{"id":20430,"date":"2019-01-16T15:00:47","date_gmt":"2019-01-16T14:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20430"},"modified":"2019-01-16T12:25:25","modified_gmt":"2019-01-16T11:25:25","slug":"kam-rene-ne-dashuri-me-psikologun-si-te-veproj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/kam-rene-ne-dashuri-me-psikologun-si-te-veproj\/","title":{"rendered":"Kam r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me psikologun! Si t\u00eb veproj?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>M\u00eb udh\u00ebkryq<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 25 vje\u00e7e q\u00eb kam r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me nj\u00eb psikolog rreth 34 vje\u00e7. Pata nj\u00eb problem dhe kontaktova me t\u00eb. Ai di \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. Ia kam besuar t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn time, di \u00e7do detaj, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 nj\u00eb gj\u00ebje: Q\u00eb jam e dashuruar me t\u00eb, me psikologun tim&#8230; Nuk e shoh m\u00eb si psikolog, si psikoterapist apo si ndihm\u00ebsin tim, por si mashkull, si nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb m\u00eb ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr dhe q\u00eb e dashuroj. Kjo ka ndodhur pa vet\u00ebdijen time. Psikologu im sillet jasht\u00ebzakonisht mir\u00eb me mua. Ai shpesh edhe m\u00eb telefonon p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb pyetur n\u00eb \u00e7\u2019gjendje jam, p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb po mendoj dhe shum\u00eb e shum\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb tjera. P\u00ebrkund\u00ebr k\u00ebsaj, q\u00eb ai tregon nj\u00eb kujdes t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr mua, as q\u00eb mund t\u00eb supozoj se ai ndjen t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb sepse etika nuk ia lejon psikologut nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni si t\u00eb veproj n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast? T\u2019ia them apo te pres?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211;\nDerisa \u00ebsht\u00eb psikolog e di dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb ju keni r\u00ebn\u00eb brenda! <strong>Kujtimi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211;\nOre ca \u00ebsht\u00eb nam i zi, shkoni p\u00ebr t\u2019u sh\u00ebruar dhe bini n\u00eb dashuri, na habit\u00ebt!<strong> Lea<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211;\nThuaji cfar\u00eb ndjen, njer\u00ebz jemi dhe mund t\u00eb na ndodhte kujtdo prej nesh!<strong> Maksi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211;\nPo psikologun \u00e7\u2019e do aman, ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull p\u00ebr vete, do merret edhe me\nty tani.<strong> Linda<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Lexoj\ndhe po habitem,\u00e7far\u00eb jan\u00eb k\u00ebto komente dekurajuese, psikolog nuk b\u00ebn, doktor\njo, k\u00ebng\u00ebtar jo, po \u00e7far\u00eb profesioni duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb dikush q\u00eb t\u00eb biem n\u00eb\ndashuri? Nuk besoj se keni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, prandaj vajz\u00eb e dashur, jepi\ndrejtim dhe thuaja, t\u00eb pakten nuk do ndihesh keq q\u00eb nuk ia the.<strong> Klodi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211;\nThuaja, edhe pse dyshoj q\u00eb ai nuk e ka kuptuar sepse psikolog\u00ebt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb\naft\u00eb t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb ndjenjat dhe emocionet<strong>.\nTedi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211;\nNuk besoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb mendim i keq ky i t\u00eb shprehurit. Thuaja!<strong> Egla<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211;\nMendoj se po t\u2019ia thuash ai do mbaj\u00eb etik\u00ebn profesionale dhe nuk do jesh m\u00eb as\npacientja e tij. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ekziston edhe frika e humbjes s\u00eb tij. <strong>Megi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; N\u00ebse\nsillet mir\u00eb me ty dhe t\u00eb kupton, hiqe faktin q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb psikologu yt, thuaja dhe\nt\u00eb pakt\u00ebn do ndihesh mir\u00eb q\u00eb ia the.<strong>\nMelisa<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00eb udh\u00ebkryq &#8211; Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 25 vje\u00e7e q\u00eb kam r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me nj\u00eb psikolog rreth 34 vje\u00e7. Pata nj\u00eb problem dhe kontaktova me t\u00eb. Ai di \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. Ia kam besuar t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn time, di \u00e7do detaj, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 nj\u00eb gj\u00ebje: Q\u00eb jam e dashuruar me t\u00eb, me psikologun tim&#8230; Nuk e [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19938,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-20430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20430"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20430\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}