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Mbase nuk ke shum\u00eb\nbesim tek ai (ose ai te ti), p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb lidhje seksuale pa komplekse dhe\npa tabu, por ndiq k\u00ebshillat q\u00eb po t\u00eb japim, p\u00ebr ta l\u00ebn\u00eb ndrojtjen m\u00ebnjan\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr\nta kthyer dhom\u00ebn e gjumit n\u00eb nj\u00eb ambient t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsish…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ti druhesh se…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kush duhet t\u00eb filloj\u00eb i pari?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Je m\u00ebsuar me iden\u00eb se\n\u00ebsht\u00eb burri ai q\u00eb e hedh hapin e par\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb merr guximin dhe vendos t\u00eb jesh\nti e para q\u00eb hidhesh n\u00eb aksion, megjithat\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb rrish pa i b\u00ebr\u00eb vetes\npyetjen se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodhte sikur ai t\u00eb mos ishte dakord dhe t\u00eb jusifikohej\nduke th\u00ebn\u00eb se, p\u00ebr shembull, i dhemb kurrizi. Mos u lodh duke imagjinuar gj\u00ebra\nt\u00eb paqena. Burrat, nga tradita (dhe nga devotshm\u00ebria) jan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb marrin n\u00eb\ndor\u00eb kontrollin e situat\u00ebs dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb logjike q\u00eb nj\u00eb ndryshim roli do t\u2019i\nhutonte, por edhe do t\u2019i intrigonte e stimulonte. K\u00ebshtu pra, pse t\u00eb mos\nndryshohen rregullat e loj\u00ebs? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i par\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme\nt\u00eb b\u00ebsh loj\u00ebra shpejt\u00ebsie q\u00eb t\u00eb zgjosh imagjinat\u00ebn e tij. N\u00eb fakt, burrave u\nmjafton fare pak p\u00ebr t\u00eb menduar p\u00ebr seksin. Mund t\u00eb veprosh k\u00ebshtu: Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb\nb\u00ebn dushin e m\u00ebngjesit, l\u00ebre pak hapur der\u00ebn e banjos. Zhurma e ujit dhe imazhi\ni trupit t\u00ebnd t\u00eb lagur do t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb atij t\u2019i kalojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr mend shum\u00eb\nmendime… Nj\u00eb shembull tjet\u00ebr: Kur e di q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb rrug\u00ebs, d\u00ebrgoji nj\u00eb sms t\u00eb\ntipit: \u201cKam d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb kem k\u00ebtu… Ku je tani?\u201d. Besona, p\u00ebr dy sekonda do\nta kuptoj\u00eb mesazhin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i dyt\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Prite n\u00eb shtrat e\nzhveshur dhe e mbuluar vet\u00ebm me \u00e7ar\u00e7af. Mund t\u00eb ndez\u00ebsh qirinj dhe t\u00eb v\u00ebsh nj\u00eb\nmuzik\u00eb romantike n\u00eb dhom\u00eb ose b\u00ebni dashuri m\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb, aty ku jeni: Ai t\u00eb ulet duke\ne mb\u00ebshtetur kurrizin pas murit dhe ti ulu sip\u00ebr tij, me k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e mb\u00ebshtetura n\u00eb\ntok\u00eb dhe duke v\u00ebn\u00eb duart te muri ku \u00ebsht\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetur ai. Kur ai t\u00eb penetroj\u00eb, l\u00ebviz\nlart e posht\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, do t\u00eb stimulosh zonat e tua m\u00eb intime dhe do t\u00eb provosh\nndjesi t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ti druhesh se…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A duhet t\u2019ia l\u00ebsh n\u00eb dor\u00eb kontrollin e situat\u00ebs?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb\nmos u kushtojn\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi nevojave t\u00eb tyre, ndaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb e\nv\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e mashkullit mbi t\u00eb tyren. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00ebse ai e merr n\u00eb dor\u00eb\nkontrollin e situat\u00ebs, ti mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitosh. Si? Duke mos e vrar\u00eb m\u00eb mendjen p\u00ebr\nshijet e tij, ti do t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohesh n\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i par\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ke vendosur t\u2019ia l\u00ebsh\natij n\u00eb dor\u00eb komand\u00ebn, por n\u00eb fillim ai duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb p\u00eblqen v\u00ebrtet.\nPartneri yt do t\u00eb t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj\u00eb n\u00ebse ti do t\u00eb dish t\u2019i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel\u00ebsh egon dhe\nnuk do t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh leksione sikur t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i paditur. Luaj me loj\u00ebn q\u00eb\nfunksionon m\u00eb mir\u00eb: Lejoje q\u00eb ai ta eksploroj\u00eb lirisht trupin t\u00ebnd, por duke i\nth\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cnxeht\u00eb\u201d, kur ai ndodhet n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e duhur dhe \u201cftoht\u00eb\u201d, kur largohet\nprej saj. Ose tregohu e qart\u00eb dhe thuaja se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen: Merri dor\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebrshko\nme gishtat e tij l\u00ebkur\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, ashtu si do t\u00eb doje q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelte. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb,\nthuaji sa shum\u00eb e do. Foli me z\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt dhe mos n\u00ebnvler\u00ebso efektin e fjal\u00ebs:\nPo! Sapo ai t\u00eb kap\u00eb mesazhin, shtrihu dhe l\u00ebre veten n\u00eb duart e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i dyt\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Tani q\u00eb partneri yt\ne ka t\u00eb qart\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen, l\u00ebrja atij n\u00eb dor\u00eb kontrollin total. Mbyll syt\u00eb.\nKur nuk sheh \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh, eksitimi nuk bie kurr\u00eb dhe do t\u2019i ndjesh m\u00eb shum\u00eb\np\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet e tij. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb mpreh\u00ebsh shqisat e tjera, sidomos t\u00eb\nprekurin dhe t\u00eb shijuarin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ti druhesh se…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur pozicioni i misionerit…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb nga cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e pozicionit\nm\u00eb tradicional n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe shtimi i intimitetit\n(fytyrat tuaja jan\u00eb shum\u00eb pran\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb mundur puthjet dhe kontaktin pamor,\np\u00ebr t\u00eb mos folur p\u00ebr presionin e trupit mbi nj\u00ebri-tjetrin). Por, n\u00ebse i dashuri\nyt ndihet i k\u00ebnaqur me k\u00ebt\u00eb pozicion, kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb edhe ti t\u00eb\nmjaftohesh me k\u00ebt\u00eb. Pse t\u00eb mos provosh edhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera pikante?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i par\u00eb (dhe i dyt\u00eb)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Provo di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re,\nsi p\u00ebr shembull, afroji gjunj\u00ebt te trupi yt q\u00eb t\u00eb favorizohet kontakti me pik\u00ebn\nG ose p\u00ebrthyeji k\u00ebmb\u00ebt dhe vendosi n\u00ebn gjoksin e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ti druhesh se…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A do t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqej\u00eb ai lakuriq?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ke frik\u00eb t\u00eb\nzhvishesh para tij? Edhe kjo e ka shpjegimin e vet. S\u00eb pari, ti nuk do q\u00eb t\u00eb\nekspozosh ato defektet q\u00eb mendon se i ke, sepse ai do t\u2019i vinte re dhe ti do t\u00eb\nndiheshe n\u00eb siklet. S\u00eb dyti, duke menduar p\u00ebr tulet e tua t\u00eb tep\u00ebrta, do t\u00eb\nishe e paaft\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheshe tek ajo q\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi: K\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia. Por, e v\u00ebrteta\n\u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesh. Gjat\u00eb seksit, burrat i harrojn\u00eb defektet e\npartneres s\u00eb tyre. Gjat\u00eb eksitimit, atyre u shtohet dopamina q\u00eb i shtyn t\u2019i\nshohin defektet si di\u00e7ka pozitive. Sa bujare kjo natyra!…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i par\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Shtrihu anash\npartnerit t\u00ebnd me kurriz dhe b\u00ebni dashuri n\u00eb pozicionin anash. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ti\nnuk do t\u00eb jesh aq e ekspozuar. Ai vet\u00ebm do t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u2019i shoh\u00eb\ngjinjt\u00eb dhe trupin t\u00ebnd. K\u00ebshtu, mund t\u00eb relaksohesh dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohesh te k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia\ndhe jo te defektet e tua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i dyt\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00ebse e ke provuar k\u00ebt\u00eb\npozicion dhe nuk t\u00eb ka p\u00eblqyer, provo pozicionin gruaja sip\u00ebr, por ti duke u t\u00ebrhequr\npas, me duart e mb\u00ebshtetura te pulpat e tij. K\u00ebshtu, barku do t\u00eb duket m\u00eb i\nshesht\u00eb dhe gjoksi, m\u00eb i ngritur. N\u00ebse ende nuk ndjehesh mir\u00eb, vish sutjenat m\u00eb\nseksi q\u00eb ke dhe b\u00ebj dashuri me to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ti druhesh se…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A do t\u2019i p\u00eblqej\u00eb atij seksi oral?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00ebse partneri yt t\u00eb\nb\u00ebn kunilingus, ti fillon e mendon n\u00ebse i p\u00eblqen era dhe pamja e vagin\u00ebs t\u00ebnde.\n\u00cbsht\u00eb logjike q\u00eb pastaj nuk ndjehesh m\u00eb e eksituar. Qet\u00ebsohu, sepse nj\u00eb studim\ni realizuar me 2000 gra, tregoi se sa m\u00eb rehat t\u00eb ndjeheshin ato gjat\u00eb seksit\noral, aq m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqura ishin me intimitetin e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i par\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ka shum\u00eb truke q\u00eb t\u00eb\nndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb relaksohesh. S\u00eb pari, pi shum\u00eb uj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb eliminosh helmet q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb\nq\u00eb organi yt t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb er\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. Sigurisht, duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebsh banj\u00eb para se t\u00eb b\u00ebsh\nseks. Jo vet\u00ebm do t\u00eb ndjehesh e past\u00ebr, por uji i nxhet\u00eb do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb zon\u00ebn\nt\u00ebnde intime duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshme ndaj p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhlejve t\u00eb partnerit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapi i dyt\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Tani q\u00eb ndjehesh m\u00eb\ne sigurt\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete, pse t\u00eb mos shkosh pak m\u00eb tej? B\u00ebj nj\u00eb depilim n\u00eb zon\u00ebn e\nbikinit, sepse qimet sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb si penges\u00eb. Gjithashtu, b\u00ebhu m\u00eb ekspresive n\u00eb\nshtrat. Studimet e ndryshme kan\u00eb treguar se grat\u00eb q\u00eb flasin hapur me partnerin\ne tyre dhe i tregojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb i eksiton, e arrijn\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh orgazm\u00ebn sesa ato\nq\u00eb nuk flasin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Edhe burrat druhen se…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Edhe burrat kalojn\u00eb kriza besimi, sidomos kur ndjehen t\u00eb\nstresuar nga nj\u00ebra prej arsyeve t\u00eb m\u00ebposhtme…<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Madh\u00ebsia<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ndryshe nga \u00e7\u2019mendohet,\nnuk ke pse e lavd\u00ebron organin e tij q\u00eb partneri yt t\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb. E vetmja gj\u00eb\nq\u00eb duan t\u00eb din\u00eb burrat, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebse arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqin… apo jo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Performanca<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e\narrin orgazm\u00ebn dhe ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fundi i bot\u00ebs, por t\u00eb pretendosh q\u00eb je k\u00ebnaqur,\nnd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs ke sjell\u00eb nd\u00ebrmend list\u00ebn e pazareve q\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb\ndit\u00eb, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb g\u00ebnjen partnerin, por i b\u00ebn d\u00ebm edhe vetes, sepse nuk i lejon\natij t\u00eb dij\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen v\u00ebrtet. K\u00ebshtu, n\u00ebse kjo t\u00eb ndodh, thuaja me\ndiplomaci: \u201cPo sikur t\u00eb ndalojm\u00eb nja dy minuta dhe t\u00eb rifillojm\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ka probleme me ereksionin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00ebse menj\u00ebher\u00eb pasi\nv\u00eb prezervativin ereksioni i tij zhduket, mbase e ka fajin nd\u00ebrprerja. Her\u00ebn\ntjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra t\u00eb mos ndodhin m\u00eb, hapeni prezervativin dhe mbajeni af\u00ebr,\nbashk\u00eb me lubrifikantin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Disa k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb josh\u00ebse<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mos i kurse jast\u00ebk\u00ebt!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebrdori mbi \u00e7do sip\u00ebrfaqe\nq\u00eb ty t\u00eb duket e p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks dhe vendosi n\u00ebn trup, p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nkrijuar k\u00ebnde t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mbaje temperatur\u00ebn e dhom\u00ebs rreth 28 grad\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft e\nngroht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndenjur rehat e zhveshur dhe jo shum\u00eb e nxeht\u00eb, sa p\u00ebr t\u2019u\ndjersitur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vendos rregullues t\u00eb intensitetit t\u00eb drit\u00ebs<\/strong> n\u00eb llampa<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb\nkrijosh nj\u00eb ambient ndryshe n\u00eb disa sekonda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sigurohu q\u00eb n\u00eb dhom\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb perde t\u00eb trasha<\/strong> ose grila<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, do t\u00eb\nndihesh rehat me intimitetin t\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mbaj m\u00ebnjan\u00eb cd-n\u00eb t\u00ebnde t\u00eb preferuar<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ki parasysh ta v\u00ebsh\ndiku ku mund ta gjesh kollaj n\u00eb rastet kur t\u00eb nevojitet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Mbase nuk ke shum\u00eb besim tek ai (ose ai te ti), p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb lidhje seksuale pa komplekse dhe pa tabu, por ndiq k\u00ebshillat q\u00eb po t\u00eb japim, p\u00ebr ta l\u00ebn\u00eb ndrojtjen m\u00ebnjan\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr ta kthyer dhom\u00ebn e gjumit n\u00eb nj\u00eb ambient t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsish… Ti druhesh se… Kush duhet t\u00eb filloj\u00eb i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":16396,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21218","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21218","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21218"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21218\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16396"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21218"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21218"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21218"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}