{"id":21120,"date":"2019-02-20T14:00:31","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T13:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21120"},"modified":"2019-02-20T13:46:01","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T12:46:01","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-46","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/02\/astrologia-shpjegon-46\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon..!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Njeri i pis\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk e mbaj mend shum\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn n\u00eb veprime, vet\u00ebm kujtoj q\u00eb\nishte dikush q\u00eb dukej m\u00eb i pis\u00ebti (n\u00eb kuptimin moral), por m\u00eb von\u00eb kuptova q\u00eb\nishte m\u00eb i miri ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, jo ai i tmerrshmi q\u00eb supozohej t\u00eb ishte. Pres p\u00ebrgjigje,\nsepse m\u2019u duk shum\u00eb interesante; m\u00eb dukej sikur po e p\u00ebrjetoja realisht ndjesin\u00eb\np\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb person. Mira.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Mira, \u00ebndrra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb\nm\u00eb se e qart\u00eb. Ju do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni realisht me nj\u00eb zbulim t\u00eb till\u00eb. Dikush q\u00eb\nderi dje ju \u00ebsht\u00eb dukur m\u00eb i keqi, ashtu si\u00e7 e keni par\u00eb edhe n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, do t\u00eb\nzbuloni se n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu. Por, p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\nkonkluzion, \u00ebndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u2019i jepni nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ta njihni v\u00ebrtet dhe t\u00eb\nv\u00ebrtetoni t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn e asaj \u00e7far\u00eb keni menduar deri tani. N\u00ebse nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb\nnj\u00eb rrug\u00eb komunikimi, nuk do ta merrni vesh asnj\u00ebher\u00eb si q\u00ebndron e v\u00ebrteta.\nGjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke folur p\u00ebr kal\u00ebrimin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr para dy net\u00ebsh sikur isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb\nt\u00eb madhe ku kishte kuaj dhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb i kal\u00ebronin. Nj\u00eb grua m\u2019u afrua dhe m\u00eb pyeti\na kisha rifilluar t\u00eb ecja me kal\u00eb. Un\u00eb iu p\u00ebrgjigjia se jo, por q\u00eb do t\u00eb filloja\np\u00ebrs\u00ebri, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb isha i nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm se nuk kisha biseduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb\ngrua dhe s\u2019mbaja mend n\u00ebse kisha kal\u00ebruar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Pastaj iu drejtova vetes,\nsikur po shikohesha n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb: \u201cPse t\u00eb mos kal\u00ebroj v\u00ebrtet?\u201d. Duke u nisur p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb kal\u00eb, u zgjova nga gjumi. Niku.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I nderuar Niku, kali, si\u00e7 dhe e\nkemi th\u00ebn\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson energjin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs, emocioneve, lirin\u00eb dhe\npasionin p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar \u00e7do moment t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Ju e ndjeni q\u00eb ka ardhur koha t\u00eb\nndryshoni di\u00e7ka n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj, por s\u2019keni guxim, edhe pse jeni plot energji n\u00eb\nvetvete. Gruaja q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson nd\u00ebrgjegjen tuaj t\u00eb fshehur brenda\nvetes, q\u00eb ju fton t\u00eb nxirrni n\u00eb jet\u00eb energjit\u00eb tuaja pozitive dhe t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorni\np\u00ebr t\u00eb rind\u00ebrtuar jet\u00ebn tuaj pozitivisht, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb\nnes\u00ebrme m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb prisni? Jepini vetes vet\u00ebm pak kurajo dhe gjith\u00e7ka\ndo t\u00eb ec\u00eb vet\u00eb pastaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me pushk\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E pash\u00eb veten sikur po q\u00eblloja me pushk\u00eb automatike dhe\nsikur isha p\u00ebr gjueti me miqt\u00eb e mi. M\u00eb vinte keq q\u00eb po i vrisja ata zogj dhe\npo mendoja se nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnim ndryshe, ne prandaj kishim shkuar p\u00ebr gjueti.\nPastaj, kjo ishte e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ne t\u2019i arrinim ata zogj. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim\nkjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? J.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I\/e nderuar J. \u00cbndrra juaj\ntregon q\u00eb jeni bindur realisht me veten se e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur shum\u00eb\ngj\u00ebra n\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni agresivitetin. Kjo gj\u00eb nuk ju p\u00eblqen, por jeni\ni vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb realitet q\u00eb nuk njeh rrug\u00ebzgjidhje tjet\u00ebr, t\u00eb\npakt\u00ebn p\u00ebr momentin. E megjithat\u00eb, ndoshta po ta vrisni trurin m\u00eb shum\u00eb, ka\nshum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb tjet\u00ebr akoma m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019ka lidhje fare\nme agresivitetin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shkall\u00eb e pambaruar<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nshndritshme dhe isha n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e tanishme. Nga kati i sip\u00ebrm i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb mund ta\nshikoja gruan time n\u00eb katin e par\u00eb. Midis dy kateve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb q\u00eb po e\nnd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb bashkuar dy katet, por q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pap\u00ebrfunduar dhe un\u00eb po\nmendoja: \u201cSa koh\u00eb kemi q\u00eb e kemi nisur k\u00ebt\u00eb shkall\u00eb dhe s\u2019e p\u00ebrfunduam dot!\u201d.\nEdhe sikur t\u00eb doja ta p\u00ebrfundoja, dukej q\u00eb di\u00e7ka nuk shkonte te kjo shkall\u00eb q\u00eb\nka ngelur e p\u00ebrgjysmuar. Ashtu, duke medituar dhe duke shikuar time shoqe n\u00eb\nkatin e par\u00eb, u zgjova nga gjumi. Pres parashikimin tuaj. Fatmiri.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>I nderuar Fatmir, e gjith\u00eb \u00ebndrra tregon qart\u00eb q\u00eb ju keni\nprobleme n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Ju ndodheni n\u00eb katin e sip\u00ebrm t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe e shikoni gruan\ntuaj, por nuk komunikoni me t\u00eb. Mes jush \u00ebsht\u00eb shkalla q\u00eb u nis p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrfunduar,\npor q\u00eb nuk mbaroi kurr\u00eb. Shkalla p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson tentativat q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb ju p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nrregulluar problemet q\u00eb keni me gruan, por deri tani, asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhur\nmes jush. Tani mendoni t\u00eb dor\u00ebzoheni sepse e shikoni se ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkon\nmes jush dhe kjo nuk do t\u00eb rregullohet kurr\u00eb. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb mendimet tuaja q\u00eb duken\nshum\u00eb qart\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet \u00ebndrr\u00ebs q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa gruaja juaj, nga ana e saj,\nq\u00ebndron krejt indiferente n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e saj dhe ju k\u00ebt\u00eb e keni kuptuar tashm\u00eb prej\nkoh\u00ebsh. Jeni lodhur nga kjo lloj gjendjeje q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar mes jush dhe\nndiheni i pafuqish\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta rregulluar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, \u00ebndrra\ntregon gjendjen tuaj aktuale dhe nuk p\u00ebrshkruan se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb m\u00eb tej, por\nun\u00eb uroj q\u00eb problemet tuaja t\u00eb zgjidhen dhe ta shp\u00ebtoni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj n\u00eb\n\u00e7ift. Ndoshta po t\u00eb b\u00ebni dhe nj\u00eb tentativ\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb\npengon komunikimin tuaj, do t\u00eb merrni vendimin e duhur q\u00eb t\u00eb mos pendoheni kurr\u00eb\nm\u00eb sepse duket q\u00eb jeni si n\u00eb aj\u00ebr dhe nuk e dini si t\u00eb veproni. Uroj t\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb\ne mira mes jush! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det dhe ura<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha shtrir\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb makin\u00eb dhe\npo udh\u00ebtoja n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn anash nj\u00eb mali. N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr ishte nj\u00eb det i\nmrekulluesh\u00ebm dhe lart shikoja ura me harqe e drita shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukura. Ecja, por\nkisha frik\u00eb se mos largohesha shum\u00eb dhe u ktheva. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– T\u00eb gjitha\nato q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs tuaj, e cila duket q\u00eb do\nt\u00eb sjell\u00eb surpriza t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme. Ama, p\u00ebrkrah k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb, do t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb se\nmos zhg\u00ebnjeheni, sepse ju duket e pabesueshme q\u00eb po ju ndodhin gj\u00ebra kaq t\u00eb\nbukura. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment do t\u00eb keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb ktheheni mbrapsht, por \u00ebndrra\nk\u00ebshillon t\u00eb mos e b\u00ebni nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. P\u00ebrjetojini deri n\u00eb fund ato q\u00eb sjell\njeta. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos u zmbrapsni, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebto q\u00eb thash\u00eb\nm\u00eb sip\u00ebr. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb, brenda trupit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje astrologe! Kam par\u00eb di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb t\u00eb\n\u00e7uditshme n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Kam par\u00eb sikur isha n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb dhe vendosa t\u00eb futesha\nbrenda trupit tim. Un\u00eb sikur u futa brenda trupit tim duke zbritur posht\u00eb me an\u00eb\nt\u00eb nj\u00eb litari. Ishte nj\u00eb labirint i madh dhe shikoja organet, trurin e mendimet\ne mia t\u00eb transformuara n\u00eb objekte. E ndjeja q\u00eb askush nuk po m\u00eb detyronte ta b\u00ebja\nk\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, por isha e qet\u00eb q\u00eb po e b\u00ebja. Papritur pash\u00eb q\u00eb u ndez nj\u00eb drit\u00eb, e\ncila po ndri\u00e7onte nj\u00eb kuti t\u00eb zez\u00eb. Kutia ishte e mbyllur dhe mua m\u2019u krijua p\u00ebrshtypja\nsikur brenda ishte djalli. Duke menduar k\u00ebshtu, u terrorizova dhe u ktheva\nmbrapsht, n\u00eb gjendjen normale. <\/strong>M\u00eb ka z\u00ebn\u00eb frika. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka?\nArjola.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>E dashur Arjola,\nnuk keni pse t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb kur nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, nga \u00ebndrra, kuptojm\u00eb q\u00eb ju jeni nj\u00eb\npsikoterapiste e vetvetes. N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019kuptim? Ju keni koh\u00eb q\u00eb po merreni vet\u00ebm me\nveten tuaj, e shtyr\u00eb nga nj\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjim q\u00eb keni pasur koh\u00ebt e fundit. Keni\nvendosur t\u00eb shikoni se \u00e7far\u00eb nuk shkon te ju, si mund ta rregulloni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb\ndhe si t\u00eb harroni at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ndodhi. N\u00eb fakt, b\u00ebni shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, ama shpesh ju\nndodh q\u00eb t\u00eb frik\u00ebsoheni kur zbuloni se brenda jush ka edhe an\u00eb t\u00eb err\u00ebta ose\nnegative, si\u00e7 mund t\u2019i ket\u00eb \u00e7do njeri tjet\u00ebr dhe kjo ju b\u00ebn pesimiste. Nuk\nduhet t\u00eb ndiheni k\u00ebshtu sepse \u00e7donj\u00ebri prej nesh mbart n\u00eb vetvete si an\u00ebn\nnegative, ashtu edhe at\u00eb pozitive, si nj\u00eb barazpesh\u00eb p\u00ebr ekuilibrim. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb\ne th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb kjo an\u00eb negative t\u00eb jet\u00eb e keqe fare; ajo mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsoj\u00eb\nagresivitetin tuaj, egoizmin, ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e tep\u00ebrt etj. Kjo njohje dhe analiz\u00eb\ne vetvetes dhe e situatave q\u00eb keni kaluar, do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoni nj\u00eb t\u00eb\nardhme m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb. Ndoshta p\u00ebr momentin ndiheni e lodhur nga kjo gj\u00eb, por do\nt\u2019ju sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb besim n\u00eb vetvete. Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni nga\nrezultatet e analizave, p\u00ebrkundrazi, duhet t\u00eb g\u00ebzoheni sepse k\u00ebshtu do t\u2019i keni\nm\u00eb t\u00eb qarta idet\u00eb se si duhet t\u00eb silleni n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme, n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet\npersonale, shoq\u00ebrore, n\u00eb pun\u00eb, familje etj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stuhi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Isha n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, m\u00eb telefonoi i dashuri dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cHajde se po t\u00eb pres\ntek i nj\u00ebjti vend\u201d. Dola jasht\u00eb dhe pash\u00eb q\u00eb po b\u00ebnte stuhi e madhe. Binte shum\u00eb\nshi dhe frynte aq er\u00eb sa edhe pem\u00ebt po l\u00ebviznin. U vura n\u00eb siklet dhe nuk dija\nsi t\u00eb shkoja tek i dashuri. E mora n\u00eb telefon dhe i thash\u00eb: \u201cPo b\u00ebhet nami\njasht\u00eb! Nuk di si t\u00eb vij…\u201d. Ai m\u00eb tha: \u201cPo un\u00eb po t\u00eb pres, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb hajde!\u201d.\nU m\u00ebrzita me t\u00eb, por u nisa drejt tij dhe mezi ecja rrug\u00ebs, nga shiu i rr\u00ebmbyesh\u00ebm\ndhe i madh. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb po arrija te vendi, pash\u00eb q\u00eb kishte pushuar stuhia. A\nmund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Adela.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Adela, \u00ebndrra tregon q\u00eb keni pasur\ndebate jo dhe aq t\u00eb mira me t\u00eb dashurin; po vuani pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebto q\u00eb keni\ndiskutuar dhe gjendja juaj n\u00eb \u00e7ift duket pak e tensionuar, por mos u m\u00ebrzisni;\nn\u00eb dit\u00ebt n\u00eb vazhdim gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb zgjidhet, ashtu si\u00e7 e keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. \u00c7do\ngj\u00eb do t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohet, ju do t\u00eb sqaroheni dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj do t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri\nn\u00eb harmoni dhe e bukur, si\u00e7 ka qen\u00eb. Stuhia q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon\ndebatet dhe z\u00ebnkat q\u00eb keni pasur koh\u00ebt e fundit, por \u00e7do gj\u00eb do t\u00eb kthjellohet\nmes jush.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Njeri i pis\u00ebt – Nuk e mbaj mend shum\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn n\u00eb veprime, vet\u00ebm kujtoj q\u00eb ishte dikush q\u00eb dukej m\u00eb i pis\u00ebti (n\u00eb kuptimin moral), por m\u00eb von\u00eb kuptova q\u00eb ishte m\u00eb i miri ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, jo ai i tmerrshmi q\u00eb supozohej t\u00eb ishte. Pres p\u00ebrgjigje, sepse m\u2019u duk shum\u00eb interesante; m\u00eb dukej sikur […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20058,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-21120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21120"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21120\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20058"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}