lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/a><\/strong> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje!\nT\u00eb falenderoj p\u00ebr pyetjen kaq koherente. Telefoni \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb i domosdosh\u00ebm e i\npandar\u00eb, fakt q\u00eb d\u00ebshmohet edhe prej t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave statistikore n\u00eb SHBA, ku n\u00eb\nvitin 2015 rreth 92% e amerikan\u00ebve raportonin se p\u00ebrdornin telefona celular\u00eb,\nkryesisht smartphone. Pa dyshim q\u00eb ka nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb benefitesh t\u00eb zot\u00ebrosh nj\u00eb t\u00eb\ntill\u00eb, por p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs, p\u00ebrher\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb po dalin n\u00eb pah disa\naspekte negative t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb tyre; aspekte q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me nj\u00eb\np\u00ebrdorim t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm e t\u00eb tepruar t\u00eb telefonave nga ana e individ\u00ebve, apo\nme efekte t\u00eb pad\u00ebshirueshme q\u00eb k\u00ebta t\u00eb fundit sjellin n\u00eb mir\u00ebq\u00ebnien\npsikologjike e fizike t\u00eb individit. Shum\u00eb\nnjer\u00ebz i tremben faktit se nj\u00eb p\u00ebrdorim i tepruar i telefonave celular\u00eb mund t\u00eb\ncoj\u00eb drejt nj\u00eb form\u00eb var\u00ebsie, e sic dihet, var\u00ebsit\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb\npashmangshme edhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb individit, do t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb nj\u00eb\nkomunikim t\u00eb dob\u00ebt, izolim social, konflikte e negativitet. Ajo q\u00eb ndodh, \u00ebsht\u00eb se t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve na ndodh t\u00eb\nshohim njer\u00ebz n\u00eb rrug\u00eb me telefona n\u00eb dor\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk shk\u00ebputen asnj\u00eb cast prej\ntyre, mund t\u00eb kemi t\u00eb af\u00ebrm q\u00eb edhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb drek\u00eb apo dark\u00eb familjare nuk i\nngren\u00eb syt\u00eb nga celular\u00ebt, miq q\u00eb nd\u00ebrsa ndajn\u00eb caste me ne nuk jan\u00eb pothuajse\nasnj\u00ebher\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm. Megjith\u00ebse\nstudimet e mir\u00ebfillta mbi impaktin e teknologjis\u00eb dhe dixhitalizimit n\u00eb\nraportet humane akoma nuk kan\u00eb arritur n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundime, ajo q\u00eb mbetet e dukshme\n\u00ebsht\u00eb se n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb apo n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, faktori \u201ctelefon\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb e m\u00eb\nndikues tek marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet, sidomos tek ato n\u00eb cift. Evidencat tregojn\u00eb se\naktualisht t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb gjenden n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie ku intimiteti, identiteti personal,\nseksualiteti, xhelozia apo respektimi i hap\u00ebsir\u00ebs personale t\u00eb partnerit jan\u00eb\ncil\u00ebsisht t\u00eb prekura prej p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb tep\u00ebrt t\u00eb smartphone-ve. Ekziston, pra,\nnj\u00eb lloj posesiviteti dhe dhume psikologjike, ku n\u00eb shum\u00eb cifte, partner\u00ebt\nushtrojn\u00eb kontroll mbi tjetrin vazhdimisht duke i shkruar apo telefonuar deri\nn\u00eb 20-30 her\u00eb brenda nj\u00eb ore, se ku jan\u00eb, me k\u00eb jan\u00eb, cfar\u00eb po b\u00ebjn\u00eb e me\nradh\u00eb. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, si djemt\u00eb ashtu\nedhe vajzat pranojn\u00eb se kur u jerpet mund\u00ebsia t\u00eb \u201cvjedhin\u201d telefonin e\npartnerit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar tek mesazhet e k\u00ebtij t\u00eb fundit. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb kjo\n\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb form\u00eb abuzimi psikologjik dhe emocional, ka shum\u00eb cifte q\u00eb e\nkonsiderojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kontroll si normal dhe gati gati nj\u00eb praktik\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme. <\/p>\n\n\n\nMesa\nduket, komunikimi virtual po ndryshon raportet dhe komunikimin mes njer\u00ebzve,\nduke e b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb e m\u00eb dixhital e m\u00eb pak direkt. Na takon secilit t\u00eb jemi\nt\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm e t\u00eb mos harrojm\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet k\u00ebsaj forme komunikimi v\u00ebrtet q\u00eb\nmund t\u00eb afrohemi me at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, por mund t\u00eb largohemi\nnga ai q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb tavolin\u00ebs. \n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, jam nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb nga Tirana, prind por edhe m\u00ebsuese n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb 9-vje\u00e7are. Kam nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr psikologen tuaj. Me zhvillimin e teknologjis\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb leht\u00ebsuar duksh\u00ebm jeta , ne tani kontaktojm\u00eb me leht\u00ebsi me persona t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm q\u00eb gjenden n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn dhe mund t\u00eb marrim \u00e7far\u00ebdo informate q\u00eb na duhet, vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19716,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-19943","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19943","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19943"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19943\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19943"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19943"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19943"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}