{"id":20048,"date":"2019-01-11T11:30:33","date_gmt":"2019-01-11T10:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=20048"},"modified":"2019-01-11T11:15:25","modified_gmt":"2019-01-11T10:15:25","slug":"%ef%bb%bfcfare-pasojash-kane-tek-femijet-keto-skena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/01\/%ef%bb%bfcfare-pasojash-kane-tek-femijet-keto-skena\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeff\u00c7far\u00eb pasojash kan\u00eb tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt k\u00ebto skena?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211;\nP\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista. Jam nj<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> prind nga Burreli dhe p<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong>r shkak t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> mbylljes s<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> sinjalit t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong>\ntelevizioneve&nbsp; jemi t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> detyruar t\u00eb\nblejm<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong>\naparatin digjital, pa harruar tashm\u00eb q\u00eb edhe interneti p\u00ebrdoret gjer\u00ebsisht. N\u00eb\nk<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong>to\nkanale to mund t\u00eb shikohen filma me skena dhune, t\u00eb frikshme, horror, por edhe\nshum\u00eb stacione seksi non stop q<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> far<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> leht<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> mund t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> \u00e7kodohen. K\u00ebto stacione shihen edhe nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe\nkodifikimi del jasht\u00eb loje p\u00ebr shum\u00eb arsye, objektive e subjektive, si: munges\u00eb\ne v\u00ebmendjes s\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjve, nga padituria e tyre, nga vjedhja e kodeve prej\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebve, shfryt\u00ebzim ambientesh bosh etj. Pyetja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb: Si e sa ndikon kjo\ndukuri te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb? A ndikon kjo n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen e tyre, sidomos si\nshkaqe krimesh apo probleme t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> tjera? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Lorela\nGaruli, psikologe, email <a href=\"mailto:lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-\">lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/a><\/strong> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje!\nT\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj q\u00eb ke sjell\u00eb n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje aktuale. N\u00eb fakt \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nv\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb ka plot efekte negative televizioni, media dhe interneti; efekte t\u00eb cilat\njan\u00eb t\u00eb pashmangshme. Si \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, teknologjia gjithashtu vjen me t\u00eb\nmirat e me t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat e veta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cbsht\u00eb gjithashtu e pamohueshme q\u00eb\nskenat e dhunshme, horror, seksuale dhe agresive nuk i ndihmojn\u00eb aspak f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\nt\u00eb krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh pozitiv p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. Sa m\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl t\u00eb jen\u00eb e sa m\u00eb her\u00ebt\nt\u00eb ekspozohen ndaj k\u00ebtyre skenave, aq m\u00eb keq do t\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb rasti i nj\u00eb\nf\u00ebmije i cili vet\u00eb p\u00ebr nga natyra ka element\u00eb agresiviteti apo q\u00eb jeton n\u00eb nj\u00eb\nmjedis t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur shikon skenat e lartp\u00ebrmendura, rezultati do t\u00eb\njet\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb edhe m\u00eb agresiv, verbalisht dhe fizikisht. Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb edhe\ne kund\u00ebrta, n\u00ebse nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb shum\u00eb i qet\u00eb dhe paq\u00ebsor \u00ebsht\u00eb shikues i shfaqjeve\nt\u00eb atilla; ajo q\u00eb ndodh \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb do t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb frik\u00ebra, pasiguri,\nankthe dhe do t\u00eb trembet m\u00eb shum\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Problemi me k\u00ebto transmetime\n\u00ebsht\u00eb se krijojn\u00eb ide t\u00eb gabuara tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt mbi realitetin dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet\nnjer\u00ebzore\/seksuale. Kur jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e kan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb\nndajn\u00eb fantazin\u00eb dhe imagjinat\u00ebn nga realja. N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, ata kan\u00eb shum\u00eb\nprirje p\u00ebr t\u00eb modeluar t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat sjellje, pra p\u00ebr t\u00eb imituar at\u00eb q\u00eb shohin.\nP\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit t\u00eb tregohen shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nv\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm dhe vigjilent\u00eb me aksesin q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ndaj transmetimeve t\u00eb\nk\u00ebtij lloji. Kur evidentohet q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb par\u00eb skena t\u00eb tilla, \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nk\u00ebshillueshme q\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit t\u00eb ulen dhe t\u00eb bisedojn\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, p\u00ebr\nt\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb se gj\u00ebrat nuk funksionojn\u00eb ashtu dhe se nuk duhen besuar\nplot\u00ebsisht. Ju uroj gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista. Jam nj\u00eb prind nga Burreli dhe p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb mbylljes s\u00eb sinjalit t\u00eb televizioneve&nbsp; jemi t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb blejm\u00eb aparatin digjital, pa harruar tashm\u00eb q\u00eb edhe interneti p\u00ebrdoret gjer\u00ebsisht. N\u00eb k\u00ebto kanale to mund t\u00eb shikohen filma me skena dhune, t\u00eb frikshme, horror, por edhe shum\u00eb stacione seksi non stop q\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19340,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-20048","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20048","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20048"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20048\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19340"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20048"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20048"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20048"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}