{"id":2088,"date":"2014-08-04T16:09:43","date_gmt":"2014-08-04T16:09:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=2088"},"modified":"2014-08-04T16:10:52","modified_gmt":"2014-08-04T16:10:52","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/08\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i \u00ebndrrave tuaja\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

Para nj\u00eb p\u00ebrroi… <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha shkuar te disa t\u00eb af\u00ebrm me motr\u00ebn. Kur po ktheheshim, duhet t\u00eb kalonim nj\u00eb p\u00ebrrua t\u00eb madh i cili kishte nj\u00eb ur\u00eb d\u00ebrrase p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. Motra ime kaloi me shpejt\u00ebsi, kurse un\u00eb po ecja shum\u00eb ngadal\u00eb dhe gjith\u00eb frik\u00eb, sepse ura l\u00ebkundej. Kisha arritur gati n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr dhe i thash\u00eb motr\u00ebs t\u00eb shtrinte dor\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte t\u00eb dilja, por ajo m\u00eb tha: \u201cJo, dil vet\u00eb!\u201d. Un\u00eb pata frik\u00eb t\u00eb dilja dhe fillova t\u00eb ecja prapa, k\u00ebmbadoras, derisa arrita aty ku u nisa…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbndrra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e qart\u00eb. P\u00ebrroi q\u00eb keni par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dilem\u00eb, nj\u00eb problem, nj\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje, nj\u00eb situat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn duhet t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb zgjidhje. Pra, jeni para nj\u00eb vendimi dhe nuk dini si t\u00eb veproni. Keni shum\u00eb frik\u00eb, ndaj shpeshher\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb ju ka l\u00ebn\u00eb mbrapa n\u00eb disa procese t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat po t\u00eb kishit pasur m\u00eb shum\u00eb guxim, do t\u00eb kishit ecur shum\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. Motra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb guximtare dhe arrin t\u2019ia dal\u00eb mban\u00eb. Ka mund\u00ebsi t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00eb asaj, por ajo do t\u2019jua refuzoj\u00eb zgjidhjen, ndihm\u00ebn, apo \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ju t\u00eb b\u00ebheni m\u00eb e fort\u00eb. Ajo ju thot\u00eb \u201cdilni vet\u00eb\u201d, pra, \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb q\u00eb ndodheni, duhet t\u2019ia dilni po vet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb vendimi juaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhja juaj, prandaj ju duhet t\u2019i jepni drejtim. Jo m\u00eb kot ka dal\u00eb shprehja: \u201cI zoti e nxjerr gomarin nga balta\u201d. Por, fundi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs tregon jo shenja pozitive, sepse ju jeni kthyer mbrapa, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se do t\u00eb b\u00ebni dy hapa mbrapa s\u00ebrish, do t\u00eb gjendeni aty ku ishit n\u00eb fillim dhe do t\u00eb keni po t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat shqet\u00ebsime dhe pik\u00ebpyetje brenda vetes. Pra, sipas \u00ebndrr\u00ebs, ju nuk ecni p\u00ebrpara, keni gjithnj\u00eb tendenc\u00ebn t\u00eb ktheheni mbrapsht. Ndoshta ajo q\u00eb keni par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh shum\u00eb i qart\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb rrezikoni dhe t\u00eb ecni p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n

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M\u2019u fejua v\u00ebllai<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr v\u00ebllain, sikur na solli n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Ajo ishte rreth 15-16 vje\u00e7e, shum\u00eb e bukur. Mamaja u nervozua shum\u00eb nga veprimi i tij. Un\u00eb po mundohesha ta qet\u00ebsoja duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb se kishte gjetur nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb bukur dhe q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i p\u00ebrgatisnim dhom\u00ebn. Edhe mamaja e ka par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr v\u00ebllain sikur po martohej, por ngaq\u00eb dasma kishte ardhur si e papritur, po mundoheshim t\u00eb rregullonim pun\u00ebt shpejt e shpejt. Po ashtu, v\u00ebllain e kishin par\u00eb n\u00eb end\u00ebrr dhe dy shok\u00eb t\u00eb tij, sikur ishte fejuar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj paralajm\u00ebrimi q\u00eb v\u00ebllai ose edhe ju, personalisht, duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet private sepse mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb di\u00e7ka e papritur, si\u00e7 keni par\u00eb v\u00ebllain tuaj. P\u00ebrderisa e kan\u00eb par\u00eb shum\u00eb vet\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ndoshta ai ka muhabet me ndonj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, por nuk jua tregon juve dhe mund t\u00eb ndodhin t\u00eb papritura n\u00ebse ai nuk tregohet i kujdessh\u00ebm n\u00eb lidhje me ndonj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb njeh ai. S\u2019po them se mund t\u00eb s\u00ebmuret apo t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb ndonj\u00eb aksident, por n\u00ebse tregohet i pakujdessh\u00ebm n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie intime, mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb ndonj\u00eb shtatzani e papritur dhe do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i detyruar t\u00eb martohet, qoft\u00eb edhe pa d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tij. Pra, e gjith\u00eb \u00ebndrra tregon q\u00eb ai duhet t\u00eb tregohet i kujdessh\u00ebm n\u00eb lidhje me vajzat dhe vendimet e tij n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Nuk duhet t\u00eb nxitohet.<\/p>\n

Iu luta Zotit<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Bashk\u00eb me nj\u00eb shoqen time dhe nj\u00eb shokun ton\u00eb ishim n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet dhe po ktheheshim me makin\u00ebn e tij. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment d\u00ebgjuam nj\u00eb z\u00eb nga mbrapa nesh: \u201cEj, njer\u00ebz, duhet ta dini se sot \u00ebsht\u00eb dita e Jud\u00ebs, e atij q\u00eb tradhtoi Jezusin, prandaj shkoni dhe lutjuni Zotit q\u00eb t\u2019ju fal\u00eb\u201d. Ne parkuam makin\u00ebn dhe u ul\u00ebm duke u lutur me duart lart nga qielli. Ama, kur lutesha, un\u00eb thoja: \u201cZoti im \u00ebsht\u00eb Allahu\u201d dhe nga qiell i nxir\u00eb q\u00eb ishte, u hap koha, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb erdhi, m\u00eb puthi dor\u00ebn dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cMbaje mend gjithmon\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, q\u00eb Zoti \u00ebsht\u00eb Allahu\u201d. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje ju lutem. Faleminderit. Jam fem\u00ebr e fes\u00eb myslimane.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb interesante. Ju jeni myslimane, por nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ju shfaqet dita e Jud\u00ebs, pra, \u00ebndrra ka nj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb gjer\u00eb, q\u00eb n\u00eb thelb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb Zot p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe t\u00eb gjitha fet\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb parim t\u00eb madh thelb\u00ebsor p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit: T\u00eb adhurojn\u00eb Zotin dhe t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr m\u00ebkatet e tyre. P\u00ebr ju, personalisht, kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon se duhet t\u00eb ndaloni s\u00eb paragjykuari, ndoshta edhe t\u00eb falni disa persona t\u00eb cil\u00ebt koh\u00ebt e fundit ndoshta i keni gjykuar r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Juda p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre m\u00ebkatin tuaj; duhet t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb tolerante. Gjithsesi, lutja q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb tregon p\u00ebrul\u00ebsi dhe q\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre jeni penduar p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. Periudha q\u00eb po kaloni \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ama lutja q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb, do t\u2019ju shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb nga brengat dhe shqet\u00ebsimet q\u00eb keni brenda jush. Fjala Allah paralajm\u00ebron ndihm\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr ju. Hapja e koh\u00ebs parashikon dit\u00eb t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr ju dhe kap\u00ebrcim t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive. Pra, jeni para nj\u00eb periudhe t\u00eb mir\u00eb. N\u00ebse tani ndodheni n\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, prisni me durim sepse dit\u00eb t\u00eb kthjell\u00ebta dhe t\u00eb qeta keni p\u00ebrpara. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Shoqja ime shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E nderuar astrologe, \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb? Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shoqja ime m\u00eb e mir\u00eb dhe un\u00eb e pash\u00eb sikur kishte mbetur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, por nuk ishte aspak e lumtur. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka \u00ebndrra?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Shtatzania e pad\u00ebshiruar n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, tregon nj\u00ebfar\u00eb plani apo projekti q\u00eb do t\u00eb marr\u00eb kthes\u00eb jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj ose t\u00eb shoqes q\u00eb keni par\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe ndonj\u00eb plan p\u00ebr fundjav\u00eb, q\u00eb ju d\u00ebshton. Ose e nisni projektin q\u00eb keni, por nuk jeni shum\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqura, qoft\u00eb ju, qoft\u00eb shoqja juaj…<\/p>\n

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Para nj\u00eb p\u00ebrroi… – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha shkuar te disa t\u00eb af\u00ebrm me motr\u00ebn. Kur po ktheheshim, duhet t\u00eb kalonim nj\u00eb p\u00ebrrua t\u00eb madh i cili kishte nj\u00eb ur\u00eb d\u00ebrrase p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. Motra ime kaloi me shpejt\u00ebsi, kurse un\u00eb po ecja shum\u00eb ngadal\u00eb dhe gjith\u00eb frik\u00eb, sepse ura […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2088","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2088","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2088"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2088\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2088"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2088"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2088"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}