{"id":21203,"date":"2019-02-23T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-02-23T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21203"},"modified":"2019-02-23T18:13:32","modified_gmt":"2019-02-23T17:13:32","slug":"pyetje-seksologut-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/02\/pyetje-seksologut-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-seksologut"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; Kam nj\u00eb\nproblem me vajz\u00ebn time, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm 16 vje\u00e7e. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e zhvilluar\ndhe \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb zonjush\u00eb e bukur. E shoh q\u00eb flet vazhdimisht n\u00eb\ntelefon me nj\u00eb person. Ajo m\u00eb thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shoqja e saj, por un\u00eb e kam\nkuptuar q\u00eb ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fem\u00ebr, por i dashuri i saj. Un\u00eb si natyr\u00eb kam\nmentalitet t\u00eb hapur, sado q\u00eb kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb\ntolerosh. Megjithat\u00eb, kam frik\u00eb se ajo, me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb nj\u00eb\njet\u00eb intime dhe e kam pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb pakten t\u2019i shpjegoj q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdori\nkontraceptiv\u00eb. A \u00ebsht\u00eb e k\u00ebshillueshme sepse dhe mund t\u00eb dukem m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se\u00e7\nduhet nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb moderne?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Pyetja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb interesante dhe do ishte mir\u00eb q\u00eb\nkjo t\u00eb trajtohej si nj\u00eb let\u00ebr e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb edhe nga psikologu, por meqen\u00ebse m\u00eb\njeni drejtuar mua, do t\u2019ju jap mendimin tim. Mendoj se ju jeni nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr n\u00ebnat\n\u201cmodel\u201d p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjerat sepse jo t\u00eb gjitha kan\u00eb nj\u00eb mentalitet si ju. Dikush mund\nt\u2019ju quaj\u00eb nxit\u00ebse p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn p\u00ebr fillimin e jet\u00ebs seksuale, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb\nthelb, ju d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb mbroni sh\u00ebndetin e vajz\u00ebs dhe t\u2019i jepni njohurit\u00eb e\nduhura n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. N\u00ebse ju heshtni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, ajo mund t\u00eb rrezikoj\u00eb t\u00eb\nfilloj\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb seksuale t\u00eb nxituar dhe jo n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e duhur. Tashm\u00eb, nuk\nmungojn\u00eb edhe informacionet n\u00eb internet apo n\u00eb media, por a \u00ebsht\u00eb vajza juaj e\nv\u00ebmendshme dhe kurioze t\u2019i m\u00ebsoj\u00eb k\u00ebto? N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, ju takon juve si n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb\nt\u2019i shpjegoni paraprakisht t\u00eb gjitha masat mbrojt\u00ebse n\u00eb lidhje me intimitetin.\nMund ta filloni diskutimin me vajz\u00ebn tuaj, duke i treguar pasojat e nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje\nt\u00eb pambrojtur, pasi ndodh shpesh q\u00eb adoleshent\u00ebt nuk arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb konceptojn\u00eb se\nnj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje seksualisht e transmetueshme ose nj\u00eb shtatzani, jan\u00eb pasoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb\nakti seksual. Prandaj, mos ngurroni t\u2019i flisni me detaje p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb rreth marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve\nseksuale dhe kontraceptiv\u00ebve. Keni p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb se n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme ose edhe n\u00eb\nt\u00eb tashmen, vajza do t\u2019ju b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e af\u00ebrt dhe do t\u2019ju pyes\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do veprim t\u00eb\nsaj. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, mbroni at\u00eb dhe jeni m\u00eb e qet\u00eb vet\u00eb sepse jeni n\u00eb dijeni t\u00eb\n\u00e7do iniciative t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; <strong>Si ta b\u00ebj p\u00ebr vete\nseksualisht nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr sepse jam shum\u00eb i shqet\u00ebsuar n\u00eb lidhje me nj\u00ebr\u00ebn q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqen?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; <\/strong>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb shum\u00eb e gjer\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u trajtuar, por un\u00eb do\nt\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjem shkurt dhe sakt\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoni strategjin\u00eb kryesore\np\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr seksualisht. B\u00ebhuni praktik dhe sportiv, q\u00eb do t\u00eb\nthot\u00eb t\u00eb mos e tregoni veten shum\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar n\u00eb syt\u00eb e saj. Silluni n\u00eb at\u00eb\nm\u00ebnyr\u00eb sikur e keni fituar terrenin tuaj. Mos u sillni sikur do q\u00eb t\u00eb martoheni\nme t\u00eb direkt. Jini pak indiferent dhe mos i telefononi gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn. Mjafton t\u2019i\ntelefononi edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb dhe m\u00eb pas t\u00eb ruani pak distanc\u00eb. Kjo gj\u00eb do ta josh\u00eb\npartneren tuaj dhe ajo do t\u00eb vrapoj\u00eb pas jush.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; Mua m\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb b\u00ebj\nseks anal, por t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs, jo. Si t\u00eb veproj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb se normale q\u00eb ky lloj seksi t\u00eb mos i p\u00eblqej\u00eb t\u00eb\ndashur\u00ebs suaj. Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e mir\u00eb e femrave nuk e p\u00eblqejn\u00eb seksin anal, sepse p\u00ebrve\u00e7se\nnuk ndjejn\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, ato ndjejn\u00eb dhimbje n\u00eb anus. Seksi anal duhet b\u00ebr\u00eb\nn\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje midis \u00e7iftit, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb intimitet mbi intimitetin. P\u00ebr disa\npersona \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00eblqyeshme, por p\u00ebr disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb krijon neveri dhe ndoshta,\nfrenim t\u00eb aktivitetit seksual. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, \u00e7ifti duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb\njasht\u00ebzakonisht rigoroz n\u00eb higjien\u00ebn e tij. N\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb nuk duhet q\u00eb, mbas\nnj\u00eb seksi anal, t\u00eb b\u00ebni seks vaginal. Ky do t\u00eb ishte v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb gabim shum\u00eb i\nmadh. Infeksionet do t\u00eb ishin me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb problematike p\u00ebr femrat dhe\nndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr t\u2019u mjekuar. N\u00ebse e doni me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn\ntuaj, duhet t\u00eb respektoni rregullat e saj, ndryshe, rrezikoni ta humbisni. <strong><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Kam nj\u00eb problem me vajz\u00ebn time, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm 16 vje\u00e7e. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e zhvilluar dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb zonjush\u00eb e bukur. E shoh q\u00eb flet vazhdimisht n\u00eb telefon me nj\u00eb person. Ajo m\u00eb thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shoqja e saj, por un\u00eb e kam kuptuar q\u00eb ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fem\u00ebr, por i [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21204,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[2281],"class_list":["post-21203","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seksologu","tag-pyetje-seksologut"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21203","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21203"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21203\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21204"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21203"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21203"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21203"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}