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Zonja X jeton n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe merret me edukimin e brezit t\u00eb ri,\npor \u00ebsht\u00eb e thyer shpirt\u00ebrisht nga jeta q\u00eb i dhuroi prej 20 vjet\u00ebsh nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i\nakullt me t\u00eb, por \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, i nxeht\u00eb me grat\u00eb e \u201cndershme\u201d t\u00eb qytetit te\ntij. Me zonj\u00ebn X u njoha para dy vjet\u00ebsh, n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet dy shkrimeve t\u00eb saj te nj\u00eb\ngazet\u00eb, shkrime q\u00eb ndez\u00ebn nj\u00eb debat t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr midis lexuesve t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj gazete,\npasi tema q\u00eb prekej ishte tep\u00ebr e mpreht\u00eb dhe kishte t\u00eb b\u00ebnte me moralin. Kjo\nzonj\u00eb q\u00eb jetonte brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb me akullin 20 vje\u00e7ar te burrit, m\u00eb n\u00eb fund,\nshp\u00ebrtheu\u2026 Ishte njohur rast\u00ebsisht n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet celularit, me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb\nmartuar, 6 apo 8 vjet m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, nd\u00ebrsa ajo ishte 40 vje\u00e7e (Ky qe edhe shkaku\nkryesor q\u00eb ndezi debatin midis lexuesve q\u00eb p\u00ebrmenda m\u00eb sip\u00ebr). Midis tyre, p\u00ebr\ntre muaj rresht, vet\u00ebm me sms, kishte shp\u00ebrthyer nj\u00eb dashuri si e Romeos me\nXhuliet\u00ebn. P\u00ebr zonj\u00ebn X, ishte si dashuria e par\u00eb e adoleshenc\u00ebs. Ajo filloi ta\ndonte marr\u00ebzisht A-n\u00eb dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb nuk e b\u00ebnte p\u00ebr hakmarrje ndaj burrit t\u00eb saj t\u00eb\nakullt. Ajo gjeti tek A. fjal\u00ebn e ngroht\u00eb dhe \u00ebmb\u00eblsin\u00eb e sjelljes s\u00eb tij, t\u00eb\ncilat i mungonin burrit-akull dhe diktator, por kur ajo i k\u00ebrkoi takim q\u00eb ta\nshihte, ta prekte, ta ndjente realisht, befas A-ja nuk u ndje me\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo e k\u00ebrkoi p\u00ebr muaj t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb, por ai nuk u p\u00ebrgjigj m\u00eb. At\u00ebhere ajo\nvendosi t\u2019i botonte dy shkrimet e saj n\u00eb gazet\u00eb lidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb histori. N\u00eb fund\nbetohej se kjo qe lidhja e pare dhe e fundit me nj\u00eb burre tjeter, tradhtia e\npar\u00eb e saj, por gaboi kur tha se burrat nj\u00eb fytyr\u00eb kan\u00eb\u2026 Duke u nisur nga kjo\nshprehje, nga sulmet deri n\u00eb ofendime ndaj saj t\u00eb disa lexuesve t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs dhe\np\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00ebse zonja X nuk kishte \u201ct\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn fytyr\u00eb\u201d si ne burrat, un\u00eb \u00e7ova\ndisa sms te gazeta, ku mbroja dhe p\u00ebrkrahja k\u00ebt\u00eb zonj\u00eb p\u00ebr guximin dhe shprehjen\ne ndjenjave t\u00eb saj, publikisht. Ajo m\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi p\u00ebrgjigje fal\u00ebnderuese dhe bashk\u00eb\nshk\u00ebmbyem disa sms zyrtare, pas t\u00eb cilave ndodhi \u201c\u00e7udia\u201d. Zonja X filloi t\u00eb\ndyshonte se un\u00eb isha A-ja, aq sa ajo m\u00eb drejtohej n\u00eb sms me emrin A. U mundova\nta sqaroja, por ajo vazhdonte me sms q\u00eb sa vinin e b\u00ebheshin m\u00eb t\u00eb nxehta.\nAt\u00ebhere vendosa t\u2019i thoja se isha A, por kisha nd\u00ebrruar numrin e celularit. E\nb\u00ebra k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr ta lumturuar k\u00ebt\u00eb zonj\u00eb q\u00eb kishte vite q\u00eb e kishte humbur\nlumturin\u00eb. Ajo u g\u00ebzua pa mas\u00eb, duke kujtuar se e rigjeti A-n\u00eb e saj. Lam\u00eb edhe\ntakim p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb nj\u00eb kafe. Kur u takuam, ajo fluturonte nga g\u00ebzimi, si nj\u00eb 15\nvje\u00e7are. Biseduam rreth dy or\u00eb. Un\u00eb isha mpir\u00eb, pasi kjo dit\u00eb e bukur ishte e\nsaja dhe e A-s\u00eb, jo e imja. Ajo e kuptoi mpirjen time e, duke m\u00eb prekur dor\u00ebn,\nm\u00eb tha: \u201cQenke b\u00ebr\u00eb akull, paske emocione…\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pasi pim\u00eb kafen\u00eb, u ndam\u00eb, ajo me A-n\u00eb e un\u00eb me \u201cg\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebn\u201d, g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr\nq\u00eb mund t\u00eb rrezikonte edhe familjen time. M\u00eb pas, ajo vazhdoi t\u00eb m\u00eb sillte zile\ndhe sms, kurse un\u00eb heshtja. Ka disa muaj q\u00eb edhe ajo ka heshtur, si un\u00eb…\nNdoshta u lodh. Por, kaq qe misioni im, vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ajo grua te lumturohej, t\u00eb\n\u00e7lirohej qoft\u00eb edhe disa or\u00eb nga akulli, err\u00ebsira 20 vje\u00e7are e t\u2019i kujtoja asaj\nse jeta ka edhe drit\u00eb e k\u00ebt\u00eb drit\u00eb ajo duhet ta k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb, ta gjej\u00eb, ta mbaj\u00eb\nfort, se, k\u00ebshtu, akulli 20 vje\u00e7ar do t\u00eb shkrij\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb ngrij\u00eb m\u00eb. P\u00ebr\naq koh\u00eb sa bisedova me t\u00eb, dua t\u00eb theksoj se ajo ishte zonj\u00eb, ishte e koh\u00ebs dhe\nse v\u00ebrtet e dashuronte, e adhuronte A-n\u00eb \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebrfundimisht, e shkrova k\u00ebt\u00eb histori p\u00ebr t\u2019i k\u00ebrkuar ndjes\u00eb zonj\u00ebs X p\u00ebr\ntakimin e g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt me A-n\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse un\u00eb e lumturova AT\u00cb, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr dy or\u00eb,\nn\u00eb bar…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Me respekt, BEL AMI<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Zonja X jeton n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe merret me edukimin e brezit t\u00eb ri, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e thyer shpirt\u00ebrisht nga jeta q\u00eb i dhuroi prej 20 vjet\u00ebsh nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i akullt me t\u00eb, por \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, i nxeht\u00eb me grat\u00eb e \u201cndershme\u201d t\u00eb qytetit te tij. Me zonj\u00ebn X u njoha para dy vjet\u00ebsh, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20236,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[254],"class_list":["post-20235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori-personale"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20235","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20235"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20235\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20236"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}