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Libertinizmi apo jeta e lir\u00eb\nseksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb paragjykohet dhe shihet si tabu edhe n\u00eb dit\u00ebt tona. B\u00ebhet\nfjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i hapur, apo i lir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb \u00e7\u2018t\u00eb doj\u00eb, pra t\u00eb\nket\u00eb edhe partner\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Dikur mendohej se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fush\u00eb burrat b\u00ebnin\nligjin, nd\u00ebrsa grat\u00eb ishin t\u00eb detyruara t\u2019u b\u00ebnin qejfin q\u00eb t\u00eb mos prishej\nmartesa e tyre, por sot kjo situat\u00eb ka ndryshuar. Lexoni m\u00eb posht\u00eb 4 klishe p\u00ebr\nlibertinizmin dhe ku q\u00ebndron e v\u00ebrteta…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. Libertinizmi dhe shk\u00ebmbimi i \u00e7ifteve jan\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta\ngj\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u00eb pari le t\u00eb\nsqarojm\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb libertinizmi. Fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00ab nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb\njetuari pa respektuar zakonet e mira t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb \u00bb. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb\npara s\u00eb gjithash nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jetes\u00eb q\u00eb i p\u00ebrket gjith\u00eb llojeve t\u00eb seksualitetit\njasht\u00eb t\u00eb ashtuquajturit \u00e7ift klasik. Termi p\u00ebrfshin k\u00ebtu \u00e7iftet treshe, kat\u00ebrshe,\np\u00ebrzierjen (shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb me beqar\u00eb, q\u00eb kan\u00eb mar\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale n\u00eb\ngrup, por pa penetrim jasht\u00eb \u00e7iftit) dhe shk\u00ebmbimi, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb 2+2, ku partnere\u00ebt\nshk\u00ebmbehen. Shk\u00ebmbimi i \u00e7ifteve pra \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb \u00ab deg\u00eb \u00bb e\nlibertinizmit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 2. B\u00ebhet p\u00ebr t\u00eb luftuar m\u00ebrzin\u00eb <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00ab Shk\u00ebmbimi\nm\u00eb tundon, por i them vetes se, n\u00ebse kam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb pikante\nlidhjen time, at\u00ebher\u00eb di\u00e7ka nuk shkon n\u00eb t\u00eb \u00bb, tregon Helena, 31 vje\u00e7. Kjo\n\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe jo. \u00ab Lib\u00ebrtinizmi lejon t\u00eb krijohet nj\u00eb\nhap\u00ebsir\u00eb krijuese dhe t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh nga seksualiteti rutin\u00eb i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, ai i t\u00eb\nshtun\u00ebs n\u00eb dark\u00eb \u00bb, sakt\u00ebson nj\u00eb specialist, autor librash p\u00ebr libertinizmin.\n\u00ab Por kjo nuk i p\u00ebrket vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebr\u00ebzve q\u00eb m\u00ebrziten n\u00eb \u00e7iftin e tyre dhe\nsidomos, jo \u00e7ifteve, lidhja e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb e brisht\u00eb. P\u00ebrkundrazi, duhet t\u00eb\njesh shum\u00eb i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb besim total tek tjetri p\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar\nm\u00ebrit\u00eb. Kjo mund t\u2019i jap\u00eb shtys\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti \u00ab t\u00eb lodhur \u00bb, por q\u00eb\nduhet akoma. P\u00ebrkundrazi, n\u00ebse lidhja ka probleme, kjo nuk rregullon asgj\u00eb, do\nt\u00eb ishte i nj\u00ebjti gabim si t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar \u00e7iftin \u00bb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. T\u00eb shk\u00ebmbesh partner\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb tradh\u00ebtosh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb klishe\nq\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb mbret\u00ebroj\u00eb akoma. Kjo p\u00ebrshtypje e nj\u00eb tradh\u00ebtie t\u00eb maskuar, \u00ebsht\u00eb\najo q\u00eb bezdis Kevinin, 24 vje\u00e7 : \u00ab Nuk jam nga ata q\u00eb ndajn\u00eb\npartneren me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb zbavit\u00ebse, por egoja ime nuk do ta duronte\nt\u00eb shihja partneren time duke b\u00ebr\u00eb qejf me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, do t\u00eb m\u00eb jepte p\u00ebrshtypjen\nse jam me brir\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr duke dh\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00eblqimin tim \u00bb. Edhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\nrast, n\u00ebse rregullat jan\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb nga t\u00eb dy, libertinizmi mbetet nj\u00eb loj\u00eb.\n\u00ab Duhet par\u00eb si nj\u00eb loj\u00eb Monopoli \u00bb, b\u00ebn shaka specialisti yn\u00eb.\n\u00ab Q\u00ebllimi \u00ebsht\u00eb ta b\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Shkoni nj\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb klub\nku shk\u00ebmbehen \u00e7ifte vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe, n\u00ebse kjo ju tundon, i fiksoni vet\u00eb\nkufijt\u00eb tuaj dhe, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, i tregoni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin \u00e7do her\u00eb eksperienc\u00ebn\ntuaj, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn dakord \u00bb. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, n\u00ebse ke th\u00ebn\u00eb po\nnj\u00eb her\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se t\u00eb jepet leja ta b\u00ebsh p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb pacaktuar.\nEdhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb praktikon k\u00ebt\u00eb, n\u00ebse nj\u00ebri nga dy partner\u00ebt rifillon prapa\nshpin\u00ebs s\u00eb tjetrit dhe, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, pa t\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb kjo quhet tradh\u00ebti !<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb praktike anarkike<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Disa i shohin\nende klubet e shk\u00ebmbimit t\u00eb \u00e7ifteve si bordello t\u00eb maskuara. Por, kjo praktik\u00eb\nzhvillohet sipas disa rregullave t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuara mir\u00eb dhe, n\u00ebse nuk zgjidhni nj\u00eb\nklub ku hyrja \u00ebsht\u00eb 3 euro pas nj\u00eb stacioni treni, nuk ka kurr\u00eb asnj\u00eb presion,\nas detyrim p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks. \u00c7do vend ka rregullat e tij, por jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb\ngrat\u00eb q\u00eb vendosin. \u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb rregulla e art\u00eb, k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul specialisti. Jan\u00eb\nfemrat q\u00eb drejtojn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka, q\u00eb thon\u00eb po ose jo, burrat jan\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr, ata\nb\u00ebjn\u00eb vet\u00ebm at\u00eb q\u00eb u autorizohet t\u00eb b\u00ebhet dhe \u00e7do rr\u00ebshqitje kthehet menj\u00ebher\u00eb\nn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e duhur. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, jan\u00eb vende ku ka gjithmon\u00eb shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz dhe\nshum\u00eb roje, pra ka gjithmon\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb t\u00eb detyrojn\u00eb t\u00eb respektosh rregullat.\nKjo mbase krijon m\u00eb shum\u00eb siguri sesa t\u00eb jesh vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb me dy ose tre\npersona t\u00eb tjer\u00eb\u201d. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Libertinizmi apo jeta e lir\u00eb seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb paragjykohet dhe shihet si tabu edhe n\u00eb dit\u00ebt tona. B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i hapur, apo i lir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb \u00e7\u2018t\u00eb doj\u00eb, pra t\u00eb ket\u00eb edhe partner\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Dikur mendohej se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fush\u00eb burrat b\u00ebnin ligjin, nd\u00ebrsa grat\u00eb ishin t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20321,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20320","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20320","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20320"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20320\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20321"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20320"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20320"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20320"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}