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– Jam nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb q\u00eb jetoj me\nburrin tim tashm\u00eb prej 4 vjet\u00ebsh. Ai ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb i martuar dhe ka dy\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb; nj\u00ebrin 19 dhe tjetrin 12 vje\u00e7. Tani, s\u00eb bashku, kemi nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb 3 vje\u00e7.\nAi q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson \u00ebsht\u00eb djali 12 vje\u00e7ar i burrit tim. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb xheloz e\ngrindavec dhe kam frik\u00eb ta l\u00eb \u00e7unin e vog\u00ebl vet\u00ebm me t\u00eb. Jam p\u00ebrpjekur n\u00eb t\u00eb\ngjitha m\u00ebnyrat q\u00eb ta afroj at\u00eb djal\u00eb, por nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb. Ai ia p\u00ebrmend her\u00eb\npas here babait t\u00eb tij n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij. Burri im ka filluar ta trajtoj\u00eb keq, por\nmua m\u00eb dhemb shpirti p\u00ebr t\u00eb se jam n\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00eb. Nuk di si t\u00eb veproj. Ju lutem,\n\u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloni? Mos duhet t\u00eb ndahem prej tij, edhe pse duhemi shum\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Redaksia:<\/em><\/strong> – <\/strong>S\u00eb pari, m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq p\u00ebr situat\u00ebn ku\nndodhesh. S\u00eb dyti, as mos t\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb mendje t\u00eb ndaheni. Gjithmon\u00eb ka nj\u00eb\nzgjidhje t\u00eb mesme, sado e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb arritja e saj. Besoj e kupton q\u00eb\ndjali i bashk\u00ebshortit t\u00ebnd ka p\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb lloj drame nga ndarja e mamas\u00eb s\u00eb tij\nme babain. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, ai nuk e ka pritur aspak mir\u00eb faktin q\u00eb babai i tij\n\u00ebsht\u00eb martuar me ty. Nuk ka qen\u00eb i p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe mosha e tij delikate\nka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje. Ndoshta pak mund t\u00eb shtyhet edhe nga e \u00ebma, t\u00eb\ncil\u00ebn besoj se e takon normalisht. Ti duhet t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh shtruar me t\u00ebt shoq,\nt\u2019ia b\u00ebsh t\u00eb qart\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimin dhe t\u00eb mundohesh ta bind\u00ebsh q\u00eb t\u00eb mos sillet\nashp\u00ebr me djalin e tij, por t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb ose gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb p\u00ebr ta\nzbutur dhe afruar djalin me ty dhe v\u00ebllain e tij t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Mundohu ta kuptosh\nk\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb sepse shpesh jan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ata q\u00eb n\u00eb raste divorcesh, p\u00ebsojn\u00eb trauma\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa vet\u00eb prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb ndahen. Pastaj, afrohu me t\u00eb me t\u00eb mira dhe mos\nu dor\u00ebzo, sado e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr ty. B\u00ebja t\u00eb qart\u00eb q\u00eb e do, pavar\u00ebsisht se\nnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb djali yt. Gjithashtu, thuaji q\u00eb nuk ke asgj\u00eb kundra mamas\u00eb s\u00eb tij,\npra, me pak fjal\u00eb, tregohu sa m\u00eb pozitive karshi tij. Ai ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr\nngroht\u00ebsi dhe mb\u00ebshtetje. N\u00ebse ti dhe babai i vet i p\u00ebrgjigjeni me gjuh\u00ebn dhe\nsjelljen e tij rebele, ai do t\u00eb ashp\u00ebrsohet akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Bashk\u00ebshorti yt b\u00ebn\nshum\u00eb gabim q\u00eb sillet ashp\u00ebr me t\u00eb. Bile, ai duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsi midis\njush. Duhet t\u00eb sillet mir\u00eb me t\u00eb, por jo ta llastoj\u00eb. T\u2019i tregoj\u00eb ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb e\ntij prej prindi dhe ta afroj\u00eb me ty sadopak. Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb lidhje me v\u00ebllain e tij\nt\u00eb vog\u00ebl, mir\u00eb b\u00ebni q\u00eb nuk e lini vet\u00ebm, sado q\u00eb djali 12 vje\u00e7ar nuk besoj t\u00eb\njet\u00eb aq i friksh\u00ebm sa duket. Thjesht, mund t\u2019i ket\u00eb dhe kapri\u00e7io t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs dhe\n\u00ebsht\u00eb xheloz. Q\u00ebndrojini pran\u00eb dhe keni p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb sjellje.\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – Jam nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb q\u00eb jetoj me burrin tim tashm\u00eb prej 4 vjet\u00ebsh. Ai ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb i martuar dhe ka dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb; nj\u00ebrin 19 dhe tjetrin 12 vje\u00e7. Tani, s\u00eb bashku, kemi nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb 3 vje\u00e7. Ai q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson \u00ebsht\u00eb djali 12 vje\u00e7ar i burrit tim. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb xheloz e grindavec […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20826,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[2216],"class_list":["post-20825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-psdikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20825"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20825\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20826"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}