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– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje redaksi! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam s\u00ebrish zonja\n30 vje\u00e7are nga Vlora q\u00eb ju shkrova historin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb sime t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe q\u00eb\njam n\u00eb dilem\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndar\u00eb. N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, ju fal\u00ebnderoj p\u00ebr k\u00ebshillat,\npor desha t\u00eb theksoj se n\u00eb lidhjen ton\u00eb ishte konsumuar raporti intim dhe nuk\nishte nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u rimbushur, por nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb q\u00eb e kam kultivuar n\u00eb k\u00ebta\n12 vjet. Un\u00eb burrin tim nuk e kam dashur as edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb. P\u00ebr mua, kjo ishte nj\u00eb\nalternativ\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb harruar tjetrin. Mund t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebni pyetjen se pse b\u00ebra 4 yje. \u00cbsht\u00eb\nnj\u00eb pyetje me vend, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji im q\u00eb e dashuroj me gjith\u00eb shpirt k\u00ebt\u00eb\ndjal\u00eb. Nuk mund t\u00eb fle sepse vet\u00ebm mendoj p\u00ebr t\u00eb. E dua me gjith\u00eb zem\u00ebr, m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb se m\u00eb par\u00eb dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb pasion, si\u00e7 m\u00eb shkruani ju. P\u00ebr mua,\nnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje pa vend kur pyes n\u00ebse duhet t\u00eb ndahem apo t\u00eb rri p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebve sepse un\u00eb p\u00ebr burrin tim nuk ndjej dhe jeta me nj\u00eb person q\u00eb nuk ndjen,\nnuk mund t\u00eb kalohet me t\u00eb shtirur. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ktheni p\u00ebrgjigje k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb shtun\u00eb\nq\u00eb vjen se po \u00e7mendem. Me respekt, O nga VLORA.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Redaksia: – <\/strong>E dashur\nO.! N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj q\u00eb na shkruan s\u00ebrish. E kam pritur letr\u00ebn\nt\u00ebnde, si letr\u00ebn e nj\u00eb mikeje t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ndaj t\u00eb lutem t\u00eb m\u00eb konsiderosh edhe ti\nmua t\u00eb till\u00eb, megjith\u00ebse nuk m\u00eb njeh dhe nuk t\u00eb njoh personalisht. N\u00eb letr\u00ebn e\npar\u00eb, ti k\u00ebrkoje edhe mendimin e lexuesve, por un\u00eb iu p\u00ebrgjigja me p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi\nletr\u00ebs, duke patur parasysh q\u00eb problemi yt ishte urgjent dhe, me mendimin se,\nduke folur bashk\u00eb, ndoshta do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb parandalonim nj\u00eb vendim t\u00eb marr\u00eb n\u00eb\nnxitim e sip\u00ebr… Ti m\u00eb shkruan s\u00ebrish, k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe sqarime t\u00eb\ntjera, q\u00eb ishin t\u00eb nevojshme n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bashk\u00ebbisedim. N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, t\u00eb jesh e\nbindur p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore mes mikeshash: T\u00cb KUPTOJ! T\u00eb kuptoj kur\nthua se jeta nuk shtyhet me t\u00eb shtirur… t\u00eb kuptoj kur thua se dashuron me\ngjith\u00eb shpirt k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb… t\u00eb kuptoj kur thua se po \u00e7mendesh… Jeta t\u00eb v\u00eb\nnganj\u00ebher\u00eb para alternativash e zgjedhjesh t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb. Duam apo\ns\u2019duam, duhet ta pranojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e kot\u00eb t\u00eb flasim sot p\u00ebr \u201cgabime\u201d t\u00eb b\u00ebra\nn\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn sepse, megjith\u00ebse ne nuk e dim\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb\napo e keqe p\u00ebr ne, un\u00eb e konsideroj nj\u00eb gabim, t\u00eb lidhesh me dik\u00eb, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nharruar nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb thuajse nj\u00eb mision i pamundur. Un\u00eb mendoj se mund\nt\u00eb \u201cm\u00ebsosh\u201d ta duash dik\u00eb n\u00ebse ndan jet\u00ebn me t\u00eb, n\u00ebse me t\u00eb ke lindur f\u00ebmij\u00eb,\nn\u00ebse t\u00eb respekton dhe e respekton. Sigurisht, kjo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb larg asaj\ndashurie pasionante q\u00eb ne \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojm\u00eb kur mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb, por un\u00eb\nk\u00ebmb\u00ebngul s\u00ebrish, duke t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se pasioni \u00ebsht\u00eb kalimtar dhe ajo q\u00eb mbetet n\u00eb\nnj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht respekti e mb\u00ebshtetja e nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb. E di se\nzemra jote nuk e do k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje dhe se ajo nuk mund ta pranoj\u00eb at\u00eb. Edhe\nk\u00ebt\u00eb, e kuptoj. At\u00ebhere, le t\u00eb supozojm\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb do zemra; ti more\nvendimin t\u00eb ndahesh nga bashk\u00ebshorti dhe t\u00eb realizosh dashurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde t\u00eb\nv\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Ok, po mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe po marrim p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr t\u00eb\nmendojm\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr vete, pa futur n\u00eb mes f\u00ebmij\u00ebt apo familjen… Ja, u ndat\u00eb. A\nmerr p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr i dashuri yt ta realizoj\u00eb dashurin\u00eb tuaj t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt? N\u00eb letr\u00ebn\ne kaluar shkruaje se ai nuk t\u00eb premtoi asgj\u00eb. M\u00eb vjen keq t\u00eb ta them, por un\u00eb\nmendoj se ky djal\u00eb, edhe n\u00ebse t\u00eb dashuron si\u00e7 e dashuron ti (megjith\u00ebse dyshoj\nshum\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb), \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb frikacak p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb vendime t\u00eb guximshme. Ai\nnuk i mori dot vendimet e guximshme kur ishit akoma t\u00eb rinj, t\u00eb paimpenjuar, iu\nbind familjes s\u00eb tij dhe t\u00eb la t\u00eb shkoje. At\u00ebhere, sa i zoti \u00ebsht\u00eb ai t\u2019i\np\u00ebrgjigjet k\u00ebsaj dashurie sot, kur ti ke familje e f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe ai, gjithashtu? Kam\nfrik\u00eb se nuk ia vlen t\u00eb b\u00ebsh sakrifica p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb njeri dhe se ai nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb\nnj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje p\u00ebr ty n\u00eb k\u00ebto sakrifica! I ke th\u00ebn\u00eb atij p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dyzim t\u00eb madh\nq\u00eb ke, p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndar\u00eb ose jo me bashk\u00ebshortin? Mendoj se jo, ose edhe n\u00ebse e ke\nb\u00ebr\u00eb, ai nuk e ka marr\u00eb seriozisht. Dyshoj se, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb mendonte se ti v\u00ebrtet\nmund ta b\u00ebje k\u00ebt\u00eb (t\u00eb ndaheshe nga bashk\u00ebshorti p\u00ebr t\u00eb), do t\u00eb ikte me vrap nga\nfrika, ose m\u00eb keq akoma, do t\u00eb t\u00eb premtonte dashuri \u201ct\u00eb lir\u00eb\u201d, duke t\u00eb\nshkat\u00ebrruar familjen dhe nga ana tjet\u00ebr, duke mbrojtur t\u00eb vet\u00ebn… T\u00eb dukem e\nashp\u00ebr? M\u00eb beso, jam thjesht, realiste. Edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb e p\u00ebrs\u00ebris; sepse T\u00cb\nKUPTOJ. Kur dashurojm\u00eb, ne m\u00ebsohemi t\u00eb idealizojm\u00eb personin q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb; i veshim atij t\u00eb gjitha tiparet q\u00eb\ndo t\u00eb donim t\u00eb kishte princi yn\u00eb i kalt\u00ebr, por… m\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb nder. P\u00ebrpiqu sa\nt\u00eb mundesh t\u00eb ulesh me k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh realisht se \u00e7\u2019lloj \u201cprinci\u201d\n\u00ebsht\u00eb ky njeri, se \u201c\u00e7\u2019ngjyr\u00eb\u201d ka \u201cprinc\u00ebrimi\u201d i tij… K\u00ebshilla ime konkrete n\u00eb\nk\u00ebt\u00eb rast, \u00ebsht\u00eb: Takoje, ulu me t\u00eb, p\u00ebrpiqu sa t\u00eb mundesh t\u00eb tregohesh\nrealiste, si\u00e7 edhe t\u00eb takon p\u00ebr pjekurin\u00eb q\u00eb ke (dhe p\u00ebr faktin se, tashm\u00eb, je\nn\u00ebn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebsh) e pyete drejtp\u00ebrdrejt: \u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb ai p\u00ebr ty?\nN\u00ebse ti b\u00ebn sakrific\u00ebn sublime t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrosh familjen t\u00ebnde p\u00ebr t\u00eb, a do t\u00eb\njet\u00eb ai n\u00eb gjendje ta realizoj\u00eb konkretisht k\u00ebt\u00eb dashuri dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje? Mos\nharro, k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet ta b\u00ebj\u00eb duke marr\u00eb p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb i\ntakojn\u00eb nj\u00eb burri, kur merr p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pyete drejtp\u00ebrdrejt, merr\np\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb dhe, n\u00ebse mundesh s\u00ebrish, mos harro, pres letr\u00ebn\nt\u00ebnde. T\u00eb uroj qet\u00ebsin\u00eb e shpirtit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje redaksi! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam s\u00ebrish zonja 30 vje\u00e7are nga Vlora q\u00eb ju shkrova historin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb sime t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe q\u00eb jam n\u00eb dilem\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndar\u00eb. N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, ju fal\u00ebnderoj p\u00ebr k\u00ebshillat, por desha t\u00eb theksoj se n\u00eb lidhjen ton\u00eb ishte konsumuar raporti intim dhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19938,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-21245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21245"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21245\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}