{"id":21186,"date":"2019-02-22T23:15:54","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T22:15:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21186"},"modified":"2019-02-22T23:16:04","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T22:16:04","slug":"e-tradhetova-tim-shoq-me-fqinjin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/02\/e-tradhetova-tim-shoq-me-fqinjin\/","title":{"rendered":"E tradh\u00ebtova tim shoq me fqinjin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7are nga nj\u00eb qytet bregdetar. Jam\ne martuar prej 10 vjet\u00ebsh dhe kam dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm. Burrin e kam marr\u00eb\nme mbles\u00ebri. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se ndieja ndonj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebshortin tim,\nsepse dihet q\u00eb martesat me mbles\u00ebri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se kan\u00eb ndonj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb\nmes. Ajo q\u00eb dua t\u00eb theksoj \u00ebsht\u00eb se bashk\u00ebshorti im nuk ma ka prishur qejfin\nkurr\u00eb, p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb dhe nuk mund t\u2019i hedh atij asnj\u00eb faj nga ato q\u00eb ndodh\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00ebn\ntime pasi erdh\u00ebm n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Kemi tre vjet q\u00eb jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe kam kuptuar\nq\u00eb jetesa k\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e shtrenjt\u00eb, edhe pse mund t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.\nIm shoq punon n\u00eb nj\u00eb firm\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimi si inxhinier dhe nuk kam vuajtur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb\nnga ai, nuk na ka munguar asgj\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Un\u00eb vet\u00eb, p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa jemi\ntransferuar n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, nuk kam punuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet t\u2019ia di p\u00ebr\nnder vet\u00ebm bashk\u00ebshortit tim. Kur e mendoj ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb se si ia kam punuar atij\nprapa krah\u00ebve, m\u00eb vjen t\u00eb vras veten. Jam v\u00ebrtet shum\u00eb, shum\u00eb e penduar p\u00ebr at\u00eb\n\u00e7far\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb, por kur t\u2019i merr Zoti mendt\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, t\u2019i merr dhe nuk ke se\n\u00e7far\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebsh. Ne mor\u00ebm sht\u00ebpi me qira diku n\u00eb periferi t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs, n\u00eb nj\u00eb\nlagje shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb bregdet nuk e shit\u00ebm sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, sepse nuk e\nvendos\u00ebm q\u00eb do rrinim p\u00ebrfundimisht n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, erdh\u00ebm vet\u00ebm se im shoq donte t\u00eb\nm\u00eb plot\u00ebsonte gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb un\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroja, sepse ai gjithmon\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb kok\u00ebn pas\nmeje. Si\u00e7 po thoja, lagjja ku jetuam p\u00ebr tre vjet ishte nj\u00eb lagje shum\u00eb e\nbukur, e qet\u00eb dhe e k\u00ebndshme. Djemt\u00eb i sistemuam mir\u00eb me shkoll\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr vete\nun\u00eb b\u00ebja vet\u00ebm pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb e dilja pasditeve n\u00eb lagje p\u00ebr t\u00eb takuar ndonj\u00eb\nkomshije dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb ndonj\u00eb kafe. Ajo me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn zura m\u00eb shpejt muhabet ishte\nnj\u00eb komshije shum\u00eb e mir\u00eb, e cila jetonte aty me bashk\u00ebsho\u00ebrtin e saj, me\ndjalin dhe me vjehrr\u00ebn. Ishte nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb shum\u00eb e k\u00ebndshme e cila nuk punonte, si\nun\u00eb dhe kishim m\u00eb shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb bisedonim gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs. Burri i saj kishte\nnj\u00eb biznes privat, nj\u00eb linj\u00eb butik\u00ebsh dhe si\u00e7 thoshte ajo, kishte shum\u00eb fitime.\nAi ishte shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb, edhe pse ishte 40 vje\u00e7, kishte personalitet dhe fjala e\ntij ishte ligj p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebshorten. Ajo ishte 10 vjet m\u00eb e vog\u00ebl se ai. Q\u00ebkur e\npash\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu shum\u00eb dhe m\u00eb erdh\u00ebn n\u00eb mendje disa ide dhe fantazi\nt\u00eb cilat nuk i kisha pasur kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr asnjeri. Nuk e kuptoj se \u00e7far\u00eb po\nndodhte, flija dhe e shihja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, b\u00ebja pun\u00ebt dhe mendjen e kisha tek ai.\nKur kujtoja q\u00eb ai kishte nj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm n\u00eb krah dhe q\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr\nai nuk e dinte fare se un\u00eb e p\u00eblqeja, m\u00eb ikte mendja. Im shoq vinte shum\u00eb i\nlodhur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb isha si e p\u00ebrhumbur gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs duke menduar p\u00ebr\nkomshiun dhe m\u00eb e keqja ishte se ai komshi, nuk m\u00eb kishte dh\u00ebn\u00eb as shenj\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb\nvog\u00ebl q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente. M\u00eb kapi edhe mua fiksimi i keq; o do t\u2019i bija n\u00eb sy\nkomshiut, o s\u2019kishte derman. Nuk kishte moment q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ishte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe un\u00eb\nt\u00eb mos dilja jasht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja ndonj\u00eb pun\u00eb, thjesht, pretekst p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu,\ndit\u00eb pas dite dhe jav\u00eb pas jave, ai sikur m\u2019i hidhte syt\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, derisa nj\u00eb\ndit\u00eb rast\u00ebsisht e takova n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, kur un\u00eb kisha dal\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja pazarin nd\u00ebrsa ai\npo vinte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi sepse sipas shpejgimit q\u00eb m\u00eb dha pasi m\u00eb foli, kishte\nharruar disa dokumente t\u00eb dyqaneve q\u00eb i duheshin patjet\u00ebr. Pasi u p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u00ebm,\nm\u00eb ftoi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kafe duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb kishte respekt p\u00ebr mua, i dukesha njeri\nfamiljar dhe mund t\u00eb bisedonim si dy t\u00eb rritur p\u00ebr probleme dhe halle q\u00eb shqet\u00ebsonin\nt\u00eb dyja familjet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nuk mund ta besoja q\u00eb ai m\u00eb ftoi p\u00ebr kafe dhe nuk prita ta thoshte p\u00ebr her\u00eb\nt\u00eb dyt\u00eb. Sapo u fut\u00ebm n\u00eb makin\u00eb, ai filloi t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebnte komplimente dhe un\u00eb po\nndihesha shum\u00eb mir\u00eb vet\u00ebm nga fjal\u00ebt e tij. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment ai zgjati dor\u00ebn dhe m\u00eb\np\u00ebrk\u00ebdheli flok\u00ebt. Nuk mund ta besoni \u00e7far\u00eb ndjesie ma p\u00ebrshkoi trupin&#8230; Pak\nminuta m\u00eb von\u00eb, mes nesh shp\u00ebrtheu ai pasioni i \u00e7mendur q\u00eb kishte koh\u00eb q\u00eb l\u00ebvrinte\nbrenda shpritit tim, por nuk m\u2019u desh shum\u00eb q\u00eb ta v\u00ebrtetoja se edhe ai ushqente\nt\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin pasion. B\u00ebm\u00eb dashuri si t\u00eb \u00e7mendur n\u00eb makin\u00eb, n\u00eb mes t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, n\u00eb nj\u00eb\nskut\u00eb te rruga q\u00eb shkon p\u00ebr n\u00eb Dajt. Pa e kuptuar, ndodhi ajo q\u00eb ndodhi. Ai m\u00eb\nsolli n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe, pasi u p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u00ebm, secili iku n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e tij. Un\u00eb\nndihesha si e mrekulluar dhe e p\u00ebrhumbur n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb sepse ai mashkull m\u00eb\nkishte falur p\u00ebr nj\u00eb or\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb tek im shoq nuk e kisha ndjer\u00eb p\u00ebr 10 vjet\nmartes\u00eb. E keqja do vinte m\u00eb von\u00eb, sepse pas asaj dite ai as nuk m\u00eb foli, as\nnuk m\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndeti dhe as syt\u00eb nuk m\u2019i hodhi kurr\u00eb. P\u00ebrpiqesha ta gjeja n\u00ebp\u00ebr\ndyqanet e veta dhe t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn t\u00eb flisja me t\u00eb, por ishte e pamundur. As n\u00eb\nsht\u00ebpi nuk e shihja m\u00eb, as me t\u00eb shoqen nuk b\u00ebja m\u00eb muhabet sepse kisha frik\u00eb\nse mos i kishte treguar ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb. E doja p\u00ebrs\u00ebri, por nuk e pata m\u00eb kurr\u00eb.\nNuk mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndroja m\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe n\u00eb at\u00eb lagje, duke ditur se ishte aty\ndhe nuk dont\u00eb m\u00eb t\u2019ia dinte p\u00ebr mua. M\u00eb dukej vetja e rrug\u00ebve q\u00eb dikush e\nkishte marr\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb her\u00eb, kishte shfryr\u00eb qejfet e tij dhe kaq. Mezi e\nbinda tim shoq t\u00eb linim sht\u00ebpin\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ktheheshim p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb\nbregdet. Tani jam m\u00eb e qet\u00eb, ndihem pak m\u00eb mir\u00eb, por m\u00eb vjen r\u00ebnd\u00eb q\u00eb e shoh\ntim shoq n\u00eb sy, kur ai nuk e di se \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00ebkati kam b\u00ebr\u00eb un\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb\nun\u00eb atij prapa krah\u00ebve. Jam betuar q\u00eb nuk do ta b\u00ebj m\u00eb kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb,\nedhe sikur t\u00eb vdes. Ju fal\u00ebnderoj q\u00eb lexuat m\u00ebkatin tim dhe n\u00ebse m\u00eb gjykoni,\nb\u00ebjeni sepse e pranoj gabimin e r\u00ebnd\u00eb q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb<strong>. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Zonja 35-vje\u00e7are<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7are nga nj\u00eb qytet bregdetar. Jam e martuar prej 10 vjet\u00ebsh dhe kam dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm. Burrin e kam marr\u00eb me mbles\u00ebri. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se ndieja ndonj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebshortin tim, sepse dihet q\u00eb martesat me mbles\u00ebri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se kan\u00eb ndonj\u00eb dashuri [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21119,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21186"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21186\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21119"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}