{"id":21152,"date":"2019-02-21T19:30:20","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T18:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21152"},"modified":"2019-02-21T18:02:35","modified_gmt":"2019-02-21T17:02:35","slug":"silva-heijneman-dashuria-ime-kozmike-%ef%bb%bf","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/02\/silva-heijneman-dashuria-ime-kozmike-%ef%bb%bf\/","title":{"rendered":"Silva Heijneman: Dashuria ime kozmike..!\ufeff"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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T\u00ebr\u00ebsia e stoicitetit fem\u00ebror, k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljes,\nforc\u00ebs s\u00eb argumentit dhe protagonizmi karakterizojn\u00eb Silvana Baltadori  Heijneman. E njohur p\u00ebr publikun shqiptar p\u00ebr\nopinionet dhe aktivitetin e saj akademik, p\u00ebr ne ajo vendos q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet pjes\u00eb e\nintervist\u00ebs son\u00eb duke na folur p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb re.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fjoralba Zeqiraj:- Ku e gjeti 2019-a\nSilv\u00ebn?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Silva Heijneman<\/strong>:- N\u00eb  Amsterdam, n\u00eb \u201cCaffe de zone\u201d, n\u00eb lagjen\nJordaan ku jetoj me tim shoq dhe pran\u00eb kanaleve n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb zon\u00eb jasht\u00eb me miq\nshqiptar\u00eb, hollandez\u00eb, turist\u00eb me shampanj\u00ebn n\u00eb dor\u00eb duke celebruar mes\nfishekzjarreve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb e jotja n\u00eb Holland\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–  Dita ime \u00ebsht\u00eb variab\u00ebl, varet nga koha e lir\u00eb\ne tim shoqi dhe angazhimet e mia profesionale apo koha e lir\u00eb. Nis me kafen\u00eb me\n\u00e7okollat\u00eb (m\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u2019a shijoj n\u00eb krevat), nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb hyj n\u00eb internet apo\nrrjetet sociale p\u00ebr t\u00eb rejat e fundit, komunikime me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e t\u00eb af\u00ebrm e miq. Nj\u00eb\ngot\u00eb uj\u00eb me xhinxher,limon,kastravec t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur m\u00eb par\u00eb. Kur kam koh\u00eb t\u00eb\nmjaftueshme vishem sport e dal p\u00ebr vrap, n\u00eb nj\u00eb park pas sht\u00ebpis\u00eb p\u00ebr fat,\nquhet \u00cbest Park, aty ka dhe vegla p\u00ebr sport,e m\u00eb pas kthehem p\u00ebr nj\u00eb mengjes t\u00eb\npasur, dush e dal me bi\u00e7iklet\u00eb ose scooter, kryej punet e dite\u00ebs, takime pune\nmarketingu, ato p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, shopping etj. Shpesh me tim shoq m\u00ebngjesin e ham\u00eb\njasht\u00eb, pran\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, peshk krudo \u201c haring\u201d me kastraveca turshi e qep\u00eb,\ntipike pjate hollandeze, mjaft e sh\u00ebndetshme, shoq\u00ebruar me kibbeling ( peshk\nzgare) e midhje zgare. Me bi\u00e7iklet\u00eb larg n\u00ebp\u00ebr Amsterdam ose n\u00eb nj\u00eb park tjet\u00ebr\nlarg, Vondelpark. Nj\u00eb kafe ne bar, etj. Shpesh kur ka shi e er\u00eb, nuk dal,\nmerrem me studimet  e materiale\nshkencore, p\u00ebrgatitjet e skedulave marketing p\u00ebr panaire etj. Lexoj shum\u00eb edhe\nmateriale kulturore e politike n\u00eb Europ\u00eb e bot\u00eb. Jemi qytetar\u00eb t\u00eb koh\u00ebs m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb\nper Europen, gjithnje me shoqeron ndjenja e pergjegjshmerise, por dhe e fajit\nsi qytetare e profesioniste, diku gabuam r\u00ebnd\u00eb me tolerimin e nivelit t\u00eb ul\u00ebt e\npa integritet p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtuar, institucione, vendin. Darka n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, disa\npazare kur nevojitet para se t\u00eb hyjm\u00eb, rreth or\u00ebs 18:00 deri 19:00, n\u00ebse s\u2019kemi\nplane p\u00ebr restorant. Zakonishte fundjava na gjen n\u00eb bare me miq, nje\u00eb dark\u00eb n\u00eb\nrestorant gjithnj\u00eb, ndonj\u00ebhere dhe n\u00eb klub me muzike n\u00eb zon\u00ebn ton\u00eb ose n\u00eb\npiazat kryesore te\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb nat\u00ebs, Rembrandtplein ose Leidseplein, varet. Shpesh\nshkojm\u00eb n\u00eb koncerte live ose kinema. E djela gjithnje larg Amsterdamit, me\nmakin\u00eb. M\u00eb p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb natyra, pyjet ku ecim, ose ne qyteza t\u00eb vogla tipike\nhollandeze t\u00eb bukura, ku pime kafen\u00eb ose ver\u00eb shoq\u00ebruar me pjata tradicionale,\nose dark\u00eb n\u00eb restorant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb mungon nga Tirana?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00a0Nga Tirana m\u00eb mungon vet\u00ebm Tirana e dikurshme, ajo ku gjeja vitet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb, adoleshenc\u00ebs, koh\u00ebn kur isha studente, miqt\u00eb, sht\u00ebpia shum\u00eb, shum\u00eb! Sa shum\u00eb ka ndryshuar, betonuar, sh\u00ebmtuar, shoh trishtim e mjerim n\u00eb fytyrat e njer\u00ebzve, paaft\u00ebsi, arroganc\u00eb, margjinim vlerash e meritokracie! Sa keq! Kjo me trishton! Por prap\u00eb mbetet mall, shum\u00eb mall!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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–  Silva vitet kalojn\u00eb, por mesa duket koha p\u00ebr ty\n ka ndaluar. Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb sekreti i gjith\u00eb\nbukurise\u00eb t\u00ebnde?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-(Qesh),\nnuk mendoj q\u00eb jam e bukur, besoj kinge (simpatike e personalitet rinor\ud83d\ude0d) Sekreti? Thjesht\u00ebsia, ruajtja\nme fanatiz\u00ebm e identitetit fizik( i urrej nd\u00ebrhyrjet plastike, tjet\u00ebrsimin)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E\npranoj mosh\u00ebn, ndonj\u00eb rrudh\u00eb, thinjat, kujdesem t\u00eb ushqehem mir\u00eb, nj\u00eb make-up t\u00eb\nmir\u00eb, mund\u00ebsisht produkte hidratuese, ushqyese bio, sidomos ushqim tejet t\u00eb she\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm,\nfitness, bike. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebra an\u00eb, ana tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb respekti p\u00ebr veten,\nkultura, dijet!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Kam t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn me studime, jam gjithnj\u00eb e uritur p\u00ebr dije! Kjo me mban t\u00eb re, n\u00eb form\u00eb mendjen, dhe bukurin\u00ebe e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb! Jam shum\u00eb feministe, kam besuar gjithnj\u00eb n\u00eb potencialet e vlerat fem\u00ebrore, suksesi i femrave t\u00eb tjera m\u00eb g\u00ebzon, mir\u00ebsia q\u00eb kam e dashamir\u00ebsia m\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb mir\u00eb, kam marr\u00eb energji pozitive p\u00ebr vehten time! Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb jam l\u00ebnduar, zhg\u00ebnjyer nga dashakeq\u00ebsi fem\u00ebrore, sidomos pseudo-gazetare, pa nivel, shterp\u00eb, pa ide e vlera! Por tek e fundit kan\u00eb kryer autogol! E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb vler\u00ebsimi i atyre q\u00eb un\u00eb konsideroj!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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– Si e p\u00ebrkufizon dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb po jeton?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nTani m\u00eb dihet q\u00eb Silva po jeton nj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb bukur. Jam e dashuruar, po! \u00cbsht\u00eb\ndashuria ime m\u00eb e madhe, matur\u00eb, racionale! Jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb q\u00eb e njoh mir\u00eb\nvehten, di\u00e7ka m\u00eb duhet, di \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb jap! \u00cbsht\u00eb dashuri padionale, emotive\ngjithashtu! Qielli i shtat\u00eb- dashuri kozmike, k\u00ebshtu do ta quaj dashurin\u00eb time!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– A mendon t\u00eb rikthehesh n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–  Besoj se po, pas 3 vitesh, im shoq del n\u00eb\npension t\u00eb parakohsh\u00ebm, ligji \u00ebsht\u00eb i till\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive fizike e\npsikologjike t\u00eb pun\u00ebs, mendojm\u00eb t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri muajt e ngroht\u00eb e\nkuptohet ardhje t\u00eb shpeshta n\u00eb Holland\u00eb, e muajt e dimrit n\u00eb kontinentin\nAziatik e Indonezi, ku \u00e7do dim\u00ebr kryejm\u00eb pushimet n\u00eb plazhet e bukura, diellin,\nushqimin e stilin e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, aq pran\u00eb nj\u00eb natyr\u00eb pothuajse p\u00ebrrallore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00ebse do kishte nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr apo nj\u00eb\ntitull k\u00ebnge jeta juaj, si do ta titulloje?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–  Jeta ime ne nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr do kishte titullin: \u201cSirtari\ni harres\u00ebs\u201d. N\u00ebse do ishte k\u00ebng\u00eb do ta quaja jet\u00ebn time: Pafaj\u00ebsi m\u00ebkatare!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–   Ti je\nnj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e arrir\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do fush\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs mund t\u00eb themi. Si ka q\u00ebndruar kaq e\nfort\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb Silva? Nj\u00eb mesazh p\u00ebr vajzat sot\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00a0Faleminderit shum\u00eb p\u00ebr vler\u00ebsimin! Ka nj\u00eb paradoks n\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb nisin\u00eb time!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Jam\nnatyr\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore, romantike, sensib\u00ebl mjaft, por nga ana tjet\u00ebr mjaft\npuntore, ambicioze pozitive, tep\u00ebr bashk\u00ebpunuese e altruiste! \u00c7el\u00ebsi i suksesit\n\u00ebsht\u00eb ta pranosh veten ashtu si\u00e7 je, t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh realitetin pa frik\u00eb, t\u00eb luftosh\nt\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohesh duke qen\u00eb koshiente p\u00ebr vlerat e dob\u00ebsit\u00eb, t\u00eb arrish gj\u00ebrat me\nmeritokraci e  ndershm\u00ebri! T\u00eb mos e\nhumbas\u00ebsh kurr\u00eb dinjitetin, asgj\u00eb materiale nuk t\u00eb jep lumturi, vlera e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\ne jet\u00ebs mbetet dashuria, n\u00eb \u00e7do form\u00eb t\u00eb saj! \u00c7do e lig\u00eb thyhet p\u00ebrpara forc\u00ebs\nt\u00eb s\u00eb qenurit i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, profesionalisht i arrir\u00eb, i ndersh\u00ebm e dashamir\u00ebs! Vajzat\nduhet t\u00eb shmangin kriz\u00ebn e identitetit, t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb t\u00eb bukur\u00ebn, vler\u00ebn terminale\njo tek botox e silikon, q\u00eb i kthen n\u00eb objekte p\u00ebrdorimi! As tek parada vulgare\ne \u00e7antave luksi t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta apo imitacione! As tek karriera e turpshme duke\nshitur e trafikuar veten, apo duke qen\u00eb l\u00ebpir\u00ebse e manipuluese! Vlera e bukuria\nq\u00ebndron tek dinjiteti, pavar\u00ebsia ekonomike, forca e inteligjenc\u00ebs, kultur\u00ebs dhe\ndijes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si jeni si amvise? Ju p\u00eblqen m\u00eb shum\u00eb\nt\u00eb konsumoni ushqim, apo t\u00eb gatuani?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Haaaaaah,\npika e 10- t\u00eb! Amvis\u00eb? Nota 10! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb\nm\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb e absolute! Jam gaforre! E lindur p\u00ebr familje e dashuri!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fanatike!\nVdes t\u00eb gatuaj, fantazoj e kombinoj pjata fantastike, e s\u00ebmur\u00eb p\u00ebr rregull e\nhigjene! Mbi t\u00eb gjitha, v\u00ebrtet me mburrje mund t\u00eb them jam mbret\u00ebreshe e\narredimit t\u00eb tavolin\u00ebs! M\u00eb p\u00eblqen pafund nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb e bukur dhe e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Lajmet e mira p\u00ebr n\u00eb fund. A ka di\u00e7ka t\u00eb\nre q\u00eb Silva d\u00ebshiron ta ndaj\u00eb me lexuesit tan\u00eb? Edhe pse jo mbase di\u00e7ka ekskluzive..!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–  E reja zem\u00ebr mbetet martesa p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vit,\ndasma! Do ket\u00eb dy: nj\u00eb party n\u00eb Amsterdam e nj\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb! T\u00eb vogla, me miq e\nfamiljare, jo dasma e dasm\u00eb e zakonshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qejf\n dhe adrenalin\u00eb! N\u00eb mars nisem p\u00ebr muaj\nmjalti! Kemi zgjedhur ishullin e Balit, n\u00eb Indonezi! Plazh n\u00eb dim\u00ebr! Not e mbr\u00ebmje\nme muzik\u00eb buz\u00eb oqeanit indian! Pa taka t\u00eb larta e fustan Cavalli! K\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb me\npantallona t\u00eb shkurtra, rrethuar nga dashuria me nj\u00eb kokteil frutash egzotike,\npa alkol! Udh\u00ebtojm\u00eb shum\u00eb, ngado n\u00eb Europe!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na\np\u00eblqen t\u00eb dyve l\u00ebvizja, eksplorimi i vendeve t\u00eb ndryshme, kulturave!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjermania,\nAustria e Belgjika mbeten destinacionet kryesore gjat\u00eb dimrit, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb\nParisin ku kemi dhe nj\u00eb mik t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb me familjen. Vera n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, gjithnj\u00eb\nme ndalesa n\u00eb Slloveni, Kroaci, Mal t\u00eb Zi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u00ebr\u00ebsia e stoicitetit fem\u00ebror, k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljes, forc\u00ebs s\u00eb argumentit dhe protagonizmi karakterizojn\u00eb Silvana Baltadori  Heijneman. E njohur p\u00ebr publikun shqiptar p\u00ebr opinionet dhe aktivitetin e saj akademik, p\u00ebr ne ajo vendos q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet pjes\u00eb e intervist\u00ebs son\u00eb duke na folur p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb re. Fjoralba Zeqiraj:- Ku e gjeti 2019-a Silv\u00ebn? Silva Heijneman:- […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21153,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[41],"tags":[2275],"class_list":["post-21152","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-televizion","tag-silva"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21152","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21152"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21152\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21153"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}