndaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb ato t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe\nkrahasimet mes tyre. Shum\u00eb gra kan\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb ta shprehin me fjal\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb apo\nkeqardhjen p\u00ebr raportet e tyre seksuale dhe kjo m\u00eb shum\u00eb se \u201cdashnore\u201d, i b\u00ebn\nato \u201ckonsumatore t\u00eb seksit\u201d. Vet\u00ebm, mos u trembi zot\u00ebrinj! Me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn ato\nnuk i japin detajet e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale q\u00eb kan\u00eb me ju, jo p\u00ebr gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr,\npor vet\u00ebm sepse jan\u00eb natyra t\u00eb turpshme! Jo gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb sigurta p\u00ebr bukurin\u00eb e\ntrupit t\u00eb tyre dhe gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm dhe jo n\u00eb\np\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet para dhe paskoitale, ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb prirura t\u00eb shijojn\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr nj\u00eb\nraport t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr dhe jo shum\u00eb intensiv. Shumica e tyre, as q\u00eb e \u00e7on n\u00ebp\u00ebr\nmend romantizmin e dashuris\u00eb me shikim t\u00eb par\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb, m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm se\n\u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb pasioni q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt dhe seksi, n\u00eb kuptimin\ne that\u00eb t\u00eb tij, mbetet vet\u00ebm dyt\u00ebsor…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00cbsht\u00eb e domosdoshme t\u00eb jesh supermen n\u00eb seks, q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u2019i p\u00eblqesh partneres t\u00ebnde? D\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb sa m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb krevat a nuk e ka zbehur pak intimitetin ton\u00eb? Shum\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb tilla mund t\u00eb ngrihen mbi seksualitetin dhe mbi jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb dashurore. 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