{"id":20226,"date":"2019-01-13T18:00:31","date_gmt":"2019-01-13T17:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20226"},"modified":"2019-01-13T16:12:50","modified_gmt":"2019-01-13T15:12:50","slug":"i-dashuri-eshte-me-ngjyre-ta-mbaj-apo-ndaj-sic-thote-familja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/i-dashuri-eshte-me-ngjyre-ta-mbaj-apo-ndaj-sic-thote-familja\/","title":{"rendered":"I dashuri \u00ebsht\u00eb me ngjyr\u00eb.Ta mbaj apo ndaj si\u00e7 thot\u00eb familja?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– Kam nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb po m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson shum\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit. Jam lidhur me nj\u00eb t\u00eb huaj. Nuk e mendoja kurr\u00eb se do t\u00eb lidhesha me t\u00eb, por duke e njohur prej koh\u00ebsh, duke par\u00eb virtytet e tij, m\u00eb b\u00ebri p\u00ebr vete. Un\u00eb para se t\u00eb njihja k\u00ebt\u00eb kisha dal\u00eb nga nj\u00eb lidhje shum\u00eb e keqe, sepse pata nj\u00eb t\u00eb fejuar t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm. Dhe kisha vite pa r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri. Por problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se jo vet\u00ebm se \u00ebsht\u00eb i huaj, por \u00ebsht\u00eb me ngjyr\u00eb, pra \u00ebsht\u00eb i zi. \u00cbsht\u00eb i formuar nga ana intelektuale, profesionale dhe vjen nga familje me tradita t\u00eb forta. Ai do t\u00eb martohemi, por familja ime m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kund\u00ebrv\u00ebn\u00eb keq, duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se po na turp\u00ebron me k\u00ebt\u00eb zezak, pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebshtu e gjykojn\u00eb. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb francez, dhe pse \u00ebsht\u00eb i zi, por \u00ebsht\u00eb lindur e rritur atje. E dashuroj v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, dhe nuk m\u00eb intereson aspak q\u00eb ka ngjyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. \u00cbsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebmuj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb n\u00eb familjen time, m\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnojn\u00eb duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se do t\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtojme nga familja p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb vijm\u00eb as kur t\u00eb martohesh as kur t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh n\u00ebn\u00eb. Kjo gj\u00ebndje po m\u00eb s\u00ebmur, nuk dua ta humbas familjen, por as mashkullin q\u00eb dua. Si do t\u00eb vepronit ju n\u00eb rastin tim? Ju lutem mos ofendoni.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Un\u00eb them ta mbash, se \u00ebsht\u00eb gjynah i shkreti. Aleksi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sa i zi \u00ebsht\u00eb, katran fare \u00ebsht\u00eb…? Alda <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Familja ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, mbaj familjen, burra ka plot. Visi <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Merre, se dashuria nuk shikon ngjyr\u00eb apo gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera,\npro dashurin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Mateo<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Lyeje me t\u00eb bardh\u00eb dhe l\u00ebri at\u00eb pjes\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrhoqi pa\nlyer… Meli <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Lyeje me boj\u00eb t\u00eb bardh\u00eb, e ke parasysh at\u00eb reklam\u00ebn e\nboj\u00ebs, ja ashtu b\u00ebje.ahahaha Arjani<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb a s\u2019kishte ndonj\u00eb mashkull\ntjet\u00ebr? Familja ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb q\u00eb se pranon lidhjen t\u00ebnde. Po kur t\u00eb lindin\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt, b\u00ebhet aty nj\u00eb i bardh, nj\u00eb i zi ku rraca degjenerohet. Tani zgjidh o\nfamiljen o Afrik\u00ebn, s\u2019mund t\u2019i kesh kurr\u00eb t\u00eb dyja. Sulo. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 – B\u00ebji operacion\nplastik si Majkell Xhakson. X Fier. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>Dashuria s\u2019ka lidhje me ngjyr\u00ebn apo rrac\u00ebn e njeriut. Sa\nnjer\u00ebz t\u00eb bardh\u00eb njohim dhe jan\u00eb kriminela, biles dhe brenda familjes s\u00eb tyre.\nMoj vajz\u00eb mos i shiko k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra, sepse do t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh personin q\u00eb do m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb familja do ta kuptoj\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrkrah\u00eb. Aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\ni huaj, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sjellsh\u00ebm me femrat shqiptare, sepse ne i p\u00ebrkushtohemi\nfamiljes. Lina<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>Ndoshta familja do t\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtoj\u00eb tani, por sa do ju\nzgjas\u00eb inati nj\u00eb vit maksimumi, sepse prindi sidomos p\u00ebrs\u00ebri kthehet tek f\u00ebmija\ni vet sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb gjaku i vet, dhe nuk mund ta braktisi. Ti n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit\nnuk po b\u00ebn krim, se dashuron nj\u00eb t\u00eb zi. Edhe ata njer\u00ebz t\u00eb Zotit jan\u00eb, ai i ka\nfal\u00eb ai, kjo sdo t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mos biesh n\u00eb dashuri dhe me nj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Thjesht\u00eb\nngjyra ndryshon, por shpirtin e kan\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj me t\u00eb bardh\u00ebt. P\u00ebr t\u00eb mos th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb\nrraca e bardh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e degjeneruar. Merita\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Un\u00eb se kuptoj se \u00e7far\u00eb ka t\u00eb keqe se dashuron nj\u00eb t\u00eb zi.\nN\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb boten pranohen, vet\u00ebm n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri t\u00eb gjykojn\u00eb apo gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb thon\u00eb\n\u00ebsht\u00eb kurv\u00eb. Po ato vipat ca jan\u00eb…. nuk l\u00ebn\u00eb vend pa bredhur. Bashk\u00ebshorti im\n\u00ebsht\u00eb i huaj dhe jam shum\u00eb e lumtur me t\u00eb, ca e do nj\u00eb shqiptar t\u00ebr\u00eb pordh\u00eb q\u00eb\nt\u00eb rreh, un\u00eb kam 4 vjet me burrin tim. Kurr\u00eb sm\u00eb ka ofenduar dhe pastaj thojn\u00eb\nq\u00eb femrat shqiptare jan\u00eb lolo  e t\u00eb\nhuajve, uf e kan\u00eb gabim. Ka shum\u00eb femra shqiptare q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb lumtura me t\u00eb huaj.\nSka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi i zi apo i bardh\u00eb, r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb tja kalosh mir\u00eb. Bela<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Shum\u00eb keq q\u00eb jeni ende kaq racist\u00eb. Mbaj dashurin\u00eb vajz\u00eb\ne dashur l\u00ebre \u00e7far\u00eb thot\u00eb familja, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do pajtohen me vendimin t\u00ebnd. Edita<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Kam nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb po m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson shum\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit. Jam lidhur me nj\u00eb t\u00eb huaj. Nuk e mendoja kurr\u00eb se do t\u00eb lidhesha me t\u00eb, por duke e njohur prej koh\u00ebsh, duke par\u00eb virtytet e tij, m\u00eb b\u00ebri p\u00ebr vete. Un\u00eb para se t\u00eb njihja k\u00ebt\u00eb kisha dal\u00eb nga nj\u00eb lidhje shum\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-20226","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20226","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20226"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20226\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20226"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20226"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20226"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}