{"id":20782,"date":"2019-01-28T22:30:13","date_gmt":"2019-01-28T21:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20782"},"modified":"2019-01-28T20:18:33","modified_gmt":"2019-01-28T19:18:33","slug":"%ef%bb%bfkur-problemet-e-burrit-minojne-deshiren-e-gruas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/%ef%bb%bfkur-problemet-e-burrit-minojne-deshiren-e-gruas\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffKur problemet e burrit minojn\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e gruas"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>N\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb zgjidhen problemet seksuale\nmashkullore, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi i ereksionit apo \u00e7lirimi nga \u00e7do lloj ankthi q\u00eb\nka lidhje me seksin. Ne flasim e flasim p\u00ebr problemet e burrit dhe zgjidhjen e\ntyre, por nuk duhet harruar se edhe gruaja vuan nga k\u00ebto probleme mashkullore\ndhe jan\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht ato probleme q\u00eb mund ta \u00e7ojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien drejt shkat\u00ebrrimit\ne \u00e7iftin, drejt ndarjes. At\u00ebhere, \u00e7far\u00eb prisni p\u00ebr t\u2019i rregulluar? <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Problemet q\u00eb minojn\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn\nseksuale<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Problemet e ereksionit nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb rralla. Ato prekin 42% t\u00eb burrave gjat\u00eb\nt\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, k\u00ebto probleme i provojn\u00eb thuajse\ngjysma e popullsis\u00eb mashkullore. Dhe, n\u00ebse p\u00ebr disa, ky d\u00ebshtim \u00ebsht\u00eb momental,\np\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ka raste kur mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm. Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, sipas\nstudimeve, burrat presin mesatarisht nj\u00eb ose dy vjet derisa t\u00eb interesohen p\u00ebr\nta zgjidhur problemin. Dhe, kur themi k\u00ebshtu, nuk e kemi fjal\u00ebn vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr\nmeshkujt shqiptar\u00eb, pasi studimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin po flasim, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb studim i\nb\u00ebr\u00eb me meshkujt evropian\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi. Pse ndodh nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb? Sepse problemet\ne ereksionit, i b\u00ebjn\u00eb meshkujt t\u00eb ndihen shum\u00eb konfuz\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm&#8230; Megjithat\u00eb,\nduhet patur parasysh se nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm ata q\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb; t\u00eb\nnj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb themi edhe p\u00ebr partneret e tyre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>N\u00ebse burri vuan; e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb ndodh edhe me gruan<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Problemi seksual mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb pasoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsie t\u00eb jet\u00ebs n\u00eb \u00e7ift,\npor mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb edhe e kund\u00ebrta; t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohet vet\u00eb ky problem n\u00eb shkak i\nproblemeve t\u00eb \u00e7iftit, madje edhe t\u00eb ndarjes. Burri, n\u00eb ankth p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb\nperformancave t\u00eb tij t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, nuk mendon se edhe partnerja e tij mund t\u00eb v\u00ebr\u00eb\nn\u00eb dyshim kapacitetin e saj seksual: \u201cNuk e eksitoj m\u00eb?\u201d, \u201cNuk i p\u00eblqej m\u00eb?\u201d&#8230;\nK\u00ebto pyetje dhe t\u00eb tjera si k\u00ebto, mund t\u00eb minojn\u00eb besimin e partneres te vetja.\nKjo humbje e siguris\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkaktoj\u00eb nj\u00eb pak\u00ebsim t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn\nkoh\u00eb, pak\u00ebsim t\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebs seksuale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>V\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta rikthesh d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e humbur<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shum\u00eb burra preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb mbyllen n\u00eb vetvete dhe refuzojn\u00eb t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr\nproblemet q\u00eb kan\u00eb. Komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsor p\u00ebr mir\u00ebfunksionimin e lidhjes n\u00eb\n\u00e7ift, sidomos p\u00ebr gruan, e cila e bazon lidhjen e saj me partnerin pik\u00ebrisht te\ndialogu, n\u00ebse flitet p\u00ebr ndjenja apo p\u00ebr seks. Rreziku m\u00eb i madh \u00ebsht\u00eb ta shoh\u00ebsh\nd\u00ebshir\u00ebn t\u00eb pak\u00ebsohet pak e nga pak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kujdes! Do t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta rizgjoni pas nj\u00eb periudhe t\u00eb\nkonsiderueshme mungese. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, \u00e7ifti ia del mban\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht t\u00eb gjithave,\nt\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb seksuale, por burri, i p\u00ebrqendruar n\u00eb ereksionin e\ntij dhe n\u00eb frik\u00ebn se nuk do t\u00eb mund ta ruaj\u00eb gjat\u00eb, mund t\u00eb pak\u00ebsoj\u00eb koh\u00ebn q\u00eb u\nkushton p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljeve para seksit, p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrqendruar vet\u00ebm te penetrimi, duke\ni provokuar dhimbje t\u00eb m\u00ebdha gruas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja pra tek fillon t\u00eb krijohet rrethi vicioz: Frika se do t\u00eb ket\u00eb dhimbje n\u00eb\nnj\u00eb raport tjet\u00ebr seksual, mund t\u00eb provokoj\u00eb irritimin e muskujve t\u00eb vagin\u00ebs\ngjat\u00eb penetrimit, duke sjell\u00eb k\u00ebshtu dhimbje t\u00eb tjera, pak\u00ebsim d\u00ebshire, shmangie\nnga ana e gruas, ftohje e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb&#8230; raportet intime b\u00ebhet, pak nga pak\nm\u00eb t\u00eb rrall\u00eb me kalimin e koh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>R\u00ebnd\u00ebsia q\u00eb ka k\u00ebshillimi n\u00eb \u00e7ift<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb problem seksual mashkullor t\u00eb rikthehet dhe t\u00eb turbulloj\u00eb\nsuksualitetin e gruas, duke goditur d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e saj seksuale e duke shkaktuar\nbllokime psikologjike e fizike. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019i drejtohesh e vetme\nmjekut t\u00ebnd gjinekolog apo seksolog p\u00ebr t\u00eb trajtuar problemin e ereksionit, pse\nnuk vendos t\u00eb shkosh e shoq\u00ebruar? N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, mjeku mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoj\u00eb nga\nsituata dypal\u00ebshje dhe t\u00eb gjej\u00eb trajtimin m\u00eb efikas; nj\u00eb kur\u00eb mjek\u00ebsore apo nj\u00eb\nterapi psikologjike. N\u00eb \u00e7do rast, megjith\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore q\u00eb burri t\u00eb jet\u00eb\nnj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje p\u00ebr gruan, edhe gruaja duhet t\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunoj\u00eb. Mos harroni se seksualiteti\nb\u00ebhet n\u00eb dy! Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se trajtimi i k\u00ebtyre problemeve i takon vet\u00ebm\nnj\u00ebrit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seksologu mund t\u00eb propozoj\u00eb, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme, ushtrime q\u00eb do t\u00eb\nnevojiten p\u00ebr ta ndihmuar \u00e7iftin t\u00eb rigjej\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri.\nGruaja do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u00eb eleminoj\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn e fajit dhe do t\u00eb rifitoj\u00eb besimin n\u00eb\nvetvete. Mjeku mund t\u00eb propozoj\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb terapi p\u00ebr t\u00eb rizbuluar s\u00eb bashku nj\u00eb\njet\u00eb seksuale harmonike. Pse pra ta humbni k\u00ebt\u00eb rast?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kush preket nga problemet\nseksuale?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Problemet seksuale mashkullore\napo fem\u00ebrore jan\u00eb t\u00eb njohura p\u00ebr frekuenc\u00ebn e lart\u00eb q\u00eb i karakterizon.\nMegjithat\u00eb, mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb argument nuk ekzistoj\u00eb studime epidemiologjike t\u00eb nivelit\nt\u00eb lart\u00eb. Duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb stabilizojn\u00eb me sakt\u00ebsi frekuenc\u00ebn me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn\nparaqiten k\u00ebto probleme, dy k\u00ebrkues amerikan\u00eb kana analizuar 52 punime t\u00eb\npublikuara n\u00eb k\u00ebto dhjet\u00eb vitet e fundit mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb argument. Po ju propozojm\u00eb\npra, nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb&#8230; Ju sigurojm\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb\ninteresant dhe ndihmues&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Disfunksionet seksuale te gruaja<\/em><\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>1. V\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur\norgazm\u00ebn<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sipas studimeve m\u00eb t\u00eb besueshme, t\u00eb b\u00ebra n\u00eb nj\u00eb zon\u00eb gjeografike t\u00eb gjer\u00eb\n(N\u00eb Evrop\u00ebn e Veriut), 4 deri n\u00eb 7% t\u00eb grave jan\u00eb t\u00eb prekura nga ky problem. Nj\u00eb\nstudim amerikan nga ana tjet\u00ebr zbulon se&#8230; 24% t\u00eb grave deklarojn\u00eb se nuk kan\u00eb\nqen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb orgazm\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb disa muajve t\u00eb vitit paraardh\u00ebs.\nKjo diferenc\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje mund t\u00eb varet nga kriteret e p\u00ebrzgjedhura p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar\ndiagnoz\u00ebn nga nj\u00ebri studim te tjetri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>2. Mungesa e lubrifikimit<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sipas studimeve, nga ky problem preken 22%-41% e grave, por n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha\nrastet, metodologjia e p\u00ebrdorur n\u00eb studim \u00ebsht\u00eb e kontestueshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>3. Probleme t\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebs\nseksuale<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shtat\u00eb studimet e realizuara mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb argument, kan\u00eb arritur n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimin\nse nga ky shqet\u00ebsim vuajn\u00eb nga 5 deri n\u00eb 46% e grave. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, kemi arsye\nt\u00eb besueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb menduar se b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb problem n\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizimin\ne d\u00ebshir\u00ebs seksuale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>4. Dhimbje gjat\u00eb raporteve\nseksuale<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Studimet kan\u00eb arritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00eb p\u00ebrqindjeje q\u00eb varion nga 3-18% e\npopullsis\u00eb s\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme. Edhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat jan\u00eb marr\u00eb me metoda\nmatjeje shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme nga nj\u00ebra-tjetra. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Disfunksionet seksuale te burrat<\/em><\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>1. V\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur\norgazm\u00ebn<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nga ky problem vuajn\u00eb rreth 8% e burrave. Kjo p\u00ebrqindje \u00ebsht\u00eb thuajse e\nnj\u00ebjt\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb shtat\u00eb studimet e kryera mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>2. Ejakulimi i parakohsh\u00ebm<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sipas nj\u00ebrit prej sondazheve, kjo vler\u00eb mund t\u00eb arrij\u00eb deri n\u00eb 20%, te\nburrat q\u00eb kan\u00eb var\u00ebsi ndaj alkoolit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>3. Defi\u00e7it ereksioni<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7far\u00eb kemi parasysh me shprehjen: \u201cDefi\u00e7it\u201d i ereksionit? Kjo n\u00ebnkupton\nmunges\u00ebn e ereksionit apo q\u00eb ereksioni ekziston, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i mjaftuesh\u00ebm\nose \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i shkurt\u00ebr? Me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mang\u00ebsi t\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizimit, mund t\u00eb\nthemi se rezultatet e studimeve jan\u00eb, gjithsesi, kuptimplota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sipas 10 studimeve, deri n\u00eb 10% t\u00eb burrave vuajn\u00eb nga nj\u00eb problem i till\u00eb,\nq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft shqet\u00ebsues (vihet re k\u00ebtu ndikimi i faktor\u00ebve t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, si\u00e7\njan\u00eb patologjit\u00eb e zemr\u00ebs, diabeti, hipertensioni, ul\u00e7era, artriti, alergjia\ndhe duhanpirja). Te t\u00eb moshuarit, kjo p\u00ebrqindje arrin deri n\u00eb 20%-52%. N\u00eb\nmoshat e treta, vihet re nj\u00eb fenomen i p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm: T\u00eb anketuarit kan\u00eb patur\ndy her\u00eb m\u00eb pak ereksione gjat\u00eb vitit paraardh\u00ebs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pse ndjej dhimbje gjat\u00eb\nmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>N\u00ebse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale shoq\u00ebrohet me dhimbje, gruaja provon nj\u00eb r\u00ebnie t\u00eb\nd\u00ebshir\u00ebs dhe nuk e arrin orgazm\u00ebn. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, shkaku i k\u00ebtyre dhimbjeve \u00ebsht\u00eb\nshum\u00eb banal&#8230; N\u00ebse nuk ekziston d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, n\u00ebse b\u00ebhet\npenetrimi para eksitimit, para lubrifikimit t\u00eb vagin\u00ebs, penetrimi shnd\u00ebrrohet n\u00eb\nnj\u00eb akt t\u00eb pad\u00ebshiruesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb dhimbsh\u00ebm. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, duhet kuptuar n\u00ebse\ndhimbja provohet q\u00eb nga kontaktet e para seksuale apo ka nisur q\u00eb nga nj\u00eb\nmoment i caktuar i jet\u00ebs (operacion, infeksion, lindje). Sidoqoft\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme\nt\u00eb m\u00ebsohet n\u00ebse bezdia apo dhimbja \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb hyrje t\u00eb vagin\u00ebs apo n\u00eb fund t\u00eb\nsaj.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Origjina e dhimbjes mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb organike (gjinekologjike, urinare,\nvaskulare, dermatologjike) apo psikologjike. Shpesh, shkaqet jan\u00eb t\u00eb panjohura,\npor pasojat, v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb rrezikshme: Ne humbasim besimin te vetja dhe, n\u00ebse\nshkaqet fizike vazhdojn\u00eb, trupi yn\u00eb bllokohet. Kjo do t\u00eb&nbsp; thot\u00eb: Lamtumir\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Shkaqet fizike<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>S\u00eb pari, nj\u00eb grua duhet t\u00eb\nkontrolloj\u00eb n\u00ebse n\u00eb buz\u00ebt e vagin\u00ebs apo n\u00eb hyrje t\u00eb saj ka ndryshime t\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqes\ns\u00eb l\u00ebkur\u00ebs. Si?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Vendos nj\u00eb gisht n\u00eb vagin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur pik\u00ebn n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndihet\ndhimbja, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb muskul shum\u00eb i tendosur, nj\u00eb kontraktim apo\ndi\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; P\u00ebrpiqu t\u00eb kuptosh n\u00ebse dhimbja \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja simptom\u00eb apo ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nshoq\u00ebruar nga djegie, kruarje apo gjakderdhje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Kujtohu n\u00ebse dhimbja \u00ebsht\u00eb e lidhur me ciklin menstrual apo me nj\u00eb\npozicion t\u00eb caktuar gjat\u00eb seksit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; V\u00ebr re n\u00ebse zgjat p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb raportit seksual apo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb\nfillim, vet\u00ebm n\u00eb fund apo n\u00ebse e ndjen nj\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00eb pas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Dhimbjet n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve\nseksuale<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Konsultohuni me nj\u00eb mjek. Ai mund ta gjej\u00eb leht\u00ebsisht shkakun e k\u00ebsaj\ndhimbjeje, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb infeksion (shpesh, nj\u00eb cistit, nj\u00eb pu\u00e7\u00ebrr apo\nSST), nj\u00eb problem dermatologjik (si p\u00ebr shembull nj\u00eb ekzem\u00eb) apo anatomik (pas\nnj\u00eb lindjeje t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb apo heqjes s\u00eb mitr\u00ebs). Nj\u00eb konsult\u00eb dhe ekzaminim do ta\ngjej\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb shkakun e k\u00ebsaj dhimbjeje, ndaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mundim i kot\u00eb ta provosh\ndhe ta durosh at\u00eb, pa k\u00ebrkuar ndihm\u00ebn e mjekut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Dhimbjet e thella, q\u00eb kan\u00eb shkaqe psikologjike<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nj\u00eb lloj ankthi, para penetrimit, mund t\u00eb pengoj\u00eb relaksimin e muskujve dhe\nlubrifikimin, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb dhimbshme tentativ\u00ebn p\u00ebr penetrim: Kur fillon dhimbja,\nedhe ankthi shtohet dhe penetrimi b\u00ebhet akoma m\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shqet\u00ebsimi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb pasoj\u00eb e frik\u00ebs nga s\u00ebmundjet, nga mendimi se\npenisi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb i madh p\u00ebr t\u2019u futur n\u00eb vagin\u00eb, nga frika se mos nuk\nje n\u00eb lart\u00ebsin\u00eb e duhur, nga konfliktet me partnerin&#8230; Origjina e dhimbjeve mund\nt\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe m\u00eb pak e dukshme, e lidhur k\u00ebshtu me konflikte t\u00eb panjohura apo\nprobleme t\u00eb n\u00ebnnd\u00ebrgjegjes, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat, duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00ebn e psikologut\nklinicist apo seksologut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Luftimi i k\u00ebtyre tabuve q\u00eb paralizojn\u00eb trupin e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb, relaksimi,\nk\u00ebrkimi e rigjetja e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb pik\u00ebnisja e nj\u00eb evolucioni n\u00eb\n\u00e7ift. Me shpjegime e k\u00ebshilla, mjeku (i p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm, gjinekolog apo seksolog)\ndo t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7dramatizoni situatat e pak\u00ebnaqshme q\u00eb po p\u00ebrjetoni, ndaj,\nmos hezito, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb: K\u00ebrko menj\u00ebher\u00eb ndihm\u00ebn e tij! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb zgjidhen problemet seksuale mashkullore, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi i ereksionit apo \u00e7lirimi nga \u00e7do lloj ankthi q\u00eb ka lidhje me seksin. 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