{"id":20502,"date":"2019-01-17T13:30:44","date_gmt":"2019-01-17T12:30:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20502"},"modified":"2019-01-17T12:42:10","modified_gmt":"2019-01-17T11:42:10","slug":"nderrova-femijen-tim-ne-maternitet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/nderrova-femijen-tim-ne-maternitet\/","title":{"rendered":"Nd\u00ebrrova f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim n\u00eb maternitet"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(Vijim)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb pata fatin t\u00eb takoja nj\u00ebr\u00ebn nga infermieret e spitalit dhe e pyeta\nsi mund ta gjeja ku jetonte vajza q\u00eb kishte marr\u00eb Albin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pse t\u00eb intereson kaq shum\u00eb ajo vajz\u00eb? Mos njiheni bashk\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jo, thjesht jemi takuar n\u00eb spital dhe doja t\u00eb kontaktoja p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me t\u00eb\nsepse ishte vajz\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u2013 i thash\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mir\u00eb, un\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb kam folur me t\u00eb dhe ishte shum\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitur.\nF\u00ebmija q\u00eb kishte lindur, nuk kishte baba, pasi at\u00eb e kishin p\u00ebrdhunuar. Ajo nuk\ndonte as ta shihte t\u00eb birin dhe kishte vendosur ta linte te Sht\u00ebpia e F\u00ebmij\u00ebs.\nDi vet\u00ebm q\u00eb jeton jo shum\u00eb larg maternitetit… – tha ajo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E mora menj\u00ebher\u00eb adres\u00ebn, e fal\u00ebnderova dhe ika. Zemra po m\u00eb dilte nga\nvendi. Mendova se, m\u00eb n\u00eb fund, e kisha gjetur tim bir. Trokita dhe der\u00ebn e hapi\nnj\u00eb burr\u00eb rreth t\u00eb dyzetave. Ishte tep\u00ebr i ngrysur n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kush je ti? – m\u00eb pyeti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Doja t\u00eb flisja me vajz\u00ebn tuaj, jam nj\u00eb shoqja e saj… – e g\u00ebnjeva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pas pak, ajo doli: – Njihemi bashk\u00eb? – m\u00eb pyeti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Un\u00eb t\u00eb njoh dhe dua t\u00eb flas me ty, ndaj t\u00eb lutem vishu dhe flasim diku\ntjet\u00ebr… – i thash\u00eb. Vajt\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb lokal t\u00eb qet\u00eb dhe aty, i tregova gjith\u00e7ka.\nAjo shtangu n\u00eb vend. I k\u00ebrkova falje shum\u00eb her\u00eb q\u00eb i kisha marr\u00eb djalin. – E di\nq\u00eb nuk ka falje p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebra dhe ke shum\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb urresh, por n\u00eb\nmomentin q\u00eb e b\u00ebra, nuk mendoja p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb – i thash\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Un\u00eb t\u00eb fal, por nuk e di a do t\u00eb ta fal\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb djali dhe familja jote\nsepse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Un\u00eb djalin e \u00e7ova te Sht\u00ebpia e F\u00ebmij\u00ebs sepse…\n– dhe m\u00eb tregoi gjith\u00eb historin\u00eb e saj ashtu si\u00e7 ma tha infermierja. \u2013\nMegjithat\u00eb, tani ai \u00ebsht\u00eb me mua sepse prind\u00ebrit ma mbush\u00ebn mendjen q\u00eb duhet ta\nmbaja. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, un\u00eb e kisha lindur dhe ai nuk kishte faj p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb\nm\u00eb ka  ndodhur – tha. Ajo kishte vendosur\nta mbante Albin megjith\u00ebse ai ishte i s\u00ebmur\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb, n\u00ebna e tij e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb,\ne kisha braktisur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Por\u2026 un\u00eb e dua tim bir! – i thash\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Eja me mua… – m\u00eb tha dhe m\u00eb \u00e7oi n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e saj. N\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs\nishte nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb po luante n\u00eb krevatin e tij. Mbeta disa minuta pa l\u00ebvizur,\nvet\u00ebm po e shihja. Doja ta p\u00ebrqafoja shum\u00eb dhe t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoja t\u00eb falur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Afrohu dhe foli sepse ai t\u00eb kupton. \u00cbsht\u00eb djal\u00eb shum\u00eb i zgjuar! – m\u00eb tha\najo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iu afrova. Kishte shikimin e babait t\u00eb tij. M\u00eb pa dhe qeshi. Sa do t\u00eb doja\nn\u00eb ato momente t\u2019i thoja se isha mamaja e tij, por kur d\u00ebgjova t\u00eb th\u00ebrriste\n\u201cmami\u201d vajz\u00ebn q\u00eb kisha pran\u00eb, nuk munda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si \u00ebsht\u00eb djali im? – m\u00eb pyeti ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ah, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur, shkon n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i dashur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– P\u00ebr di\u00e7ka nuk m\u00eb vjen keq… Ai ka mundur t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb me ty. Un\u00eb\nnuk do t\u00eb mund t\u2019ia plot\u00ebsoja nevojat. Kur mund ta shoh? \u2013 m\u00eb pyeti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Tani nuk mundemi sepse im shoq nuk e di k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb sapo t\u00eb tregova… U b\u00ebn\u00eb\ndhjet\u00eb vjet q\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb sekret nuk ia kam th\u00ebn\u00eb askujt, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb do t\u00eb vij un\u00eb\nnes\u00ebr, s\u00eb bashku me djalin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ajo pranoi. Por, si mund t\u2019ia tregoja un\u00eb tim shoqi pas dhjet\u00eb vjet\u00ebsh at\u00eb\nq\u00eb kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ai, gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe, mendonte se po rriste f\u00ebmij\u00ebn\ne tij? E kisha shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, megjithat\u00eb, kur vajta n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, mora guximin\ndhe ia thash\u00eb. Reagimi i tij ishte i ashp\u00ebr, si\u00e7 mund t\u00eb pritej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si munde ta b\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb? Asnj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb nuk do ta b\u00ebnte k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebre ti. Nuk po\nt\u00eb njoh m\u00eb. Mua ma tregon tani, pasi kan\u00eb kaluar dhjet\u00eb vjet dhe pret q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb\nfal? – tha. I lutesha t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohej sepse mund ta d\u00ebgjonte djali q\u00eb po flinte,\npor ai ishte me nerva dhe nuk e kuptonte sa e ngrinte z\u00ebrin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E kupton \u00e7far\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb? Ke mohuar djalin t\u00ebnd dhe tani pret mir\u00ebkuptim\nnga un\u00eb? M\u00eb vjen keq, por k\u00ebt\u00eb nuk ta fal dot! – m\u00eb tha. – M\u00eb urre po deshe\nsepse edhe un\u00eb e urrej veten time, por u pendova q\u00eb t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen, megjith\u00ebse nuk\nkisha guximin t\u00eb ta thoja ty. Isha e vetmuar dhe nuk dija \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebja, por nuk u\ndor\u00ebzova kurr\u00eb derisa e gjeta tim bir. Kam jetuar dhjet\u00eb vjet t\u00eb tmerrsh\u00ebm dhe\nnuk kam reshtur asnj\u00eb minut\u00eb s\u00eb menduari p\u00ebr djalin… \u2013 thash\u00eb, por ai k\u00ebrkoi\nq\u00eb ta merrja menj\u00ebher\u00eb Albin dhe ta sillja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Nuk donte t\u2019ia dinte fare\np\u00ebr mua. E dija q\u00eb pasi i thash\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, martesa jon\u00eb do t\u00eb merrte fund dhe kjo\np\u00ebr mua ishte shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb sepse ishte rrjedhoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb veprimi q\u00eb nuk e\nmendova fare. Vajta t\u00eb merrja djalin, por vajza nuk pranoi t\u00eb ma jepte para se\nt\u00eb shihte djalin e saj. M\u00eb dukej sikur po shk\u00ebmbenim dy objekte dhe jo f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\ntan\u00eb. E kisha shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ndarjen me djalin q\u00eb kisha rritur, por doja\npatjet\u00ebr tim bir. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, Albi nuk pranonte t\u00eb ndahej nga ajo, nd\u00ebrsa\nmua m\u00eb shikonte me inat sikur ta dinte q\u00eb un\u00eb e kisha braktisur. Im shoq, sapo\ne pa, e p\u00ebrqafoi, megjith\u00ebse e shihja q\u00eb n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e tij dhembjen q\u00eb Albi\nishte ashtu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, me djalin ton\u00eb! – i thash\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mund ta shoh\u00ebsh sa her\u00eb t\u00eb duash! – tha ai. M\u2019u duk sikur m\u00eb ra tavani\nmbi kok\u00eb. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb, ai donte t\u00eb thoshte q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk kisha m\u00eb vend n\u00eb at\u00eb familje.\nQ\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb, ne kemi jetuar t\u00eb ndar\u00eb dhe djalin e mban ai. Po e vuaj shum\u00eb\ngabimin tim. Ndoshta e meritoj k\u00ebt\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb\nmos e shoh\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e saj \u00e7do dit\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb pran\u00eb tij n\u00eb \u00e7do moment.\nTani, Albi \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur dhe un\u00eb nuk resht s\u00eb luftuari \u00e7do dit\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jem\np\u00ebrs\u00ebri pran\u00eb tij. Edhe bashk\u00ebshortit tim i kam k\u00ebrkuar q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb fal\u00eb, por ai\nk\u00ebt\u00eb e ka l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb t\u00eb Albit, prandaj vazhdoj t\u00eb jetoj me shpres\u00ebn se nj\u00eb\ndit\u00eb do t\u00eb jem pran\u00eb tij. E dua aq shum\u00eb sa edhe jet\u00ebn do ta jepja p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Nuk\narrij ta besoj se si qesh\u00eb aq e pashpirt sa t\u00eb nd\u00ebrroja f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim, por edhe\nn\u00ebnat gabojn\u00eb dhe, si t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, e meritojn\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb dyt\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn po e\npres \u00e7do dit\u00eb, me padurim. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

(Vijim) Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb pata fatin t\u00eb takoja nj\u00ebr\u00ebn nga infermieret e spitalit dhe e pyeta si mund ta gjeja ku jetonte vajza q\u00eb kishte marr\u00eb Albin. – Pse t\u00eb intereson kaq shum\u00eb ajo vajz\u00eb? Mos njiheni bashk\u00eb? – Jo, thjesht jemi takuar n\u00eb spital dhe doja t\u00eb kontaktoja p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me t\u00eb sepse ishte vajz\u00eb e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20502","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aktualitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20502","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20502"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20502\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20502"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20502"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20502"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}