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-Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 30 vje\u00e7are dhe jam\nbeqare. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb m\u00eb thon\u00eb kush nuk t\u00eb merr ty por n\u00eb fakt mua asnj\u00eb nuk m\u00eb\np\u00eblqen. Mos \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00ebmundje kjo? Keni d\u00ebgjuar ndonj\u00eb rast t\u00eb till\u00eb? Ju lutem me\njepni nj\u00eb mendim se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj se kam shum\u00eb k\u00ebrkesa por s\u2019m\u00eb p\u00eblqen asnj\u00eb.\nJam n\u00eb udh\u00ebkryq me veten dhe nuk po qart\u00ebsoj dot mendimet. Ju faleminderit! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -S\u2019t\u00eb\nka ardhur ora .. Pa\u00e7 fat se p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar t\u00eb gjith\u00eb martohen edhe me\nfotografi po me fatin mos luaj e mos shkruaj…. Zhaneta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n –\nD\u00ebgjo ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do vertet nuk shikon pamjen e jashtme t\u00eb dikujt por shikon bot\u00ebn\nshpirt\u00ebrore ate emocionale te njeriut shikon zgjuarsin\u00eb past\u00ebrtin\u00eb qe mund te\nket aparenca e jasht\u00ebme shkon e vjen ajo qe ngelet \u00ebsht bota e brendshme e njeriut\najo \u00ebsht\u00eb kryesorja. Se dhe molla mund te duket e bukur e mir\u00eb nga jasht\u00eb por\nnga brenda \u00ebsht kalb\u00ebsir\u00eb, pra ki vet\u00ebbesim dhe shikoje sesi gj\u00ebrat rreth teje\ndo ndryshojn\u00eb. S\u00ebmundja \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo q\u00eb ti si fem\u00ebr ke r\u00ebn\u00eb psikologjikisht e t\u00eb duken\nt\u00eb gjith\u00eb nj\u00eblloj ose do kesh dashur ndonj\u00eb dhe pret at\u00eb, k\u00ebto dy variante jan\u00eb.\nPa\u00e7 fat moj vajz\u00eb, Zoti t\u00eb \u00e7oft\u00eb n\u00eb der\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb e qofsh e lumtur gjithnj\u00eb. Romeo<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n –\nS\u2019ka problem tani q\u00eb je e re do t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh pas pak nuk do gjejsh as t\u00eb mbledh\u00ebsh\npo mblidh mendjen dhe vendos sa m\u00eb par\u00eb. Rina<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00ebse\nnuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqen asnj\u00eb sipas meje duhet t\u00eb lidhesh me ndonj\u00eb femer!? Astriti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – M\u00eb\nduket ke shkruar q\u00eb t\u00eb tregosh q\u00eb je beqare dhe t\u00eb kesh propozime. Loto<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – T\u00eb\nvjetrit kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb ; kush k\u00ebrkon shum\u00eb nuk merr dot as pak. Aleksand\u00ebr<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -E\nmoj xhan edhe un\u00eb jam 28 vje\u00e7 e jam beqare. M\u00eb \u00e7udit vetja se jam gjith\u00eb kjo\nfem\u00ebr pa nj\u00eb njeri n\u00eb krah. Tila<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n –\nPse duhet t\u00eb martohesh patjet\u00ebr?! Meq\u00eb nuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqen asnj\u00eb djal\u00eb deri tani do\nt\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ke njohur at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatet ty. Mos d\u00ebgjo njer\u00ebzit se do\ns\u00ebmuresh v\u00ebrtet, ka plot si ti dhe s’ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe t\u00eb jesh beqare n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn\nt\u00ebnde. Ermen<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -N\u00eb\nShip\u00ebri ndodh kjo gj\u00eb. Sapo vjen nga jasht\u00eb pytja e par\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb\n,\u00ebsht\u00eb: Je i martuar? Pse nuk je i\nmartuar? Spiro<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n –\nSh\u00ebrohet leht\u00eb kjo s\u00ebmundje por duhet t\u00eb gjesh mashkullin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. At\u00eb q\u00eb kur\nt\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00eb n\u00eb sy t\u00eb ulesh kok\u00ebn m\u00ebndjemadhe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – Po\nje gjith\u00eb ajo femer kam frike se tr\u00ebmben nga konsumi! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Pse\nkush t\u00eb merr? Beqar jemi, po je goc\u00eb e mir\u00eb lidhemi bashk\u00eb. Mikeli<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – \u00cbsht\u00eb\nproblem psikologjik ky. Pastaj me\nkalimin e viteve b\u00ebhet m\u00eb i madh se humbet besimin te vetja dhe nuk t\u00eb bind asnj\u00eb\ntjet\u00ebr. Merita<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ti\nshiko t\u00eb jesh mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr vete se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shqetesim martesa.\nUn\u00eb jam 29 vje\u00e7 dhe jam beqar. \u00c7far\u00eb ka\nk\u00ebtu, duhet t\u00eb vras veten un\u00eb? Jetoje jet\u00ebn si t\u00eb vjen se martesa p\u00ebrpara\n\u00ebsht\u00eb. Leo<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n –\nBura ka por s\u2019ka burra! Maksi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – P\u00ebrshendetje\ne dashur, ty s\u2019t\u00eb p\u00eblqen asnj\u00eb sepse akoma s\u2019ka dal\u00eb njeriu i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr\nty, por dhe ti duhet t\u2019i jap\u00ebsh vetes\nmund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur dik\u00eb. Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb dik\u00eb me shikim t\u00eb par\u00eb por\nka nga ata q\u00eb duan pak koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb dik\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam 36 vje\u00e7 dhe jetoj n\u00eb\nGjermani. Nuk jam i lidhur p\u00ebr momentin sepse nuk ka dal\u00eb akoma ajo vajz\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatet mua. E kemi pak m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb\nkur arrijm\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb pak madhore por mbi t\u00eb gjitha \u00ebsht\u00eb fatin duhet ta\nk\u00ebrkosh q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb. T\u00eb uroj gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat dhe do ishte k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi p\u00ebr mua t\u00eb\nnjihesha me ty dhe t\u00eb flisja n\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron . Me respekt Saimiri.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Mbylli\nsyt\u00eb e merre nj\u00eb dhe ti pash nerin, se na plase zemr\u00ebn. Mirko<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Un\u00eb\ne kam nj\u00eb ide, m\u00eb kontakto dhe ta shpjegoj se edhe un\u00eb beqar jam. Kemi mosh\u00ebn\np\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00ebdrejtim jet\u00ebs se vetem nuk rrihet se vjen dimri. Adi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Mblidh\nmendjen e merr nj\u00eb se perfekt \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm Zoti. Kleo<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – T\u00eb\ngjesh shpirtin binjak \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb por jo e pamundur. Meli<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Shko\nte ndonj\u00eb psikolog e dashur. Angus<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Dil\nnj\u00eb xhiro jasht\u00eb shtetit se mos t\u00eb p\u00eblqen ndonj\u00eb i huaj. Ensa<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" -Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 30 vje\u00e7are dhe jam beqare. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb m\u00eb thon\u00eb kush nuk t\u00eb merr ty por n\u00eb fakt mua asnj\u00eb nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen. Mos \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00ebmundje kjo? Keni d\u00ebgjuar ndonj\u00eb rast t\u00eb till\u00eb? Ju lutem me jepni nj\u00eb mendim se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj se kam shum\u00eb k\u00ebrkesa por s\u2019m\u00eb p\u00eblqen asnj\u00eb. 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