Shpeshher\u00eb adult\u00ebt theksojn\u00eb, se \u2018\u2019p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb m\u00ebnd se kur ka ndodhur trauma. Ai madje nuk\u00a0 do t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb asgj\u00eb\u00a0 kur t\u00eb rritet. N\u00eb fakt trauma ka jet\u00ebgjat\u00ebsi n\u00eb efektet q\u00eb shkakton. Nd\u00ebrsa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\u00a0 jan\u00eb elastik\u00eb\u00a0 ata nuk jan\u00eb\u00a0 t\u00eb paafektuesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo\nnuk n\u00ebnkupton se ai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb emocionalisht i traumatizuar p\u00ebr t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Me\nnd\u00ebrhyrjet e p\u00ebrshtatshme, adult\u00ebt mund t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohen nga eksperiencat traumatike n\u00eb\nm\u00ebnyr\u00eb efektive. Por duhet t\u00eb jeni koshient se kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb\nf\u00ebmija juaj mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje profesionale Nd\u00ebrhyrja e hershme mund\nt\u00eb zbus\u00eb \nefektet psikologjike q\u00eb shkakton trauma dhe do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb q\u00eb mos t\u00eb instalohet \u00e7rregullimi post \u2013traumatik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ngjarje\nt\u00eb ndryshme mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb traum\u00eb.\nDhuna fizike apo abuzimi seksual mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr shembull traumatike p\u00ebr\npsikik\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Gjithashtu edhe ngjarje t\u00eb ndryshme si aksident ose \nfatkeq\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndryshme natyrore( si \nstuhi t\u00eb ndryshme), mund t\u00eb\nndikojn\u00eb psikologjikisht tek f\u00ebmija. Stresi n\u00eb nivele t\u00eb moderuara , si edhe t\u00eb\nq\u00ebnit viktim\u00eb e bulizmir,mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb traumatike,edhe n\u00eb qofte se mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb adult. Nj\u00eb ngjarje q\u00eb t\u00eb\nkonsiderohet traumatike mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Situata\nndodh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb papritur<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Rip\u00ebrs\u00ebritet\nvazhdimisht<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Kur\ndikush mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i ashp\u00ebr<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Kur\nf\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb i pap\u00ebrgatitur psikologjikisht p\u00ebr at\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Traumat\ninfantile nuk mund t\u00eb ndodh vet\u00ebm n\u00eb\nm\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn; por vuatja shpirt\u00ebrore mund t\u00eb traumatike p\u00ebr ta. Ekspozimi ndaj emisioneve\napo filmave t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ngacmues p\u00ebr traum\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duket\nt\u00eb theksohet q\u00eb traumat mund t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb deri n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb ket\u00eb\nmendime vet\u00ebd\u00ebmtuese. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt me simptoma klinike t\u00eb \u00e7rregullimit\npost-traumatik mund t\u00eb rip\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb traum\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebndjen e tyre. Ata do t\u00eb\np\u00ebrpiqen q\u00eb t\u00eb shmangin \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb i\nkujton traum\u00ebn dhe kjo mund t\u2019i duket\nedhe si loj\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt mund b\u00ebhen edhe hiper\nvigjilent\u00eb duke besuar se dicka e keqe\ndo t\u00eb ndodh s\u00ebrisht. Simptomat q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me \u00e7rregullimin post traumatik:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Simptomat\nklinike jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme ku f\u00ebmija p\u00ebrjeton ankth,frik\u00eb,depression,zem\u00ebrim,aggression\ndhe sjellje vet\u00ebdestruktive,nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebn\u00eb e izoluar,v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi tek t\u00eb\nbesuarit e tjer\u00ebve. Por mbetet p\u00ebr t\u2019u theksuar se jo \u00e7do f\u00ebmij\u00eb zhvillon\nsimptoma t\u00eb \u00e7rregullimit post traumatik por mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb edhe probleme emocionale dhe sjellore\nt\u00eb cilat mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb; probleme t\u00eb v\u00ebm\u00ebndjes,v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi me p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrimin,ankesa\nsomatizuese si dhimbje koke\/stomaku, refuzim i shkoll\u00ebs, humbje interesi p\u00ebr\naktivitet normale, irritim,ndryshime t\u00eb zakoneve t\u00eb ngr\u00ebnit etj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ngjarjet\ntraumatike ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb zhvillimin e trurit dhe \npasojat mund t\u00eb zgjasin t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Duhet pasur n\u00eb v\u00ebm\u00ebndje q\u00eb traumat\nmund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb risqe individuale sic jan\u00eb problemet e ndryshme me sh\u00ebndetin\nfizik (azma,diabeti,s\u00ebmundje kronare etj)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb ka\np\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb traum\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ngritja\ne nj\u00eb sistemi mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb\nket\u00eb t\u00eb nevojshme q\u00eb t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet emocionalisht \np\u00ebr t\u00eb minimizuar impaktin q\u00eb ka\ntrauma tek f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Duke e mb\u00ebshtetur emocionalisht dhe duke d\u00ebgjuar se si\nndjehet f\u00ebmija e b\u00ebni t\u00eb ndihet m\u00eb i leht\u00ebsuar. Duhet folur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb sa m\u00eb t\u00eb\ndrejtp\u00ebrdrejte dhe duhet siguruar q\u00eb \u00e7do q\u00eb tek f\u00ebmija i jep sigurin\u00eb e\nnevojshme emocionale. N\u00ebs\u00eb shihni q\u00eb\nf\u00ebmija manifeston ndryshime t\u00eb zakoneve t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme \u00ebsht\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb\nbisedoni me pediatrin e zhvillimin m\u00eb pas do t\u00eb jet\u00eb vet\u00eb pediatrik i cili do\nt\u00eb jap\u00eb rekomandimet e nevojshm\u00eb p\u00ebr ta mb\u00ebshtetur. Duhet ven\u00eb theksi se\nterapia e loj\u00ebs apo \u201ckonjitiv bihejviorale\u201d jan\u00eb terapit\u00eb m\u00eb efikas\u00eb n\u00eb\ntrajtimin e traum\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oriola\nPLAKU<\/p>\n\n\n\n Psikologe\nSOS FSHATI F\u00cbMIJ\u00cbVE<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Shpeshher\u00eb adult\u00ebt theksojn\u00eb, se \u2018\u2019p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb m\u00ebnd se kur ka ndodhur trauma. Ai madje nuk\u00a0 do t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb asgj\u00eb\u00a0 kur t\u00eb rritet. N\u00eb fakt trauma ka jet\u00ebgjat\u00ebsi n\u00eb efektet q\u00eb shkakton. Nd\u00ebrsa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\u00a0 jan\u00eb elastik\u00eb\u00a0 ata nuk jan\u00eb\u00a0 t\u00eb paafektuesh\u00ebm. Kjo nuk n\u00ebnkupton se ai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb emocionalisht […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20799,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[2012],"class_list":["post-20798","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-orjola-plaku"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20798","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20798"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20798\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20799"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20798"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20798"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20798"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}