{"id":20637,"date":"2019-01-19T21:00:10","date_gmt":"2019-01-19T20:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20637"},"modified":"2019-01-19T14:38:30","modified_gmt":"2019-01-19T13:38:30","slug":"%ef%bb%bfsi-te-pershendesim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/%ef%bb%bfsi-te-pershendesim\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffSi t\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesim?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb studente\nn\u00eb vitin e par\u00eb n\u00eb Elbasan. Quhem Meri. Dua t\u00eb di cila \u00ebsht\u00eb dometh\u00ebnia e\np\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjes dhe si b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja n\u00eb situata konkrete? A \u00ebsht\u00eb\np\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja thjesht nj\u00eb gjest mir\u00ebsjelljeje apo di\u00e7ka m\u00eb tep\u00ebr? Dua nj\u00eb\np\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb plot\u00eb e t\u00eb sakt\u00eb nga psikologu, pasi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje diskutojm\u00eb\nvazhdimisht&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Amarilda Garuli,\npsikologe, email <\/strong><a href=\"mailto:ilda.garuli@gmail.com:-\"><strong>ilda.garuli@gmail.com:-<\/strong><\/a> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje\nMeri! P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjes dhe dometh\u00ebnies s\u00eb saj, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga format\ne komunikimit. P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja \u00ebsht\u00eb gjest ose shprehi formale ose familjare n\u00eb\nnj\u00eb rast takimi, \u00ebsht\u00eb akt komunikimi q\u00eb ne marrim kontakt me nj\u00eb individ\ntjet\u00ebr,\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb por mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb gjest socializimi, simpatie,\nkundrejt personit q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb. P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb situates\npor edhe njohjes ose jo t\u00eb personit q\u00eb i drejtohet. N\u00eb situat\u00eb konkrete si\nb\u00ebhet p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja p\u00ebr t\u2019iu referuar pyetjes tuaj, p\u00ebrshembull ,gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb\nvar\u00ebsi t\u00eb situat\u00ebs, por kur nuk e njohim personin bazohemi te fjala e par\u00eb e\np\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjes q\u00eb na b\u00ebn ai ose ajo. P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja zgjat pak por \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sepse na b\u00ebn t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr karakteristikat e personit q\u00eb\nkemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb. Edhe intonacioni me t\u00eb cilin p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesim na jep informacion p\u00ebr\nsubjektin me t\u00eb cilin po p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetemi. Forca e komunikimit \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb marrdh\u00ebniet q\u00eb krijojm\u00eb kur ne p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetemi. Shpesh harrojm\u00eb se\nmjaft r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka edhe ritmi i t\u00eb folurit, toni i z\u00ebrit, gjestet q\u00eb shoq\u00ebrojn\u00eb\nt\u00eb folur\u00ebn, ashtu si dhe postura e trupit q\u00eb marrim n\u00eb ato momente, mimika e\nfytyr\u00ebs. T\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb marra s\u00eb bashku shpesh ndodhin pa i kuptuar dhe\np\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht&nbsp; tregojn\u00eb shum\u00eb informacion\np\u00ebr personin q\u00eb jemi , at\u00eb q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb,apo p\u00ebr marrdh\u00ebnien q\u00eb kemi .P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja\n\u00ebsht\u00eb gjest mir\u00ebsjelljeje n\u00eb situata t\u00eb zakonshme n\u00eb komunikimin e p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm.\nKur p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesim dik\u00eb ne jo gjithmon\u00eb duam t\u00eb hyjm\u00eb n\u00eb marrdh\u00ebnie me t\u00eb apo t\u00eb\nnd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb komunikim n\u00eb aspektin e njohjes dhe kontakte t\u00eb zgjatura n\u00eb bised\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb\nthjesht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje q\u00eb n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb ambientit apo situat\u00ebs i drejtohet\nnj\u00eb subjekti si form\u00eb mir\u00ebsjelljeje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja ndryshon kur i drejtohet njer\u00ebzve\nq\u00eb njohim. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se gjest mir\u00ebsjelljeje n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb\nkonfidente, m\u00eb e ngusht\u00eb , shpreh m\u00eb tep\u00ebr emocion. P\u00ebr&nbsp; nga m\u00ebnyra se si ne p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesim dik\u00eb&nbsp; kuptojm\u00eb dhe se \u00e7far\u00eb marrdh\u00ebniesh shoq\u00ebrore\nose jo kemi me personin tjet\u00ebr. N\u00eb kultura dhe v\u00ebnde t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb bot\u00ebs,\np\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja merr forma dhe kuptime t\u00eb caktuara q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjta,\nndryshojn\u00eb nga nj\u00ebra tjetra. Disa tregojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb interes dhe af\u00ebrsi n\u00eb\nkomunikimi se disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb format e p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjes jan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nngrohta se n\u00eb nj\u00eb kultur\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb prer\u00eb, m\u00eb t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr\nrrjedhoj\u00eb pak m\u00eb t\u00eb shkujdesur n\u00eb komunikim. Duke marr\u00eb parasysh disa arsye t\u00eb\np\u00ebrmendura, tregohet q\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja si form\u00eb komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb gjest\nmirsjelljeje por ka raste q\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret dhe si pjes\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb komunikim p\u00ebr\nkrijimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve m\u00eb konfidenciale dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrta me nj\u00eb person t\u00eb\ncaktuar. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat !<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb studente n\u00eb vitin e par\u00eb n\u00eb Elbasan. Quhem Meri. Dua t\u00eb di cila \u00ebsht\u00eb dometh\u00ebnia e p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjes dhe si b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja n\u00eb situata konkrete? A \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja thjesht nj\u00eb gjest mir\u00ebsjelljeje apo di\u00e7ka m\u00eb tep\u00ebr? Dua nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb plot\u00eb e t\u00eb sakt\u00eb nga psikologu, pasi p\u00ebr [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19894,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[2006],"class_list":["post-20637","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-amarilda-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20637","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20637"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20637\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19894"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}