{"id":20543,"date":"2019-01-18T13:00:52","date_gmt":"2019-01-18T12:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20543"},"modified":"2019-01-18T12:38:54","modified_gmt":"2019-01-18T11:38:54","slug":"%ef%bb%bfkalova-ne-depresion-kur-lashe-sektin-fetar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/%ef%bb%bfkalova-ne-depresion-kur-lashe-sektin-fetar\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffKalova n\u00eb depresion kur lash\u00eb sektin fetar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><strong>&#8211; M\u00eb falni q\u00eb ju shqet\u00ebsoj . N\u00eb\npamund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhur n\u00eb zyr\u00ebn tuaj, desha t\u00eb flisja p\u00ebr nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb m\u00eb\nshqet\u00ebson vazhdimisht me psikologen tuaj. Jam 20 vje\u00e7e, studente. Para disa vjet\u00ebsh\nkam pas shkuar te sekti i \u201cD\u00ebshmitar\u00ebve t\u00eb Jehovait\u201d. Pasi e lash\u00eb, u ndjeva\nshum\u00eb keq dhe kalova nj\u00eb gjendje depresive. Tani, sa her\u00eb q\u00eb i kujtoj, ndihem\nprap\u00eb keq, provoj nj\u00eb si gjendje ankthi, sa s\u2019mund t\u00eb fle as nat\u00ebn. Ju lutem,\nsi mund t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmoni? Po pat\u00ebt mund\u00ebsi, m\u00eb ktheni p\u00ebrgjigje. Do t\u2019ua dija p\u00ebr\nnder sepse do m\u00eb ndihmonit shum\u00eb me p\u00ebrgjigjen tuaj\u2026!<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email <a href=\"mailto:lorela_garuli@hotmail.com\">lorela_garuli@hotmail.com<\/a>:<\/strong> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje!\nT\u00eb falenderojm\u00eb q\u00eb ndan me ne shqet\u00ebsimin t\u00ebnd. \u00c7\u00ebshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb se p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb n\u00eb\np\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb plota, duhet m\u00eb shum\u00eb informacion lidhur me episodin e par\u00eb t\u00eb\nankthit, me k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje depresive, si \u00ebsht\u00eb shfaqur, cila \u00ebsht\u00eb frekuenca,\ncfar\u00eb mendimesh t\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb ato caste, cfar\u00eb ta shkakton k\u00ebt\u00eb parehati; fakti\nq\u00eb u largove apo q\u00eb ishe pjes\u00eb e atij sekti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb\nrast se arsyeja e shqet\u00ebsimeve t\u00eb tua ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me koh\u00ebn kur ishe pjes\u00eb e\nk\u00ebtij sekti, duke qen\u00eb se kur i kujton p\u00ebrjeton ndjenja negative, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb\nse mbase p\u00ebr nj\u00eb arsye ose tjet\u00ebr, angazhimi yt aty nuk ka qen\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jetojm\u00eb\nn\u00eb koh\u00ebn e shprehjes s\u00eb lir\u00eb t\u00eb besimeve t\u00eb ndryshme fetare dhe ushtrimit t\u00eb\npraktikave p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se gjithkush mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb grupi\nfetar apo sekti. Por, kushti apo kriteri kryesor \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb cdo rast, besimi\nt\u2019i sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb mir\u00ebq\u00ebnies s\u00eb individit, p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimit t\u00eb cil\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb jet\u00ebs,\narritjes s\u00eb ekuilibrave t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ajo\nq\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndodhur n\u00eb rastin t\u00ebnd \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e ke gjetur veten dhe nuk\nje p\u00ebrshtatur me ideologjin\u00eb apo praktikat e sektit ku ke qen\u00eb pjes\u00eb. K\u00ebtu nuk\nka asgj\u00eb anormale apo t\u00eb papranueshme. Prandaj, pjes\u00ebmarrjen t\u00ebnde t\u00eb m\u00ebparshme\naty mund ta konsiderosh si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb, q\u00eb ndon\u00ebse nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb rezultuar\nsic ke pritur, n\u00eb cdo rast mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb vlejtur p\u00ebr dicka dhe nuk ka pse t\u00eb\nshkaktoj\u00eb pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi sot p\u00ebr sot. Duke e konsideruar si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar,\nq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mbyllur, do t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb pak ndikim tek ti sot dhe ky mendim mund t\u00eb\nsh\u00ebrbej\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00ebsuar. T\u00eb uroj m\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; M\u00eb falni q\u00eb ju shqet\u00ebsoj . N\u00eb pamund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhur n\u00eb zyr\u00ebn tuaj, desha t\u00eb flisja p\u00ebr nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson vazhdimisht me psikologen tuaj. Jam 20 vje\u00e7e, studente. Para disa vjet\u00ebsh kam pas shkuar te sekti i \u201cD\u00ebshmitar\u00ebve t\u00eb Jehovait\u201d. Pasi e lash\u00eb, u ndjeva shum\u00eb keq dhe kalova nj\u00eb gjendje [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19716,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[2161],"class_list":["post-20543","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-psikologe-lorela"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20543","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20543"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20543\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}