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T\u00eb b\u00ebsh dashuri, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh i \u00e7liruar n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha drejtimet,\npor a ndodh gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb? P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq jo, sepse shumica e\npartner\u00ebve preferojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb zhveshin trupin sesa shpirtin, pra, t\u00eb udh\u00ebhiqen\nnga d\u00ebshirat e tyre… Seksi dhe intimiteti nuk jan\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb, por kur ato\nbashk\u00ebjetojn\u00eb, t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb bindur se keni arritur idealen…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ju thoni se mes dy\npartner\u00ebve duhet t\u00eb mbizot\u00ebroj\u00eb intimiteti. M\u00eb duket paksa e \u00e7uditshme, pasi,\nsipas meje, intimiteti \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb normali n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Mos u habitni n\u00ebse ju them se ka dhe \u00e7ifte q\u00eb nuk e njohin intimitetin.\nNuk mund t\u00eb quhet intimitet njohja n\u00eb detaje e trupit t\u00eb partnerit, por t\u2019i\nhap\u00ebsh zemr\u00ebn dhe shpirtin t\u00ebnd tjetrit. T\u00eb kesh intimitet me nj\u00eb person do t\u00eb\nthot\u00eb t\u00eb mos kesh frik\u00eb t\u2019i tregosh atij emocionet dhe d\u00ebshirat e tua seksuale,\nato m\u00eb t\u00eb fshehtat, pra, t\u00eb jesh vetvetja. P\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb gjeni\npak koh\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe flisni hapur p\u00ebr \u00ebndrrat, projektet dhe\nd\u00ebshirat tuaja, por kini parasysh q\u00eb t\u00eb mos dor\u00ebzoheni menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00ebse shihni se\npartneri juaj t\u00ebrhiqet dhe nuk flet, pasi n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, p\u00ebr burrat \u00ebsht\u00eb\nnormale t\u00eb tregohen t\u00eb pathyesh\u00ebm. Pra, intimiteti identifikohet si nj\u00eb lidhje\nspeciale, e cila shp\u00ebrthen n\u00eb momentin kur gjith\u00e7ka rrjedh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb spontane,\njo vet\u00ebm fizikisht, por edhe mend\u00ebrisht e shpirt\u00ebrisht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ku ndryshon seksi nga\nintimiteti?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00eb t\u00eb parin, interesi ndaj nj\u00eb personi \u00ebsht\u00eb momental, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb t\u00eb\ndytin, interesi zgjat p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt, p\u00ebr burrat \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb\narrihet kjo e dyta, sepse ata, nga natyra, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb urgjente p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nk\u00ebnaqur menj\u00ebher\u00eb impulsin e tyre seksual. Atyre u mjafton nj\u00eb imagjinat\u00eb\nerotike p\u00ebr t\u00eb stimuluar d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr seks. Pra, n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, p\u00ebr burrat\n\u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb dashuri pa hyr\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb thella shpirt\u00ebrore\nme grat\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb sepse duan t\u2019i tregojn\u00eb mbi t\u00eb gjitha vetes se jan\u00eb\nburr\u00ebror\u00eb. Me pak fjal\u00eb: Burrave nuk u mungon d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur intimitet,\npor e kan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb sekretet dhe d\u00ebshirat e tyre seksuale.\nAta mund t\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb emocione shum\u00eb t\u00eb forta, por n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, i\nshprehin ato me gjuh\u00ebn e trupit, pra, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – \u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb seksi p\u00ebr burrat?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Seksi p\u00ebr burrat \u00ebsht\u00eb penetrimi, orgazma, k\u00ebnaqja e d\u00ebshirave seksuale,\nnd\u00ebrsa te grat\u00eb, gj\u00ebrat ndryshojn\u00eb. Edhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb aventur\u00eb, ato kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr\nintimitet, me fjal\u00eb apo gjeste t\u00eb ngrohta. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb kusht edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur\nk\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Megjithat\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb konstatuar q\u00eb ka patur edhe lidhje shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjata, ku\npartner\u00ebt nuk kan\u00eb pasur intimitet, pra, kan\u00eb preferuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb heshtin\nsesa t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb d\u00ebshirat e tyre seksuale. Kjo, si rrjedhoj\u00eb e ndrojtjes, por\nedhe e asaj d\u00ebshire q\u00eb kan\u00eb pothuajse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb: T\u00eb jen\u00eb pak misterioz\u00eb. Nuk\nthemi t\u00eb mos jeni misterioz\u00eb, por \u201cgjella me krip\u00eb e kripa me karar\u201d… <\/p>\n\n\n\n – Po kur kemi frik\u00eb se mund\nt\u00eb gjykohemi p\u00ebr keq nga partneri kur t\u2019i shprehim d\u00ebshirat tona, si t\u00eb\nveprojm\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, p\u00ebrpiquni q\u00eb pak nga pak apo dhe me gjeste, t\u2019i lini t\u00eb\nkuptoj\u00eb partnerit q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen ky apo ai veprim. Intimiteti me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb\nfitohet duke p\u00ebrdorur metod\u00ebn e duhur dhe duke patur besim reciprok. Mundohuni\nt\u00eb kuptoni e t\u00eb harmonizoheni me nevojat e tjetrit. Vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse do t\u00eb bindni\nveten se nuk do gjykoheni p\u00ebr keq, do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb \u00e7lironi d\u00ebshirat q\u00eb mbani\nbrenda vetes. Ata q\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb shijojn\u00eb intimitetin, duhet t\u00eb heqin dor\u00eb\np\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb nga mania p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar tjetrin. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kusht q\u00eb ia\nvlen ta vini n\u00eb zbatim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – Dhe p\u00ebr ta ditur… \u00cbsht\u00eb\ne v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se me nj\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur je m\u00eb i\/e lirsh\u00ebm sesa me partnerin aktual?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Sigurisht q\u00eb po, sepse aventur\u00ebn, gjithsecili d\u00ebshiron ta p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb deri\nn\u00eb fund. Si p\u00ebr nj\u00eb burr\u00eb, ashtu edhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua, seksi mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb komponent\nt\u00eb fort\u00eb intimiteti, edhe pse historia nuk ka nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme, pasi n\u00eb rastin e\nnj\u00eb aventure, t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt shprehin lirsh\u00ebm gjith\u00eb d\u00ebshirat e tyre, pasi nuk\nkan\u00eb frik\u00eb nga humbja e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, sepse jan\u00eb bashkuar thjesht p\u00ebr nj\u00eb\nflirt e jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar m\u00eb tej. E megjithat\u00eb, ka pasur raste kur aventura\n\u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb histori t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dashurie, vet\u00ebm fal\u00eb intimitetit t\u00eb\nhapur q\u00eb kan\u00eb pasur partner\u00ebt mes tyre. Pra, si p\u00ebrfundim, duam t\u2019ju themi se\nseksi b\u00ebhet m\u00eb i bukur n\u00ebse ju dini t\u00eb jeni intim\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00eb b\u00ebsh dashuri, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh i \u00e7liruar n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha drejtimet, por a ndodh gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb? P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq jo, sepse shumica e partner\u00ebve preferojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb zhveshin trupin sesa shpirtin, pra, t\u00eb udh\u00ebhiqen nga d\u00ebshirat e tyre… Seksi dhe intimiteti nuk jan\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb, por […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":16432,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50,88],"tags":[306,905],"class_list":["post-21254","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","category-seksologu","tag-intimitet","tag-seks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21254","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21254"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21254\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21254"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21254"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21254"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}