{"id":20134,"date":"2019-01-12T18:00:40","date_gmt":"2019-01-12T17:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20134"},"modified":"2019-01-12T15:39:58","modified_gmt":"2019-01-12T14:39:58","slug":"jemi-fejuar-por-nuk-ndahet-nga-ajo-tjetra-si-te-veproj%ef%bb%bf","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/jemi-fejuar-por-nuk-ndahet-nga-ajo-tjetra-si-te-veproj%ef%bb%bf\/","title":{"rendered":"Jemi fejuar por nuk ndahet nga ajo tjetra. Si t\u00eb veproj?\ufeff"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– Ndodhem n\u00eb udh\u00ebkryq p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb familjes sime. U fejova me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb cilin ma prezantoi familja. Edhe pse nuk e dashuroja, pranova p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb familjes sepse mendova se duke e njohur do t\u00eb bija n\u00eb dashuri me t\u00eb. Pastaj besova at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb tha familja se \u00ebsht\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb etj. Nuk kam qen\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb pro shkuesive, pa e njohur vete, por si\u00e7 thash\u00eb, e b\u00ebra p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb familjes. Tani kam 6 muaj q\u00eb jam fejuar dhe zbulova se ai dashuron marr\u00ebzisht nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, edhe pse nuk donte t\u00eb martohej me t\u00eb. Ai m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cTy nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb mungoj\u00eb asgj\u00eb, dua q\u00eb ti t\u00eb jesh gruaja ime. Me at\u00eb kam lidhje tjet\u00ebr dhe s\u2019e l\u00eb dot\u201d, por un\u00eb ndihem shum\u00eb keq, dua t\u00eb ndahem, nuk mund ta pranoj k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Nuk di si t\u00eb veproj, t\u2019i them familjes, edhe pse e di se do t\u00eb hapet nj\u00eb debat shum\u00eb i madh? Ju, si do t\u00eb vepronit?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– P\u00ebr mendimin tim, vazhdo n\u00eb\npun\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Po t\u00eb tradhtoi q\u00eb tani, ai do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb ta b\u00ebj\u00eb. Pastaj, familja\ni ka b\u00ebr\u00eb zgjedhjet e veta p\u00ebr veten e saj. Ti ke t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn t\u00ebnde t\u00eb plot\u00eb dhe\nlegjitime t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh vet\u00eb p\u00ebr veten t\u00ebnde. Lufto p\u00ebr veten dhe mos u dor\u00ebzo\nkurr\u00eb. Do gjesh nj\u00eb person q\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb dhe do ta duash gjithashtu. Kjo q\u00eb\npo ndodh tani n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde private nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb baz\u00eb e fort\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb\nrregullt dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb mendimi im, ti vendos vete. Uroj q\u00eb t\u00eb\nmund t\u2019i rregullosh gj\u00ebrat dhe t\u00eb jesh e lumtur me jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Melisa<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>Ndahu, \u00e7far\u00eb pret? T\u00eb vij\u00eb ai dhe t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cun\u00eb nuk t\u00eb\ndua se kam nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr\u201d? Mondi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pse ia humbet vlerat vetes\nduke ndenjur akoma me t\u00eb. S\u2019e kuptoj \u00e7\u2019e do nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Lije o goce\nmos u b\u00ebj asnj\u00ebher\u00eb e dyta. Edhe n\u00ebse nuk t\u00eb p\u00ebrkrah familja, je n\u00eb mosh\u00eb\nmadhore e ke mund\u00ebsi t\u2019i dal\u00ebsh jet\u00ebs ball\u00eb. Lona <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– L\u00ebre t\u00eb bohet nj\u00eb her\u00eb me 3\ndashnore e pastaj mendohu \u00e7a mund t\u00eb b\u00ebsh… Ledio <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Akoma e ke t\u00eb fejuar? Nexhi\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– B\u00ebhu e zonja e vetes dhe b\u00ebja\nti m… atij ndyr\u00ebsir\u00ebs, mos prit nga ai jet\u00eb familjare m\u00eb von\u00eb, kur vet\u00eb\nndyr\u00ebsira ta ka treguar. Ada <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk kalohet jeta p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb\nfamiljes se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb. Dhurata <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Tregoja rrugen me koh\u00eb sa nuk\n\u00ebsht\u00eb von\u00eb plehr\u00ebs. Astriti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– L\u00ebre n\u00eb vend, \u00e7a e mban m\u00eb\nplehr\u00ebn. Ajla. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– L\u00ebre t\u2019ju marr\u00eb t\u00eb dyjave, ty\np\u00ebr pun\u00eb me lop\u00eb e at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb seks. Fabio <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Martohu me babain e tij p\u00ebr\ninat! Hahaha. Budallenjt\u00eb dhe budalla\u00e7kat s\u2019kan\u00eb t\u00eb mbaruar. Kjo gj\u00eb nuk do\npyetje dhe mendime, duhet direkt ndarje. Tani <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I thuaj ta sjell\u00eb te sht\u00ebpia. Bledi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk besoj se ke nd\u00ebrmend me u\nmartu me t\u00eb. Aldo<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Dhe pyet?! Anxhela<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kaja nanen. Adi. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po t\u00eb ishe ti me dashnor, \u00e7a\nduhet t\u00eb b\u00ebnte i fejuari? Ori <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Akoma s\u2019jua ka th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe nga\nmaja e malit, \u00e7a pret? Ina<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mbaji qiririn kur t\u00eb jet\u00eb me\nat\u00eb dhe b\u00ebji ndonj\u00eb video, ose ik l\u00ebri rehat se kur nj\u00eb \u00e7ift duhet, s\u2019i futesh\ndot n\u00eb mes. Visi<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Ndodhem n\u00eb udh\u00ebkryq p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb familjes sime. U fejova me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb cilin ma prezantoi familja. Edhe pse nuk e dashuroja, pranova p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb familjes sepse mendova se duke e njohur do t\u00eb bija n\u00eb dashuri me t\u00eb. Pastaj besova at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb tha familja se \u00ebsht\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb etj. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20135,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[2005],"class_list":["post-20134","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-ne-udhekryq"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20134","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20134"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20134\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20135"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20134"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20134"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20134"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}