{"id":21223,"date":"2019-02-24T19:00:41","date_gmt":"2019-02-24T18:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21223"},"modified":"2019-02-24T14:28:54","modified_gmt":"2019-02-24T13:28:54","slug":"me-tha-jam-e-paprekur-me-genjeu-ta-le","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/02\/me-tha-jam-e-paprekur-me-genjeu-ta-le\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00eb tha “jam e paprekur”..M\u00eb g\u00ebnjeu…!Ta l\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– Doja nj\u00eb\nmendim nga ju, qoft\u00eb edhe nga stafi. Jam fejuar. N\u00eb fillim ajo m\u00eb thoshte \u201cjam\ne paprekur\u201d derisa arrit\u00ebm n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pas 4 muajsh, sepse isha jasht\u00eb\nshtetit. Nuk m\u00eb linte n\u00eb fillim e pas pak m\u00eb tha q\u00eb e kishin kap me zor. U\n\u00e7akordova nga fjal\u00ebt e saj dhe, kur kryem marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, na doli e zhvirgj\u00ebruar,\ndi\u00e7ka q\u00eb e mohonte m\u00eb par\u00eb e m\u2019u betua p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. N\u00eb fillim isha dashuruar\nshum\u00eb pas saj. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj, t\u00eb ndahem apo t\u00eb vazhdoj me t\u00eb?\nNj\u00eb miku juaj. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u200e- Kjo vajza, edhe sikur te mos ishte e virgjer me pare s\u2019ka pse ta thoje qe \u201cjam\u201d sepse njeriu nuk matet nga ajo cip\u00eb (s\u2019e kuptoj pse e ka fshehur) ndoshta ka pasur ndrojtje p\u00ebr ta treguar k\u00ebt\u00eb (q\u00eb e kan\u00eb kapur me zor, boo, s\u2019e di ). Mendimi im \u00ebsht\u00eb te ulesh dhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb me ate dhe t\u2019i k\u00ebrkosh t\u00eb ta thote te gjithe te verteten si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb. Pastaj, ti vete duhet te vendosesh se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0 b\u00ebsh. Ti, jo se nuk je i dashuruar shume pas saj, thjesht je zhgenjyer tani, por gjithsesi, fol perseri. Ajo s\u2019duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndrojtje te tregoj\u00eb se ka pasur nje lidhje dhe marr\u00ebdhenie; jane gjera normale. S\u2019do t\u00eb thote qe me ate qe duam do perfundojm\u00eb. Ndodhin dhe zhgenjime dhe ajo s\u2019ka pse te rrinte me t\u00eb, ndaj djali, mendohu dhe fol me t\u00eb. Aulona <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk e kuptoj, akoma me dilemen: \u201ce virgj\u00ebr apo jo?!\u201d? Mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb i ka kaluar moda. Ndoshta ai djali ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb insistoj\u00eb te sinqeriteti i vajz\u00ebs. Sa p\u00ebr dilemen \u201cje e virgj\u00ebr apo jo?\u201d, tani \u00ebsht\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsuar me k\u00ebt\u00eb tjetr\u00ebn: \u201cb\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00eb apo jo?\u201d… Eugena <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– B\u00ebj si t\u00eb thot\u00eb zemra. Mos pyet 100 vet\u00eb se p\u00ebrfundimi del si t\u00eb dish vet\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm zemra komandon. Jonida <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebtim. Sa e gjat\u00eb apo e shkurt\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb, k\u00ebt\u00eb nuk e dim\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rrug\u00ebtim t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, zemra \u00ebsht\u00eb motorri, mendja, timoni. Drejtoju k\u00ebtyre t\u00eb dyjave se do ta gjesh vet\u00eb zgjidhjen. \u00c7do person tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb i tep\u00ebrt n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim. Pranvera <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se do t\u00eb jesh i lumtur p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, \u201crebelohu\u201d, n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se do t\u00eb jesh i lumtur p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn, \u201cfal\u201d. Besa<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se at\u00eb vajze e dashuron v\u00ebrtet, nuk ke pse merr mendimin e askujt, po me aq sa kuptoj, ti nuk e dashuron at\u00eb vajz\u00eb aq sa duhet. Prandaj, diskutojini hapur problemet me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe b\u00ebj \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb thot\u00eb zemra, por kujdes, mos gabo se do d\u00ebmtosh veten dhe vajz\u00ebn. Ju uroj gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat! Bardha <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po t\u00eb thoshte q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, do t\u00eb isha shum\u00eb dakord. \u00c7do vajz\u00eb mund t\u00eb besoj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb dashuri, mund t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjehet apo t\u00eb g\u00ebnjehet prej saj e kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb dashuroj\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri e nuk mund t\u00eb dashuroj\u00eb past\u00ebr, me gjith\u00eb zem\u00ebr. Shikoje n\u00eb sy dhe k\u00ebrkoji t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. Jam i sigurt\u00eb se do ta kuptosh n\u00eb ia vlen apo jo. P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket asaj pun\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunimit, k\u00ebto vajzat e sotme e kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb mod\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shprehje, thon\u00eb: \u201cm\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuan\u201d, ose \u201cu rr\u00ebzova dhe aty ishte nj\u00eb dru n\u00eb tok\u00eb\u201d… Altini <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Faleminderit p\u00ebr komentet, ama mendova se do t\u00eb kishte\nshum\u00eb meshkuj q\u00eb do t\u00eb komentonin n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb. Si \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur q\u00eb jo? Mos\nndoshta jav\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktojm\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb mbi guximin e meshkujve? \ud83d\ude42 Intervista.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po ti, sa ishe jasht\u00eb shtetit nuk e kontrolloje fare se \u00e7a b\u00ebnte sepse mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb tradhtuar gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb ti ke qen\u00eb andej e ca vajza kan\u00eb shum\u00eb guxim. Edhe nj\u00eb kuriozitet, sa vje\u00e7e \u00ebsht\u00eb e fejuara? Simpatikja <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb na e ka sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb lexues… ai\nk\u00ebrkonte nj\u00eb mendim nga ne dhe ne po jua transmetojm\u00eb juve, pasi duke qen\u00eb miq\nmund t\u00eb bisedojm\u00eb edhe si miq, apo jo? Ndoshta jav\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr, lexuesi mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjet\npyetjes suaj. Dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, t\u00eb na thot\u00eb sa vje\u00e7e \u00ebsht\u00eb e fejuara e tij… Intervista. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb lejoni t\u00eb jap opinionin tim, miq t\u00eb dashur. Un\u00eb mendoj q\u00eb ajo \u00e7ka ka ndodhur, ka ndodhur tashm\u00eb, mjafton q\u00eb partnerja fem\u00ebr t\u2019i q\u00ebndroj\u00eb besnike tani e tutje dhe kaq! N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se partneri mashkull beson n\u00eb suksesin e jet\u00ebs, v\u00ebrtet ka p\u00ebr ta korrur at\u00eb, pasi duhet ta l\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb shkuaren, ta g\u00ebzojm\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen dhe t\u00eb pretendojm\u00eb meritsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen. Uroj, sa m\u00eb pak divorce! Bejgu <\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>P\u00ebrshendetje te gjith\u00ebve! Urime per pyetjen qe ka shtruar per diskutim miku tuaj. Sipas mendimit tim, duke qene se ka qene jashte shtetit, dyshimi duhet t\u00eb kete ekzistuar kurdohere nga ana e djalit, por mendoj gjithashtu se mundet te jete edhe e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb e kane kapur me zor, sepse ne Shqiperi ka shume maniak\u00eb seksual\u00eb; sidomos mosha e trete te keput per keto gjera. Gjithashtu, persa i perket veprimit qe ti te besh, une te them kaq gje: N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se e do dhe shikon pergjigje te njejte nga ana e saj, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, me te njejten monedhe, s\u2019ke perse te ndahesh sepse ne fund te fundit, mos u nis per te vleresuar nje femer nga nje cipe asnjehere sepse ajo mund te kete edhe vlera te tjera shume te mira, te cilat duhet t\u2019ia v\u00ebsh ne dukje, kurse n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk e do, mund ta gjesh edhe si pretekst kete situate dhe te ndahesh prej saj. T\u00eb uroj fat dhe zgjedhje te mbare! Liria<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Doja nj\u00eb mendim nga ju, qoft\u00eb edhe nga stafi. Jam fejuar. N\u00eb fillim ajo m\u00eb thoshte \u201cjam e paprekur\u201d derisa arrit\u00ebm n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pas 4 muajsh, sepse isha jasht\u00eb shtetit. Nuk m\u00eb linte n\u00eb fillim e pas pak m\u00eb tha q\u00eb e kishin kap me zor. U \u00e7akordova nga fjal\u00ebt e saj dhe, kur […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20625,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-21223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21223","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21223"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21223\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20625"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21223"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21223"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21223"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}