{"id":20462,"date":"2019-01-16T22:00:42","date_gmt":"2019-01-16T21:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20462"},"modified":"2019-01-16T19:44:47","modified_gmt":"2019-01-16T18:44:47","slug":"gruaja-me-e-madhe-se-burri%ef%bb%bfa-kane-jetegjatesi-keto-martesa%ef%bb%bf","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/gruaja-me-e-madhe-se-burri%ef%bb%bfa-kane-jetegjatesi-keto-martesa%ef%bb%bf\/","title":{"rendered":"Gruaja m\u00eb e madhe se burri\ufeff;A kan\u00eb jet\u00ebgjat\u00ebsi k\u00ebto martesa?\ufeff"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Tendenca m\u00eb e re e jet\u00ebs n\u00eb \u00e7ift: Gruaja m\u00eb e madhe se\nburri<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n


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\u201cT\u00eb dashur gazetar\u00eb\nt\u00eb faqes intime. Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tet\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7are q\u00eb\ndua t\u00eb mbetem anonime. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, po diskutonim me shoqet se cila \u00ebsht\u00eb mosha m\u00eb\ne mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar dhe sa diferenc\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb partner\u00ebt me\nnj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Un\u00eb vet\u00eb nuk kam nd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb martohem tani shpejt se dua t\u00eb\nvazhdoj shkoll\u00ebn e lart\u00eb, por megjithat\u00eb, mendoj se m\u00eb mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb partner\u00ebt\nt\u00eb jen\u00eb moshatar\u00eb. Nj\u00ebra nga shoqet e mia k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulte se martesat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira\njan\u00eb ato kur mashkulli \u00ebsht\u00eb disa vjet m\u00eb i madh se femra, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, pes\u00eb\nvjet, nd\u00ebrsa nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr u hodh e tha di\u00e7ka t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme: \u201cS\u2019ka martesa m\u00eb t\u00eb\nmira sesa ato, kur mashkulli \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl n\u00eb mosh\u00eb sesa bashk\u00ebshortja e\ntij\u201d. Ne, sigurisht, e kund\u00ebrshtuam, por mua k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb m\u00eb fut\u00ebn n\u00eb mendime,\npasi m\u2019u kujtua nj\u00eb e njohura ime, q\u00eb e ka burrin tre vjet m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe\nshkojn\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Pastaj, k\u00ebto martesa jan\u00eb shtuar edhe mes\npersonave VIP\u2026 A \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebto martesa jan\u00eb t\u00eb sukseshme? Cilat jan\u00eb\npluset dhe minuset e tyre? Me respekt, Ana\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

E nderuar lexuese,\npo e themi q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim se, sipas mendimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm, jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb\nspecialist\u00ebve, por edhe t\u00eb shumic\u00ebs s\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb, martesat m\u00eb t\u00eb\nmira jan\u00eb ato kur midis dy partner\u00ebve ka pika t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta (duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb\nk\u00ebtu edhe mosh\u00ebn) dhe nuk ka ose ka sa m\u00eb pak minuse, madje edhe pluse, n\u00eb t\u00eb\ndy krah\u00ebt. Pra, martes\u00eb m\u00eb e mbar\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo kur partner\u00ebt i p\u00ebrshtaten\nnj\u00ebri-tjetrit, jan\u00eb dy gjysma t\u00eb barabarta dhe krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb unike…\nHistoria e institucionit t\u00eb martes\u00ebs n\u00eb evolucionin e tij shekullor, si n\u00eb\nvendin ton\u00eb, ashtu edhe n\u00eb vende t\u00eb tjera, ka njohur edhe martesat me diferenc\u00eb\nt\u00eb madhe moshe, kur vajza t\u00eb reja, si t\u00eb thuash, pa u rritur mir\u00eb, martoheshin\nme burra t\u00eb thinjur dhe, si rregull, mbeteshin vejusha n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur\nt\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre\u2026 Ishte nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur lot\u00ebt e vajzave t\u00eb mitura nuk ngjallnin\nasnj\u00eb keqardhje apo protest\u00eb as n\u00eb rrethin familjar apo shoq\u00ebror. P\u00ebr inerci,\nedhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb, shpesh mbahet nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim indiferent kur burri mund t\u00eb\njet\u00eb edhe 20 vjet m\u00eb i madh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb se nusja e re (megjith\u00ebse pas krah\u00ebve do\nt\u00eb p\u00ebrfliten shkaqet, q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e rasteve t\u00eb natyr\u00ebs materiale apo\nt\u00eb pozit\u00ebs s\u00eb lart\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb burrave t\u00eb pjekur). Krejt ndryshe \u00ebsht\u00eb\nreaguar, p\u00ebr shembull, kur ka ndodhur dhe ndodh e kund\u00ebrta, kur nj\u00eb grua e\nkaluar nga mosha ose nj\u00eb grua \u201ce pjekur\u201d, martohet me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u00eb ri. N\u00eb\nk\u00ebt\u00eb rast, s\u2019mbetet njeri pa folur: \u201cAma gjeti nuse! Po ajo ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb\nklas\u00eb me t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn!\u201d, \u201cPika gruas, po ajo edhe si gjyshe \u00ebsht\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb e\njo m\u00eb si grua\u201d. \u201cEh, \u00e7\u2019b\u00ebn paraja!\u201d. Dhe, p\u00ebr \u00e7udin\u00eb e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, jan\u00eb\npik\u00ebrisht grat\u00eb ato q\u00eb i d\u00ebnojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebto lloj martesash, megjith\u00ebse ato,\nn\u00eb rastet konkrete, dalin m\u00eb t\u00eb fituara\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Psikologu francez\nLaurentij P., \u00ebsht\u00eb i mendimit se p\u00ebr femr\u00ebn, p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin dhe gjendjen e saj\nshpirt\u00ebrore, martesa me nj\u00eb t\u00eb ri \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e dobishme dhe m\u00eb e k\u00ebndshme\nsesa martesa me nj\u00eb moshatar apo me nj\u00eb mashkull m\u00eb t\u00eb madh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb.\nSeksolog\u00ebt dhe psikolog\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb n\u00ebnvizojn\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn tri pluse t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre\nmartesave t\u00eb grave m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, me djem t\u00eb rinj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pluset<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet\nseksuale<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tanim\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pranuar\nshkenc\u00ebrisht se jeta e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb seksuale p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua, fillon pas t\u00eb\ntridhjetave, nd\u00ebrsa mashkulli e arrin pikun shum\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, q\u00eb andej nga\nmosha 25-vje\u00e7are dhe, pas pikut, aktiviteti i tij n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fush\u00eb fillon t\u00eb\nbjer\u00eb… Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, bashkimi i nj\u00eb gruaje n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb thyer me\nnj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb ri, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb harmonik; t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb af\u00ebrsi, jan\u00eb t\u00eb\ngatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb eksperimentojn\u00eb dhe t\u2019i kalojn\u00eb net\u00ebt me loj\u00ebra seksuale, duke\nndjekur moton: \u201cSa m\u00eb shum\u00eb, aq m\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d\u2026 Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb pozitive, sepse\nasgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa pasionet seksuale nuk mund t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb p\u00ebr forcimin e\nmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Prej tyre, rrjedh si uj\u00ebt e burimit edhe gjendja e mir\u00eb\nshpirt\u00ebrore, edhe energjia jet\u00ebsore. Nj\u00eb grua e lumtur nga pik\u00ebpamja seksuale\nmund t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbys\u00eb malet p\u00ebr burrin e saj t\u00eb dashur, t\u00eb ri dhe t\u00eb fort\u00eb\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Sh\u00ebndeti<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Krahas k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb\nq\u00eb marrin nga jeta, k\u00ebto gra arrijn\u00eb edhe qet\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe harmonin\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore.\nDhe, kur shpirti \u00ebsht\u00eb i lumtur, nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr depresione dhe pagjum\u00ebsi.\nOrganizmi mbushet me hormone t\u00eb reja dhe gruaja e ndjen veten m\u00eb t\u00eb re nga\n\u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb. Shpesh, n\u00eb rastet kur burri \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhjet\u00eb vjet m\u00eb i ri, diferenca\nzhduket dhe gruaja e rinuar duket si v\u00ebrsnike. Ve\u00e7 gjith\u00eb k\u00ebtyre, gruaja e\nrip\u00ebrt\u00ebrir\u00eb fillon nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb aktive, frekuenton palestr\u00ebn, pishinat, plazhet,\nb\u00ebn udh\u00ebtime turistike, madje edhe m\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr male\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Aktiviteti\nshoq\u00ebror<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjendja e mir\u00eb\nshpirt\u00ebrore dhe sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, sjell pa asnj\u00eb dyshim nj\u00eb aktivizim m\u00eb t\u00eb madh t\u00eb\ngruas n\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe veprimtarin\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore. Sipas statistikave, k\u00ebto gra\nkujdesen jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr karrier\u00ebn e tyre, por edhe p\u00ebr karrier\u00ebn e burrave t\u00eb\ntyre t\u00eb rinj. Ato shp\u00ebrthejn\u00eb n\u00eb ide origjinale, p\u00ebrpilojn\u00eb projektet q\u00eb mund\nt\u00eb realizojn\u00eb t\u00eb dy, p\u00ebr t\u00eb zhvilluar talentin e bashk\u00ebshortit. Ajo s\u2019l\u00eb lidhje\nfisnore e miq\u00ebsore pa shfryt\u00ebzuar p\u00ebr t\u2019i siguruar t\u00eb shoqit vendin q\u00eb meriton\nn\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. N\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi, asnj\u00ebri prej t\u00eb dyve nuk e p\u00ebson nga ky\nriaktivizim, p\u00ebrkundrazi, p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb t\u00eb dy. T\u00eb dy jan\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe t\u00eb\nk\u00ebnaqur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Minuset<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet q\u00eb\nlindin nga parat\u00eb<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kuptohet vetvetiu\nse gruaja, kur martohet n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb, ka p\u00ebrshkuar nj\u00eb distanc\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb\nrrug\u00ebs s\u00eb jet\u00ebs dhe ka fituar di\u00e7ka, pa p\u00ebrjashtuar k\u00ebtu edhe p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn jet\u00ebsore\ndhe profesionale; ka arritur, pra, t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb disa para, nd\u00ebrsa djali, sapo hyn\nn\u00eb jet\u00ebn familjare dhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, fiton pak, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, gruas\ni duhet ta mbaj\u00eb burrin me t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb e me t\u00eb pir\u00eb, me t\u00eb mbathur e me t\u00eb\nveshur. Por, ka miliona gra n\u00eb bot\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat, edhe pse i kan\u00eb burrat moshatar\u00eb\napo m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme, b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb. Kjo\nmund t\u00eb sjell\u00eb ndonj\u00eb f\u00ebrkim dhe disharmoni t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn gruaja e pjekur\ndhe e men\u00e7ur mund ta kap\u00ebrcej\u00eb leht\u00eb. Si\u00e7 dihet, q\u00ebllimet dhe synimet e nj\u00ebjta\ni bashkojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Xhelozia<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rrezik\nme t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb real. Zor t\u00eb gjesh ndonj\u00eb grua n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos b\u00ebhet\nxheloze kur i shoqi i saj (sidomos kur \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i ri se ajo, kur \u00ebsht\u00eb i bukur\ndhe simpatik) ka nj\u00eb rreth t\u00eb gjer\u00eb t\u00eb njohurash, si\u00e7 kan\u00eb djemt\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb\nn\u00eb universitet, n\u00eb pun\u00eb, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri. Ajo, n\u00eb subkoshienc\u00eb, por edhe realisht, e\nsheh secil\u00ebn prej tyre si nj\u00eb rrezik real q\u00eb i k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon lumturin\u00eb dhe, sado q\u00eb\nta mbaj\u00eb veten, do t\u00eb vij\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb shp\u00ebrthej\u00eb. Pik\u00ebrisht ky shp\u00ebrthim\ni xhelozis\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shkak p\u00ebr keqkuptime, grindje, madje edhe ndarje.\nNdjenja e xhelozis\u00eb, edhe po nuk arriti deri k\u00ebtu, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri do ta torturoj\u00eb\nvazhdimisht gruan e pjekur\u2026 T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebshillat e psikolog\u00ebve reduktohen shpesh\nn\u00eb nj\u00eb: Mos i privoni bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt tuaj nga mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebvizur lirisht n\u00eb\nhap\u00ebsirat e jet\u00ebs personale, mos ua kontrolloni kurr\u00eb xhepat, mos ua lexoni\nmesazhet n\u00eb celular\u00eb, mos u b\u00ebni atyre kurr\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me shoqet,\nmikeshat dhe t\u00eb njohurat. Shtypeni sa t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb krye ndjenj\u00ebn e xhelozis\u00eb q\u00eb\nju cyt n\u00eb veprime t\u00eb tilla. K\u00ebto k\u00ebshilla, q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb domosdoshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha\ngrat\u00eb, u shkojn\u00eb p\u00ebr shtat m\u00eb shum\u00eb grave q\u00eb i kan\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb rinj se\nveten. Esht\u00eb e njohur aksioma: Xhelozia e g\u00ebrryen p\u00ebrbrenda dashurin\u00eb, miq\u00ebsin\u00eb\ndhe harmonin\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortore, si krimbi drurin e vjet\u00ebr. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Kush do t\u00eb jet\u00eb\nkryefamiljari?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Martesa, kur\npartner\u00ebt kan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn mosh\u00eb, por sidomos kur burri \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl, ka m\u00eb\nn\u00eb fund edhe nj\u00eb problem tjet\u00ebr delikat. Ky problem ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me faktin se\nkush do t\u00eb jet\u00eb kryefamiljar. Si rregull, n\u00eb familjet ku gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb e pjekur\ndhe me p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb jete, nd\u00ebrsa burri \u00ebsht\u00eb i ri, pa p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb, gjith\u00eb ekonomia dhe\nmbar\u00ebvajtja e familjes p\u00ebrqendrohet n\u00eb duart e gruas. Ajo merr pothuajse\ngjithmon\u00eb iniciativ\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb apo at\u00eb orendi, etj. Mir\u00ebpo, me kalimin\ne koh\u00ebs, gradualisht, duke u pjekur burri, ai fillon t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyj\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb\nshpesh dhe vendos jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shpenzimet ditore, por edhe p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla t\u00eb\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb shpenzime m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, si, bie fjala, se ku do t\u2019i\nkalojn\u00eb pushimet vjetore, etj. Sigurisht, varet nga gruaja, por kjo shpesh e\nhabit at\u00eb, madje edhe e nxeh, e irriton. \u201cEpo, filloi edhe ai t\u00eb na diktoj\u00eb\ntani, ai s\u2019ka pik\u00eb p\u00ebrvoje, ai i ka ende buz\u00ebt me qum\u00ebsht\u201d. Q\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb t\u00eb mos\nb\u00ebhet burim grindjesh dhe mosmarr\u00ebveshjesh, gruaja e urt\u00eb dhe e men\u00e7ur l\u00ebshon\npe. Mashkulli, p\u00ebr vet\u00eb natyr\u00ebn e tij, k\u00ebrkon \u201cpushtet\u201d, k\u00ebrkon \u201ct\u00eb sundoj\u00eb\u201d,\nprandaj gruaja s\u2019ka pse ta vras\u00eb mendjen shum\u00eb. N\u00eb rast se do t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb n\u00eb\nharmoni me burrin e saj t\u00eb ri, le t\u2019i thot\u00eb: \u201cShiko, k\u00ebtu nuk ka vend p\u00ebr t\u00eb\ndiskutuar: Ti je burr\u00eb, pra, ti je kryefamiljari!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sidoqoft\u00eb,\npavar\u00ebsisht nga fakti se cili nga partner\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb i madh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb,\npavar\u00ebsisht nga fakti se secili rast ka minuset dhe pluset e veta, duhet\nmbajtur parasysh di\u00e7ka e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme: Secila nga martesat ka karakter\nindividual dhe, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 atyre q\u00eb p\u00ebrmend\u00ebm ne, mund t\u00eb ndeshen fenomene negative\ndhe pozitive nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmet. P\u00ebr mendimin ton\u00eb, nga t\u00eb gjitha v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb\nq\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb jeta familjare, nga t\u00eb gjitha minuset dhe pluset q\u00eb duhen patur\nparasysh kur e krijojm\u00eb at\u00eb, vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebra \u00ebsht\u00eb vendimtare: Mungesa e ndjenjave\nreciproke. T\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb tjerat, p\u00ebrfshi edhe mosh\u00ebn, jan\u00eb paragjykime shoq\u00ebrore\nq\u00eb diktohen shpesh vet\u00ebm nga lig\u00ebsia apo zilia e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Prandaj, kur t\u00eb\nvendosni p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar familjen tuaj, d\u00ebgjoni sa m\u00eb pak se \u00e7\u2019thuhet p\u00ebrreth\ndhe sa m\u00eb me v\u00ebmendje mendjen dhe zemr\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Tendenca m\u00eb e re e jet\u00ebs n\u00eb \u00e7ift: Gruaja m\u00eb e madhe se burri \u201cT\u00eb dashur gazetar\u00eb t\u00eb faqes intime. Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tet\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7are q\u00eb dua t\u00eb mbetem anonime. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, po diskutonim me shoqet se cila \u00ebsht\u00eb mosha m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar dhe sa diferenc\u00eb duhet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20463,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[2146],"class_list":["post-20462","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-burri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20462"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20462\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}