{"id":20726,"date":"2019-01-24T21:30:18","date_gmt":"2019-01-24T20:30:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20726"},"modified":"2019-01-24T21:20:17","modified_gmt":"2019-01-24T20:20:17","slug":"tia-them-asaj-cfare-njeriu-eshte-ai%ef%bb%bf","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/tia-them-asaj-cfare-njeriu-eshte-ai%ef%bb%bf\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u2019ia them asaj \u00e7far\u00eb njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb ai?\ufeff"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Orjola! N\u00eb fakt ka gjasht\u00eb vite q\u00eb nj\u00eb shoqja ime me prezantoi me\u00a0 nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Ishte shum\u00eb ngjit\u00ebs m\u00eb b\u00ebnte gjithmon\u00eb ftes\u00eb p\u00ebr kafe, m\u00eb telefononte n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb duke k\u00ebrkuar edhe biseda\u00a0 q\u00eb nuk kishin sens. Un\u00eb vendosa t\u00eb nd\u00ebrroj numrin e telefonit por duke aplikuar n\u00eb pozicion pune n\u00eb nj\u00eb NGO\u00a0 e rastis s\u00ebrisht. Ishte po i nj\u00ebjti person. Nis\u00ebm t\u00eb flisnim n\u00eb telefon, dilnim t\u00eb dy. Ai tregohej shum\u00eb i kujdessh\u00ebm ndaj meje dhe duke q\u00ebn\u00eb se ishte mjedis i ri pune, gjeta suportin e tij. Pas nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb gjat\u00eb\u00a0 ku vizitat e tij ishin te fshehura n\u00eb zyr\u00ebn time, n\u00eb publik ne shfaqeshim bashk\u00eb prej dore. Ai kishte nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb n\u00eb\u00a0 pun\u00eb nuk donte t\u00eb pranonte lidhjen ton\u00eb. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb lidhja jon\u00eb u konsolidua pasi familjar\u00ebt tan\u00eb e mor\u00ebn vesh, sjellja e tij ndryshoi totalisht, ai u shnd\u00ebrrua n\u00eb njeri q\u00eb vet\u00ebm m\u00eb dhunonte emocionalisht. Tani historia po p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet me nj\u00eb kolege t\u00eb re&#8230; Si duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj megjith\u00ebse ajo e ka nuhatur se komunikimi im me t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shk\u00ebputur. Mendon se duhet t&#8217;ia them asaj??<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Orjola Plaku, psikologe n\u00eb Fshatin e\nF\u00ebmij\u00ebve Sos, e-mail: plakuoriola@gmail.com: <\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur! Uroj q\u00eb te\njeni mir\u00eb. Dua&nbsp; t&#8217;ju fal\u00ebnderoj&nbsp; q\u00eb m\u00eb jeni drejtuar n\u00ebpermjet post\u00ebs\nelektronike. Jam k\u00ebtu p\u00ebr t\u2019ju mb\u00ebshtetur. E ndjej sa e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nq\u00ebndruar n\u00eb mjedise t\u00eb tilla pune. Por, dua t\u00eb them se e ndjej empatin\u00eb q\u00eb\nk\u00ebrkoni t\u00eb tregoni ndaj gjinis\u00eb se nj\u00ebjt\u00eb. Dua t\u00eb kuptoni se k\u00ebto situata jan\u00eb\npothuajse t\u00eb njohura n\u00eb mjedisin e pun\u00ebs n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00eb\np\u00ebrg\u00ebzoj p\u00ebr q\u00ebndrimin q\u00eb ke mbajtur deri tani. T\u00eb rekomandoj t\u00eb fokusohesh t\u00eb\nvetja dhe mos&nbsp; t\u00eb mendosh m\u00eb p\u00ebr ish-shokun\nt\u00ebnd. Ai nuk meriton t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb si ju. Prandaj&nbsp; thyej ciklin e abuzimit emocional duke\nq\u00ebndruar larg&nbsp; shpirt\u00ebrisht dhe\npsikologjikisht nga k\u00ebto individ\u00eb. P\u00ebrpiqu t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh p\u00ebrpara pasi&nbsp; do t\u00eb ngec\u00ebsh peng emocionalisht. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb\nkurthe psikologjike t\u00eb cilat krijohen nga m\u00ebndjet jo t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosha, t\u00eb\nlutem&nbsp; q\u00ebndro indiferente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebr\ncdo gj\u00eb m\u00eb shkruaj s\u00ebrisht. Mbetemi n\u00eb kontakt!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Orjola! N\u00eb fakt ka gjasht\u00eb vite q\u00eb nj\u00eb shoqja ime me prezantoi me\u00a0 nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Ishte shum\u00eb ngjit\u00ebs m\u00eb b\u00ebnte gjithmon\u00eb ftes\u00eb p\u00ebr kafe, m\u00eb telefononte n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb duke k\u00ebrkuar edhe biseda\u00a0 q\u00eb nuk kishin sens. Un\u00eb vendosa t\u00eb nd\u00ebrroj numrin e telefonit por duke aplikuar n\u00eb pozicion pune n\u00eb nj\u00eb NGO\u00a0 e [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19917,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[2012],"class_list":["post-20726","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-orjola-plaku"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20726","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20726"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20726\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19917"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20726"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20726"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20726"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}