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– E\ndashur gazeta \u201cIntervista\u201d dua t\u00eb tregoj hallin tim po nuk di nga t\u2019ia nis e \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb\nthem, m\u00eb kan\u00eb ndar\u00eb nga djali im p\u00ebr s\u00eb gjalli. Humba tim shoq para disa muajsh\nn\u00eb nj\u00eb aksident t\u00eb tmerrsh\u00ebm me makin\u00eb dhe vjehrrit, ngaq\u00eb e kishin djal\u00eb t\u00eb\nvet\u00ebm, m\u2019a mor\u00ebn djalin tim, pasi u l\u00ebnduan shum\u00eb nga kjo humbje. Ata b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb\npamundur\u00ebn dhe kur un\u00eb isha n\u00eb gjendje depresioni, e mor\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019a rritur vet\u00eb.\nM\u00eb than\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb jam e re dhe kam mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb krijoj nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb re dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebj\np\u00ebrs\u00ebri f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por djali im i takon atyre sepse ata humb\u00ebn djalin e vet\u00ebm q\u00eb\nkishin. M\u00eb than\u00eb q\u00eb mund ta shikoja kur t\u00eb doja vet\u00ebm t\u2019ia l\u00eb ta rrisin ata se\nndryshe do shkat\u00ebrrohen nga trut\u00eb. Ndihem tmerr\u00ebsisht keq. Un\u00eb e dua djalin\ntim, nuk jetoj dot pa t\u00eb, por edhe familja m\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u2019ua l\u00eb atyre, se jan\u00eb\ngjynah. Ju, si m\u00eb thoni, ta l\u00eb djalin tim q\u00eb e kam drit\u00ebn e syve t\u00eb mi, t\u00eb heq\ndor\u00eb prej tij? M\u00eb thoni, si t\u00eb veproj, ta marr djalin mbrapsht apo t\u2019ua l\u00eb\natyre? Mos po veproj gabim q\u00eb dua t\u2019ua marr djalin tim n\u00eb dor\u00ebn e ish-vjehrrit\ndhe ish-vjehrr\u00ebs? Dua nj\u00eb mendim tuajin. Faleminderit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -T\u00eb m\u00eb falesh mua po me \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb\nmarrin djalin kur atyre ju humbi i tyre se din\u00eb ato dhimbjen q\u00eb ke t\u00eb mos rris\u00ebsh\ndjalin t\u00ebnd. N\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb nuk ju\u2019a l\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn djali ku ka m\u00eb mir\u00eb se me n\u00ebn\u00eb\ni shkreti paska ngel jetim p\u00ebr baba ti do ta l\u00ebsh jetim dhe p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00eb me n\u00ebn\u00eb\ngjall\u00eb. Mos ja u ndalo t\u00eb shohin \u00e7oje por ta marrin ata n\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Angela<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Mos e l\u00ebr p\u00ebr ask\u00ebnd n\u00eb bot\u00eb djalin t\u00ebnd.\nMerre djalin e nis nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re dhe kur t\u00eb duan gjysh\u00ebrit le t\u2019a takojn\u00eb\ndjalin sa her\u00eb t\u00eb duan. Djali \u00ebsht\u00eb i yti dhe askujt tjet\u00ebr. Klodiana<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ai f\u00ebmija jote \u00ebsht\u00eb. Lerja gjysh\u00ebrve\nta rrisin shko e takoje sa her\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb merr malli. Mirela<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Je e vonuar. Me ligj me zem\u00ebr dhe mbi t\u00eb\ngjitha \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmija yt. Merre dhe l\u00ebre familjen e babait t\u00eb shohin f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00ebnd\npor disa muaj q\u00eb e ke l\u00ebn\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb. Nxito dhe tregohu e zgjuar pa lot n\u00eb sy.\nF\u00ebmija juaj t\u00eb do ty pran\u00eb dhe jo fantazm\u00ebn e ikur t\u00eb babait. Zhaneta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyre djalin asnj\u00ebrit, ti po\ni privon t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn djalit t\u00eb rritet edhe pa n\u00ebn\u00eb. Kjo do ndikoj\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb\npsikologjin\u00eb e tij. Djalin ta rris\u00ebsh ti, gjysh\u00ebrit ta takojn\u00eb sa her\u00eb t\u00eb duan.\nM\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq q\u00eb ndodhi n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb. Zotin e pa\u00e7i pran\u00eb. Mira<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Un\u00eb nj\u00eb kam dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb bot\u00ebn e kthej p\u00ebrmbys,\ne rrit frym\u00eb e shpirtit tim dhe nuk ka shance t\u00eb ma marr\u00eb kush frym\u00ebmarrjen\ntime. Ariola<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ata t\u00eb vijne ta takojn\u00eb\nsa her\u00eb t\u00eb duan por dhe t\u2019ua cosh t\u2019a shohin, por jo ta rrisin. Olsiana<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Lufto shum\u00eb p\u00ebr djalin t\u00ebnd mos e l\u00ebr\nn\u00eb duar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve se dora e n\u00ebn\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb. Bukuroshe<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Djalin \u00ebsht\u00eb i joti p\u00ebrse mos vij\u00eb\nvjehrra me vjehrrin ta shohin sa her\u00eb duan dhe ai f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb rritet i lumtur me\nn\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij. Ti e di vet\u00eb por mendimin tim mos e l\u00ebr merre me vete \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmija\njot mos e b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb gabim t\u00eb madh merre djalin. Margarita<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Djalin e ke shpirtin t\u00ebnd dhe p\u00ebr\nmendimin tim mos e l\u00ebr p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb n\u00eb fund, t\u00eb fundit dhe po nuk nise jet\u00eb\ntjet\u00ebr, ke djalin lufto, puno dhe rritet at\u00eb q\u00eb dhe ai t\u00eb jet\u00eb krenar p\u00ebr 1\nmama q\u00eb lufton p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Respekte. Anita<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Djali me ligj i takon n\u00ebn\u00ebs edhe kur\ndivorcohen bashk\u00ebshortet, jo m\u00eb kur vdes bashk\u00ebshorti. Nuk ka asnj\u00eb ligj q\u00eb ta\nndaj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebn nga f\u00ebmija…. Gjysh\u00ebrit po t\u00eb duan mund ta takojn\u00eb f\u00ebmijen sa her\u00eb\nt\u00eb duan, po kur te\u00eb vdesin gjysh\u00ebrit kush do kujdeset p\u00ebr djalin???? Azul<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – \u00c7oji te \u201cStopi\u201d. Ana<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb mos e l\u00ebsh! Djali\nka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, i iku babai e ta l\u00ebsh edhe ti do jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb. Vjehrr\u00ebve t\u2019ua \u00e7osh sa her\u00eb t\u00eb duan ose \u00e7do t\u00eb shtun\u00eb le t\u00eb flej\u00eb tek ata,\npor jo t\u00eb largohet nga ti. Do pendohesh shum\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb dhe kur t\u00eb rritet djali,\ndo t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cMami, pse m\u00eb le?\u201d. Ai ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty. Asnj\u00eb nuk ia plot\u00ebson\npranin\u00eb t\u00ebnde, urgjent merr djalin dhe b\u00ebje t\u00eb lumtur. Monika <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Un\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi jap jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebr\nmendimin tim, djali duhet t\u00eb rrij\u00eb me ju. Vjehrrit e tu, n\u00ebse mendojn\u00eb tamam si\nprind\u00ebr, nuk e ndajn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn nga n\u00ebna, po ata mund ta takojn\u00eb nipin e tyre sa\nher\u00eb t\u00eb duan se \u00ebsht\u00eb gjaku i tyre. Lubjana\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Si jeton nj\u00eb her\u00eb pa djalin?\nUrgjentisht t\u00eb shkosh dhe ta marr\u00ebsh, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se ti nuk e duan ata. Ti thuaju\nq\u00eb \u201ckur t\u00eb doni hajdeni shikojeni dhe merreni ndonj\u00eb nat\u00eb, por \u00e7uni \u00ebsht\u00eb i imi\nun\u00eb e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe un\u00eb do ta rris\u201d. Essa\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – \u00c7far\u00eb temash budallaqe… K\u00ebrkon\nmendimin ton\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me at\u00eb \u00e7\u2018i thot\u00eb instikti i n\u00ebn\u00ebs e dashuria e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs\np\u00ebr evladin e vet \u00ebsht\u00eb e paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsueshme?! Nevila <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Merre djalin, ka pasur shum\u00eb raste t\u00eb\ntilla, por q\u00eb kan\u00eb vendosur t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb edhe vet\u00eb aty me f\u00ebmijen dhe vjehrrit.\nMos e l\u00ebr f\u00ebmijen jetim p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr baba. Djali \u00ebsht\u00eb i yti, ata t\u00eb vijn\u00eb\nta takojn\u00eb. Pa djalin nuk ke jet\u00eb. Klejda\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – P\u00ebr mendimin tim, n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk ke\nnd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb krijosh familje tjet\u00ebr, mir\u00eb do ishe t\u00eb rrije edhe ti me djalin te\nvjehrra, por n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ti nuk ke k\u00ebt\u00eb mendim, si mund ta braktis\u00ebsh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn\nt\u00ebnd? Prandaj, mendohu mir\u00eb para se t\u00eb veprosh, f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb e madhe merre\nme seriozitet. Lenci <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ah, moj idiote fem\u00ebr, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i yti\ndhe i askujt tjet\u00ebr! Normale q\u00eb ata jan\u00eb gjysh\u00ebrit e duan t\u2019i shohin, por jo t\u00eb\nta marrin ty nga duart. Jo dhe pik\u00eb, thuaju. Melina<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb rri pa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, qofsh\nti q\u00eb je dhe pyet \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj. Zot m\u00eb fal, djali i tyre kaq e kishte kismet,\njan\u00eb pun\u00ebt e Zotit ato, po djali \u00ebsht\u00eb yti moj zonj\u00eb. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se e duan kaq\nshum\u00eb, t\u00eb vijn\u00eb ata ta shikojn\u00eb meq\u00eb e kan\u00eb t\u00eb djalit t\u00eb tyre. Nejse, ti e di\nvet\u00eb. T\u00eb uroj gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat e jet\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb djalit! Bahria<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Dhimbja \u00ebsht\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e\nburrit tuaj, por t\u00eb ngelet f\u00ebmija edhe pa n\u00ebn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e tmerrshme. Pleqt\u00eb, sado\nt\u00eb rrojn\u00eb, djalin tuaj do ta l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb dhe ai p\u00ebrs\u00ebri do jet\u00eb i vet\u00ebm, por\nnga ana tjet\u00ebr, ju jeni e detyruar q\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar, t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb\nju pranon s\u00eb bashku me djalin, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe po qe se e pranon k\u00ebt\u00eb\nkur t\u00eb lind\u00ebsh ti f\u00ebmij\u00eb me at\u00eb burr\u00eb, a do ta doj\u00eb ai djalin t\u00ebnd si f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e\ntjer\u00eb t\u00eb tij, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri do jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, p\u00ebr hi\u00e7gj\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb polemika mes\njush. N\u00eb \u00e7do drejtim ka probleme, por mendimi im \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb djalin duhet ta marr\u00ebsh\ndhe ta rris\u00ebsh vet\u00eb. T\u00eb uroj ta zgjidh\u00ebsh sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb interes t\u00eb djalit tuaj.Edisoni<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – <\/strong>Ju duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni pyetjen mbase e \u00ebma\n\u00ebsht\u00eb akoma n\u00eb gjendje depresioni sepse askush nuk m\u00eb merr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim.\nGjysh\u00ebrit mbase din\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth realitetit?! Mona. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – O Zot, rr\u00ebnqeth\u00ebse! Ku lihet djali n\u00eb\nduart e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve? Merre dhe mbaje pran\u00eb se nuk ka si n\u00ebna kurr\u00eb mos e l\u00ebr\nvet\u00ebm. Sonila<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – \u00c7far\u00eb jan\u00eb k\u00ebto marr\u00ebzira q\u00eb shkruani,\nmoj zonj\u00eb? N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se e ndjen veten n\u00ebn\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ti e di \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb\nb\u00ebsh. Bledari<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ta marr\u00ebsh, patjet\u00ebr ta marr\u00ebsh vet\u00ebm\npo qe anormale mund ta l\u00ebsh, por un\u00eb s\u2019do t\u2019ua lija kurr\u00eb. Sajmiri<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Mendimi im \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ti ta kesh pran\u00eb\ndjalin t\u00ebnd, se kam frik\u00eb se kur t\u00eb rritet do t\u00eb t\u00eb urrej\u00eb. Naldi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mos e l\u00ebr djalin, n\u00eb\nasnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. N\u00ebn\u00ebn nuk ia z\u00ebvend\u00ebson njeri n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Mos e l\u00ebr djalin edhe pa\nn\u00ebn\u00eb. Ani <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ti ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr djalin t\u00ebnd. Edhe\nvjehrrit e t\u2019u kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb, mendoje: P\u00ebr k\u00eb ka\nnevoj\u00eb djali?! Mine<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ta marr\u00ebsh djalin, mblidhe veten dhe\ngjej nj\u00eb shok t\u00eb kalosh jet\u00ebn, mos e vrit mendjen. Mateo <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – E dashur gazeta \u201cIntervista\u201d dua t\u00eb tregoj hallin tim po nuk di nga t\u2019ia nis e \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb them, m\u00eb kan\u00eb ndar\u00eb nga djali im p\u00ebr s\u00eb gjalli. Humba tim shoq para disa muajsh n\u00eb nj\u00eb aksident t\u00eb tmerrsh\u00ebm me makin\u00eb dhe vjehrrit, ngaq\u00eb e kishin djal\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebm, m\u2019a mor\u00ebn djalin tim, pasi u […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19938,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[2005],"class_list":["post-19937","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-ne-udhekryq"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19937","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19937"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19937\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19937"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19937"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19937"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}