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Para se t\u00eb filloj t\u00eb tregoj historin\u00eb time, dua t\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes\nt\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb historin\u00eb e tyre kan\u00eb vendosur ta ndajn\u00eb me lexuesit e Gazet\u00ebs\n\u201cIntervista\u201d. Kam nj\u00eb muaj q\u00eb ndodhem n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri pasi familjen e kam n\u00eb Itali.\nDuke lexuar k\u00ebt\u00eb gazet\u00eb, vendosa q\u00eb edhe un\u00eb ta ndaj historin\u00eb time t\u00eb\ndhimbshme me ju. Ishin vitet \u201890 at\u00ebhere kur nis e gjith\u00eb kjo ngjarje. Besoj se\nsecili prej jush e kupton se d\u00ebshira e shum\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebve ishte q\u00eb t\u00eb shkonin\njasht\u00eb vendit. Nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb e kishin edhe prind\u00ebrit e mi p\u00ebr mua. K\u00ebt\u00eb\ngj\u00eb ata e kishin shprehur hapur. Un\u00eb isha n\u00eb fundin e klas\u00ebs s\u00eb tet\u00eb. Isha nj\u00eb\nvajz\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur me flok\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb dhe sy t\u00eb zinj, studioze dhe \u00ebnd\u00ebrroja q\u00eb\nt\u00eb b\u00ebhesha gazetare, pasi m\u00eb p\u00eblqente shum\u00eb televizioni. Mbaj mend se sa kisha\ndh\u00ebn\u00eb provimin e matur\u00ebs, at\u00eb dark\u00eb kishte ardhur n\u00eb familjen ton\u00eb tezja me\nburrin e saj. Ata k\u00ebrkonin t\u00eb m\u00eb fejonin me shokun e ngusht\u00eb t\u00eb djalit t\u00eb tyre.\nSa e d\u00ebgjova k\u00ebt\u00eb muhabet, shkova n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn time dhe fillova t\u00eb qaja me t\u00eb\nmadhe. As nuk e \u00e7oja n\u00eb mendje nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Isha e vog\u00ebl dhe mendoja se t\u00eb\nnj\u00ebjt\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjigje do t\u2019i jepnin edhe prind\u00ebrit e mi tezes, por ajo vazhdonte t\u2019u\nmbushte mendjen prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi se ishte shum\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb dhe se punonte n\u00eb\nItali. Mbaj mend se mami me tezen me erdh\u00ebn n\u00eb dhom\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkonin t\u00eb m\u00eb bindnin\nq\u00eb t\u00eb fejohesha me at\u00eb djal\u00eb. Mami m\u00eb tha: \u201cT\u00eb lutem, mendo edhe p\u00ebr motrat e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit\ne tu, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e ngrysin jet\u00ebn n\u00eb fshat\u201d. Ne ishim gjasht\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe prind\u00ebrit\ne mi kishin punuar gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb kooperativ\u00eb, ndaj ishim shum\u00eb t\u00eb varf\u00ebr. I\nk\u00ebrkova nj\u00eb jav\u00eb koh\u00eb tezes p\u00ebr t\u2019u menduar dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb mendoja se, edhe\npo t\u00eb m\u00ebsoja shum\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit e mi nuk kishin p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebrguar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb\nshkoll\u00eb, ngaq\u00eb nuk kishim lek\u00eb. Si f\u00ebmija m\u00eb i madh q\u00eb isha, u detyrova t\u00eb\nsakrifikohesha p\u00ebr v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit dhe motrat e mia. Pas nj\u00eb jave, erdhi tezja me\nArdin (k\u00ebshtu e kishte emrin i fejuari im i ardhsh\u00ebm), ishte djal\u00eb shum\u00eb\nsimpatik, ishte 25 vje\u00e7, kishte dy vjet q\u00eb jetonte n\u00eb Itali dhe m\u00eb tregoi se\npunonte n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtim. Po k\u00ebshtu, m\u00eb tha se un\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb pendohesha q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhesha\ne fejuara e tij sepse ai do t\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7onte n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb kur t\u00eb shkonim atje. Kjo gj\u00eb\nm\u00eb g\u00ebzoi pa mas\u00eb, mendova se nuk do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb sakrific\u00eb e madhe n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se\ndo martohesha me Ardin, pasi ai i kuptonte d\u00ebshirat e mia. Ne nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnin\ncelebrimet pasi un\u00eb isha vet\u00ebm 15 vje\u00e7e dhe ligji nuk e lejonte nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb.\nArdi u tha prind\u00ebrve q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnim nj\u00eb dark\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb vishja\nfustanin e bardh\u00eb dhe k\u00ebshtu ndodhi. Gj\u00ebrat po m\u00eb ndodhnin shum\u00eb shpejt dhe un\u00eb\nnuk dija se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb mendoja; brenda muajit u fejova dhe u martova. Kishim nj\u00eb\njav\u00eb q\u00eb ishim martuar dhe Ardi ishte shum\u00eb i sjellsh\u00ebm me mua. Pak nga pak, un\u00eb\nfillova t\u00eb dashurohesha m\u00eb t\u00eb. Mbaj mend q\u00eb ai m\u00eb bleu shum\u00eb rroba t\u00eb bukura,\npor pak ekstravagante p\u00ebr mosh\u00ebn time. Mbas dy jav\u00ebsh martes\u00eb ai m\u00eb tha se\nduhet t\u00eb shkonim t\u00eb jetonim n\u00eb Itali. Un\u00eb u m\u00ebrzita shum\u00eb ngaq\u00eb do t\u00eb largohesha\nnga familja ime dhe nuk e dija kur do t\u2019i takoja. N\u00eb Itali shkuam me skaf.\nIshte v\u00ebrtet shum\u00eb e frikshme, por Ardi m\u00eb ngush\u00ebllonte se dhe p\u00ebr pak do t\u00eb mb\u00ebrrinim\nn\u00eb Itali. Mbas pes\u00eb dit\u00ebsh q\u00eb kishim arritur, Arditi erdhi n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi m\u00eb nj\u00eb\npako t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb dor\u00eb, duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se kishte nj\u00eb surpriz\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. E mora pakon,\ne hapa dhe pash\u00eb nj\u00eb fustan n\u00eb ngjyr\u00eb t\u00eb kuqe. Nuk e di t\u00eb them n\u00ebse ishte i\nbukur apo jo sepse nuk ma mbushi syrin, ngaq\u00eb ishte shum\u00eb i shkurt\u00ebr dhe shum\u00eb\ni hapur n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e kurrizit dhe kraharorit. Po k\u00ebshtu, ishin edhe nj\u00eb pal\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb\nshum\u00eb fine ngjyr\u00eb t\u00eb kuqe, por q\u00eb kishin shum\u00eb tak\u00eb. Ardi m\u00eb kapi nga faqja dhe\nm\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– T\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb, zem\u00ebr? Jan\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dark\u00eb pune ku m\u00eb\nka ftuar shefi im.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E ndjeva se nj\u00eb dark\u00eb e till\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente\naspak, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb do t\u00eb shkoja me at\u00eb veshje jo t\u00eb hijshme p\u00ebr tipin tim. N\u00eb\nmomentin q\u00eb po b\u00ebheshim gati p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb dark\u00ebn e \u201cfamshme\u201d, i thash\u00eb Arditit\nse nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb vishesha n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Ai m\u00eb pa me inat dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cNuk\njemi n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri k\u00ebtu q\u00eb t\u00eb vishemi sipas qejfit!\u201d. T\u00eb dy bashk\u00eb shkuam n\u00eb nj\u00eb\nlokal shum\u00eb luksoz e un\u00eb mezi ecja nga takat shum\u00eb t\u00eb larta. U afruam pran\u00eb nj\u00eb\ntavoline ku priste nj\u00eb burr\u00eb rreth t\u00eb pes\u00ebdhjetave. Un\u00eb i dhash\u00eb dor\u00ebn, nd\u00ebrsa\nai m\u00eb puthi n\u00eb faqe. Italishten e kuptoja shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, vet\u00ebm se e kisha pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb\np\u00ebr t\u00eb folur. Nga biseda q\u00eb po b\u00ebnte me tim shoq, kuptova se ai po m\u00eb komplimentonte\nmua. Ai i kishte k\u00ebrkuar Arditit q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb punoja n\u00eb familjen e tij si sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtore\ndhe un\u00eb pranova sepse duhet t\u00eb punoja shum\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019u d\u00ebrgoja lek edhe njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb\nmi. Edhe p\u00ebr dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb pun\u00ebs, Arditi m\u00eb kishte bler\u00eb nj\u00eb fustan t\u00eb ri, jo\naq ekstravagant sa i pari, por gjithsesi, un\u00eb e vesha dhe b\u00ebra si m\u00eb tha ai.\nArditi m\u00eb ndaloi para sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb tij dhe shkoi n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e vet. Mua m\u00eb futi\nbrenda nj\u00eb grua rreth t\u00eb dyzetave. Nga veshja e saj, kuptova se ajo ishte sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtore\ne sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. P\u00ebrpara m\u00eb doli burri q\u00eb kisha takuar nj\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, m\u00eb puthi n\u00eb\nfaqe dhe me tha q\u00eb ta ndiqja. Shkuam n\u00eb zyr\u00ebn e tij dhe aty ai hapi nj\u00eb shishe\nme shampanj\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk pranova ta pija, por ai m\u00eb tha se duhet t\u00eb festonim dit\u00ebn\ne par\u00eb t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. Mbaj mend se piva nj\u00eb got\u00eb dhe filluan t\u00eb m\u00eb merreshin mendt\u00eb.\nM\u00eb pas, nuk mbaj mend asnj\u00eb gj\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm kur u zgjova, e pash\u00eb veten t\u00eb shtrir\u00eb n\u00eb\nkrevat e af\u00ebr meje q\u00ebndronte edhe ai. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb un\u00eb hapa syt\u00eb, ai filloi t\u00eb\nm\u00eb puthte duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se do t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebnte femr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb pasur.\nNga xhepi i xhaket\u00ebs nxori nj\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe liretash dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cK\u00ebto do t\u00eb\njen\u00eb t\u00eb tuat n\u00ebse ti sillesh mir\u00eb me mua\u201d. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment e kuptova fare mir\u00eb se\ncili kishte qen\u00eb q\u00ebllimi i Arditit kur m\u00eb kishte sjell\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb vend t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar.\nNuk dija se si t\u00eb veproja q\u00eb t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoja nga duart e atij njeriu. Nuk kisha\nasnj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ikur pasi ai m\u00eb kishte mb\u00ebrthyer me duar dhe me trupin e\ntij t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb kishte mbuluar trupin tim. Un\u00eb vet\u00ebm qaja dhe b\u00ebrtisja pa\npushim, por ishte e kot\u00eb. Ai vazhdonte t\u00eb m\u00eb puthte duke l\u00ebn\u00eb mbi trupin tim\ngjurm\u00eb e duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cKam paguar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb moment\u201d. Un\u00eb i lutesha t\u00eb m\u00eb\nl\u00ebshonte, por kjo ishte e kot\u00eb. Ai e realizoi q\u00ebllimin e tij, m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb tij\u00ebn\nduke m\u00eb dhunuar dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb plag\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb ia dedikoj atij, burrit q\u00eb m\u00eb zgjodhi\nfamilja. Pasi m\u00eb p\u00ebrdori mir\u00eb, ai m\u00eb nxori nga sht\u00ebpia e tij dhe un\u00eb, e hutuar\necja rrug\u00ebve t\u00eb Milanos e vetmuar, pa e ditur se ku shkoja. Mund t\u00eb ishte ora\n11 e dark\u00ebs dhe mbaj mend se m\u2019u drejtua nj\u00eb polic duke m\u00eb pyetur se kush isha\ndhe ku do t\u00eb shkoja. Nuk kisha rrug\u00eb tjet\u00ebr sepse Arditin nuk mund ta gjeja dot\ndhe ia tregova gjith\u00eb historin\u00eb atij. At\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje ai m\u00eb mori n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij,\nku jetonte me t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn. Un\u00eb vet\u00ebm qaja dhe ai m\u00eb tha se do t\u00eb shkonim ta\ndenonconim burrin tim, pasi kishte abuzuar me nj\u00eb minorene, por kjo nuk ishte e\nmundur, edhe pse doja q\u00eb ai t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundonte n\u00eb burg, pasi un\u00eb nuk e mbaja mend\nadres\u00ebn e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb ku ne jetonim. Polici e kishte emrin Fran\u00e7esko dhe ishte\nrreth t\u00eb dyzetave. Ishte i ndar\u00eb nga gruaja dhe kishte dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Ai k\u00ebrkoi q\u00eb\nt\u00eb m\u00eb kthenin n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, por un\u00eb iu luta, madje u ula n\u00eb gjunj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e b\u00ebnin\nnj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Jetoja n\u00eb nj\u00eb fshat dhe opinioni atje do t\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebnonte p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb\njet\u00ebn. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, doja t\u00eb punoja q\u00eb motrat dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi t\u00eb kishin nj\u00eb\nt\u00eb ardhme m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Problemin tim ia tregova dhe Fran\u00e7eskos. At\u00ebhere ai pranoi\nt\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte duke m\u00eb pun\u00ebsuar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn n\u00eb\npun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. M\u00eb p\u00eblqeu shum\u00eb mendimi i tij. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, ai filloi t\u00eb b\u00ebnte\nprocedurat p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb dokumentet e q\u00ebndrimit t\u00eb rregullt n\u00eb Itali. Fran\u00e7esko\nishte njeri shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb. Mbas mbarimit t\u00eb pun\u00ebs ai vinte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe m\u00eb\ntrajtonte si nj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb njohur e jo si pun\u00ebtore t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb. M\u00eb nxirrte\nsh\u00ebtitje, m\u00eb blinte rroba t\u00eb reja, m\u00eb jepte telefonin e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur me prind\u00ebrit\ne po k\u00ebshtu, m\u00eb ndihmonte q\u00eb t\u2019u d\u00ebrgoja lek njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb mi. Prind\u00ebrit e mi,\npasi e mor\u00ebn vesh at\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebri Arditi, nuk kan\u00eb folur m\u00eb as me tezen time.\nKisha gati dy vjet q\u00eb jetoja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e Fran\u00e7eskos dhe, edhe pse ishte shum\u00eb\nher\u00eb m\u00eb i madh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, kisha filluar ta doja shum\u00eb. Kisha kuptuar se edhe ai\nm\u00eb donte, por nuk ma shprehte pasi kishte frik\u00eb se si do ta prisja un\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gjith\u00e7ka midis nesh filloi pasi vdiq e \u00ebma e Fran\u00e7eskos.\nAi ishte shum\u00eb i m\u00ebrzitur edhe un\u00eb i rrija gjithmon\u00eb pran\u00eb. Pas vdekjes s\u00eb saj,\nun\u00eb isha njeriu q\u00eb kujdesesha m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. I gatuaja, i hekurosja rrobat,\nishim shum\u00eb pran\u00eb nj\u00ebri\u2013tjetrit derisa un\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb nuk munda t\u2019i rezistoja d\u00ebshir\u00ebs\np\u00ebr ta puthur. Aty filloi edhe historia jon\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb, kur Fran\u00e7esko m\u00eb tha\nse kishte shum\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb e d\u00ebshironte nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, por diferenca e mosh\u00ebs e\npengonte q\u00eb t\u00eb ma shprehte dashurin\u00eb e tij. Pasi mbusha 18 vje\u00e7e, ne u martuam.\nNdjehesha shum\u00eb e lumtur. Fran\u00e7esko \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb di ta vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb dhe ta\nrespektoj\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr. Martes\u00ebn ton\u00eb e aprovoi edhe familja ime. Mbas tre\nvjet\u00ebsh martes\u00eb, n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb erdhi f\u00ebmija yn\u00eb i par\u00eb, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe\nne e pag\u00ebzuam at\u00eb me emrin e n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb Fran\u00e7eskos. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i lumtur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb\nfakt. Kur erdha n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri para pes\u00eb vjet\u00ebsh, mora vesh se Arditin e kishte\nvrar\u00eb v\u00ebllai i nj\u00eb vajze t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e kishte shitur n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb si mua.\nU g\u00ebzova q\u00eb ai mori d\u00ebnimin q\u00eb e meritonte. Tashm\u00eb e kam harruar at\u00eb periudh\u00eb\nt\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar. Jeta ime \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb e bukur q\u00ebkur njoha Fran\u00e7eskon dhe u b\u00eb\nakoma m\u00eb e lumtur kur linda vajz\u00ebn time, e cila na g\u00ebzon \u00e7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Para se t\u00eb filloj t\u00eb tregoj historin\u00eb time, dua t\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb historin\u00eb e tyre kan\u00eb vendosur ta ndajn\u00eb me lexuesit e Gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d. Kam nj\u00eb muaj q\u00eb ndodhem n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri pasi familjen e kam n\u00eb Itali. Duke lexuar k\u00ebt\u00eb gazet\u00eb, vendosa q\u00eb edhe un\u00eb ta ndaj historin\u00eb time t\u00eb dhimbshme me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20000,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[282,254],"class_list":["post-19999","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori-nga-jeta-2","tag-histori-personale"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19999","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19999"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19999\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20000"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19999"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19999"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19999"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}