{"id":20999,"date":"2019-02-11T18:30:30","date_gmt":"2019-02-11T17:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20999"},"modified":"2019-02-11T18:02:02","modified_gmt":"2019-02-11T17:02:02","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-44","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/02\/astrologia-shpjegon-44\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon…!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Babai\ndhe dasma<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nKam par\u00eb dy \u00ebndrra. Sikur m\u00eb vdiq babai; e vram\u00eb ne, e hodh\u00ebm n\u00eb p\u00ebrrua dhe pas\ndisa \u00e7astesh, ai u ngjall p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. E dyta, kam par\u00eb veten sikur na ftuan n\u00eb das\u00ebm,\nun\u00eb mbaja n\u00eb dor\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb e thoja q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i motr\u00ebs. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb\nvet\u00ebm e fejuar. Pas pak kaloi nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqen, por nuk jemi t\u00eb lidhur\nakoma, vet\u00ebm p\u00eblqehemi. Ai nuk m\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndeti fare. Pastaj shkuam te dasma q\u00eb s\u2019m\u2019u\nduk fare si das\u00ebm dhe shkova t\u00eb vija f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb gjum\u00eb. Aty, u zgjova. Ju lutem,\nm\u00eb ktheni p\u00ebrgjigje k\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb se e shoh shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Respekte. Ana<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>E dashur Ana, \u00ebndrra e par\u00eb tregon p\u00ebr\nnj\u00eb zem\u00ebrim t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm t\u00eb babait. P\u00ebr di\u00e7ka, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb prekur dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjer\u00eb\nsi i braktisur nga ana juaj. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, \u00ebndrra ju sugjeron t\u2019i q\u00ebndroni pran\u00eb\ndhe t\u00eb mundoheni t\u00eb rregulloni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me t\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa tek \u00ebndrra e dyt\u00eb, ju\ne mendoni vazhdimisht jet\u00ebn tuaj private dhe kjo ju shfaqet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb\nndryshme n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb, ju d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa thjesht\nshoq\u00ebri. N\u00eb dit\u00ebt n\u00eb vazhdim, do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb reagim nga ana e tij dhe juve do t\u2019ju\nb\u00ebj\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje p\u00ebrgjigjja e tij, sidoqoft\u00eb ajo. F\u00ebmija tregon p\u00ebr planet\nq\u00eb keni n\u00eb lidhje me jet\u00ebn tuaj private. Ju uroj shum\u00eb fat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb\npresin flok\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nP\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje astrologe! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur motra ime m\u00eb preu flok\u00ebt. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb\nbeqare. Nj\u00eb nat\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, pash\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur m\u2019i preu flok\u00ebt motra\ntjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e martuar dhe jeton n\u00eb Kanada. Ju lutem, m\u00eb tregoni \u00e7far\u00eb\nkuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Xhevi Lezh\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E nderuar Xhevi, \u00ebndrra juaj\nparashikon ndryshime q\u00eb duken pozitive. Duke qen\u00eb se n\u00eb t\u00eb dyja rastet ju keni\npar\u00eb q\u00eb po ju priten flok\u00ebt, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se shum\u00eb shpejt do t\u00eb ndodhin\nndryshime t\u00eb cilat do t\u2019u japin zgjidhje atyre problemeve q\u00eb ju i mendonit t\u00eb\npazgjidhshme. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebrmbysja\ne bot\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nJam Ersi. Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ngelur n\u00eb mendje dhe jam shum\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsuar.\nPash\u00eb sikur isha n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe po diskutoja me mamin p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka. Papritur, pash\u00eb\nnga dritarja q\u00eb koha po nxihej. Ishte mesi i dit\u00ebs dhe i them mamit: \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb po\nndodh, pse po err\u00ebsohet shum\u00eb?\u201d. Mami, me frik\u00eb t\u00eb madhe dhe me lot n\u00eb sy, m\u00eb\ntha se do t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbysej bota. Menj\u00ebher\u00eb dola jasht\u00eb n\u00eb ballkon dhe shikoja p\u00ebrmbytjen\ne bot\u00ebs, sikur pallatet fundoseshin, nj\u00eb cunam i madh vinte drejt meje dhe\nmalet shkuleshin nga vendi. Ishte nj\u00eb katastrof\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb! Ashtu, e sikletosur,\nu zgjova nga gjumi. M\u00eb thoni parashikimin…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E nderuar Ersi, \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla,\nsigurisht q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb frikshme dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesh, por jo kaq shum\u00eb sa\ndukeni ju nga letra q\u00eb na keni shkruar. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, kjo ngelet nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\ndhe jo n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha rastet, \u00ebndrrat parashikojn\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, ndalemi te\nshpjegimi i saj. Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon zakonisht se ju po kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb\nt\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe nuk ju p\u00eblqen aspak m\u00ebnyra juaj e jetes\u00ebs. Pak nga pak, po i\ndor\u00ebzoheni situat\u00ebs q\u00eb po kaloni. Ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkon me jet\u00ebn tuaj, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn\nju e mendoni shum\u00eb dramatike, edhe pse realisht, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb, sepse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kan\u00eb\nproblemet dhe pengesat e tyre n\u00eb jet\u00eb, por nuk i dramatizojn\u00eb ato, nd\u00ebrsa ju po\ne dramatizoni aq shum\u00eb gjendjen sa n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoni drejt zgjidhjes, po e v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsoni\ndaljen nga situata. Ana tjet\u00ebr e shpjegimit t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb duhet ta\npranoni k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj ndryshimi q\u00eb keni p\u00ebsuar dhe ta konsideroni gjith\u00e7ka si\nrifillimin e nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb re. Kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb dor\u00ebzoheni, por t\u00eb merrni frer\u00ebt\ne jet\u00ebs suaj n\u00eb duar dhe t\u2019i shikoni gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb pozitivisht sepse nj\u00eb fillim i\nri n\u00eb \u00e7do lloj rrafshi jet\u00ebsor, \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi e re dhe e bukur.\nPrandaj, v\u00ebrini q\u00ebllim vetes q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb jet\u00eb tjet\u00ebr nga ajo q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb\nderi tani. B\u00ebjeni p\u00ebr veten tuaj. Ju uroj sh\u00ebndet! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Divorc<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nMir\u00ebdita. Kam par\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur un\u00eb me burrin tim po ziheshim dhe, n\u00eb fund,\nvendos\u00ebm t\u00eb divorcoheshim. Un\u00eb e pash\u00eb veten n\u00eb gjykat\u00eb, duke u divorcuar me t\u00eb.\nAi m\u00eb shikonte me habi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim q\u00eb kisha marr\u00eb, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, q\u00ebndronte\nshum\u00eb i qet\u00eb. M\u00eb ka trembur kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sepse ne, realisht, jemi mir\u00eb si \u00e7ift. A\nka ndonj\u00eb dometh\u00ebnie kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Zakonisht, \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla me divorce,\nz\u00ebnka n\u00eb \u00e7ift etj. kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb kuptim. \u00cbndrra tregon q\u00eb mes jush, di\u00e7ka\nnuk shkon ashtu si\u00e7 duhet, sado q\u00eb ju mundoheni ta fshihni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos\ne pranoni. M\u00eb sakt\u00eb, ju i anashkaloni problemet q\u00eb keni n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj,\ngj\u00eb q\u00eb rrezikon t\u2019ju \u00e7oj\u00eb v\u00ebrtet drejt ndarjes; vet\u00ebm kur t\u00eb plas\u00eb papritur. Ju\njeni e pak\u00ebnaqur nga marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia me bashk\u00ebshortin, por nuk e pranoni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb\ndhe, p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, nuk ia thoni atij k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj shqet\u00ebsimi. Ju v\u00ebrtet thoni q\u00eb\njeni mir\u00eb, por \u00ebndrra ama tregon t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn. Ajo tregon pasiguri dhe pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi\nndaj partnerit. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sinjal q\u00eb ju t\u00eb uleni dhe t\u00eb bisedoni me bashk\u00ebshortin\np\u00ebr \u00e7do lloj pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie, si nga ana juaj, ashtu edhe nga ana e tij. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb,\ndo t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj, por edhe do ta p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoni at\u00eb. Ju uroj fat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke\nu mbytur n\u00eb lum\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nPash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po lahesha n\u00eb lum\u00eb dhe, nj\u00eb moment, ngeca e nuk l\u00ebvizja\ndot. Po m\u00eb zihej fryma, nuk mbushesha dot dhe nga sikleti, m\u00eb doli gjumi. Jam n\u00eb\npritje t\u00eb nj\u00eb shpjegimi…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra ka disa shpjegime, por n\u00eb\nrastin konkret, duhet t\u2019i b\u00ebni pyetje vetes: \u00c7far\u00eb jam duke shmangur, \u00e7far\u00eb nuk\njam n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb b\u00ebj? Kjo gj\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb ndiheni tamam sikur po mbyteni,\nn\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Keni shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe b\u00ebr\u00eb, por asnj\u00ebr\u00ebn s\u2019e b\u00ebni. Keni\npreferuar t\u00eb heshtni, duke akumuluar nga brenda, por kjo gj\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb d\u00ebm\nt\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit tuaj psikologjik dhe fizik. Prandaj veproni; n\u00ebse kishit di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ose p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb, b\u00ebjeni dhe kaq. Mos mendoni aspak a ka pasoja apo s\u2019ka;\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka t\u00eb ndiheni ju mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb nxirrni ato \u00e7far\u00eb keni p\u00ebrbrenda. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb\nmirat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Flutur<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nIsha n\u00eb nj\u00eb kop\u00ebsht t\u00eb madh dhe po mblidhja lule, kur pash\u00eb nj\u00eb flutur shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nbukur e cila po m\u00eb ndiqte. Ishte e madhe, me shum\u00eb ngjyra dhe, ngado q\u00eb shkoja,\nm\u00eb vinte nga mbrapa. Erdhi af\u00ebr meje, m\u2019u ul te supi dhe kalonte nga nj\u00ebra dor\u00eb\nte tjetra, te flok\u00ebt, krah\u00ebt, n\u00eb kraharor. Dukej si lozonjare dhe shum\u00eb e\nbukur. Jam zgjuar me nj\u00eb ndjesi shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur nga kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. A ka ndonj\u00eb\nkuptim? Blerina<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E dashur Blerina, keni par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur. Ajo tregon q\u00eb po kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur dhe t\u00eb qet\u00eb.\nN\u00ebse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, at\u00ebhere ju pret nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb e till\u00eb. Do t\u00eb ndiheni e\nlir\u00eb dhe e p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, tamam si nj\u00eb flutur. N\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj do t\u00eb\nhyj\u00eb nj\u00eb person i cili do t\u2019ju kushtoj\u00eb nj\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhe p\u00ebrkujdesje q\u00eb ju as q\u00eb\ne kishit imagjinuar m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ju uroj ta shijoni n\u00eb maksimum!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taka\nt\u00eb larta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nN\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kam par\u00eb t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time s\u00eb cil\u00ebs i thash\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb shkonim p\u00ebr nj\u00eb\nxhiro n\u00eb pyll. Mbaj mend q\u00eb, kur zbrit\u00ebm nga makina, m\u00eb b\u00ebri shum\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje q\u00eb\najo kishte veshur taka t\u00eb larta dhe minifund. U habita sepse vendi ku ne kishim\nardhur nuk ishte i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr at\u00eb veshje. Megjithat\u00eb, nuk i thash\u00eb asgj\u00eb,\nthash\u00eb me vete: \u201cT\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb si t\u00eb doj\u00eb\u201d. Un\u00eb nuk besoj shum\u00eb tek \u00ebndrrat, por jam\nkurioz t\u00eb di, \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I nderuar lexues, nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb t\u00eb\nl\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh q\u00eb zakonisht, ju jeni nj\u00eb person shum\u00eb indiferent, q\u00eb nuk e\nmerrni asnj\u00eb lidhje shum\u00eb seriozisht dhe jeni gjithnj\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb femr\u00ebs s\u00eb\njet\u00ebs tuaj. N\u00ebse vazhdoni t\u00eb jeni k\u00ebshtu gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs, nuk do t\u00eb ndiheni\nkurr\u00eb i plot\u00ebsuar me ndonj\u00eb fem\u00ebr. \u00cbndrra ju jep nj\u00eb mesazh shum\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb; q\u00eb\nvajza q\u00eb keni n\u00eb krah \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e brisht\u00eb dhe ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendje\nnga ana juaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Njer\u00ebz\nt\u00eb eg\u00ebr<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nPara dy net\u00ebsh, pash\u00eb sikur ishim n\u00eb Egjipt p\u00ebr pushime me familjen time dhe\naty na sulmuan disa njer\u00ebz t\u00eb eg\u00ebr. Ishin tamam si ato tribut\u00eb e vjetra, me\nshigjeta, pothuajse lakuriq dhe na u v\u00ebrsul\u00ebn tamam si njer\u00ebz t\u00eb eg\u00ebr. Ndjeja\ndhimbje n\u00eb trup, m\u00eb vinte p\u00ebr t\u00eb vjell\u00eb edhe n\u00eb gjum\u00eb dhe ashtu, duke luftuar,\nu zgjova nga gjumi. A mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni ju lutem, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Megjith\u00ebse do t\u00eb habiteni nga p\u00ebrgjigjja\nime, mendoj se kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ka lidhje me sh\u00ebndetin tuaj. Mos vall\u00eb po ndiqni\nndonj\u00eb diet\u00eb e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb drastike dhe po ju d\u00ebmton sh\u00ebndetin? N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb\ne v\u00ebrtet\u00eb kjo q\u00eb po ju them, at\u00ebhere duhet t\u00eb hiqni dor\u00eb nga kjo diet\u00eb sepse po\nshkat\u00ebrroni sh\u00ebndetin tuaj. N\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni kujdes sepse nuk\nushqeheni sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Babai dhe dasma – Kam par\u00eb dy \u00ebndrra. Sikur m\u00eb vdiq babai; e vram\u00eb ne, e hodh\u00ebm n\u00eb p\u00ebrrua dhe pas disa \u00e7astesh, ai u ngjall p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. E dyta, kam par\u00eb veten sikur na ftuan n\u00eb das\u00ebm, un\u00eb mbaja n\u00eb dor\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb e thoja q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i motr\u00ebs. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":12101,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-20999","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20999","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20999"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20999\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12101"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20999"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20999"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20999"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}