{"id":20287,"date":"2019-01-14T16:00:08","date_gmt":"2019-01-14T15:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20287"},"modified":"2019-01-14T14:25:43","modified_gmt":"2019-01-14T13:25:43","slug":"ta-le-te-fejuaren-e-dyte-dhe-te-kthehem-te-e-para","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/ta-le-te-fejuaren-e-dyte-dhe-te-kthehem-te-e-para\/","title":{"rendered":"Ta l\u00eb t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kthehem te e para?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje. Jam Amarildo nga Kor\u00e7a, kam 3 vjet i fejuar, por problemi k\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb se mua m\u00eb rri mendja tek e fejuara e par\u00eb. Mendoj p\u00ebr t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn e par\u00eb dhe qaj p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Kam 3 vjet q\u00eb jam ndar\u00eb prej saj, por nuk e harroj dot. Kam marr\u00eb vesh q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar e ka edhe nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, i kam d\u00ebrguar gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr at\u00eb e kam nd\u00ebrmend ta ndihmoj p\u00ebrs\u00ebri q\u00eb ta b\u00ebj p\u00ebr vete. E dua shum\u00eb dhe nuk di si t\u00eb veproj. Ju, \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloni? Mos vall\u00eb po b\u00ebj gabim q\u00eb m\u00eb rri mendja tek ajo?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00c7a mendon, t\u2019i prish\u00ebsh familjen asaj,\nkur ajo ka edhe vajz\u00eb? B\u00ebn mir\u00eb t\u2019i rrish larg, shiko t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, mos e\nl\u00ebr pas dore, duaje dhe respektoje se do humbas\u00ebsh edhe k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb ke. Antonia<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Amarildo, do b\u00ebje shum\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00ebse\ntregohesh i sinqert\u00eb me t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn q\u00eb ke tani, por ti a je i sigurt q\u00eb ish-e\nfejuara t\u00eb do si\u00e7 e do ti? Un\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb si ndihesh, por b\u00ebji gj\u00ebrat\nme pjekurin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe, sepse do l\u00ebndosh njer\u00ebz q\u00eb ndoshta nuk e meritojn\u00eb.\nShpresoj ta gjesh nj\u00eb zgjidhje dhe t\u00eb jesh i lumtur. Viola <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Tregoji t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebs ndjenjat q\u00eb ke p\u00ebr\nat\u00eb tjetren q\u00eb nes\u00ebr pasnes\u00ebr t\u00eb mos vuajn\u00eb p\u00ebr budallall\u00ebqet e tua edhe\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb do t\u00eb sjell\u00ebsh n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Se, po t\u00eb jet\u00eb pak inteligjente e fejuara\njote do t\u00eb dij\u00eb vet\u00eb si ta menaxhoj\u00eb situat\u00ebn, pavar\u00ebsisht dhimbjes q\u00eb do t\u00eb\nprovoj\u00eb. M\u00eb mir\u00eb nj\u00eb fund me dhimbje sesa nj\u00eb dhimbje pa fund. Dalina<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Zgjohu, se je n\u00eb gjum\u00eb, prano\nrealitetin e mos kujto gj\u00ebrat e mira q\u00eb ke kalu me ish-in, por dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat\nse po t\u00eb kishit kaluar mir\u00eb, s\u2019do ndaheshit, trap. Ervi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po p\u00ebr t\u00eb fejuaren aktuale a ke\nmenduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb? Si do t\u00eb ndihej ajo po t\u00eb ishte n\u00eb vendin tuaj?! Marsia<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh nj\u00eb mendim,\npor tep\u00ebr e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta p\u00ebrjetosh vet\u00eb, ndaj mendimi im \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb e ka\nkoha n\u00eb dor\u00eb, jeta do ndryshoj\u00eb, gjith\u00e7ka e krejt pa kuptuar ti do ec\u00ebsh n\u00eb\ndrejtimin t\u00ebnd, ajo n\u00eb drejtimin e saj, ndaj mos e mundo veten, zemra nuk\nkomandohet. Dona<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kur e doje kaq shum\u00eb, pse e le? B\u00ebji\nhyzmetin k\u00ebsaj q\u00eb ke se ajo ka familjen e saj. Enka <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nj\u00eb gj\u00eb pyes un\u00eb se pse s\u2019e deshe ti\nsa e pate n\u00eb krah? Pse iku ajo te tjetri? Kjo tregon se je nj\u00eb k… nga mendt\u00eb\nsi nj\u00eb, si 20 t\u00eb fejuara me pas\u00eb. Aida<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mendoj q\u00eb ti mor djal\u00eb, je hala n\u00eb\ngjum\u00eb. Zgjohu dhe jeto jet\u00ebn me t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn e lene t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn mbrapa. I thon\u00eb\nnj\u00eb shprehjeje: n\u00ebse personin e par\u00eb e nd\u00ebrron me t\u00eb dytin, zgjidh t\u00eb dytin se\npo ta doje t\u00eb parin, nuk do ta nd\u00ebrroje me t\u00eb dytin. Mendoj se ti duhet thjesht\nt\u2019i b\u00ebsh vetes nj\u00eb leksion e t\u00eb vish n\u00eb planetin Tok\u00eb sepse qenke n\u00eb qiell me\nmendje. Ardiana<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Do b\u00ebsh mir\u00eb t\u00eb rrish larg dhe t\u00eb\nkontrollosh ndjenjat e afshet e tua, se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb von\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb mendon.\nNdryshe do t\u2019i b\u00ebsh l\u00ebmsh t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, bashk\u00eb me mendjen t\u00ebnde. Mendimi im \u00ebsht\u00eb.\nPetro<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb duhet ajo tani? \u00c7do njeri kur\nmartohet ka mbaruar pun\u00eb dhe ti martohu dhe mbaro pun\u00eb dhe shih familjen t\u00ebnde. Anxhela<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ndahu edhe me k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn, prit sa t\u00eb\nmartohet dhe fejohu me t\u00eb tret\u00ebn e mendo p\u00ebr t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn, ndahu nga e treta, l\u00ebre\nt\u00eb martohet, fejohu me t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt\u00ebn e me radh\u00eb, vazhdo t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb, \u00e7oju\ndhurata, paguaj llogarit\u00eb e shpenzimet dhe puno nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb si hamall p\u00ebr\nish-t\u00eb fejuarat. Ti mendo edhe paguaj, se qejfin e b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Dritani<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mire e ke, vazhdo k\u00ebshtu se ia vlen. Disi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kot e ke me dhurata, provo hapi nj\u00eb\nllogari bankare hahah. Bruno<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Un\u00eb kam menduar t\u2019i b\u00ebj magji t\u00eb\nfejuar\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb, ta ndaj nga i shoqi, por neve na ndau mamaja ime, sepse \u00e7far\u00eb\ni blija t\u00eb fejuares s\u00eb par\u00eb e k\u00ebrkonte dhe mami. Me t\u00eb fejuaren e dyt\u00eb nuk\nshkoja mir\u00eb se e kapa me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr duke u puthur. Nuk mund ta harroj t\u00eb\nfejuar\u00ebn e par\u00eb un\u00eb qaj p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Lido<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mundohu ta harrosh sa m\u00eb shpejt, kjo\ngj\u00eb do ishte m\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ty sepse n\u00eb rast se tenton t\u00eb lidhesh p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me at\u00eb\nvajz\u00eb kam p\u00ebrshtypjen se ajo vajz\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb shkaktoj\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhimbje\nse \u00e7\u2019po ndien tani. Ledi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– At\u00ebher\u00eb mos e merr n\u00eb qaf\u00eb t\u00eb fejuaren\ne dyt\u00eb, qenke injorant, kur nuk u deshet kur ishit bashk\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb k\u00ebrkon nga e\nfejuara e par\u00eb kur ajo qenka b\u00ebr\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00eb? Je totalisht gabim, mblidh trut\u00eb\nse do t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb edhe e fejuara e dyt\u00eb, apo edhe me k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebshtu do veprosh?! Je\ntotalisht gabim, hiq dor\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkushtoju t\u00eb fejuares s\u00eb dyt\u00eb. Kjo tregon q\u00eb ti\nnuk ke karakter si burr\u00eb! Kamila <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Harroje o daku. Nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb iken nga\nduart, nuk kthehet m\u00eb. Genti <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje. Jam Amarildo nga Kor\u00e7a, kam 3 vjet i fejuar, por problemi k\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb se mua m\u00eb rri mendja tek e fejuara e par\u00eb. Mendoj p\u00ebr t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn e par\u00eb dhe qaj p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Kam 3 vjet q\u00eb jam ndar\u00eb prej saj, por nuk e harroj dot. Kam marr\u00eb vesh q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19938,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-20287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}