{"id":20572,"date":"2019-01-18T18:00:24","date_gmt":"2019-01-18T17:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20572"},"modified":"2019-01-18T16:56:55","modified_gmt":"2019-01-18T15:56:55","slug":"me-ofendon-ta-le","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/me-ofendon-ta-le\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00eb ofendon. Ta l\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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– Jam e lidhur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb prej dy\nvjet\u00ebsh tashm\u00eb, e dua shum\u00eb dhe di q\u00eb edhe ai m\u00eb do, ama m\u00eb ofendon n\u00eb shum\u00eb\ngj\u00ebra, m\u00eb ul para njer\u00ebzve duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201chajt se ti nuk di gj\u00eb, je pak\ninjorante\u201d, sepse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i madh se un\u00eb. E shikon q\u00eb m\u00ebrzitem dhe m\u00eb\nk\u00ebrkon falje. Un\u00eb e fal, por vazhdon me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin avaz. I kam th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb duhet\nt\u00eb fejohemi, pasi vet\u00eb ma ka th\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, por ai e shmang si bised\u00eb.\nNd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, kur i them t\u00eb ndahemi, ai m\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cjo, ti je me mua\u201d. Sinqerisht,\nnuk e kuptoj sjelljen e tij dhe nuk di si t\u00eb veproj…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-D\u00ebgjo moj\nvajz\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb t\u00eb do vertet nuk t\u00eb shan nuk t\u00eb ofendon n\u00eb sy t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, t\u00eb\nmbron dhe t\u00eb ngre si karakter tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. E dyta injoranti t\u00eb thot ti s\u2019di\nti s\u2019b\u00ebn etj, kur ai tani q\u00eb je \u00eb lidhur me t\u00eb t\u00eb ofendon e t\u00eb ul pa imagjino\nkur t\u00eb martohesh, krijosh familje a shtyhet jeta gjithnj\u00eb me p\u00ebrbuzje, ulje,\nofendime dhe tallje?? Joooo… At\u00ebher\u00eb ik nj\u00eb her\u00eb e pergjithmon\u00eb nga ai njeri\ni thuaj t\u00eb dhjefsha dashurin\u00eb ty q\u00eb ke p\u00ebr mua, kur ti m\u00eb ul e m\u00eb b\u00ebn leck\u00eb\npara t\u00eb tjerav\u00eb. S\u00eb treti ai tallet ty se po t\u00eb doj\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00eb vjen t\u00eb k\u00ebrkon e\nt\u00eb ka nj\u00eb jet\u00eb pran\u00eb. N\u00eb fun, kaq karakter i ul\u00ebt qenke si fem\u00ebr q\u00eb rri m\u00eb t\u00eb\ntill\u00eb mashkull, pse u tha dynjaja p\u00ebr meshkuj ka me lopat\u00eb. Gjej nj\u00eb t\u00eb denj\u00eb e\nt\u00eb hajrit, mos shkat\u00ebrro jet\u00ebn me injorant\u00eb dhe njr\u00ebz pa vler\u00eb. Romeo<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Shiko mos ka\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb fejuar ai dhe ty t\u00eb do p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb kafet. Barjami<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb\nthot\u00eb \u201cshum\u00eb m\u00eb i madh se un\u00eb\u201d ??? Blerina<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Gjuha kocka\ns’ka por kocka thyen. Dhuna shpirt\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb se ajo fizike, mendoj!\nHap rrug\u00ebn goce. Esteban<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– K\u00ebshtu do\njet\u00eb deri sa t\u00eb rroj\u00eb, se \u00ebsht\u00eb injorant me rr\u00ebnj\u00eb. L\u00ebre!! Liza<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ik l\u00ebre plehren\ndhe gjej dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb respekt p\u00ebr veten e vet\u00eb pastaj p\u00ebr ty, t\u00eb uroj fat,\ndhe mos u m\u00ebrzit po e le se do shp\u00ebtosh. Armela<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nmundur q\u00eb ke aq pak vler\u00ebsim e dashuri p\u00ebr veten? Nj\u00eb person q\u00eb t\u00eb trajton n\u00eb\nk\u00ebt\u00eb form\u00eb nuk meriton t\u00eb rrish 5 minuta m\u00eb gjat\u00eb me t\u00eb e jo m\u00eb t\u00eb mendosh t\u00eb\nkalosh jet\u00ebn. Sjellja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt e thjesht\u00eb, nuk t\u00eb do e njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb\nnuk duan t\u2019ia din\u00eb! Zgjedhjen e ke n\u00eb dor\u00eb ti, por mos u b\u00ebj pre e meshkujve t\u00eb\ntill\u00eb, duaj m\u00eb shum\u00eb veten e at\u00ebher\u00eb do takosh edhe njeriun e duhur. Orieta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>P\u00ebr mendimin tim, k\u00ebtu t\u00eb gjith\u00eb\nb\u00ebhen moralist\u00eb dhe ecin me teorin\u00eb jo me praktik\u00ebn, n\u00eb sensin q\u00eb kur njeriu\n\u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i dashuruar si kjo vajza, harron dhe g\u00eblltit shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra. Ti mos e\nl\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb ofendoj\u00eb, mbaj q\u00ebndrim ndaj tij, b\u00ebja t\u00eb qart\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb vret e l\u00ebndon n\u00eb\nk\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb si t\u00eb trajton. Fillo t\u00eb fitosh pak nga pak terren mbi t\u00eb. Anila<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>Largohu sa nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb von\u00eb se ujku qimen\ne nd\u00ebrron, por zakonin s\u2019e harron. Ti e di vet\u00eb, por m\u00eb e mira \u00ebsht\u00eb te ndahesh\nse jeta eshte e gjate dhe nuk jetohet me te perulur gjithmone. Roza<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Hiq dore sa nuk je vone. Ofendimin ai e ka pjese te\nkarakterit. S\u2019ka per te ndryshuar.\nAlbana<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Historia juaj m\u00eb kujtoi shum\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn time. Ai person\nnuk ju meriton, po ju trajton si kafsh\u00eb sikur kush e di \u00e7\u2019i duket vetja. P\u00ebr\nmendimin tim, l\u00ebre sa nuk eshte von se do t\u00eb t\u00eb gjej\u00eb si un\u00eb, me nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb\ndeshtuar. Tani n\u00eb kto momente q\u00eb po ju shkruaj e ndjej veten m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur q\u00eb\njam vetem sesa me nj\u00eb  person t\u00eb till\u00eb\nnuk kalon jeta. Me injorant\u00eb qe u duket vetja m\u00eb t\u00eb ditur e m\u00eb me shkoll\u00eb se\nne. Mimoza<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Faji eshte i yti moj goce, e ke lejuar q\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e tua\ne tani topi eshte ne doren e tij. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se e do veten, bej keshtu, ftoje ne\nkafe e i thuaj \u201c\u00ebsht\u00eb hera e fundit e nuk po te duroj m\u00eb. Tani duhet te mendoj\nper jeten time! Do krijoj familje! Kam rastin ne dore do fejohem ndoshta me\nmbleseri\u201d. Shiko reagimin. Ti do zgjedhesh o dinjitetin tend, o p\u00ebrbuzjen e te\ntjereve. Andi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nga t\u00eb gjitha komentet ky m\u00eb i sakti. Bravo. Xhevo<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sado t\u00eb kerkoj\u00eb falje, ai prap\u00eb do te vazhdoj\u00eb te ofendoj\u00eb\nsepse e di qe ti do ta falesh ate. Dhe kur nje mashkull nuk te respekton, \u00e7fare\npret me nga ai? Aq e ka vizionin, mundohu sa te duash, keshtu qe mos ik me vrap\nme u feju me t\u00eb se b\u00ebn gabim. Kipi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kur te shan mbase s\u2019e ka me gjith\u00eb mend, eshte njeriu qe\nflet ashtu, po jo se ta thot\u00eb me shpirt, e ka si shaka, te tjerat i di ti, nese\nte do me te vertet\u00eb apo jo. Petro<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ai nuk do te fejohet me ty, por te do per te t\u00eb perdorur.\nPse kur i thua \u201cdua te ndahem nga ti\u201d, ai te thote \u201cjo, ti je per mua\u201d?! Sepse\nmir\u00eb t\u00eb ka ashtu per te t\u00eb perdorur si kukull. Me vjen keq po po te them qe\nduhet ti japesh nje zgjidhje dhe do t\u00eb ishte mir\u00eb ta lije p\u00ebrfundimisht kete\nqelepirxhi. Nuk mund te vazhdosh me fyerje e ofendime. Leonardi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00ebse gabon nj\u00eb her\u00eb quhet gabim, por nese e perserit disa\nhere quhet q\u00ebllim. Hiq dore para se ai te heq\u00eb dore prej teje ne menyren m\u00eb t\u00eb\nulet qe te te posht\u00ebroje edhe me keq, \u00ebsht\u00eb ujk i vjeter ai! Armela<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb fal qe po ta them, por ik nj\u00eb or\u00eb e m\u00eb par\u00eb nga ai\nnjeri. Nuk mund t\u00eb krijosh familje me nje person qe te ofendon. Sot te ofendon,\nkurse neser s\u2019dihet \u00e7far\u00eb ben. Martesa nuk eshte nje dite mike, por jan\u00eb vite.\nShikoje problemin me seriozisht. Po nuk pati respekt dhe mir\u00ebkuptin ne nje\n\u00e7ift, do t\u00eb vij\u00eb dita e do t\u00eb ndaheni.\nPajtim<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mos humb koh kot me t\u00eb. Kur te ofendon ty ai \u00ebsht\u00eb duke\nofenduar veten p\u00ebrderisa jeni bashk\u00eb, prandaj ai te paska ty per loder. Roberti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Lene fare para se te jete vone. Kjo nuk eshte dashuri. Leda<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb, mendon ti se ai te do, por ne te vertete,\nJO. Ariana<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Akoma s\u2019e ke lene?!\nLola<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk te kuptoj si rri akoma me at\u00eb kafsh\u00eb. Enkelejda<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00ebse nuk ke respekt per veten mos prit te ken\u00eb te tjeret\nsepse  respekti ndaj vetes te pozicionon.\nMarsela<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ik moj femer injorante \u00e7far\u00eb pret?! Kur t\u00eb ofendon tani, m\u00eb\nvon\u00eb do presesh degjenerimin prej tij. Pse mi, u shua bota per burr\u00eb?! M\u00eb fal,\npor qenke fem\u00ebr  legene qe e duron! Edi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te dashka shume! Lida<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ah, \u00e7\u2019me shkrive per Zotin, tamam leka koken per te\nshkreten… Si i  thone asaj shprehjes:\nhapu dh\u00e9… Iris<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00c7far\u00eb pret q\u00eb rri me t\u00eb?! Enea<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Qenke cope mishi ti mi goce! Melisa<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N – Jam e lidhur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb prej dy vjet\u00ebsh tashm\u00eb, e dua shum\u00eb dhe di q\u00eb edhe ai m\u00eb do, ama m\u00eb ofendon n\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, m\u00eb ul para njer\u00ebzve duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201chajt se ti nuk di gj\u00eb, je pak injorante\u201d, sepse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i madh se un\u00eb. E shikon […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-20572","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20572","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20572"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20572\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20572"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20572"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20572"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}