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– Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 19 vje\u00e7e.\nProblemi im \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk arrij t\u2019i besoj asnj\u00eb djali. N\u00eb fakt, n\u00eb dy raste kam b\u00ebr\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019u kam\nbesuar se kan\u00eb qen\u00eb djem pa skrupuj. Nj\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb se djemt\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb p\u00eblqej,\njan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb donzhuan\u00eb. A do t\u00eb arrij un\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqej nj\u00eb djal\u00eb normal (jo donzhuan)\ndhe t\u00eb krijoj 1idhje t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme, pa dyshuar tek ai? Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Me\nrespekt Ada.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Redaksia<\/em><\/strong>: <\/em><\/strong>– <\/strong>E dashur Ada! Nuk i dim\u00eb eksperiencat e tua n\u00eb jet\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar n\u00ebse mosbesimi yt \u00ebsht\u00eb pasoj\u00eb e ndonj\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjimi personal, apo thjesht, pasoj\u00eb e asaj \u00e7far\u00eb sheh p\u00ebrreth, e formimit dhe e karakterit t\u00ebnd. Megjithat\u00eb, un\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebshilloj t\u00eb mos shqet\u00ebsohesh shum\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb mosbesim q\u00eb ti e shfaq, si\u00e7 thua, ndaj \u201c\u00e7do djali\u201d. Mosbesimi \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb normale n\u00eb bot\u00eb; \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201carma\u201d jon\u00eb e vet\u00ebmbrojtjes p\u00ebrpara rreziqeve q\u00eb mund t\u00eb na paraqiten n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Sigurisht, njeriu nuk e di asnj\u00ebher\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb e pret m\u00eb tej, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mosbesimi, nuk shfaqet vet\u00ebm n\u00eb rastet kur v\u00ebrtet nuk duhet t\u2019i besojm\u00eb atij q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb, por n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha situatat… Me sa shoh, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebson. Un\u00eb jam e bindur se ti \u201cnuk i beson asnj\u00eb mashkulli\u201d sepse n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, nuk ke takuar at\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb \u201cta humbas\u00ebsh mendjen\u201d n\u00eb at\u00eb far\u00eb feje, sa do t\u2019i besosh plot\u00ebsisht… Nj\u00eb mikes sime, shum\u00eb dyshuese nga natyra, i takoi t\u00eb b\u00ebnte nj\u00eb pun\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn njihte gjithfar\u00ebsoj meshkujsh dhe, duke qen\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse, thuajse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb i kishin propozuar t\u00eb lidheshin; pa p\u00ebrjashtim n\u00ebse ishin t\u00eb martuar, t\u00eb fejuar apo beqar\u00eb. Kjo e b\u00ebri miken time t\u00eb kultivonte brenda vetes nj\u00eb lloj mosbesimi t\u00eb thell\u00eb ndaj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb meshkujve dhe t\u00eb \u201cmerrte vendimin\u201d p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos u martuar kurr\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt, ndodhi q\u00eb u martua e para n\u00eb grupin ton\u00eb shoq\u00ebror, sepse njohu nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb e deshi aq shum\u00eb sa nisi t\u2019i besonte verb\u00ebrisht; pik\u00ebrisht ajo, q\u00eb deri dje thoshte se s\u2019kishte mashkull t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb. Jam e sigurt\u00eb se e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb edhe me ty, megjithat\u00eb, ashtu si mikes time, do t\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebshilloj q\u00eb, nga mosbesimi i plot\u00eb, t\u00eb mos shkosh te besimi i verb\u00ebr sepse q\u00eb t\u00eb dyja jan\u00eb ekstreme dhe t\u00eb gjitha ekstremet kan\u00eb rreziqet e veta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket pyetjes tjet\u00ebr, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb arrish t\u00eb\np\u00eblqesh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkull q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb donzhuan, po t\u00eb them se,\nsigurisht, do t\u00eb mundesh. Vet\u00ebm ki kujdes! Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb namin e\ndonzhuan\u00ebve, q\u00eb duket se u shkojn\u00eb prapa t\u00eb gjitha femrave, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb\nq\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm se ata q\u00eb hiqen t\u00eb ndersh\u00ebm dhe nuk i shohin femrat e tjera rrug\u00ebs kur\njan\u00eb me ty. Pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb radh\u00ebt e k\u00ebtyre t\u00eb fundit, t\u00eb jesh e sigurt\u00eb, mund t\u00eb\ntakosh shum\u00eb mashtrues. T\u00eb uroj fat n\u00eb jet\u00eb Ada dhe, na shkruaj p\u00ebr \u00e7do problem\nq\u00eb ke. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 19 vje\u00e7e. Problemi im \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk arrij t\u2019i besoj asnj\u00eb djali. N\u00eb fakt, n\u00eb dy raste kam b\u00ebr\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019u kam besuar se kan\u00eb qen\u00eb djem pa skrupuj. Nj\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb se djemt\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb p\u00eblqej, jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb donzhuan\u00eb. A do t\u00eb arrij un\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqej nj\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21221,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21220","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21220","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21220"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21220\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21221"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21220"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21220"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21220"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}